Rules of conduct in transport for children of school age. Basic rules of conduct in public transport for schoolchildren

General requirements

Road to public transport

You have to go to the store on your own, to visit, to the house of creativity, and not only walk, but also travel by public transport. Using it, you must be careful in any traffic situation. The trip on the route transport consists of five stages:

Landing movement.
Boarding a vehicle.
Drive.
Disembarkation from transport.
Movement after disembarkation.

Thus, you successively become a pedestrian, a passenger, and again a pedestrian. At each of these stages, dangerous situations can lie in wait for you. People heading to the transport are in a hurry to catch the public transport that is approaching the stop or is already there. Being involved in the general rush, passengers forget or neglect safety requirements. Passengers behave in the same way after exiting the transport. Shuttle stops are crowded places that make it difficult for pedestrians to move along the sidewalk. There are crowds, vanity. Sometimes, even against your will, you may end up on the road.

A difficult situation is also developing on the roadway near the stops: the route transport standing at the stop forces other vehicles to make detours, then increasing, then slowing down, and even stop. (Up to 5% of traffic accidents with children occur at public transport stops.) In such an environment, pedestrians require increased attention, clear and consistent compliance with all safety rules.

Rules of conduct for passengers in public transport

For passengers, there are rules of conduct in public transport. It is important to wait correctly for a bus, trolleybus, tram, taxi. All urban transport moves along certain routes and stops not where the driver or passengers want, but at established points, which are called stops. Therefore, you should expect city transport standing on the sidewalk or the roadside in designated places, without going out onto the roadway.

It is possible to board a bus, trolleybus, tram and other vehicles only after they have completely stopped.

Remember not to:

Cling to transport from behind;

Jump into vehicles on the go;

Stand on protruding parts and footboards.

Passengers are prohibited from preventing the closing of doors or opening them until the vehicle has come to a complete stop due to safety requirements. Most buses and trolleybuses have doors that open automatically from the driver's cab. The driver does not always see what is being done at the door if one of the passengers held them. However, the driver, being sure that the doors are closed, sends a bus or trolleybus. As a result, the passenger may be trapped between the door leaves.

It is also dangerous to open the doors before the bus or trolleybus comes to a complete stop, because passengers can fall out of it on the go. And in a car with an open door on the go, you can hit a pedestrian or find yourself on the pavement.

It is forbidden to lean against the doors, as they may suddenly open.

In any public transport there are inscriptions: "Places for passengers with children and the disabled." But even if you are sitting in the wrong place, you should still give it to a disabled person, an elderly person, a woman, and just an older person. You should also help an elderly person or a woman with a child, a blind person get off the bus or trolleybus.

In the cabin it is forbidden:

Distract the driver with conversations while driving;

Make noise, talk loudly, disturb other passengers;

Leaning out or putting objects out of windows;

Carry dirty items, sharp and piercing tools with you (they must be carefully packed);

Ride in dirty clothes that stain other passengers.

When leaving public transport, you must follow the rules for crossing to the other side of the street.

At the bus stop

When waiting for public transport, you should stand on the sidewalk away from its edge. Here, the curb serves as a restrictive feature, on which it is impossible to stand.

The stop is not a place for games and running around. You can’t go out onto the roadway to see if a bus or trolleybus is coming.

If the tram stop is without a landing area, it is allowed to enter the carriageway to board the carriage only after it has come to a complete stop.

Boarding a vehicle

When a bus, trolleybus or tram approaches the stop, behave calmly - do not fuss, do not push. Approach the door only after a complete stop of transport. Do not stand in front of the doors, let the exiting passengers pass.

Enter after the disabled, the elderly and small children. To avoid being squeezed by the doors, do not try to sit down at the last moment before the departure of the bus, trolleybus, tram.

Entering the vehicle, do not linger near the doors and on the platform, go to the salon. In the cabin, hold on to the handrails so as not to get bruised by possible sudden braking.

Free seats are recommended to be occupied immediately so as not to interfere with the passage of passengers, but at the same time it is necessary to give way to the disabled, the elderly and the smallest. It is better to sit facing in the direction of travel: it is safer in case of sudden sudden braking. For the same reason, sleeping during the trip is not recommended.

Never interfere with the closing and opening of the doors. Do not try to open them yourself: this can not only damage the doors, but it is also dangerous! Do not lean against the doors: they can open on the go.

Do not lean out of the windows and do not put any objects in them.

Do not make noise, do not talk loudly: this not only annoys passengers, but also disturbs the driver, who must not be distracted. You can contact the driver only at stops.

During the trip, follow all the instructions of the driver and the conductor.

Disembarkation from transport

You need to prepare for the exit in advance: ask other passengers if they get off in the same place where you are or not, if possible, come closer to the doors, but do not go down the steps. After stopping and opening the doors, when passengers begin to get out, do not push, do not fuss. Older children should help elderly passengers, the disabled and toddlers. Small children traveling with adults get out after them.

When leaving public transport, do not stop in front of the doors, but step aside so as not to interfere with the exit of other passengers.

Movement after disembarkation

When you get out of the vehicle, you become a pedestrian again, and, therefore, you must again obey the requirements of the rules for pedestrians. Be especially careful if you need to cross to the opposite side of the road: your path is only along the crossing!

