What does a charming and attractive woman mean. Charming woman. Secrets of seduction. Charming girl through the eyes of men
24.10.2017 07:42:29
The one who can think in images. Who daily works on his Charm. The one who learns to delight men, and at the same time uses ALL the methods from the arsenal of charming ladies.
And today, with specific examples, you will see how you can get used to the image of the "Delightful Queen" and start receiving honors and gifts from men :).
We received a lot of letters from the last issue. Today we will analyze only the most constructive.
Alena, in a discussion for cadets in the VKontakte group, described her experience of charming men. And she came to some interesting conclusions:
"Girls, Oksanochka, autumn, sunny hello to everyone :)
I have an epiphany! Reading issue #196 in the mailing archive this morning, my mistakes flashed through my mind! I sat and wrote out things that were important to me.
I quote:
"...Unconscious Images. A woman on the third level has a three-dimensional image of a man, which consists of several sub-Images. For example, when she approaches the door, an image of a caring man appears in her subconscious mind on autopilot. And a man immediately appears next to her, who open the door for her.When she is relaxing with a man, the image of a cheerful and interesting man appears on autopilot in her subconscious. And the man who is next to her begins to tell her something, amuses her, and so on.
When she talks to a man, the image of a male teacher appears on autopilot in her subconscious, who will now teach her something. And she begins to behave like an excellent student who asks a lot of questions, and even asks again where she knows, since there is always the opportunity to clarify something and discover new facets of this topic.
Do you know how such a woman behaves in dealing with a man? She looks just like a student next to a wise professor. She also asks questions with respect and deep interest. From such behavior of a woman, a man is very much excited for deep and serious communication with her ... "
I had a breakthrough in thinking that this is the place! Where subimages are important to create! I felt it! Reading, I saw my mistakes.
I saw why in the past it did not work out the way I needed ... And here it is happiness - there were no automatically created sub-images and images.
I remembered my summer practice at sea :). When I turned on the wise teacher when talking with a man, this image stuck in me. And then earlier, as described in the article: "I'm all so important and well-read, and you're a fool" :)
Yes that's right. When a woman has such an illiterate approach to charm, a man does not want to talk to her. He does not want to be interested in her and make a second date ...
"... Yesterday I asked a man a question (so that he would clarify something to me), so that there was a clarification in the relationship. I came up with the question on the go. And immediately everything fell into place. It became clear what he wants.
And another asked the same question. And he decided everything himself :) Very nice.
Recently thought out the way I need, so that the man himself wants to take me home. It all happened :)
I realized that you can create your Image with sub-images. What I learned and am learning in the DAO course.
For example, to make me perceived as a beauty and younger than my years. And yesterday, sitting with my daughter and talking with her friend, she told me that I am a gorgeous woman and look beyond my age. And I felt that I looked younger and felt like a wise, feminine woman. It all happened!
URRRA :) That's the point, finally :)
Oksanochka, there are no words to express my special gratitude :)
Oh, I remembered, I also wanted to add. My washing machine broke down, I gave it in for repair the day I read the articles. She should have been brought. And I printed out a photo of the Queen, and glued my face there, hung it in a prominent place:) Do you know what happened?
The men who brought my typewriter began to behave strangely, they tried to please me, wiped the floor themselves, where water leaked out of the typewriter a little ... In general, I was in a slight shock and delighted with their behavior :). I was pleased to see this.
All good mood, success and good luck in everything!"
Alyona.
Alena, congratulations! After reading my article, you independently mastered the method of Konstantin Stanislavsky, and got used to the image of the "real Queen" - a delightful and Charming woman, who also looks younger than her years.
The genius of Stanislavsky lies in the fact that he taught artists not to show, but to correctly get used to the image. That is why the work of this great director, who formed the system of performing arts, is still very famous all over the world.
Do you know why in the theater often 13-year-old Juliet is played by 40-year-old actresses? Because they know how to get used to the image better. Because they have developed abilities, skills and abilities. Because they know how to think in three-dimensional images, and LIVE them qualitatively.
That is why they fall in love with the best men in packs! Only real Queens of Charm deserve the best suitors and all the best in this world. And any woman can become such a Queen. Of course, if he works in this area. But with this, unfortunately, the problem ...
