Even the most daring young people are sometimes lost if the moment comes to communicate with the girl they like. What about the first date...

While getting ready, the guy plays a million scenarios in his head, mentally developing the conversation, trying to make the young lady laugh and interest. However, very often, at the sight of a beautiful creature, all smart thoughts and planned phrases immediately disappear, and an absolute vacuum reigns in the head.

Of course, both guys and girls want to avoid awkward pauses in communication, be it the first, second, fifth date, telephone conversation or correspondence. To avoid such sensitive situations, we have prepared some interesting questions. Of course, each conversation is unique, and there is no need to copy these same questions, but they can serve as an excellent guide for you when communicating.

With the help of suggestive sentences, you can develop an entertaining conversation, thereby showing your resourcefulness, humor and interest in a girl. At the same time, you can learn more about her, her hobbies, goals and outlook on life. So, let's begin.

Hobbies

Young people are much more interested in spending their leisure time if they have similar hobbies. Of course, this should be asked on the first date. You can do it in direct form:

• Do you have a hobby? Which?

If you do any of the sports, go to the gym, draw well, whatever, be sure to ask what your young lady thinks about such a hobby:

• Do you like sport? Which? How about bodybuilding?
• Do you mind being a fashion model for me? Your beauty is inspiring.
• How do you feel about photography?
• You are so beautiful, I want to draw you. You do not mind?
• Do you want to learn how to play the guitar/flamenco dance?
• How do you prefer to spend your leisure time?
• How about an active holiday?
• What attracts you more: a beach holiday or a tour of the most beautiful cities in the world?
• Have you already thought about how you will spend the summer / new year?
• Could you visit a nude beach?
• Imagine the perfect vacation. What is he?

Purpose in life

All young people, both boys and girls, at the first meeting pay attention to appearance and image. If you decide for yourself that a girl with a face and figure is all right, ask about her goals in life. Surely you will be interested to know that the fragile blue-eyed creature is studying to be a surgeon, and the liberated shirt-guy will soon defend his PhD in the study of the stock market. Your surprise will be huge when the young lady opens the cards about life plans.

• What are your plans?
• Where are you studying?
• Tell me about your profession.
• Do you like to plan (day, week, vacation, budget, career)?
• Describe yourself in 5/10 years.
• What is the most important thing in life for you?
• In which industry do you want to develop yourself?

There is nothing sweeter for a person than hearing his own name. When asking a question, address the girl by her first name.

• Anya, what is more important for you - career or family?
• Ivanka, have you ever had a desire to become famous?
• Vika, do you have a dream?
• Are you more of a realist or a dreamer?

Ask about the qualities of a girl

By asking questions about a girl's character traits, you will not only be able to learn about her, you will also be able to assess her objectivity and conceit.

• Rate your adequacy on a ten-point scale.
• What kind of kid/teenager were you? Hooligan or good girl?
• Could you now pack your things and leave with your beloved to the ends of the world?
• How do you find out about the events taking place in the world?
• What role has your education played in your career?
• Do you love making decisions?
• Do you often do crazy things?
• Which of your achievements can you say is the most ambitious?
• How do you deal with failure?
• How much comfort do you need?
• What gives you more pleasure - receiving or giving gifts?
• Describe the perfect guy.
• Are you hard to get out of yourself?
• Are you a self-confident person?
• What is happiness for you?
• Do you like extreme entertainment?
• What is your most significant difference from others?
• Tell me about your weaknesses. What are they?
• What will you not give up under any circumstances?

Questions about intimacy

Perhaps, for a first date, such questions will be too frank, and your lady may think that next to her, if not a maniac, then certainly some kind of pervert. Of course, the cases are different, and many girls are ready to become generous after the first date.

We will say for sure: if you have already had a pleasant conversation, and you understand that such things will not scare or spoil the girl’s opinion of you, juicy questions can be very helpful.

We offer interesting options.

• Can you take me into your captivity?
• What thoughts visit you during sex?
• I heard rude women are very passionate in bed. This is true?
• Do you cover yourself with a blanket in the heat, or do you sleep naked?
• What are you wearing now?
• When are you most passionate: during the day, in the morning, in the evening or at night?
• Where would you like to make love?
• Do you like being teased?

Oh, I love all sorts of questionnaires and questionnaires! :)