Based on the above, the following rules can be formulated:

Rules of Conduct for Bus and Trolley Bus Passengers

At the bus stop

Keep order, behave calmly: do not play, do not push, do not run.
Stand only on the sidewalk, do not step on the curb.
Don't get out on the road.
Approach the door of the bus or trolleybus only after it has completely stopped.

Landing

Let the exiting passengers pass.
Be careful when landing so as not to be squeezed by the closing doors.

Inside the bus and trolleybus

After landing, go ahead, do not linger on the steps and on the platform near the doors.
In the cabin, hold on to the handrails, do not interfere with the passage of passengers, prepare in advance for the exit.
When leaving, do not fuss and do not push.

After disembarkation

On the opposite side of the street, cross only at the pedestrian crossing.

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Rules of conduct in public transport

Transport etiquette.

Entering the cabin of a bus, tram, trolleybus or subway car, you do not need to greet all the passengers who are there. You can say hello only to acquaintances or those whom you have repeatedly met on trips around the city. At the same time, during the greeting of the latter, it is enough just to tilt your head slightly and smile. However, if the person does not wish to return the greeting, it is best not to insist, and the next time you meet, you can also not greet the fellow traveler.

At the entrance to urban transport, women, children, the elderly and those who occupy a higher social position are the first to let through (if you are lucky enough to meet them in the cabin of a crowded bus or trolley bus). At the same time, you can help them enter the salon, after asking for permission. When leaving the transport, men and those who are younger should go first. Good manners prescribe men to help women and those who need such help get out of the bus or trolleybus. It is not at all necessary for a subordinate to give a hand and help his boss or someone who occupies a higher social position to get out of the transport, unless it is a woman.

Seats in public transport should be occupied by the elderly, the disabled, children and women. Men can only sit on empty seats only if the fellow travelers around him have expressed their consent. Therefore, before taking a free seat, a man should politely ask for permission from the passengers next to him. At the same time, shouting loudly at the whole cabin, inviting each fellow traveler to take a free seat, is also not worth it. Women can give way to a man if he is a disabled person or a very old man.

The one who gives up his place should not jump up, silently hinting to the grandmother or the disabled person standing next to him that he can take his place. In such cases, you should say: "Please" or "Let me invite you to sit down." In response, the Person to whom they gave way should say words of gratitude.

Perhaps, everyone who has to travel frequently in public transport has at least once found himself in a situation where one of the offended passengers, who was not given a seat, began to scold those sitting (especially if they are young people) / "accusing them of disrespect for the older generation etc. It must be said that such behavior, according to etiquette, is also considered rude. In such cases, it is necessary to politely ask the seated to give way.

Often in public transport you can see people reading a newspaper or a book. It is not considered indecent. After all, in our age of breakneck speed, a person must have time to do so much. So they combine some business with pleasure: reading a fascinating detective story with a trip by public transport. However, if you are reading a newspaper and you have not managed to get a free seat, make sure not to disturb your fellow travelers. No need to turn pages loudly or put a book on the back of the person in front of you or on the head of the person in front of you.

In the event that on the way to work in public transport you met your acquaintance and wished to discuss the latest news of your eventful life, there is no need to do it too loudly, so that your “secrets” become the property of the people around you. Talking in transport should be quiet and at the same time it is best to refuse to discuss issues related to personal life.

Cafe, restaurant - etiquette.

Often a visit to a cafe or restaurant becomes for people a place where they can not only have a delicious meal or meet friends, but also show off their knowledge of etiquette. Visiting and staying in a cafe or restaurant implies strict and strict observance of all the rules of good manners: greetings, acquaintances, the ability to dress and behave in society, conduct a conversation, use cutlery, etc.

It is worth noting that today there are many types of institutions of this kind. These are eateries, well-equipped cafes, and top-class restaurants. The behavior of visitors is determined by the level of the catering establishment that he visits. So, for example, a lady in an evening dress, a mink coat and earrings with diamonds in her ears, who appeared in an ice cream parlor, looks inappropriate and ridiculous. A person dressed in a sports suit will look just as funny in the dining room of a VIP-class restaurant. Thus, before heading to a particular institution, you should choose the right suit that would correspond to the level of a cafe or restaurant. However, it should be noted that there are general rules of conduct that a visitor to a cafe, restaurant, etc. must follow.

In the event that you intend to visit a restaurant with a large group, then there must be a man among you who will take on “organizing” functions: choose places, order dishes, “pay the bill, etc. But this does not mean at all that women You can't go to a restaurant alone. Unfortunately, our reality is such that at the tables of cafes and restaurants today you can often see women sitting alone or who have come without men. Moreover, nowadays it is the ladies who most often invite men to visit a restaurant or cafe, and this is not considered bad form.

A man should always remain alert and gallant. In the event that a man comes to a cafe or restaurant, accompanying a lady, then the rules of etiquette require him to open the doors in front of a woman who, having gone a little forward, must again let the gentleman forward. The man should go ahead of the woman, thus showing her the way to the dining table.

All upscale cafes and restaurants have a lobby. The man should take off his coat first. This must be done in strict order: hat, gloves, coat. After that, the man must help undress his companion. The rules of etiquette do not allow the appearance in the dining room of a restaurant or cafe with large bags or outerwear.