Alena, you were able to realize from your own experience what kind of art it is and how you can use it to your advantage :). But, unfortunately, not all readers realize that It is IMPORTANT not only to read, but also to learn. Many still write letters to me complaining about men, and they are waiting for a miracle recipe from me, a magic pill, how to get him back, to fall in love with himself, how to become the only one for him ...
And there is no such pill! There is only your daily work on the development and transformation of your personality. But, I repeat, only a few do it. And it is these units that achieve stunning results in life.
Yes, by the way, you can go to see the discussions in our VKontakte group: the most active participants who constantly write about their work and findings - and get the highest results.
Those who constantly study and work on themselves - success awaits!
And the rest ... So they will write letters to me with complaints.
Why am I so confident about this?
Because I have been working with women for the thirteenth year, and I have known everything about you for a long time;). The best men are fascinated only by the most active, who work hard on themselves at the rate "DAO: The Way of a Woman".
Even those who complete 50% of the course assignments for the "troika" marry well. Even they are lucky to marry a lawyer, a surgeon or an entrepreneur.
And only those who hope for a miracle and do nothing - continue to hope. And periodically suffer from their hopes ...
This is my many years of experience with you. And it's constantly confirmed:
"Warm hello, wise Oksana :)
I am writing a semi-annual report on my work, and what results and heights I have achieved in these two years, when I received additional materials for the course for the first time.In practice, I shared in VK all these 2 years, and I gradually moved towards myself, towards the constant improvement of myself and my life (there was a strong desire to change), and to be that ideal for myself. The one I dreamed about all my life, about which men dream!
And most importantly, I sought to acquire creative thinking in order to solve my problems effectively and creatively approach any issue. My life has not changed in the past, because my outlook, thinking and my character have not changed...
In 2001 I was diagnosed with an incurable disease. But I did not agree with this and fought to the end, and this "to the end" gave impetus to your course. By working through, reveal the root, find the cause, and most importantly, be aware. A hostess who owns her thoughts, emotions, actions ... It is important to understand that everything depends only on me. I learned to listen to my Soul, and set the task: to cleanse myself of all the negativity in the Soul and merge with it together.
I learned to see the positive in everything, build my own business and find the positive in the bosses :)
For example, the situation at sea. My director wanted to replace me, I immediately found a way out. I got a lot of numbers from other cities, and the Owner of the Guest House was not opposed if I worked for him and found clients (I also had such an opportunity). In a word, I learned to see the positive and see the possibilities.
And then, I remembered my old image, where I cursed and was afraid of the bosses! I replaced it! And in the evening we talked so nicely. And I easily and effortlessly did what I needed. Here I also saw the weight of energy-information channels. Moreover, I felt it, how they act ... "
I prefer the scientific approach. And here you can find an explanation why the cadet managed to improve relations with her boss. The reason is in the non-verbal signals that she sent him. You can study the work of psychology professor Albert Meyerabian or anthropology professor Ray Birdwistel.
She was afraid and disliked the boss, and from time to time, without even realizing it, she sent him deadly signs: "Don't hurt me - I'll bite you!" So he wanted to get rid of her. Having changed the image of a "bad boss" to a "good" one, the woman began to send him other signals, which made him relax next to her and began to talk nicely :)
Although, energy information channels also explain this well :)
"... Over the years of working on myself, I saw many reasons why I did not have relationships and harmony with myself, with men, with relatives and people around me.
A lot of work, reprogramming gave the first impetus and a breakthrough in thinking. Then there was a second push, when I realized that:
1. Self-dislike, low self-esteem, strong guilt, neurosis.
2. Hatred of men, the need for love, and old patterns of behavior ... This is all the fate of the mother, her power and pressure. They did not let me move, be confident and successful.
3. Having reviewed my script, I also saw my games (to be honest, even now there are a lot of images stuffed and I see destructive scenarios that give an understanding that there is something to work on)
I try to see the discomfort, feel it, or question my image. I change it or communicate with my subconscious, and change the image already with it.
