The power of the skirt: why it's important for women to wear skirts and dresses. How to start wearing skirts: my personal experience Why you need to wear dresses

Intuitively, I always felt that women need to wear skirts :) We even discussed this topic with you.
At home, I usually wear long skirts.
On the street - it turns out less often, although this summer I also bought a long skirt.

I don’t understand anything about the “torsion field” and other terms, but suddenly this article will inspire some of you to put on a skirt :))

Original taken from evakutsueva in SENSATION: Long skirt creates a torsion field

In!!! I always knew that there was something like that, today I found an explanation, and realized that this summer I was drawn to long skirts and dresses.

The text is not mine, but I agree with everything)
It is believed that a woman takes her energy from the Earth, this helps her to strengthen her roots and gain strength for motherhood.

For a woman, it is important that the energy goes down, as the downward flow of energy is associated with childbearing and female hormones are produced in the lower body. It must be remembered that female beauty depends on the level of female hormones: if it decreases, both beauty and health go away.

All costumes for oriental dance, as you understand, with long skirts... It's no coincidence.

In addition, domed skirts add fragility, mystery and femininity to a woman. The manner of dressing, strange as it sounds in our fast-paced and urban world, greatly affects not only women's health, but also the strengthening of magnetism on the part of men. If a woman wears a long skirt, it affects the woman's perception of herself as a woman, as well as the man's perception of a woman. Thereby improving and harmonizing relationships. There are cases when the rejection of trousers and the transition to wearing skirts and dresses helped women who were diagnosed with infertility become pregnant.

Length matters too

If we turn to ancient traditions, then there we will see a woman in long clothes. Why and why? It is the long skirt that serves as an assistant in the correct collection and preservation of the received energy of the Earth, which is the basic female energy - the material energy of fertility and goodness, stability and peace.

A long skirt, reaching almost to the ground, forms a triangle with it, which helps to conduct and maintain the necessary nourishing power for a woman.

Wide hem that sways and twists as you walk forms torsion fields, (here it is!!) contributing again to the flow and strengthening of the energy of the elements of the Earth. It turns out that if you wear a short skirt, then the triangle decreases, and accordingly, the flow of femininity resources also decreases. An incomparable feeling of one's beauty and femininity comes with dresses and skirts. Having felt all the positive influences on ourselves, we will give you six reasons why a woman should wear skirts at least sometimes:

Here, in this photo we are all in long skirts :) Take my word for it

“A long and wide skirt with its contour creates the right energy cone. It forms energy according to the female type: little at the top, a lot at the bottom, making us steady down. In addition, the wide hem acts as a gentle circle. The sacred meaning of the hem is a protective circle around you. And, besides, the movement (swaying) of the hem when walking creates two whirlwinds around you, building your energy according to the female type, and this is very important. The hem protects our sexual centers, the proper functioning of which ensures women's health and good reproductive function. In addition, the hem helps to maintain a woman's purity and chastity, which affects her mental strength.

According to ancient Slavic teachings, wearing skirts and dresses restores the connection with the energy of the family through the female line.

Based on ancient knowledge, it turns out that the secret of a woman's attractiveness lies in the ability to replenish from the outside world and accumulate vital and sexual energy. Moreover, a woman receives most of her energy from the earth, and wearing a long skirt increases her feminine attractiveness and strength. The hem of the skirt, twisting in a clockwise spiral when walking, contributes to the transfer of energy upwards, and the domed shape of the skirt allows you to accumulate energy.

There is a rule - do not wear trousers on the first 7 (!) dates if you want to really charm a man. In this case, the woman becomes more attractive and seductive.

It has been established that the constant wearing of trousers negatively affects the female organs. So this habit may be related to infertility and problem pregnancy, because. the required energy is missing. There are cases when women lovers of trousers, who could not get pregnant for a long time, fulfilled their desire as soon as they switched to wearing skirts and dresses! Surprising but true.

Putting on a skirt (even everyday), a woman, without noticing it, is transformed internally, her mood changes for the better, the most important thing for a woman. It is this inner state of the holiday of the soul that attracts men so much. Notice how your walk changes when she puts on a skirt or dress!

