Become an active girl. How to be a good girl

The ability of seduction brings great benefits to its owners, this cannot be denied. But what is she, the ideal woman? There is a misconception that only appearance determines charm, but far from it! This is not true at all!

If you want to be noticed, and men always turn their eyes only to you, check out these tricks.

1. Be an individual

If you try to take a good look at people at a party or just in a group, you will notice that most men are attracted to women with unique personality traits and style. Focus on what makes communicating with you interesting and fun - and you will be able to see from your own experience how clearly this approach is a win-win.

2. Love yourself

You won't be able to look sexy unless you learn to truly love yourself. For example, no one will pay attention to how beautiful, shiny, silky hair you have if you constantly complain about the size of your waist. Self-confidence is something very powerful and contagious, it is a sparkle in the eyes that will never go unnoticed. It is unlikely that anyone will appreciate you until you learn to appreciate yourself!

3. Stand up for what you believe in

Be a woman of sound principles. Stand up for what you believe in. Try to always keep a clear head and clearly distinguish between what you like and what you don’t like, what you think and what positions you share. Maintaining moral principles can help you maintain the right ethical balance in your relationships and will also provide a good foundation for living a good life. Don't listen to other women who try to force their opinions on you on how you can attract men. Each member of the fair sex has her own concept of beauty, as well as an opinion on what people find attractive. “Wear this” or “do that”, “show your left ankle; because men like it so much!” - these tips can be useful only occasionally. You should not stray from your main goal: to express your individuality!

Follow your own feelings and instincts. If there is a person who does not accept this in you, he is clearly not the one whose opinion you need to pay attention to. In addition, all women use different methods of seduction. And that's the beauty of it!

5. Pay attention to your health

A woman who takes care of herself and takes care of her health always attracts admiring glances. Keep your weight within the recommended range, eat healthy foods, get enough sleep and exercise. Good health makes you feel more energetic and also contributes to normalizing your psychological state and is a fantastic reason for justified self-esteem.

6. Take care of your skin

Defects, especially on the face, may not work in your favor. Cleanse your skin regularly and use a daily moisturizer, as well as sunscreen if necessary, to avoid wrinkles and sun damage. Remember that the condition of your skin greatly affects your entire look.

7. Maintain good hygiene

It goes without saying that great attention must be paid to hygiene and cleanliness. Take care of your body and you will always feel fresh and beautiful. Take regular baths, brush your teeth after every meal, and wear clean, neat clothes.

8. Pay due attention to your hairstyle

Make sure your hair is always healthy and beautifully styled. After all, as you know, facial hair is like a frame for a picture, so it should be in excellent condition. Oily or even simply damaged hair doesn't look very sexy. Give preference to those hairstyles that suit the shape of your face well. Always strive to improve your appearance and highlight your natural features, rather than hide them!

9. Pamper yourself with beauty treatments

Allow yourself to visit beauty salons from time to time. You don't have to do this 7 days a week, but sometimes you can try setting aside time and resources for self-care. Get a manicure, pedicure, massage or, say, facial cleansing. In addition, even at home you can arrange impromptu SPA treatments and pamper yourself a little. Everything is in your hands, if you wish! But as a reward, you will receive a beautiful reflection in the mirror, a rested look and a delightful feeling that you are an incredibly beautiful woman!

10. Be smart!

Everyone knows that clothes are what people pay attention to first. It is a kind of business card and can say a lot about you. Make sure you always look great. Wear clothes that flatter your look and don't forget about accessories. Even if you wear a pantsuit, never lose your femininity. For special occasions, try wearing high heels. Don't forget about the beauty of a light blouse and skinny jeans.

11. Forget about any manifestation of rudeness

The ideal woman is polite and kind to everyone. A rude person is not pleasant to anyone, but politeness and courtesy actually look elegant. Men are drawn to a sensitive woman who has a patient and meek character. Try to be kind to everyone and never push yourself too high. Yes, we are all different, but, in essence, we are so similar.