When leaving the hall, the man must also walk ahead of the lady. He opens the doors for her, lets her in first, then goes out himself, closes the doors and again walks in front of his companion, as if showing the way to the lobby. According to the rules of etiquette, a man puts on outerwear first, after which he helps his lady to get dressed. Restaurant visitors go outside, and only after that a man can put on a hat and gloves.

In the event that it is planned to visit a restaurant or cafe that is very popular, it is best to book a table in advance. It is especially important to do this on the eve of a date or a business dinner. If the table was not booked, then the man will have to find a free table for himself and those he accompanies by all means. When choosing a place, a woman should not spin and turn her head in different directions. The choice of a table is the privilege of men. In such cases, it is best to seek help from the manager, who will prevent the occurrence of unpleasant situations and disputes between visitors claiming a free table.

A man who comes to a cafe or restaurant and accompanies a lady must give the latter a more comfortable seat at the table, for example, overlooking the stage. A true gentleman will be recognized as one who turns out to be helpful and attentive to his companion. Etiquette does not provide for strict instructions on how a man and a woman who come together to a cafe or restaurant should sit - opposite each other or next to each other. However, it is believed that it is more convenient to sit diagonally: then the hall is clearly visible to the interlocutors.

A man should help his lady sit down at the table. He pulls out a chair from the table and then helps his companion move it. It should be noted that almost no one follows this old rule of etiquette today. Women usually take the initiative in their own hands: they choose their own place at the table and sit down on a chair. Forgotten and another old rule of etiquette. At present, it is rare to see a man rising from his seat in the hall of a restaurant, and even more so a cafe, at the moment when a lady gets up.

The rules of good manners say: a man should get up a little if the lady has risen from the table. In the event that several men are sitting at the table, they may not get up when a woman gets up.

According to the rules of etiquette, a man is in charge of choosing the menu. At the same time, he must offer his companion the choice of one or another dish indicated on the menu. Upscale restaurants have a menu for each visitor, and therefore both a man and a woman can independently choose the food that they like, without risking limiting the freedom of choice of their companion. When choosing dishes, a woman should not stop at overly expensive or too cheap. Also, it will be considered inappropriate and impolite to say: “The same dish as yourself” or “Order what you want.”

In the event that someone invites a friend to a restaurant for the first time, then the inviting person should order dishes, focusing on their own taste preferences. If he ordered hot, then the invitee should not order a cold appetizer for himself. If the inviter pays for lunch or dinner in a restaurant, then he can refuse to choose the dish that he does not like, but order it for everyone else. The invitee, of course, can politely ask the inviter to order his favorite dish for himself. The main thing is that it should not be overly expensive.

In the old days, the right to choose alcoholic beverages in a restaurant was given only to men. It was to them that the waiters brought the wine list. Today the situation has changed. Alcoholic drinks can be ordered by both men and women. The waiter must present the wine to the one who ordered it. The visitor carefully examines the label, then the waiter pours a small amount of wine into a glass, the customer takes a sip to taste the wine. Only after receiving the approval mark for the quality of wine or other alcoholic beverage, the employee of the restaurant hall fills the glasses. It is worth noting that tasting wine is conditional, ritual in nature. Therefore, it is considered not quite decent to refuse the ordered alcohol, except in cases where the public catering network provides poor-quality goods. A badly chilled drink can also serve as a reason for refusing the ordered wine.

According to etiquette, participants of lunch or dinner order an appetizer and main dish together. The choice of dessert should be made only after the main course has been eaten. In the event that a trip to a restaurant was planned in advance, and its participants had previously discussed the dishes that they would order, then the order can be made by anyone alone. In such a situation, the orderer first lists the dishes that his companions would like to receive, and only then names those that he himself would like to taste.

In those restaurants and cafes where food is served on a common large dish, each of the visitors puts himself as much as he can eat. Alcoholic drinks, which in such establishments are served in jugs or decanters, are also poured by everyone into their own glass. In upscale restaurants, visitors are served by a waiter. He shifts the food from the common dish to the plate of everyone sitting at the table and pours wine. In the event that it is necessary to bring an additional portion, the visitor must put the fork and knife crosswise. Empty plates should be placed on the right side of the table. Food is served on the left side. Alcoholic drinks are also poured from the right side. Using the service of a waiter, every time you need to thank him. Today, not only a man, as was customary in the old days, but also a woman can say words of gratitude to the staff of a cafe or restaurant.

Cutlery placed parallel to each other on a plate serves as a signal for the end of the meal. The waiter may ask visitors if they would like to receive an additional portion. Guests can either politely decline or accept his offer to re-order. -Often, waiters ask visitors how much they liked the dishes they had a chance to taste. Such a question may be official and does not require an answer. However, in some cases, they quite sincerely want to know if they like their customers: the cuisine of the restaurant where they serve. Then the visitor needs to frankly highlight the question asked. However, even if you didn’t quite like what you ate at this restaurant, try to restrain your emotions and politely point out the reason for your indignation and dissatisfaction with this or that dish.

There are a few more general rules of conduct in restaurants and cafes. When serving visitors, the waiter always starts with women. In high-class restaurants, the waiter also controls the timely change of the ordered dishes. If this restaurant does not provide such a service, then the care of serving the lady falls on the shoulders of the gentleman. In the event that bottles of alcohol are served in an ice bucket, then the waiter must open them and pour the contents. After the bottles are empty, they must be placed next to the bucket.