This year, for the first time, I flew alone, to the sea, for three whole months. I saw how fear arose out of nowhere. She began to understand, and revealed that she was afraid to become impoverished here alone ... It seems like a punishment for leaving alone from her relatives.
So I understood the connection, and began to work with him on the course, asking the Universe to learn how to replace negative Images with positive ones. This is the second round after reprogramming.
In the evening after a hard day, I was just happy, and said to myself: "God, I'm so happy!" And indeed these words are very impressive for me, I felt their meaning. I am bastard that I learned to solve my problems alone, and no one could hang my opinion next to me.
Yes, I became an enviable bride. But then I saw that I had a problem, an imbalance of the subconscious and consciousness. Rereading the mailings, reading assignments every day, I found the reasons why I am still not married. There are several of them:
1. The experience of my parents is deplorable.
2. I tried to become attached to the man I liked, and tightly. Why, where is it from?
3. I don’t need a husband now and only now, but I suffered from the fact that I was not next to him. It turns out that it was necessary to suffer for someone, which means it’s profitable :) And I’m working here now :)
4. And the most important reason. Two years have passed, and I'm still not with a man, and the strongest desire to get married also destroys everything in the bud ...
You know, Oksanochka, it's not just going to the store and choosing a new and beautiful dress. You write correctly, here you need a voluminous Image of yourself and your man.
I became lucky.
Yesterday I chose a mirror for myself. And today I thought, who would go to the store with me in a car! And so, sitting with my mother and talking, I say this, and she answered me: "Now we will go to that store with my grandfather" :) Oh luck, and I saw that my desires began to be easily and simply fulfilled :) It's so it is very shocking that I really am the MISTRESS of my destiny! .. "
I think it is worth explaining the situation in more detail.
When a person is in the "loser" scenario, he has a conviction in his Subconscious: “I can’t do anything, and everything is given by hard work.”
Such a person is limited and notorious. He can't just say to the people around him: "I have such and such a problem - I am looking for a simple and profitable solution for myself." He's holding himself back! And he solves all his problems himself. Long, tedious, difficult, and often unsuccessful.
When a person comes out of the "loser" scenario, they communicate easily and naturally. He talks freely about what he needs. And does not limit the possibilities of this world.
When our cadets leave the script, they often write to me:
"Oksana, my hairdresser introduced me to a cool business client!"
"I went to the spa while I was sitting, waiting for my turn - talking to a woman. It turned out that her husband needed a manager. So I found myself the job of my dreams!"
"I complained to one friend that there was not enough money to open a new project. And today some acquaintance of this friend called and offered a joint beneficial cooperation!"
"I went to a reunion of graduates, flirted with everyone :) And my classmates invited me to kebabs. So I found the best man in the city as my fiancé!"
Why not? Why can't things be so easy?
Because your destructive scenario does not give you the opportunity to even BELIEVE THAT IT HAPPENS!
It is important to understand that luck and success in life are not mystical emanations that descend on special people. It's just the ability to ALLOW yourself to solve problems easily, playfully and creatively. This is what the cadet tried to explain in the report above. But only those who try to do the same with their lives can understand this thought.
ALLOW yourself for more! And you will definitely get more. Read the mailing lists and articles on our blog, write out tasks - work on them!
And if you are already doing something and have results, join us for a course. We love active people who WORK on themselves and write cool reports :)
"... At sea, I understood a lot, I prescribed the image of myself, men, relationships, I still need to refine it. But the fact that men of a different level began to interest me, and the realization that I can attract men who are rich in everything, successful and even very beautiful and well-groomed.But before I was afraid of them, and thought: well, it's not about me.
I began to ask impudent questions and set intentions: How to attract only the best men so that they start giving expensive gifts in the form of cars, yachts, jewelry?
The answers are very simple: create an intention, your image of a happy, feminine Woman. Develop your abilities and talents. Be interesting to yourself, love and respect yourself first of all. Appreciate that part of your personality that makes men go crazy, fascinated and call you to get married right away! .. "
Alena, these "arrogant" questions of yours are, in fact, your opportunity to ALLOW yourself more. Do not hesitate, work on yourself - and everything will work out for you!