12. Don't forget to smile

Never be afraid to smile. Even a tiny smile will make you more attractive. What else could be such a strong magnet that attracts everyone around? Try to smile in different ways, because each mood has its own unique smile. You shouldn't be predictable, and for heaven's sake, don't put on a "stony face." Men expect a reaction from you, they need it in order to understand you and express their emotions. If you don't have the strength to smile, don't force yourself. Of course, it's worth a try, but your smile shouldn't look fake. We are all children at heart, and, as you know, they always respond to a sincere smile.

13. Be sociable and open to new things

If your friends go to the gym, play, dance or even go diving, you can get involved too. Who knows, you might like it and discover something new. Don't be the woman who sits still and always seems to say, "I'm a boring person who doesn't like to have fun or have fun." But this, of course, does not mean that you should drink on any occasion or go to a party if you are not in the mood. Participate only in events that will truly bring you positive emotions.

14. Learn to carry on any conversation

Even if you and your interlocutor have little in common, you can always find something to talk about. A great way to start a conversation is to ask about something trivia or tell them about a funny thing that happened recently. Avoid topics related to your appearance, because it may seem like you want to hear compliments about yourself. Don't belittle your merits, but learn to treat yourself kindly and ironically. Discuss interesting and “light” topics, do not descend into gossip. And don't forget to maintain eye contact. This will tell the interlocutor that you are interested and pleasant to communicate with him.

Don't change your appearance, makeup or hairstyle to convince someone or prove something. Just do it for yourself! Just because you want to be with someone doesn't mean you have to change for that person. If he truly loves you, he will value you for who you really are and will only support your efforts to do something for yourself.
Accept other people for who they are. Everyone wants to be accepted and understood. You don't have to be friends with everyone, but you must respect others if you want to be treated with respect.
Show your best sides so that others can appreciate how beautiful you are both inside and out.
Find something you enjoy doing. This way, you will attract people who love the same things, and you will also be able to find areas of activity to explore your unique abilities!
Always be in a good mood and try to quickly adapt to difficult circumstances.
Experiment with new fashion trends or just styles and things that are new to you.
Don't worry about what others think! Enjoy your life!
Try not to create the impression of a superficial person. If you are looking for a serious relationship, then, of course, you do not want a partner who will only be interested in how you look. Surprisingly, the same applies to men, or at least those men who deserve more than 10 minutes of your attention.
Don't copy other people or try to imitate. Originality comes through understanding yourself.
Don't get too caught up in fashion. It's good to be fashionable, but don't be afraid to follow your taste. Men who are truly worth your time and effort will want to be with you - a unique, sincere, cheerful woman, and not some fashion expert.
Don't be surprised or upset if people don't share your opinion. Differences in views are common.
Don't show too much. I'm talking about revealing clothes now. Yes, they will pay attention to you, but they are unlikely to respect you.
And most importantly - love yourself and value your life! Remember that you are unique, and then the sparkle of your happy eyes will conquer any man’s heart!

There is a beautiful legend about ancient times, when all people had four legs, four arms and two heads. One side of a person was masculine, the other was feminine. These people lived happily until one day they angered higher powers. Lightning rained down from the sky like spears. When they hit people, they split everyone in two - a man and a woman. Out of fear of the elements, the halves scattered in all directions, and then could not find each other. Since then, every person has been looking for his soul mate, once destined for him by fate. The two parts are attracted to each other by invisible forces. But now, even if the halves are reunited, each of them has to relearn how to be with its part in order to become one.

If the “learning” process takes place in pairs with a person who is truly “yours”, you will receive true pleasure. You won’t have to exert much effort and the adaptation of the “halves” will go smoothly. But the half may not be found. And it could also be some kind of pygmy. But someone else’s “half” will suddenly seem close and dear, and you will want to stay with her for the rest of your life. What course of action would be best in this case? But you just need to become an “ideal piece” for your chosen one, and goodness will always return a hundredfold.