While in a restaurant or cafe, you can meet acquaintances and friends. The general rules for greeting acquaintances in a restaurant are almost the same as the rules for greeting people on the street. However, there are also some differences. In the event that two friends met in a restaurant or cafe, then, according to the rules of good manners, they should sit at the same table. If for some reason this cannot be done, then the person sitting at the table should stand up, approach a friend, greet him and apologize for the inability to talk and spend time together. In addition, in such a situation, the eldest of the acquaintances who met must decide whether to sit at the same table. Also, the eldest decides whether he himself should come up and greet a friend sitting in the hall, or wait until he is invited to greet him. Approaching and sitting next to a person occupying a high social or official position and already sitting at a table is unacceptable. It's best to wait for an invitation. You can say hello to people sitting at tables in a cafe or restaurant and eating, but you should not continue the conversation.

Smokers may have a question: is it possible to smoke in restaurants and cafes? In some of these establishments, smoking is prohibited, as evidenced by the absence of ashtrays on the tables. But there are cafes and restaurants that allow their visitors to smoke. However, when smoking, you should remember about others. It is quite possible that there are people among them who cannot stand the smell of tobacco smoke. Therefore, before you smoke, ask permission from those sitting next to you. The rules of etiquette forbid smoking between the serving of the next dish and in the event that one of the table neighbors is eating.

Contrary to the stereotype that has developed in Russia, both a man and a woman can pay the bill in a cafe or restaurant. In addition, according to the rules of etiquette, the inviter must pay the bill in a restaurant or cafe. In the event that a woman pays, then she must do it herself, without transferring the payment and without transferring the wallet to the man. To pay the bill, the waiter is called by some kind of signal: a slight movement of the hand or a nod. It is not necessary to call the employee loudly.

In some restaurants, the bill for the ordered dishes is often brought on a small tray or plate. In this case, the visitor takes the bill, examines it quickly and carefully, then invests money in it and puts it back on a plate. It is not necessary to scrupulously calculate the cost of each meal eaten and then compare the results with what is written on the bill. This is considered bad manners. In some restaurants and cafes, service is not included in the bill. Then the work of the waiter is estimated by adding 10% to the amount indicated in the invoice. Sometimes service is included in the bill. But in this case, the change is left to the waiter. In the event that a man has any claims or questions about the amount of the bill to the staff of a cafe or restaurant, then it is still not worth expressing them in front of a lady.

Tipping has become a good old tradition in restaurants all over the world. Elegantly serving tea to a waiter or porter is considered almost the pinnacle of restaurant etiquette. There is no need to talk about the existence of any tip tariffs. Tipping may vary from country to country. It also varies in each individual country. This may depend both on the degree of solvency of visitors, and on the level of comfort of the restaurant and the work of the attendants. Modern sages say that the lower limit of the tip is determined by the rules of etiquette, and the upper one is determined by the intuition of the one from whom the tip is expected. Be that as it may, tips are one of the income items for restaurant or cafe workers. Not to tip means not to pay for the work that was done for the visitor by waiters, cooks or cloakroom attendants.

It is worth noting that in Russia such a phenomenon as tipping has only recently acquired the status of a semi-permitted one. Once upon a time, it was strictly forbidden to take tea to employees of public catering establishments and was equated with bribery. Today, everything has changed, and tips are perceived as gratitude to a restaurant or cafe visitor for the good or not very good work of the staff. Today, a person who does not give a tip to a waiter or doorman is perceived by others as ill-mannered, with bad manners, or as a greedy and miser. In a word, if you decide to go to a restaurant, then you will have to fork out.

In Europe, as always, all phenomena develop according to a strictly built logical chain. Tipping was never banned there. Perhaps that is why public catering establishments differ from Russian ones in a higher quality of service. In addition, in Europe there are conditionally two categories of people working in the field of public catering and public services: a) those who must be tipped (head waiters, hotel servants, taxi drivers, waiters, hairdressers: it is customary to give them 10-12% tips from the amount of the bill; messengers, porters, long-distance bus drivers, guides, cloakroom attendants: it is customary for them to tip, guided by their own intuition, i.e. the client determines the tip amount; b) those who are not required to tip, but can be express your gratitude for performing a special assignment or service for a client (maids, porters, elevator operators, cooks, servants of the house where you were invited to visit, sellers of programs in the theater, circus, etc., gas stations at gas stations).

The following is a listing of a few general rules of conduct when visiting a restaurant or cafe.

A man who invites a woman to a restaurant or cafe must arrive earlier than the appointed time. In case of being late. I need to apologize to the lady.

The most convenient place in the restaurant hall is considered to be a place near the wall, and the most honorable for ladies is facing the entrance.

The cups must be held by the ear, without inserting the index finger into it and without leaving a hundred

crown of the little finger.

After stirring the sugar in the cup, take out the spoon and put it on the saucer. In the event that the saucer is deep, a teaspoon can be placed on its edge. Sipping hot tea or coffee from a spoon is considered a sign of bad taste.

It is not necessary to blow into a cup of hot tea or coffee. Wait until the drinks have cooled down. They can only be stirred slightly with a spoon so as not to knock it against the walls of the cup.

You can only take a cup of hot drinks in your hands. The saucer should be left on the table.

The thick, left after drinking coffee, you do not need to drink.