Portal About.com invited visitors to the section "women's fashion" to answer this question. And this is what came out of it:

Exciting! I like men in skirts. - 71%
Horror! Put on your pants! - 0%
I don't care. People should have the right to wear what they want. - 27%

The portal also provided an opportunity for men - "skirt wearers" to leave their impressions and thoughts about wearing skirts. Here are the stories:

Story 1: Why do I wear a skirt

Any that are called male, or unisex.

Only my fears.

The skirts are very comfortable. They are great for driving on hot days. Plus, there are many colors and shapes to choose from.

How I started wearing skirts:
My wife took the risk of letting me wear a short denim skirt for a day. This was the beginning, but the longer it went on, the more pleasure I got from wearing skirts. Now I wear skirts all the time. 14 skirts and 3 pairs of blue jeans. Most of the time I wear knee length denim skirts with 4 or 5 pockets (pleats?). I also wear velvet skirts. I became the owner of a tshirt skirt (?).

Tips and Tricks:

* Just see how it sits on you, whether it fits correctly.

Story 2: Guys in skirts

What type of men's skirts would I like to see:
Any, because they are not visible at all !!!

What problems did I encounter while wearing skirts:
Windy days.

Why I like to wear skirts:
They do not have crotch seams that rub, and skirts are much more fun than pants!!!

How I started wearing skirts:
I had rashes on my inner thighs that couldn't be cured without air. The doctor recommended that I try walking around in a skirt to help the air contact the rash!!! It worked and I found that I love the feel and look of skirts!!! I tried to wear skirts and dresses when I was a little 9 year old boy and I liked them but they told me that boys don't wear them!
Now I am 41 years old and I will never give up my skirts - this is the best feeling!!!

Tips and Tricks

* For the fullness of the feeling of wearing a skirt, shaving your legs is a must!!!

Story 3: My skirt story

What type of men's skirts would I like to see:
I would like to see more variety of colors and styles that can be worn with everyday shirts or polo shirts.

What problems did I encounter while wearing skirts:
Skirts that are too tight or made of stretchy (lycra) material reveal an unsightly "unsmooth" surface in front. Need skirts adapted to the male anatomy.

Why I like to wear skirts:
It is very different from what everyone is used to, and because they are comfortable and stylish, I think these are the main reasons for using skirts.

How I started wearing skirts:
It all started about 5 years ago when I was shopping with my girlfriend (at the time). I recommended that she buy a tight denim miniskirt, an idea that angered her. She said that if I liked them so much, then I myself could become a buyer of the skirt. And... that's exactly what I did.

Tips and Tricks

* Try to match styles and colors as well as possible. Just because skirts alone don't mean you can ignore everything else. Remember that you will be eye-catcher, so every little detail will be noticed.
* Act natural, and if it's a short skirt, keep your legs shifted at all times.

Story 4: Kilts and skirts

What type of men's skirts would I like to see:
Knee-length, or mini-skirts with comfortable deep pockets.

What problems did I encounter while wearing skirts:
First, right outside the door! Problems with a wife who hates the idea.
Airport security raids! (I have a pacemaker)

Why I like to wear skirts:
They are comfortable and do not pinch in the groin. They are also different from boring pants, pants, pants, and sometimes shorts.
I prefer to wear sports shorts at home, and I spend a lot of time in them outside in the summer (unfortunately not at work).