The concept of “ideal” cannot exist on its own. Ideal means corresponding to something specific. The simplest example of ideal behavior is the fulfillment of God's laws. But “making an idol for yourself” as an ideal is a false path. Even if the designated person behaves correctly in all respects, it is not worth blindly inheriting such a style of behavior. It would be wise to find out whether there are any “pitfalls” in the motives of a person’s actions. You look and they will show up.

A man is dating you, which means he has sympathy for you. Unless he is pursuing, under the pretext of a relationship, not the best goals. Since the gentleman already likes you, it will not be difficult to become ideal, if only you have the desire.

The main mistakes women make are checks like “Have I gained weight?”, “Am I really stupid?” What do you want to hear in response: truth or lie? You already know the truth, so don’t force your loved one to lie to you. And he’s dating you not only because of his beautiful figure, so don’t focus on your physical flaws.

Don't turn into a "mommy". This is the method recommended in the movie “How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days.” Your gentleman likes your culinary delights - arrange a romantic dinner. But preparing pies and cutlets for your loved one, and even taking them with you to work, is not the best option.

Don't forget about yourself. A married lady should not stand out especially, seducing all the men around her, but for her man, a girl should always be the most desirable. Therefore, do not disdain fitness classes, especially since sports are useful in any case and improve your thinking abilities.

An important factor in a good relationship is trust in each other. If you had no reason to worry, and suddenly the guy is late at work, that’s the way it is and there’s no point in tormenting him with suspicion. At the same time, don’t lie to him yourself: if you go out with your friends, tell him straight about it. If you're hanging out with a friend, don't hide it either. And don't look at his personal notes and phone list.

Surprises like love messages during the workday are always appropriate. The opinion that such little things are pleasant only to ladies is wrong. But don't use them too often. Don’t demand similar actions from a guy “three times a day.” Invite him on a date yourself and make this meeting unforgettable. The ideal choice would be the point in the city where fate first brought you together.

If you are not happy with something in a relationship, speak about it directly. Men are wired differently, and often cannot grasp all the nuances. But you shouldn’t occupy an “observation post”, expecting that you will figure it out yourself. Holding a grudge in such cases is a universal evil. The troubles that have arisen must be resolved here and now.

Women like to not keep promises or “forget” about them according to the “Did I say that?” principle. If you promise, keep it. If you don't intend to fulfill it, don't promise. She said it, so she signed it. Changing your opinion later is unacceptable in a relationship. A man is counting on something because of your promise, and you can ruin everything for him. Explanations like “Well, I’m a woman” don’t work here.

The sage said: all people love freedom. The just demand it for everyone, the unjust demand it exclusively for themselves. Don't fall into the second category of people. If you forbid your loved one a lot, you will lead to a breakup. The man will conclude that he had more freedom before you, and may be better off exchanging you for it. Form the right opinion in a man (about the dangers of smoking and alcohol, for example). Let him make his own decision.

For any person, a mother is the most precious woman in the world. You're in second place, and deal with it. Make friends with her, and you will learn a lot of things about your chosen one that will help you in the future. Only a natural mother can know exactly what her son loves and what he doesn’t. Criticism of her will turn a man against you. And if he also unites with his mother, it’s a lost cause.

Find out what your loved one is interested in. His interests should be respected. You love a certain genre of music - so does he. Discuss sides of both genres together, but don't force him to listen to the same thing. This applies to all areas of life. Remember the golden rule: there is no arguing about tastes.

With all of the above, remain yourself. Don't change your beliefs for those of your partner. Make sure they don't bother anyone. Continue to achieve your goals and do not deviate from the principles absorbed with your mother’s milk. Build a relationship together, lay the “bricks” together. And let no one try to enter “someone else’s monastery with its own charter.”

Hello, dear ladies! If at least once in your life you have asked the question “how to become an ideal girl in everything,” then my article today is just for you. I suggest you speculate on the topic of appearance and internal content, how best to behave with a guy and what to do in order not to lose your real self in the quest to achieve perfection.

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First, let's talk about appearance. How can you be beautiful if nature has not provided you with sufficient data? It's simple - makeup, the right clothes, the right amount of accessories and delicious perfume.