In the event that tea is served with lemon, you need to lightly press a spoon on a slice of fruit, squeezing out the juice, after which the spoon can be placed on a saucer. Tea is drunk, and the remaining slice of lemon is left in the cup.

The tea bag squeezed with a spoon must be removed from the cup with the same spoon and put on a saucer. Don't put your used tea bag in the ashtray.

In the event that the drink is served in tall glasses and with a straw, then there is no need to drink it to the end. The gurgling sound made at the same time can only interfere with a pleasant conversation with a wonderful companion or friends.

If cakes with butter cream are served with tea or coffee, then they should be eaten so as not to stain the edges of the cup or glass. To do this, before washing down the eaten piece of cake with tea or coffee, wipe your lips with a napkin.

Biscuit cakes, according to the rules of restaurant etiquette, should be eaten with a teaspoon, and holding dry shortbread in your hands.

After use, the napkin should be placed on a plate (but not in an ashtray).

A smoked cigarette should be extinguished in an ashtray, but not in a plate.

In the event that a linen napkin lies on the table near the laid out cutlery, it should be unfolded and placed on your knees. If a woman inadvertently dropped such a napkin, a man should not pick it up and concentrate on the incident that happened, but, on the contrary, try not to notice the mistake of his companion. The lady will have to choose the time and quietly pick up the dropped napkin. After use, the linen napkin should be left on the table without being doubled or quadrupled.

A salad made from cucumbers and tomatoes should be eaten with meat served on the same dish.

Meals served in pots are not laid out on plates.

Cinema, vernissage

Cinema

In the cinema hall, in addition to such “troubles” as a lady in a hat, lovers with their heads bowed to each other, harsh perfumes, a loud critic, there is a typical movie scourge: a viewer who loudly tells his companion (companion) “what will happen now” . Such an uninvited commentator should be pulled up by his companion. An outsider also has the right to make a remark to him.

In the cinema, unlike the theater, it is customary to eat sweets, but, of course, one should not nibble loudly, rustle pieces of paper and throw them under chairs.

At the stadium, neither the rustle of papers, nor the crunch of caramels bother anyone. However, you shouldn't litter either.

At a concert, any coughing, remarks aloud, in a word, anything that can interfere with listening to music, are especially undesirable. In no case should you hum a melody that sounds from the stage, beat out the beat with your hand.

After a concert, performance or movie show, a man escorts the woman he invited home. Having taken her by taxi or his own car, the man waits for her to enter the entrance; it is even more polite to get out of the car and escort the companion to the door of her apartment. The woman whom the man invited to the performance, saying goodbye, should thank him for a pleasant evening.

Vernissage

Vernissage, i.e. the opening of an exhibition of paintings or sculptures is also a kind of performance. Loud remarks are allowed only if they express approval. If the artist is familiar to you personally, it is customary to approach him and congratulate him. In such cases, special delicacy is necessary, which does not allow awkward comparisons with his contemporary artists. It may happen that the author of the exhibition does not consider the work of this particular artist to be a model for himself.

If the artist is not personally known to you, you can also approach him, introduce yourself and express your approval - he will be pleased.

Many women find it inconvenient for themselves to go to concerts and movies alone. Of course, it is more pleasant to go together. But the principle of "no one to go with" should not deprive a woman of aesthetic pleasure. The rules of good manners do not prohibit this at all, on the contrary, they encourage it.

In the museum

According to the rules of good manners, before going to see the exhibits, a visitor to the museum must go to the cloakroom to take off their outer clothing and leave large luggage (bags, briefcases, packages, etc.). To navigate in large museums and exhibitions will help special catalogs, guides, sold at the entrance to the exhibition halls. In this case, there is no need to try to see everything at once during one visit. It is best to choose any one hall and carefully familiarize yourself with its exhibits. The next time you visit a museum or exhibition, you will be able to see another room, etc.

The demolition of a museum or exhibition should move silently. Talking loudly or shouting, calling a friend or friend, is unacceptable. A sign of bad taste is also considered a loud discussion or criticism of works or their authors. A true connoisseur and connoisseur of art will not demonstrate erudition and knowledge in such a place that is not entirely suitable for this, like a museum. After all, to give information about a particular work, its history and author is the task of the guide.

Visitors can only exchange a few remarks with each other. But you need to do this in an undertone, so as not to disturb standing nearby.

In order to get acquainted with any exhibit, you do not need to stand in front of another visitor. It is best to wait until he, having finished the inspection, frees up space. Touching museum or exhibition exhibits is strictly prohibited. Each visitor is reminded of this by special signs available in each exhibition hall or attached to exhibit cases.

Rules of conduct in the theater

Visiting a theatre, concert hall, museum and art exhibition requires the visitor to know and observe special etiquette regulations. First of all, it concerns clothes. When going to a theater or a concert hall, it is best to wear a suit of soothing colors and a classic cut. In other words, you need to dress in such a way that you do not attract the special attention of others who came to the theater in order to see the performance, and not your super-fashionable and original outfit. Women can complement a dress or suit with a strict cut with modest jewelry.

Men should wear a dark suit. In cold weather, it is important not to forget to take a change of shoes with you. The rules of etiquette require men sitting in boxes and in the front rows of stalls to wear a tailcoat or tuxedo, and women - evening dresses and gloves. At the same time, the rules of good manners say that you can wear a festive outfit to the premiere of a performance, and the one in which you usually go to work (if such an outfit is not too flashy and defiant) is also suitable for visiting and watching an everyday theatrical performance.