How I started wearing skirts:
I wore a rented kilt over 5 years ago and received encouraging compliments when I walked around in it (a 50 year old Scot who has never worn a kilt before - amazing!). I have since bought my own and wear it on special occasions. However, it is quite heavy for everyday wear.
My son wore a 14-inch faux-leather miniskirt, and a sequined pink and black skirt that was even shorter when he competed in costume dances. This got me thinking.
I researched the internet and found a lot of sites for men in skirts, so I thought - why not try this?
I bought a couple of skirts on e-bay - a 17" khaki cargo skirt and a 14" denim mini, and decided to try them on.
The first time it happened was at a gas station - I was wearing a skirt when I got there. It wouldn't look good if I freaked out and drove away, so I got out of the car, gasped up, and paid at the checkout. There were several people there, including a couple of policemen. They were drinking coffee, and they should have noticed me, but no one paid any attention. In fact, it almost disappointed me.
Now I go to supermarkets, malls, do-it-yourself stores in various skirts, and also travel by bus, train and plane.
All this without any unpleasant comments at all. Just a few belated sidelong glances in the back.
I also wore a denim miniskirt to a 10-mile breast cancer charity marathon and received lots of smiles and support. One female assistant said, "Wow! A man in a skirt! Cool!" which greatly increased my confidence.

Tips and Tricks

*Buy via e-bay - but make sure the offer states the exact dimensions. Women's sizes are known for their unpredictability.
* Exude confidence! - even if your heart is about to jump out! You are not doing anything wrong!
* Start with small shops - such as along highways, or shops where you don't usually go often.
* Register on websites for men in skirts - there are many like you.

Story 5: My story about wearing skirts

What type of men's skirts would I like to see:
The skirts I favor range from kilts, through kilt-like garments, to regular skirts, knee or ankle length. The colors I prefer are solid colors like blue, red-brown and black.

What problems did I encounter while wearing skirts:
Acceptance in society, especially in a country that proclaims itself as liberal, freethinking, etc. while in reality people are conservative and Calvinistic. I was ridiculed by various people.

Why I like to wear skirts:
The reason for wearing the skirt at first was curiosity, after I tried it, I noticed that the comfort is just great, while sitting for a long time, the trousers have to be lowered regularly to give freedom to the "family jewels", this is not required with a skirt. I've done a lot of road trips over the last year, moving about 800 miles a day, and there's just a huge difference in terms of comfort when you're doing it in a skirt rather than pants. Therefore, comfort is the reason.
Also, since my wife has cancer, and apparently a skirt can reduce the chance of catching it as well, all means are good.

How I started wearing skirts:
The first time my wife suggested this was for a bedroom game. There was no real continuation of the volume, but discussion of the topic arose from time to time. Not knowing if I would like it, I tried it when my wife was not at home, and at first I had that thrill. After wearing the skirt a number of times, I started experimenting with combinations, one combination being a red-brown skirt with a brown checkered jacket and tie, red-brown stockings, and brown loafers. Once I dressed like this for work (in the office and at home), and noted the comfort. In the meantime, we discussed the possibilities several times, and my wife indicated that she would like to look for a kilt. Before that, I had repeatedly "tasted the water" (scouted out the situation) using a large bath towel, and she did not even raise an eyebrow. One day my wife discovered that I had gone further than a towel. It's a long story, but after all the talking, she gave her consent. At that very moment, she was full of enthusiasm... A few months later, she changed her attitude, said that I must be a pervert, homosexual, and so on, and filed for divorce (meanwhile she herself wears my socks and shirts; double standards?). Now, a few years later, we're still in the middle of a divorce because she's trying to get all my possessions.
NB: When my wife announced that she wanted a divorce, she was under treatment by an oncologist and a psychiatrist, so the question arises whether she fully understood what was happening, and in addition to this, she was manipulated by a friend who always put sticks in our relationship wheels. At that time, my wife spent more time on the well-being of this friend than on family affairs.

Now that we live in a hotel, I can wear a skirt whenever I want. Walking outside, I was surprised that the combination of a knee-length skirt and tights was actually warmer than the pants I was wearing just 30 minutes ago.

I advise anyone who works in an office, or has to travel long distances frequently like German brewery truck drivers, to try wearing a skirt.

Tips and Tricks

* Make sure your spouse is supportive.
* Make sure your partner is ready to support you now and in the future.
* Combine this with the generally accepted male attire, in line with today's norms.
* Don't try to be ostentatious, or look like a transvestite who wants to play the role of a different gender (like women wearing trousers, jackets, flats, and maybe ties...).
* Don't go for a confrontation.
*Because I attract attention even when wearing a suit and tie, or even loose-fitting clothes, since I am quite tall, I tend to limit wearing skirts outside of the house, and to late evening walks while walking the dog.
* Be yourself.