The Internet allows you to find makeup tutorials for any occasion. Learn to choose the right makeup for the occasion. It’s just best to stick to naturalness and naturalness when working. But for an evening reception, you can choose a brighter option.

Don't hang yourself with chains and bracelets like a crow. Remember the golden rule of three accessories - less is more. And remember that they all must be combined with each other. A hot pink clutch obviously won’t go with a blue evening dress and classic pumps.

Know your body. After all, there are several types of female figures: apple, column, hourglass, and so on. For each type, certain clothing is suitable, which emphasizes the advantages and hides the disadvantages. For example, women with broad shoulders should not wear a heavy top, which will visually make the shoulders appear even larger.

In determining the clothing models that suit me, the book “ What to wear with what"I highly recommend it.

Greeted by clothes...

Of course, being attractive is good. But in addition to the wrapper, you should also have a delicious filling. You must be filled internally so as not to be an empty-headed doll that is just nice to look at, but better not to talk to.

First, decide on your temperament. Each has its own characteristics and strengths. Read the article “” and you will understand how you can use your characteristics to your advantage.

Watch old classic movies. In it you can meet interesting female characters whose behavior will tell you how to behave in a given situation.

The main advice is to remain yourself. Pretense and trying to be better often scares people away. And honesty, openness and friendliness attract. Be sure to remain honest with yourself. This will help you not get lost on the path of self-improvement.

Love is like war

Who is the ideal girl in a relationship? The one who tries to do everything for the guy? Or the one who fulfills all the desires of her man? No. This is a game with only one goal. In a relationship, both of you should be comfortable and comfortable. Of course, everyone has conflicts and quarrels.

What is important here is your ability to meet halfway, your ability to hear your partner, and your willingness to solve a problem together.

In a couple, the opinion of both is important. Therefore, try not to get hung up on your desires and desires. If you want to make a claim, first think about how you can solve this problem yourself. It is always much easier to blame your partner than to try to change yourself a little.

In addition, it is very important to always remain interesting to your loved one. If you sit in front of the TV in the evening and there is tense silence in the room, then it’s time to change something. First, read the article "". After all, if you are bored with yourself, then what can you expect from a man?

Relationships only work if both partners are willing to move forward. When there is no respect and trust, there is no relationship. Everyone should have their own personal space. or work. Mind your own business during this time.

You shouldn't adapt to a person. Ideal does not mean submissive. Learn to listen carefully, do not shout or insult each other, trust and be honest, then you will have a warm and healthy relationship.

Graduality

In any business, it is very important not to rush into everything at once. So here, if you started working in one direction, then achieve some success in this direction and then move on to another.

As the famous proverb says: If you chase two hares, you won’t catch either. So it is here. Change gradually. Start with something smaller and move on to bigger changes. No one is pushing you, so take your time. Calmly and confidently take one step after another.

The ability to improvise will definitely help you. Of course, it is impossible to be ready for everything all the time. But in the article “” I tell you how to prepare yourself as much as possible for various conditions and circumstances.

Remember, everyone has their own ideal. Therefore, it will never be possible to be perfect for everyone. Don't try to become a different person to please someone, a man, a friend or your mother. You have your own “I”, engage with it, develop it, train it and then success will definitely await you.

Develop and change first of all for yourself. Read the book by Evgenia Belonoshchenko “ Born with character" From it you will get a lot of useful information about why people behave the way they do. How you can change yourself and what you should strive for from an early age.

Any changes lead to certain consequences. One of my clients changed herself entirely for the sake of her husband. She worked very hard on her appearance, with the help of doctors, and changed her character and behavior almost beyond recognition. She became exactly what her husband wanted her to be. Only after a while he got bored with it, and he found himself another woman.

Love yourself, learn to use your strengths, find your weaknesses and work on them.

Trust your inner voice. Listen to advice, but act according to the dictates of your heart. If you have any questions, be sure to contact me for advice. I will consider your situation in detail and together we will find the most suitable solution.

What does an ideal woman look like in your eyes? What about the ideal man? What are you sure you will never change about yourself?

Love and appreciate yourself.
Have a nice day!