"...Relationships with family, it's also so intriguing. My daughter began to earn money with two small children, and I learned not to put her in the first place. She changes with me, and I see that she listens, and I bring her hundreds arguments about money, and give examples.It makes me very happy and my future generation:)
We have become so warm and friendly relations, again, I only dreamed of such a relationship. I set a goal for myself to be an authority for my daughter, granddaughters and mother.
Of course, a clear plan, images, constant awareness - yes, a lot of things to constantly improve yourself and your life.
Once, one day at sea, I felt right in my soul that the best thing in my life is men. And unimaginable things happened!
For example, they tried to talk to me, gave small gifts. My clients invited me to dinner. They were gallant, I saw their serious and grateful attitude towards me. I saw admiration and charm in their eyes, their interest in me. I realized that they are pleased, and they enjoy the fact that even next to me. The most beautiful thing is to feel and realize everything!
And when they told me: "Alena - you are the aerobatics of femininity!" It was doubly pleasant. And my enthusiasm literally lit a fire in their hearts!
A lot, Oksanchoka, gives your course and work on yourself. The main thing is to move - you constantly teach this, DO NOT STOP!
Deep gratitude for your work, and the fact that you are not just a woman, but you are so wise and teach us such efficiency, where a woman went her own feminine way and solved her tasks just like a WOMAN!
Low bow, deepest gratitude and respect!"
With respect and love, Alena.
Charming women are always loved by men. They easily win new gentlemen and make friends. With a charming person, everyone wants to talk, dance, spend an evening, a day, life in the end. In the business world, they successfully negotiate, sell goods, conclude lucrative contracts, and easily move up the career ladder.
What is called charm? This is the ability to please everyone, attractiveness, charm, charm. Who is this charming person? The one that is able to make you admire yourself, become an icon, the most devoted interlocutor and a role model.
Learning to be charming is easy. The authors of this book are convinced "The power of charm. How to win hearts and achieve success" Brian Tracy and Ron Arden. Tracy is one of the most famous business lecturers in the United States, a top professional and personal development professional, and the author of dozens of bestsellers, while Arden is one of the world's leading speech coaches.
Coaches say that to become a charming woman, you need to give yourself the installation that you will be like that for everyone. You will remain kind and understanding no matter what happens. You will not skimp on smiles and praise. And you will be a very attentive and interesting interlocutor. And what is very important - you will put the interlocutor in the first place. According to the authors of the publication, putting the personality of the other above your own, you will eventually find yourself ahead.
Below - Basic Rules , performing which, you will become charming, which means that you will be loved and in demand by many.
1. Talking with an interlocutor, look him straight in the eyes, but not longer than 75-85% of the time of his speech, otherwise it will be intrusive. At the same time, do not scatter your eyes around the room.
2. Move your eyes correctly on the interlocutor - do it unobtrusively. First look at one eye, then at the other and look at the lips.
3. When you are listening to the interlocutor, bow your head right or left, this will signal your interest in the conversation. When speaking, keep your head straight.
4. Listening to the interlocutor, do head nods: they will signal that you are listening to him carefully and are favorable to him.
5. During a conversation, turn to the interlocutor, bend over involuntarily to him, look from one eye to another, then to the lips. If you are sitting with your legs crossed, make sure that the upper leg and knee are turned towards the interlocutor. If you are standing, do not encroach on the interlocutor's personal space. Look him in the face.
6. Keep track your body language- do not cross your arms on your chest, do not slide down the chair, do not turn away from the interlocutor, do not gesticulate strongly, do not cross your legs so that the upper leg and knee are turned in the opposite direction from the interlocutor. If you notice all these signals from outsiders in relation to yourself, then draw conclusions - people unconsciously talk about their disinterest in you.
7. Publish in conversation encouraging sounds- “uh-huh”, “ah”, “mmm”. Combine them with head nods and eye contact.
8. Apply verbal encouragement during conversation. They can be the words of the phrase “really?”, “Understood”, “well, if so”, “absolutely agree with you”, “undoubtedly”, and so on. They are great at filling in gaps in conversation.
9. Without interrupting, listen to the interlocutor, but do not rush to give advice until you are asked to. Often the interlocutor just needs to talk.