Story 6: Men in skirts

What type of men's skirts would I like to see:
All types marked as unisex. Most agree that the women's dimensional grid is extremely inconsistent. I have about 200 skirts in my wardrobe, made of various types of fabric, with buttons, pockets, zippers, pleated, long, etc.

What problems did I encounter while wearing skirts:
Actually a little. There were problems with teenage girls wearing ripped jeans. The kind that I would never wear in public.

Why I like to wear skirts:
Comfort. So many different colors, patterns, variety.

How I started wearing skirts:
In response to a call from my daughter. It was a hot summer day. What a pity, I was the man who couldn't wear a miniskirt on a hot, muggy summer afternoon. But I did it. I shaved my legs as advised by my daughter. Then I switched to an epilator. Started with a denim miniskirt. Added a denim jacket and a denim shirt. Increased diversity from that moment on.

Tips and Tricks

* The label is on the back, regardless of the location of the zipper or buttons.
* Use the size chart. Each seller seems to have their own idea of what a size 15 might be. I have a size 12 skirt that is larger than a size 18 skirt. Keep this in mind.
* Do not wear a short pleated skirt on a windy day.
* Don't let the hem of your long skirt get caught in your car door.
* Look in the mirror. The back edge of the skirt may not cover what you planned to cover.
* Run your fingers along the edge as you stand up. Did your skirt get off?

My comments:
I have two remarks about all of the above.
First- Of course, each of these "skirts" - enthusiasts, can be suspected of something "such", and hang the appropriate label - one with transvestite inclinations, the other a fetishist, the third just lost his mind in his old age. And in general - would a "normal" person want to go against the "mainstream"?! Just think - billions of men go all their lives in pants, and are happy, and this, you see, it was impatient to put on skirts! Here are the freaks! But there is another, completely banal consideration - without eccentrics, society begins to stagnate. Social changes always come from the "freaks", not quite normal, from the point of view of the "average" person.
Second- It seems to me very strongly that all these famous couturiers, "fashion houses", and other institutions that create new "trends" are toiling with frank garbage. It would seem that what is easier - conduct a similar survey, take into account the wishes, add the necessary elements of "masculinity" to the existing female models on their basis, and promote the revolutionary product under the slogans of functionality, "coolness", and convenience ... But no! Instead, we are witnessing the process of "creative (sorry) defecation", looking at the results of which one wants to spit in our hearts and forget, like a nightmare, the phrase "men's skirt" itself.
So? The salvation of the drowning is the work of the drowning themselves! That's what we live with...

It is unlikely that you will meet such a woman who would not have a single skirt in her wardrobe. And, by and large, there is nothing to be surprised about. It was in ancient times that both the fair sex and men wore skirts. More precisely, men wore a prototype of a skirt. It was a cut of some kind of fabric, which was wrapped around the hips and fastened at the waist. In the modern world, however, many men (according to their passports) also wear skirts. But it’s not worth attributing them to men in the literal sense of the word. But, let's get back to our topic, why do women wear skirts? What is it, a tribute to fashion? Or maybe it's just convenient? Or do girls dream of winning the hearts of men in this way? We will answer the questions. We believe that you will not waste your time reading this article.

This is one of the main reasons why skirts are worn. Agree, today the line between everything masculine and feminine is very, very thin. We hear the word “unisex” almost every day. And, surprisingly, the fair sex constantly complains that there are no knights left now, real men. And men, on the contrary, are indignant because real princesses have disappeared, for the sake of whose attention one would like to run with checkers naked and perform feats.

So, they just want to feel not some kind of "unisex", but real,. Putting on a skirt, the beauty begins to move differently: involuntarily her gait becomes light, the girl watches her posture. Her movements are smooth and free. The mood rises. It seems like the whole world is in front of your feet! And it remains to make it just a little better ...