Being late for a performance or concert is considered unacceptable. However, if for some reason you had to be late, then you do not need to disturb other spectators and, stepping on their feet, head to your place. It is necessary to wait for the end of the act or part of the performance or musical work and go to your seats already during the intermission. You need to walk along the row, turning to face other spectators. At the same time, you should apologize to them for the inconvenience caused.

As well as when visiting a restaurant, a man must accompany a lady, showing the way to places. In the wardrobe, a man should first remove his headdress and outerwear, and then help the lady undress. If in a restaurant or cafe a woman is allowed by the rules of etiquette to remain wearing a hat, then in the theater she must also be removed, since the fields of the headdress can block the view of the stage to those sitting behind. After the woman has taken off her coat and hat, she can go to the mirror to slightly fix her hair or see if everything is in order with her appearance. Applying makeup, painting lips or pulling the hem of a dress in the dressing room is unacceptable. All this must be done in the ladies' room. While the woman examines herself in the mirror, her companion must wait patiently on the sidelines. At the same time, he should not delve into reading a newspaper, magazine or book, which is considered bad form. The only thing he can afford is to buy a play or concert program and read it.

In the event that the places are in a tier, then the man, when ascending, should go half a step ahead of his companion, and when descending, half a step behind. In the parterre, the man goes first to his seat, followed by the woman. If four acquaintances, two women and two men, decide to attend a performance or concert, then first one of the men takes the place, then the women sit down, then the second man. At the same time, ladies can sit down so as not to be "next to their spouse. Choosing a place for themselves, a true gentleman will leave the best and most convenient for his lady. So, for example, if one of the two designated places is at the aisle, then the man should take exactly his.

In the event that a group of familiar people came to the theater "or to a concert, then the woman should be the first to take a place in the row, then the man, then the woman again, etc. The last place is taken by the one who invited everyone (the exception is women ).

A sign of bad taste and ignorance is considered to be singing along, patting your hand or stamping your foot to the beat of the music, discussing the performance that takes place during the continuation of the performance. You can't talk to your neighbors either. And even more so, it is not permissible to eat anything at this time, rustling with candy wrappers or chocolate foil, etc. In the event that you are tormented by a cough or runny nose, you do not need to cough or blow your nose right in the hall. You should quietly apologize to your neighbors and leave the hall.

You also need to do the same if you came to the performance with a child who, not interested in watching the performance, found another activity for himself.

You can have a snack during the intermission at the buffet. However, in a short 15 minutes or half an hour, you should not eat up as if you have no food at all at home and you will have nothing to eat. In the theatrical buffet, to satisfy a slight hunger, it is enough to buy drinks, cake or ice cream. At the same time, only one man can go to the buffet, while the lady (or other acquaintances who have visited the theater) can remain in their place.

The most gross mistake and serious violation of theatrical etiquette is considered to be leaving the auditorium during the continuation or a few minutes before the end of the performance. A polite person and a grateful spectator will certainly wait for the moment when he can thank the actors or musicians for the game with thunderous applause.

Applause also has its own rules. So, it is customary to applaud:

in the theater: after the completion of the last act of the play; after the completion of an aria or scene played especially well by the actors; when a popular or highly talented actor appears on stage;

at a concert: during the exit of the conductor and soloists; after completion of the performance of the work (song) by the soloist.

The rules of conduct in public transport when boarding state that the first to enter are:

aged people,
children,
women.

If a man expresses a desire to help these categories of citizens when boarding public transport, then he must definitely ask for permission.

According to the etiquette, when entering public transport, backpacks and bulky (for example, sports) bags must be removed from the shoulders so as not to disturb other passengers.

To whom to give way

According to the unspoken rules of public etiquette, all seats in buses, trolleybuses, etc. intended for children, the elderly and the disabled. If people of these categories are sitting and at the same time there are empty seats, women are allowed to take them.

According to the rules of conduct in public transport, a man can get on a bus or trolleybus only if the nearby passengers have given their consent to this. So young people, before taking a free seat in transport, should quietly ask those standing next to them if they want to sit down. Asking permission loudly from the entire cabin is uncivilized, as well as suggesting that everyone take a free seat.

Etiquette in transport suggests that a woman in some situations should give way to a man. For example, if he is a fairly old person, disabled or very unwell.

Giving way to a seat in transport, you should pronounce the etiquette phrase: "Please sit down." It is impolite to simply stand up and silently point another passenger to the vacant seat. The one who has been given a seat should sit down and thank for the courtesy.

According to the rules of conduct in public transport, boys and girls should not sit in public transport if there are elderly people, pregnant women, children or people with disabilities in it.

Being in public transport with a companion, a man must certainly express gratitude to the one who gives way to her.