10. Don't forget to smile- it always has.
11. Don't be stingy with praise- the more often you sincerely praise a person, the more charming you will look in his eyes.
13. Make sure your the speech was not monotonous, lower or raise your voice, for others it should flow like a song.
14. If the conversation is unpleasant or boring for you, gently try send him to another, "near-dark" channel, deviating it from the original topic by 30%.
15. Manage the conversation- ask questions to the interlocutor, talk about what he is interested in.
16. Always get ready to talk in advance. The more you know about the person, the more comfortable it will be for you to manage the conversation. There are three questions, asking which to your new acquaintances, you will be in control of the situation: “What do you do?”, “Why did you choose this particular profession?” and “Could you tell me more about it?” This list can be supplemented with others - “What did you do then?”, “What did you feel then?”, “What happened then?”. Hearing them, your new interlocutor will be fascinated by you.
17. During a conversation, the main thing is not you, but the interlocutor. Forget about yourself and completely get carried away with the interlocutor. Let him feel his importance.
18. If you want to be a charming person, do not bring the conversation to the point where it becomes unpleasant, and you foam at the mouth will prove your case. Express your point of view gently, carefully, correctly and ... stop there. Everyone will understand your position and your point of view. At any cost avoid conflict, otherwise you will destroy the good impression that you have created before. Engage in conversation when asked to do so or when you are given to understand that your opinion will be important and valuable. According to Tracey and Arden, when you take the lead in a conversation, you are actually losing.
19. Tune in to the wave interlocutor, become his mirror image - use the same words as him, the same gestures. Then the person will be disposed towards you and begin to understand that you have a lot in common and you are a charmer.
20. All these skills are needed work to automatism- to start with family members and friends. Use them at every opportunity, with each new "training" experience and self-confidence will come to you.
21. Treat every interlocutor as if very important person when people see and feel it, they will immediately consider you a charming person.
22. 24 hours a day, tell yourself that you are a charming person, and behave the same way. Be charming here and now, no "tomorrow" and "next time".
Charm is a force no less terrible than beauty. A charming person is like a magnet: you are drawn to him, you drown in his eyes, you strive to communicate with him, you remember him with a smile, it’s good to be around him, especially when he laughs. Charm is difficult to define or measure. A charming person is not just endearing, not just lively and cheerful, not just pretty.
One girl can be very beautiful, wear the most stylish clothes, have impeccable hair and makeup, and generally be perfectly well-groomed, but... For some reason, all the guys, like flies to honey, flock to another girl who is obviously inferior to her appearance, in which, perhaps a dim face, gray hair and a less than ideal figure. Why is this happening?
We have already said that beauty itself is only one of the ingredients of a cocktail called " this girl is crazy!". Beauty can be dry, cold and even unattractive if the girl forgets about grooming, sexuality, if she has not a drop of charm, or if she is simply stupid or has a bad temper.
Just a charming girl with an ordinary appearance will have more admirers than just a beautiful one, if beauty is her only strong point. But if a girl has all these qualities - if she is at the same time beautiful, well-groomed, sexy and charming - this is just a bomb.
If there is such a desire, attractiveness can be trained, if it is not given by nature, and if it is given, it can be improved. We can , . And in the future, I will write more than once on this topic, because, whatever one may say, girls at all times have strived to become even better and more attractive.
Charm as a component of attractiveness is also trained, but this is already a more difficult task than the above. Someone is given charm from birth, someone makes an effort to acquire this trait, someone takes other qualities, and someone just lives and gets discouraged about why no one pays attention to him.
The perception of charm is individual to a much lesser extent than the perception of beauty. I will now give examples from the cinema, because most of these people know. For example, Zac Efron: someone will call him handsome, someone - too cute, someone - "nothing special." But if you watch films with him, you will feel his charm, and these are only films.
Richard Gere, Brad Pitt, Orlando Bloom, Channing Tatum are also here - men who are far from being called handsome by everyone (everyone has different tastes), but who are very, very charming, and this is also why they are so popular and in demand. And there are generally objectively terrible men, but there is no escape from their charm.
If we talk about women - this is Julia Roberts, Cameron Diaz, Drew Barrymore ... Or a very vivid example - our Irina Muravyova, because many men liked her.