Especially if a woman has a good figure. Let's face the truth. The fair sex in the eyes of men is not at all associated with the image of a lady in trousers and a jacket. Such a woman is perceived as "his". Yes, we all work in various companies, at enterprises, and almost everywhere there is a dress code. And often during working hours we see women in trousers, some incomprehensible pants and torn jeans. But work is work. And in your free time, keeping your legs closed all the time is somehow completely inappropriate. When an attractive woman walks in a skirt, no normal man will leave this moment without his attention. And, importantly, a properly selected skirt does not look vulgar. By the way, this also applies to short skirts.

A woman wants to be defenseless and fragile

When a man notices a woman in a skirt, he, so to speak, tunes in to her wave. I want to take care of her. Give a hand when getting off public transport. Open the door in front of her, entering the entrance. And, if the fair sex is carrying something heavy, take the bags and walk her home. This is an elementary psychological factor!

Do not forget about religious canons

Even not particularly religious people know perfectly well that no one will let a woman in pants into the temple. Only in a skirt! Of course, it should not be short, tight or transparent. But even in the Old Testament it is said that a woman should not appear before God in men's clothes. And so it has come to this day.

Doctors never tire of repeating: wearing tight pants leads to tremendous pressure on the pelvic organs. As a result, there can be serious health complications. Stagnation of blood in the pelvic area will not lead to anything good. Gynecologists sound the alarm! As soon as tight jeans came into fashion, the health of the female half of the population of our country deteriorated significantly. It only at first glance seems that the regular wearing of pants simply can not lead to anything bad. In fact, everything turns out differently. Moreover, many of the fair sex suffer seriously from an imbalance of female and male hormones. So, doctors understand why women wear skirts and try to wear pants as little as possible.

Comfort

If a man could wear loose shorts all year round, believe me, he would. Much the same applies to women. In skirts, beauties are really very comfortable. They feel fresh, relaxed, light. Feelings, of course, are incomparable with those periods when you have to put on pants. Especially when you have to sit in the office for 8-10 hours.
By the way, many of the fair sex refuse to wear skirts in time. In fact, skirts should be worn even when the thermometer outside the window shows below zero. A jacket or a good winter coat helps out. You can always wear thermal underwear. And with high winter boots, a girl in a skirt will look just great! And, by the way, if it gets hot in the office, you can always remove the extra layer of clothing from under the skirt.

When you walk in a beautiful skirt that also flutters in the wind, you become a real queen in the eyes of the male part of the population. The representatives of the stronger sex will not even notice anyone around you. Agree, if a girl feels beautiful, desirable, her mood rises on an intuitive level. The body is filled with strength, you become more confident in yourself. Why not feel all this, if not every day, but just as often as possible?

Any person has the right to choose what to wear and how to look. We think we have answered the question posed in the title of the article. And it doesn't even matter if others like you or not. The main thing is that you feel like a real Woman as often as possible, which, unfortunately, there are not so many left in the modern world. Do not be afraid to dress beautifully, brightly. Buy quality clothes, avoid things. And you will definitely be appreciated in a cultural society. There can be no doubt about this. Good luck and take care of yourself and your loved ones!

For almost 5 years I have only worn skirts and dresses. I came to this intuitively, not knowing anything about how important it really is for the female body and female nature.

It was autumn 2011. I, like most girls 25+, did not get out of jeans. I ran in them to work, went to visit, walked. These clothes were familiar and comfortable, and I was not going to change my wardrobe. And suddenly I felt that I was uncomfortable in jeans. The jeans were not new, they were loved, they were well worn, they were not pressed or rubbed anywhere ... The discomfort was not physical. They just began to fetter me on a more subtle level, interfere with me, and cause some kind of squeamish feeling.

Without hesitation, I bought myself a short woolen dress, and did not want to take it off all winter. Feeling myself in a dress pleasantly surprised me. I felt free, as if my body had been bound for a long time, and now I managed to untie it. Since then, my wardrobe has been completely renewed, and it no longer has a place for jeans and trousers, but it is full of skirts and dresses.