Maintain good hygiene. Regular personal hygiene is the first step to looking beautiful and attractive every day. Try to make the following actions a habit:

Take a shower at least once a day. You don't have to wash your hair every day (more on that later), but you should wash your body often. Already showered but found yourself sweating during your workout or on the way home? Wash again.
Wash your hair at least every other day. How often you need to wash your hair depends on your hair type. If they're dry and rough, you can wash them every other day (and they'll look better than if you washed them every day). Thinner and oilier hair requires more frequent washing. Wash your hair daily only if it is really oily and gets dirty very quickly.
Brush, floss, and rinse your teeth. Do all three steps twice a day and you will have a healthy mouth and an attractive smile.
Use deodorant. Apply deodorant (or antiperspirant deodorant) under your arms in the morning as soon as you wake up, and repeat as needed. If you have problems with sweating, look for a stronger deodorant (usually available in pharmacies). Avoid spray deodorants - they are less effective and more environmentally harmful.
Take care of your nails. Get a quick manicure and pedicure once a week after your shower. Clean dirt from under all 20 nails, trim and file them carefully. If desired, you can use nail polish. Don't bite your nails: it's painful and messy.

Take care of your skin. If your skin is glowing and clear, you don't need a lot of makeup to look amazing, which comes in handy on days when you're in a rush. If you are under 11, never wear makeup - you will ruin your skin and it will become noticeable as you get older. Teenagers can use decorative cosmetics, but in moderation to look natural. In addition, bright makeup is inappropriate at school.

Cleanse. Use a cleanser that suits your skin type. It is usually enough to use it once a day (at night), unless you are engaged in active physical activity. In the morning, you can simply wash your face with warm water.
Tone. Immediately after washing, wipe your face with an alcohol-free tonic or lotion to restore the acid-base balance of the skin. Use toner twice a day.
Moisturize. Apply moisturizer twice daily before applying makeup. If you have oily skin, choose a lightweight product, such as a gel; if your skin is dry, you will need a richer cream.
Get rid of acne. You can use products containing salicylic acid or benzoyl peroxide to treat acne on your own. If this doesn't help, visit a dermatologist. Whatever you do, don't try to squeeze pimples! This will leave you with scars and more acne! Plus, if you press or pick at them, you'll end up with red marks all over your face. If a pimple pops up at the most crucial moment, try to disguise it with a concealer.
Protect your skin from sun exposure. If you are going outside for more than 15 minutes, apply sunscreen to exposed skin. (You'll thank this advice in 30 years, when your tanned friends have wrinkles and your skin is still supple and firm.)

Get rid of unnecessary hair. How you take care of your body and facial hair is up to you, but most girls in Western culture remove all facial hair except the eyebrows, as well as underarms and legs. Choose the appropriate method:

Plucking. This is the best and most popular way to shape your eyebrows yourself. If you are not sure where exactly you need to pluck, go to a cosmetologist for the first time. After this, you will be able to maintain the shape yourself by removing newly grown hairs.
Shaving. Shaving is the cheapest and most popular way to remove hair under the arms and legs. Making sure your razor is sharp and applying shaving cream or conditioner to the area you're shaving will help keep the process under control, give you a smoother shave, and help prevent nicks. If you are afraid to shave, you can remove hairs with a trimmer: the risk of cutting yourself is much lower. If you don't want to use a razor, the tips in the article "How to get smooth legs without shaving" will help you.
Hair removal with wax. Waxing yourself can be a terrible process, but getting waxed by an esthetician is an effective way to permanently get rid of unwanted hair if you have the money for it. Make sure the professional you choose adheres to strict health and safety standards.

Do your hair. Which hairstyle suits you best depends on a variety of factors—like your face shape and hair type—but there are a few basic tips that everyone can use.

Brush or comb your hair, trim split ends every 6-8 weeks, and try not to use styling products such as gel or hairspray.
You will find more specific ideas in the article “How to create a simple and beautiful hairstyle”.