How to behave in transport

It is ugly to consider passengers in public transport.
Entering the passenger compartment of the bus, autoline, you do not have to greet all the people who are there. Say hello only to people you know well or travel together very often.
Each passenger pays for their own travel on public transport. A young man does not have to pay for the travel of his companion.
If you are using a travel document, always keep it at the ready so as not to create confusion and not take time from the controller.
Clean bags and backpacks can be put in free places if there are no people in the transport who could take empty seats.
When someone is reading a book or a newspaper in public transport, it is ugly to look into it.
If you are traveling in transport with your friend, and you can't wait to talk, you can chat, but only in an undertone.
It is unacceptable even in an undertone to talk on personal topics with a friend in public transport.
If you are traveling in a bus, trolleybus, tram with your children, make sure that they behave politely: do not make noise, do not push strangers. It is better to tell your children in advance about the rules of conduct in public transport.
According to transport etiquette, you cannot comb your hair, use scissors or a nail file, paint, apply nail polish, or transport dangerous items.
Even in a crowded subway car or bus cabin, try to follow the rules of good manners: do not lean on other passengers, do not push them when exiting, do not step on people's feet.

Etiquette when leaving

According to the rules of conduct in public transport, the first from the bus, trolley bus, etc. a man or younger in age should go out. A young man who comes out, according to etiquette, must provide the necessary assistance when leaving public transport to everyone who needs it: give a hand to a woman, a child, help an old man carry out a bag, etc.

Etiquette in public transport allows a subordinate not to help his superior or a colleague in a higher position when leaving. However, this relief should be forgotten if the boss is a woman.

It is necessary to prepare in advance for the exit from public transport. Compliance with this rule of etiquette should be given special attention if there are many people in the salon. Before going around this or that person standing in front of you on the way to the exit, according to the rules of good manners, you should ask him if he is also going to get off at the next stop.

Almost all people use public transport daily, but only a few know the generally accepted etiquette. Therefore, trips do not always leave a pleasant impression. In order not to become the culprit of a quarrel, you need to know the rules of behavior on the bus.

How to behave when entering?

According to etiquette, the first to enter the transport should be:

Disabled people;

people of retirement age;

Women.

If a man wants to help these categories of citizens with landing, for example, to bring luggage or heavy bags, then he must ask permission for this. In the case when people enter the bus with backpacks on their backs, they must be removed so as not to interfere with other passengers.

If a man enters the transport with his companion, but they are far from each other, you should not try to get to her, interfering with other passengers. This rule applies to anyone who is separated on the bus.

Should I give up my seat?

The rules of conduct on the bus state that seating is for people with disabilities, children and pensioners. If there are free seats, then women can take them. Men have the right to sit down only when standing passengers do not object. You can quietly ask permission or express the question with a gesture. Asking a question out loud is considered bad manners.

A woman should give way to a man if he feels unwell. It is necessary to invite him to sit down politely, so as not to offend and not to put in. The one who is being courteous should thank for the service.

If a woman is in transport with a man, and she is given a seat, then she is not obliged to thank for the service. This should be done by her companion.

If there are elderly people or pregnant women in the transport, young boys and girls should not sit down. A man must show respect for his companion and invite her to sit down.

Behavior in transport

There are certain rules of conduct on the bus, which are considered generally accepted, so every passenger must comply with them.

Rules for children and parents

There are rules for the behavior of children on the bus. Parents should ensure that they are quiet and do not disturb other passengers. You can not make noise, push, laugh out loud or play

Each passenger must take care not to push other people, step on their feet or lean on them.

Exit etiquette

The first person to get off the bus should be a man or someone who is younger in age. The exit is obliged to provide assistance to other passengers, if necessary: to take out bags, a pensioner, a child or a woman.

The rules of conduct for passengers on the bus allow a subordinate not to assist a leader or colleague if he is higher in rank. But you can make an exception in the case when the boss is a woman.

It is indecent to leave public transport at the last moment. In order not to disturb others, you need to prepare in advance: go to the door, let people who do not go out and pick up your luggage, if any. Do not push passengers who are standing near the door. They need to politely ask if they are going out, and offer them to change places.

How to behave in school transport?

It is not uncommon for schoolchildren to be transported by a special bus. Therefore, there are certain rules for the behavior of students on the bus.

Landing should take place only in the presence of an escort, who is appointed by order of the headmaster.
You can get on and off the bus only after the vehicle has come to a complete stop and the doors have been opened. You can not get off at places that are not a stop.
The rules of conduct on the school bus suggest that the younger children get on and off first.
If the bus is equipped with a special luggage rack, students should put their backpacks and bags there. Sitting down, you need to fasten your seat belts. If they are defective, the maintainer should be informed.
The rules of conduct on the bus suggest that the driver should not be distracted by loud conversations and other sounds. You can not walk around the cabin, litter, use profanity.
It is forbidden to open windows on your own and stick foreign objects into them.
Students must take care of the property of the bus and do not carry flammable and explosive substances with them.

For the sake of safety, general education, education and development of a sense of tact, each person must know not only the rules of the road, but also the etiquette of behavior in public transport. In order not to miss anything and not become a participant in the conflict, you must have general concepts and follow certain norms described below.

Peculiarities

First of all, it must be remembered that public transport is a place of contact for a large number of different people. One way or another, this is part of our life, so maintaining a favorable environment is very important, which, of course, contributes to the correct behavior. Public transport includes trams and trolleybuses, buses, subways, trains and airplanes.

Most importantly, remember that you are not alone. You should always take into account the personal space of others and try not to cause them any inconvenience.

How to behave in railway transport?

First of all, the conductor will check your tickets and documents, it is important not to leave any of this with the mourners, and also not to lose them after checking. It would be useful to get acquainted with the neighbors in the car, especially if it is a long-distance train. If any aspects bother you, you can always ask the guide for help.