An example of charm + sexuality in one woman for me is Marilyn Monroe. Her natural appearance in itself is quite ordinary, but it was with this appearance, before plastic surgery and before repainting, that she took the millionaire who so influenced her life with charm. When I see her in the movies (not in photoshopped photos, but in the movies!), I have no doubts that she is amazingly beautiful. And this image for her is created by her charm, femininity, sexuality. Oh, and make-up
But now it's not about beauty, not about other people. The point is that no matter what appearance you have, charm alone can make you a real beauty in the eyes of others, can attract people to you, can make your life brighter. Do you want it?
Then a legitimate question: How do you know if you're attractive yourself? Many girls ask this question. I'm sociable, so charming? Not necessary. I'm cute, so charming? Not necessary. I'm a laugher, so charming? Not necessary. If I'm cute, smile a lot and flirt, then I'm charming? Not necessary.
As a rule, charming people are aware of their power over others. Therefore, in most cases, if you are charming, you already know about it. You already understand what actions, gestures, facial expressions, looks, words contribute to your attraction. And use it when you see fit. So the first and obvious answer is if you are charming, then you are aware of this.
Of course, there are those people who are not aware of their charm (there are those who are aware, but deny it, but there are those who really do not realize). Then the answer is to analyze your surroundings. If people are drawn to you just to talk, if they are easy and comfortable with you, if they laugh when you laugh, if they always listen to you without interrupting, if they are looking for your company, most likely you are charming.
But did this theory help you? Wouldn't it be better to train and gain confidence in your charm, so as not to ask this question, but to know for sure? About what charm is and how to become charming - in the next post, otherwise this one is already too long)
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next postMany people are surprised by the fact that a beautiful and spectacular woman does not receive the attention that it would seem should be given to her. But a woman of not very attractive or ordinary appearance enjoys great success with the surrounding men. The secret of such women is in the power of their charm. Plump, short, with non-model features - men really like them, and their seemingly shortcomings suddenly turn into undeniable advantages in the eyes of the strong half. And on the contrary, a woman with a magnificent figure, with classic features, but without much charm and charm, repels men from herself with arrogance and coldness.
It is very difficult to characterize what female charm is, since each person perceives it in his own way. Most men believe that a charming woman is one who behaves naturally and easily, often smiles and seems very cheerful. In a society with such a lady, men feel relaxed and free, because they do not get hung up on how to show themselves from the best side. With them, there are interesting topics for conversation without any problems, and after half an hour of such an acquaintance, you get the feeling that you have already known this person all your life, so you want to meet and talk again.
There is an opinion that charm is a certain set of spiritual qualities of a person, such as tenderness, sensitivity, optimism, friendliness and politeness. Therefore, a charming woman differs from other representatives of the weaker sex in that she is friendly and friendly with everyone, regardless of their position in society and financial condition. There is never a dull moment in her company.
Unfortunately, few women have natural charm, because this is not a person's mood, but a state of mind. But still, you should not be upset, because you can try to learn charm.
How to increase female charm
Work on your appearance. If you want to be a charming woman, then you must look neat and fashionable enough. In the wardrobe, you should have several options for clothing for different occasions. Visit a stylist and hairdresser, choose the right image for yourself.
Men pay a lot of attention gait women. The secrets of seducing a charming woman are that shoes should not only be comfortable, but also properly matched to your feet. Regardless of whether the legs are full or slender, it is important to choose shoes that visually lengthen them. It is also necessary that the gait is as smooth as possible. While walking, it is better for a woman to lean on her fingers, and not on her heels. You can achieve this effect thanks to high heels. Getting used to such shoes, you will eventually begin to feel very confident under the gaze of men.
The position in which a charming woman sits is also of considerable importance for men. The knees should be connected and the feet turned to the side. Of course, you can also cross your legs, due to which your knees and feet will open up.
In most cases, women use cosmetics, but many do just fine without it. It is worth remembering that not only additional beauty products can make your face brighter, but its very expression often says a lot. After all, it is facial expressions that give an idea of \u200b\u200byou to those around you. It is important to work on yourself in order to please men.