Do your makeup. Not all girls use decorative cosmetics, but it can highlight your natural beauty: the main thing is not to overdo it. Here are some basic recommendations:

Choose the lightest foundation possible. The makeup base should hide skin imperfections, but not hide it like a mask. Start with a compact powder, and if that's not enough, try a mattifying liquid foundation.
Lighten under eye circles. If you're prone to dark purple circles under your eyes (due to allergies or lack of sleep, for example), you can apply concealer under your eyes to make your skin appear brighter.
Touch up your eyes. You can get by with only light shadows, or you can use all means: shadows, eyeliner or pencil, mascara.
Use blush to make your cheeks glow. Choose a shade close to your natural blush color and apply a little at a time - don't overdo it.
Use lipstick or lip gloss. For daytime makeup, use a shade just a shade or two darker than your natural lip color. For special occasions, try a shade close to the color of the inside of your lips.

Wear perfume. If you take care of your hygiene, you'll already smell good, but you can go even further. Use scented soaps and moisturizers, and try wearing a little perfume or eau de toilette in the morning.

Determine which scents suit you. What smells great on your friend may not work on you—skin chemistry is a little different for each person.
Use samples. Some websites sell small samples of perfumes at a discount, but it's easier to go to a perfume store and try out the scents on pieces of paper and try out your favorites directly on your skin. Try several different perfumes to find yours.

Dress nicely. Dress to look attractive but modest. Here are some general ideas to consider when choosing your wardrobe:

Buy a few classic pieces. Straight-leg jeans, a white button-down shirt, a simple nice sweater and a pair of smart boots are versatile pieces that can be paired with almost anything.
Don't fall victim to trends. Fashion comes and goes, so resist the urge to buy something extravagant just because it's in fashion. Chances are it will go out of style before it pays for itself.
Don't go overboard with accessories. Follow the old adage: remove one accessory before you leave the house.
Make sure your clothes are always clean. Your outfit may be filled with great pieces, but it's all wasted if they're dirty. Set a laundry schedule so you never have to hunt for clean clothes in the morning.

How to become the best version of yourself

Be confident. Most people like confident and optimistic personalities. Why? Probably because people can be sad and withdrawn without outside help, but the company of a cheerful and happy person lifts their spirits. Even if you don't always feel confident and happy, here's how to pretend you have magnetic confidence:
- Practice good posture. Keep your shoulders back, your back straight, and your chin high. The way you present yourself says a lot to people, so show that you are confident in your abilities and able to keep things under control.
- Compliment others instead of competing with them. If you notice that someone does something better than you, or can do something that you can't, give that person a sincere compliment instead of being jealous. You will feel good about yourself and also show that you are not intimidated by the achievements of others.
- Fake it until it's true. Nobody feels confident and great all the time. But if you pretend that you feel this way, you can really feel more confident throughout the day.
Smile more often. Smiling is one of the best ways to be seen as perfect.
- The smile should be natural and relaxed. Don't try to stretch your lips too much.
- The eyes should laugh too. When a smile causes wrinkles in the eyes (also called a Duchenne smile), people seem to think it is more sincere.
- Have a sense of humor. Laughter not only improves your mood, but also helps others around you relax. Try not to take yourself or anything else too seriously.
Be polite and treat others with respect. If you behave in such a way that the world sees your dignity and elegance, you will earn the respect and affection of other people. Here's what to try:
- Work on your good manners. Say "please" and "thank you" and don't talk about people in public.
- Try not to swear. If you swear, others may think that you are uneducated and immature and will most likely ignore you. If you accidentally let slip a rude word, it can be considered an awkward moment, but bad language should not become a habit.
- Don't put yourself or others down. No one is perfect, and there are times when criticism is necessary. In most cases, however, try not to criticize yourself or other people in everyday life.
- Remember your values. Peer pressure can be cruel or tempting, but it's all temporary. Your values are your reputation and your future. This is what you actually have; They work on them all their lives and destroy them in a second. Once you lose them, what do you have left?
- Be mature. Learn to handle situations maturely and intelligently. You don't have to whine or cry to get what you want. It's good to be funny and cheerful, but remember that you don't have to make a complete fool of yourself. Stay cool, calm and collected whenever possible.
Let you have your own interests. Your interests are what make you interesting and unique, so make time for them. Engage in sports, music, reading, any other hobby - this way you will be a comprehensively developed and interesting person.
- Take part in extracurricular activities, attend clubs and sections. This is a great way to meet new people!
- Keep busy. Keeping yourself busy will make you interesting, so that when you meet new people, you'll have something to talk about. Think about it: you would be more interested in someone who has interests and always has something going on in their life, rather than someone who sits at home all the time.
Focus on your education. The ideal girl always tries to be smart and get good grades. Find time to study, create a schedule for your homework, and try to show genuine interest in what you are learning. This will help you in the future.
Respect each and everyone. Always respect others and never let others bully you, this will only help you rise even higher. Listen to your parents and respect them. Clean the house or do the dishes from time to time, they will appreciate the help.
- Always listen to your parents, older relatives and teachers. You may not agree with what they say, but recognize that they have more life experience. If you are obedient and respond to requests without arguing, they will notice and appreciate your maturity.