And you know, I am very glad that I switched to skirts, because it brought me tangible results in health and mental well-being. And also, in accepting yourself as a woman, so beautiful, fragile, flying and feminine ...

So the results:

Forgive me for being frank, but my cycle, which had not been established since my youth, became regular a few months after switching to skirts. And the severe pains that always accompany me these days, although they have not disappeared, have become significantly less.

It's a coincidence, some would say. I also allowed this thought until I got a job where it was customary to wear overalls - a shirt with trousers. In the first month of work, the cycle went astray. I left this job after 2 months, and the cycle was restored after another 2, which I again did not get out of the skirts.

My pregnancy (which began after 3 years of skirt life) proceeded easily and actively. I never found out what toxicosis and other "pregnant" ailments are. And at the same time, my husband and I visited 3 countries, and traveled a lot, 2 times dramatically changing the climatic zones. I walked a lot, and conquered the hills :), naturally in skirts.
The delivery was also quick and easy. 5 hours after the start of tangible contractions, I already held my baby in my arms.

I will make a reservation that easy pregnancy and childbirth is hardly the result of an exclusively “skirt life”. I consciously prepared for these processes both physically and psychologically (lifestyle, nutrition, yoga, swimming, books, courses, self-improvement). But, there is a feeling that this played an important role. During pregnancy, I was especially comfortable in a skirt, as opposed to the Indian harem pants that I wore to yoga classes.

Probably, skirts have only one minus - they are addictive 🙂

Ecology of Consciousness: Psychology. Skirts have become a point of change. The point of no return. A sweet experiment that turned my whole world upside down.

One of our responsibilities is to be a woman

The “pantsless vow” happened to me by accident, but this accident changed my life.

Foreword for skeptics:

In dresses and skirts I:

travel (trains, planes, cars, boats, and so on);
I play and walk with children - I run, jump, climb;
I ride a bike (albeit rarely);
doing housework;
I go in the hot season;

I go in the winter in frosts;
I walk during rains and slush;
go during pregnancy;
I even swim most often in bathing dresses;
I do everything other people do.

And I feel comfortable, comfortable, warm. In a skirt, in 2011, I climbed Mount Etna in Sicily, in a skirt (or rather in a sari) I performed parikrama around Govardhan (this is 23 km) and around Vrindavan (this is about 12 km), as well as about 3 years out of these six in total I lived in St. Petersburg - well, you understand what the weather is like there, especially in winter, spring, autumn and summer.
Yes, I also once believed that you would freeze and get dirty faster in a dress. But in practice, everything is different.

You can talk about this endlessly. But still.

But let me tell you all the same about what it gave me. Many are skeptical of all this, but in vain.

Skirts really change lives.But not by themselves and not directly. Not that she put on a skirt - and here you immediately have flowers, money, health, peace and harmony in the family. No.

They create certain conditions in which you yourself have to change. They force you to act differently and think differently. And if you give in and go further, you can find treasures. And just to put on a skirt and not change anything in yourself, continuing to carry heavy bags, rush about like a draft horse, expecting that everything will transform itself, is at least stupid.

In general, the chain for me personally turned out like this:

1. I stopped wearing pants and jeans. At all. They were not in the closet and still are not.

2. I had to change the pace and lifestyle (you can’t jump like that in a skirt, and there’s no need).

3. The terms of reference have also changed in a natural way.(you can no longer carry heavy bags, and your hands are often busy with the hem of your skirt and children).

4. Other people began to perceive me differently - including my husband (he, I remember, was in a slight shock).

5. I had to take care of myself more, dress up and so on - remember how it was, and re-learn.

6. The attitude towards oneself, the perception of oneself and everything else has changed (a natural consequence of taking care of oneself).

7. I began to hear and feel myself and my path better.- This is also a natural consequence of what is happening.

8. Only then did the husband begin to change. Not quickly, not immediately, periodically remembering the past. It's like a cherry on a cake - beautiful, pleasant, but not the main thing.

And yes, everything started to change.

In general, everything.