Some points should also be taken into account on a long-distance train. Since the trip is long, it is important to take care of food during this time, as well as water. Homemade food can be stored for a short time, so you need to eat it immediately, at the beginning of the trip. Basically, you need to take foods that can be stored for a long time (fruits, nuts, canned food, cookies, foods brewed with boiling water).

A friendly conversation will be a courtesy and will help pass the time, but you should not bother your neighbors. Men and women must alternately leave the compartment if one of them changes clothes.

In a common car, as in most types of transport, it is not recommended to make noise, interfere with neighbors, or run. Although the trip is relatively short, children cannot sit still for so long, so it is important to control them in such a situation.

You can not pass on the roofs, in a freight car, on the steps of the train. It is forbidden to stick out body parts from the windows; the stopcock should not be touched unless absolutely necessary. You can not walk on railway tracks, you can cross them in a place specially designated for this (pedestrian flooring, bridge). Passengers seated on the upper shelves can sit in the lower seats during the day.

General norms of behavior in urban transport

Basic Rules:

It is ugly to squeeze deep into public transport, pushing everyone with your elbows, you need to respect other people.
Shaking off raindrops and snow is necessary before you get into public transport, inside this is unacceptable.
Looking at other passengers is impolite and can also scare them. Looking at your neighbor's phone or book is also inappropriate.
Watching movies, listening to music and playing gadgets is allowed only with headphones so as not to disturb anyone.

Trams can accommodate more people than buses and trolleybuses. Therefore, in it you need to be prepared for a large flow of people, try not to impede the rapid movement of large groups.
Trolleybuses, like trams, stop at every stop. Given this, it is worth keeping an eye on who enters the transport - people may enter for whom you need to give way or need help.

At the entrance

Regardless of the type of public transport, there are rules that are fair for everyone:

The very first thing to be done is to release the people who leave it. The right to be the first to enter belongs to children, the elderly and women, as well as people with disabilities.
People in transport should not stand at the door, thereby making it difficult for passengers to enter and exit.
If there are difficulties at the entrance and help is needed, the initiative from men will be most welcome and will show them from the best side. However, we must not forget that you must first ask for permission to do this. Circumstances may vary and assistance may not be appropriate.
When entering, do not forget to remove bags and backpacks from your shoulders so as not to hurt others around them.

While driving

When traveling, be aware of your personal space. And not only about your own, but also about the space of other passengers: relying on others with all your weight and pushing is unacceptable, this can even lead to conflict. Disrespectful to other people, he will talk loudly with his acquaintances, as well as speak loudly on the phone. Not the best topic for discussion would be personal life, profanity is unconditionally banned.

Snacking during a trip may seem convenient, but it is completely against the rules of etiquette. The smell will spread over the entire area, crumbs will fall, and the possibility of soiling a neighbor is not excluded.

When exiting

When leaving, do not rush forward, try not to interfere with the exit of others. If someone is having a hard time getting out, try to help. A gallant man can give a girl a hand, showing courtesy. Both at the entrance and at the exit, if you see a pram, heavy bags - be sure to offer help, it's hard to deal with this alone.

Who should give way?

If you see a person who finds it difficult to stand, you should definitely give him a seat. The unspoken rule is that, first of all, seats must be given up to the elderly, pregnant women, passengers with children in their arms and the disabled. But every self-respecting man will surely give way to a woman. The sense of tact should be more developed in boys and men, who will always help and give way.

In car

When traveling in a car, the passenger must first fasten his seat belt; special restraints or chairs are provided for children. During the trip, it is not allowed to lean out of windows and hatches, stick out limbs there. Under no circumstances should the driver be distracted by any means. Opening the vehicle doors and leaning on them is unacceptable; this may lead to an accident.

Flight etiquette

In the culture of air transport, things are somewhat different: the norms of what should not be done are clearly established in order to avoid emergencies. So, let's explain everything in order:

Unaccompanied by airport employees, access to the location of aircraft is prohibited.
You can not arbitrarily climb on board the aircraft, enter the cockpit.
Standing up during takeoff, landing, movement on the ground is prohibited.

Before takeoff, after taking their seat, everyone must fasten their seat belt. Then it is extremely important to listen to the rules of conduct in the cabin, as well as in case of an emergency.

It is especially necessary to remember the order of activation of life-saving appliances. As well as in all modes of transport, noise, shouting, loud conversations are not welcome.

How to behave in an emergency?

Rule number 1 in an emergency is not to panic or spread panic among others. If it is clear that disaster cannot be avoided, you have to lie on the floor or sit on a seat, cover your head with your hands. After the accident, you should try to leave the vehicle, but only after it has completely stopped. If it is impossible to do this through the doors, there is an alternative option - to squeeze out or break the glass.

If possible, you need to help other people get out, and then move to a safe distance and call the rescue services.

Memo for children

Various rules of behavior should be instilled in a child from childhood, especially if they affect their inclusion in society. You can highlight a few simple points so that the child remembers them well and knows the basics of etiquette in all types of trips:

You can wait and enter public transport only at stops.
You can only bypass a standing bus or trolleybus from behind.
Let people out before entering.
No need to take ice cream, drinks and any other food with you on the transport, which can stain passengers.
Do not push people away, do not run and do not rush to go to the center of the cabin, everything must be done calmly.