I thought for a long time about what an ideal girl should be like. There were a lot of thoughts on this matter, but I still tried to somehow systematize them. Here is a list of qualities that you should have perfect girl in my understanding. As necessary, I will decipher it in more detail. So,
1. Be beautiful. Beauty is not 90\60\90. These are just your feelings. A person can be comfortable at 65 kilograms. And it is at this weight that a girl can feel ideal. Here everyone has their own canons and rules. Of course, it is worth remembering that 1. Men are not dogs, they don’t throw themselves at bones. and 2. Rubens’ women have not been in fashion for a long time. But everything in between is yours. Decide for yourself. The main thing here is personal feelings.
2. Confident. Beautiful posture, head held high. The main thing here is not to overdo it, otherwise He will think that you are a pompous, pretentious chicken.
3. Be active. Men love active girls, their eyes sparkle, they do everything quickly and well. So if you have problems with the second one, slow down. Otherwise He will say about you “every barrel has a plug.” This happens very often.
4. Take initiative. Diversify your everyday life. Offer something non-standard. For example, a sudden trip out of town for the weekend.
5. Surprise. Let not everything in life go according to the proven scenario. Leave room for surprises. Every little detail is important here. A new refrigerator magnet with a nice inscription, a sticker on the mirror with the imprint of your lips. Imagine, surprise.
6. Inspire. Teach him to appreciate your every gesture, every smile, every gentle glance.
7. Support. A man loves to be told that he is the best/favorite/reliable. They are strong, but always need support.
8. Don't advise. Men rarely like and take into account women's advice. This does not mean that he does not love and appreciate you. They just look at life from a different angle.
If a woman is smart (well, I don’t consider the “be smart” rule, everything is clear with that), she will make sure that the man’s decision is her decision. Only the man himself won’t even guess about it. But you shouldn’t bother him and approach him with your opinion.
9. Create comfort. The woman is the keeper of the hearth. It creates coziness and comfort. This means order, things laid out, a deliciously prepared dinner and always a neat appearance. Coming home from work, a man wants to have dinner and enjoy your company. Be prepared for the fact that he may be in a bad mood. Therefore, the nest you created should distract him from all extraneous thoughts.
10. Sociable. You should know his friends. And accept them as they are. You must be in the same company and on the same wavelength. Do you know how men like to introduce their girls to their friends? And pride in you, the best, is bursting if they see that you are positive towards them.
11. Be yourself. There is no need for antics, embarrassment, antics. Stay true to yourself in any situation. Be more natural.
12. Smile more often and don’t grumble. Men don't like girls who constantly have some kind of problem. Treat everything more simply and your man will decide everything for you. :)

13. KNOW YOUR MOTION. Everything I wrote about above is undoubtedly very necessary qualities. But overdoing any of them will only cause a backlash. Don't overdo it!

I haven’t been writing much about my life lately, I know. Somehow everything is still a heap and very unclear. I promise to improve one of these days. :)