The main decoration of the face is smile so smile as often as possible. Then it will seem to others that you are very kind. People who are not sure about the beauty of their teeth or lips can get by with a half smile.
Many men like beautiful and long female hair. If nature has deprived you of chic hair, you can use a chignon or a wig. Also in such a situation, a beautiful headdress will help. And for those who still want to please everyone with their natural hair, it is important to keep them clean.
Learn how to properly communicate with men. Teach yourself in a way that arouses genuine interest. People around you should want to know as much as possible about you. Do not talk incessantly, be able to listen to the interlocutor. Try to show him your beautiful smile more often. Also, a woman, of course, must always remember her sexual education. It is necessary to conduct a love game correctly, making any man forget about everything around.
These simple tips will help you improve your feminine charm. Good luck!
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The attractiveness of a woman does not depend on her appearance at all. If a woman is charming and attractive, she has individuality and style, those around her will feel it from the very first seconds.
A charming woman always thinks about the mood of other people, and her attractiveness is based on a developed ability to empathize and good manners.
Charm is perhaps the most necessary thing in life. Without it, it is very difficult to find an interesting job, true friends, true love.
At the same time, charming people do not even realize how exactly they manage to charm, because for them it is as natural as, for example, breathing.
Do not think that the ability to please is an exclusively innate quality. This can be learned!
It is very easy to make people around you always happy to see you. And remember, charm is not a wig that is worn only during the day, but at night, when no one sees, they are removed.
A truly charming and attractive woman remains so everywhere and always.
Charm is a mindset, and like any other skill, it only improves in one way - practice.
Here are a few basic rules, thanks to which you will become a girl who is pleasant in every way.
- Friendly facial expression
Smiling is the shortest path to attractiveness. People are able to perceive a smile at a distance of 30 meters, moreover, this is a signal that cannot be ignored: you will definitely smile back.
Therefore, smile more, and you will see how others will change their attitude towards you.
- First impression
Remember: the first impression is a snapshot that your new acquaintances will take with them. Your future relationship with new acquaintances depends on how you will look at the first meeting - friendly and pleasant in communication, or gloomy and unsmiling.
Some friendly people often come across as clumsy and a bit ridiculous, and some very modest people are perceived as arrogant and rude.
Others often misperceive our behavior, and this should always be borne in mind.
You shouldn't pretend - the fake is still visible, but perhaps it is thanks to a little slyness that your girlfriend is more often invited to parties than you.
And you, unable to cope with your shyness, sit out in the kitchen, instead of communicating with the guests.
- calm strength
Watch the Oscars and pay attention to how celebrities move. They enter, pause, and let the audience look at themselves like they're a sip of water in the heat. They don't demand attention - they expect it.
This is the calm strength that you need to develop in yourself.
Watch also how they speak. They rarely interrupt their interlocutors, because they are sure that they will have time to say their word - after all, everyone around will probably want to hear what they have to say.
- Create a base for communication
All these conversations on seemingly meaningless topics - like the weather and terrible traffic jams - are very important when communicating with new people.
When you ask a stranger how he is doing, you will find it strange if he or she suddenly says: "My husband left me for my girlfriend."
First you need to create a base for communication, and only then it will be possible to move on to more personal topics.
- Don't be afraid to ask for help
Women often think that when they ask, they look pathetic, or that their requests are a real inconvenience to others.
But, if you never ask anyone for help, then you won’t be able to establish close and trusting relationships with the people around you either.
So take a chance and ask someone to help you, and you will see - you both will enjoy it.
Five "not" that a charming and attractive woman should know
1. Never bypass anyone with your attention. "All included" is the motto of a truly charming woman.
2. Never joke about how much someone you know makes. This is tactless. Never joke about how much someone you know makes. This is tactless.
3. Pretend not to notice if someone spilled something or mispronounced a word. Ignore such trifles - and you will earn the love of others.
4. Never confuse charm with sexy. Charm is something that you can use in communication with your uncle, and leave the rest to his wife.
5. Never use a charm as a trade item. If you want to be attractive - always be so. Your charm will open any doors for you and make it easier for you to communicate with people, but using it as a "courtesy for a courtesy" is a bad form.