In many places - as if by itself.

And this is logical. After all, my husband and I had already been together for more than 6 years by that time, and he was used to me doing this and this myself, I don’t ask for help, I don’t ask for money for myself, I roll scandals, control, bargain “you to me, I to you” , manipulate, deceive in small things and so on.

And then all of a sudden, something changes.

Of course, there was resistance, distrust, a desire to return everything back. I also looked unusual, but he liked it, and it made my task easier.

WHY DOES IT WORK?

It is said that when a person follows his dharma, that is, his destiny, fulfills his duty, follows his own path, then much in his life develops easier, as if by itself. Higher powers help him in this.

Let's take a step back from whatone of our duties is to be a woman.

Not the only one, but significant.

It’s not just that we have a female body, which means that this has a deep meaning.

And what if you stop pretending that this is an absurd accident, and find it in yourself and try to reveal it? Maybe things have already changed in this place?

I felt it myself when I stopped resisting being born a woman and began to learn to fulfill my duties. It is better to fulfill one's duties imperfectly than to perfectly fulfill someone else's.

I still won’t be able to become a man in the end, although it’s easier for me to fulfill his functions.

But my task in this life is to learn to fulfill my feminine duties and learn to be a woman.

Why not try?

And when I became the one I was born in this world, that is, a woman, many problems were solved by themselves.

Automatically.

The same is true for me personally with travel. My nature is the nature of a wanderer and an emigrant, and as soon as I agreed with this and left a comfortable and convenient environment, going to where the unknown and terrible, I found everything that I dreamed of. And even more. But I won't digress. Let's get back to skirts.

Yes, some changes could be achieved in jeans (probably), but more difficult and longer. Maybe by refusing them partially, I would get the same thing. Don't know. If there were even one pair of jeans left in my closet, the experiment would have failed, because putting them on is always easier than figuring out what to choose from a huge closet. And then, I'm sure, and all the changes would not have happened. And here - there were no options. Everything happened.

By that time, I had already listened to lectures for a long time and forced myself to do a lot by force, without feeling any particular craving for this.

And although much has changed - knowledge cannot fail to work - I did not feel happiness inside, and I was still missing something important.

The joy of being a woman.

Skirts have become a point of change.

The point of no return.

A sweet experiment that turned my whole world upside down.

The experiment began with the fact that I was 28 years old, we lived as a family in St. Petersburg, we had two children, we did not travel, because my husband's activities required him to be in the city.

We had a loan car, we rented an apartment, all my things were placed on one shelf in the closet, I didn’t have any jewelry, except for a wedding ring and a pair of earrings.

I sat at home with the children, helped my husband, did not know what I wanted.

I tried to conduct some trainings, but it was too hard for me, especially the recruitment of the group.

It is possible to describe the “before” point for a long time. In short - a lot of stress, still difficult relationships, unpleasant relationships with yourself.

Today I am 34. I feel I look better and younger than 6 years ago. I already have four children. And the same husband, who reveals himself every year from a new side. Now we live in Bali. Two years already. But this does not mean that we spent all two years here.

We actively travel and come back here. This is where our daughter was born. My husband plans to buy me a new closet to accommodate my outfits. We have already published 7 books, and a dozen more are in the works - in different stages. My life is full of all kinds of surprises, but I like it.

Today we rent a house, rent a car - it's more convenient for us now, because we don't know where we want to be tomorrow. And we sold our favorite car in St. Petersburg a year ago for the same reason.

Today's life I like more.

WHAT HAS CHANGED?

During these six years, I gave birth to two more children. Although I am older, the pregnancies were easier, and the birth itself also turned out to be completely different. The fourth and at all were domestic. Coincidence?

The cycle has changed. Became constant, stable, painless. Before that, I never knew when it would start, and I always drank the first two days of the pill.

With my eldest two sons, after giving birth, my cycle was restored in 2-3 months - in my frantic rhythm of life. Now I have a year in reserve, or even a year and a half. Which is very nice and helpful.

The pregnancy itself came faster and easier, I remember how we expected our second son for a year and already began to worry about this topic. The third son came in a couple of months, the daughter - about the same. Without a strong obsession with this topic, despite the fact that I have become older and in theory it should take more time.

I treat myself differently, my body, my soul. More carefully. More neat. With more love and care. It’s already completely unpleasant for me to torment my body with some kind of fast food, rush, stress.

The emotional background is much more stable, without wild mood swings, PMS and others like it. My husband says I have become more adequate, well, he knows better. At the same time, I don’t suppress feelings, I live them all so as not to accumulate anything.

During these 6 years, my husband gave me as many flowers and jewelry as there were not even close in the previous 6 years. Ten times more. Or even twenty. Even during the courtship, there were not so many. It has become natural - to receive a gift for the holiday and just like that, to receive flowers for no reason.

I have learned a lot in these six years in the women's sphere, which was previously closed to me. For example, ask, accept help and compliments. She also mastered many women's arts and handicrafts. But I always considered myself an obvious hand-mmmmmm - how would it be more decent to say ...

Today, I don't really care what other people think of me. Finally, I can say that I live my life, and I will live it, even if someone does not like it. I no longer play the role of a good girl and do not try to please everyone. Yes, many do not like it, but that's okay.

The husband became the head of the family. Before, I only dreamed about it, while harassing us both with my claims to the throne. And nowI'm really protected . And our relationship only benefits from this.

I stopped working. Prior to that, I worked in the office, and together with my husband, I actively worked by the sweat of my brow. That is, I did what I didn’t like, but I have to do it because they pay for it. Or, according to the principle, I will do better so that the money remains in the family. In general, I was such a notable workaholic - to pile on work, affairs and then die from gravity. For the last six years, I've been doing just what I like. Everything else is done by other people. And it's an amazing feeling, let me tell you.

For six years now, I have practically not carried heavy bags. I don't go grocery shopping, for example. Once every few months I go to the store without anyone - and then I have to carry something, my dresses, for example. Although more and more often I take one of my older sons with me, and they help carry the bags. Of the burdens, I carry only children. And I think that's right.

I have learned to delegate. Not completely and not all. But very, very much. For my husband, our employees, and even at home, I have had a cleaning assistant for a year now. This greatly facilitates my life, leaving only pleasant and beloved duties - children, husband and food.

I am much more in time now, when I am not in a hurry and do not try to be in time. With four children, I do a lot more than I once did with two and even without children. And all this with virtually no stress.

Dream come true. Thank God, for the last five years I have been living the life I dreamed of. We traveled all together 52 countries, and this is not the final, it's just that now we like to live where we like, and not look for something new.

The husband began to earn more. This is a consequence of the fact that he became the head of the family. A consequence of the fact that I stopped to prove something to him. We have become a team chief - he .

I had real close-spirited friends, and “family” friends appeared, which we had only dreamed of before.

And I got readers. After all, these are two different facts - you can write to nowhere, but here are real grateful readers. More precisely, readers, I have them special. The best.

It was during these six years that I became a writer. When I talked about this as a child, many laughed, and no one believed. Even I didn't believe it. And now I hold my eighth published book in my hands, and cry with delight. How beautiful she is!

Interestingly, the Lord also actively manifested itself in my life after changing my wardrobe. And the need suddenly appeared, and He immediately responded to it. And trips to the Holy places began, amazing meetings that have no number, and many, many big and small miracles. And it all started with a skirt.

This is not all. I can talk about it day and night. What else to add? Plus two children, a beloved and loving husband, 52 countries with the whole family, 7 books and about ten more in the work at different stages, many wonderful readers, there are enough unfortunate haters who write stories about me (nowhere without them). And much more love, harmony and happiness.

Is it only the skirts that are to blame? No.

But skirts were the first important step in this chain. And without them, I am sure, much would not have happened.

Therefore, if you think it's worth it or not, make up your mind.

It's worth it, definitely.

Not as fast as you want, maybe not even in the form you dreamed of, but life will definitely change.

Step by step, along with how you yourself will change. published