Do you have tattoos or piercings? No, the ears are pierced - it probably doesn't count.
Apple juice or orange juice? Tea or coffee? Coca Cola or Pepsi? Apple, tea, cola.
Football or basketball? Footbooooool!
Macrame or origami? Oh. I am far from everything, but at least I know how to macrame. Let macrame.
Are all people really created equal? Of course not. They are initially different in position, wealth, skin color, etc. And they will never be equal.
Do you collect anything? Well, how can I say .. Anniversary coins fit?
You're a night owl or an early bird? Lark.
Optimist or pessimist? Optimist! :))
Right-handed or left-handed? Right-handed.
Are you spontaneous or do you have everything planned out? I'm a terribly passionate planner and list maker!
Are your parents happy with each other? They are not with each other.
What was the best concert in your life? Olga Arefieva, presentation of the Aviator album.
Can you speak with any accent? I can say something, but how it turns out is the question. :))
Do you believe in aliens or in life on other planets? YES YES YES!
Do you believe in Santa Claus? No, of course, I'm already a big girl :)
Do you believe in ghosts? I do not know, but I would like to know for sure that they are not.
Do you believe in true love? Well, of course.
Do you have a purpose or calling in life? Well, it's not really a big goal. There are many small current goals. Well, about the vocation is somehow too loud ...
Do you have hidden talents? How do I know they are hidden. And here! I'm good, it turns out, I can sculpt Smeshariki from plasticine. All.
Do you have "pet peeves" that should not be stepped on? Yes, I'm a pretty simple girl, no quirks. :)
Do you have phobias? Yes.
Do you have scars? I always burn myself on irons and ovens. Traces remain for several years. And there are no serious ones.
Do you like children? Have you ever tried them? What do they taste like? They smell like honey. :))
Do you like to dance? Not good.
Do you have a camera? Do you like taking pictures? I have a camera, I don’t like taking pictures and being photographed.
Have you ever been arrested? Nope, life is wasted.
What do you like for breakfast? I love the full set breakfast. But at home I drink tea with bread, cheese, sausage ...
Have you ever been written about in the papers? Yeah, in the institute newspaper they printed a photo that I had a red diploma. :)))
Have you ever gone skinny dipping? Maybe. In the pool, yes, but it's unlikely.
Do you often deceive other people? We are petty time all the time, it is impossible to say what you think all the time.
Have you ever met a celebrity? Well, yes, at airports, for example, I saw it.
Have you won the lottery? Toaster.
How do you find out about the news? On the main page of mail.ru or in contact.
What is your relationship with your parents? We are far enough apart.
How many pairs of shoes do you have? Not as much as we would like.
How much time do you spend on classmates, contact and twitter? Contact - a couple of times a day, I don’t go to the rest.
How often do you watch TV? What shows do you like? I use the TV only to watch movies from disks or a flash drive. I don't watch TV myself.
If someone told you that they saw me with another girl, what would be your reaction? Well, I would have asked.
If you could be any cartoon character, who would you choose? Well, some princess there. :)
If you were given one-time free air tickets, which country would you choose? Japan. If it's free to go, then as far as possible. :))
If you could choose a companion for a long journey, any person, including those who no longer live, who would you choose? Beloved.
If you could make three wishes, what would they be? So that nothing bad ever happens to my loved ones. So that we can live in any country we want. Well, money.
If you could live anywhere in the world, where would you choose? Sweden.
Do you play any musical instrument? If you could choose to be able to play any instrument, which would it be? I haven't played anything and I don't. I would like to play the piano beautifully ... tram-pam-pam ..
If you had to change your name, what would you choose? Well, maybe Nastya.
If you had 24 hours to live, what are the last three things you would definitely do? I would transfer the property to relatives, insure in their favor and spend time with them.
And if you could become invisible for 24 hours, what would you do? Well, I would follow my friends, what they are doing there. :)) Or I would go to the Kremlin and shoot everyone there. :)) Or I would create some mysticism, so that legends would go about it later.
Could you love a girl? What if there were only two people left on earth: you and her? I'm afraid that if we had remained alone on earth, we would have hated each other in a week. Then they would have reconciled, of course, where to go, but it’s unlikely that love is direct ...
What three things would you take out of a burning house? Money, documents, a cat. This is provided that all people have already left there.
Is there anything you would refuse to do under any circumstances? Well, yes, all sorts of perverted perversions.
What is your most hated homework? Wash windows.
The name of the singer whose voice you can't stand? Katya Lel, then the one who married Aldonin, and another Terleeva.
Name something very few people know about you. Oh well, it's personal. :))
What can you do better than others? Write competently.
Was there anything you didn't enjoy as a child? Complete family.
What are you completely incapable of doing? Draw, cut with a jigsaw.
What would you like to learn in the near future? Well, some dish to cook cool. :)
Tell me a family story. Once my dad wrapped a doll in a blanket instead of me, walked around rocking it in front of my mom, and then, as if by accident, dropped it. Dad was happy, mom not so much.
Have you ever had a moment when you were seriously afraid for your life? No, thank God.
What do you think it takes to be successful in life? Decisiveness and patience.
What do you consider the most important event of your life so far? Birth of a child.
What do you dislike about your job? Schedule.
What do you have in your pockets? Toothpicks.
What was the most memorable at your prom? The whole evening I kissed with some boy from a parallel class, whom I did not know before.
What dish do you cook best? Pasta. Or some kind of salad.
What was your craziest escapade? Oh, this is more terrifying. At the age of 16, she threw a man on the player. Just. Then I walked for six months, looking around.
What is your very first memory? Well, something from my childhood. The first one, I don't know.
What's your favorite curse word? your mother
What is your favorite flower? what they give, then their favorite.
Favorite dish? Pasta carbonara.
Do you have a favorite movie that you are willing to watch over and over again? Fatal Beauty.
What should be your ideal friend? So that it appears when I want it, and disappears when I want it. :)
What do you think it means to have a good rest? Leave somewhere.
What is your target number? Yep, childish question. :)
What is your favorite thing in your house? Bed.
Did you ever have a nickname? Yeah, cabbage, cap.
What makes you laugh? Good humor, no matter how trite.
What music are you listening to now? None.
What should be your dream job? The same as mine, only with a free schedule.
What is your favorite color? Indigo.
Have you ever fired a real weapon? No.
What did you want to be when you were little? A teacher.
Do you have any habits that you would like to get rid of? Yes, bite your nails.
What is your favourite season of year? Summer.

1. Is there a mole somewhere else on your body that I have not seen yet?
2. Are you by any chance the criminal who recently robbed that jewelry store over there?
3. Do you have a pet? In general, what is your favorite animal? Would you like to be one in your next life?
4. You must be very fond of new shoes? How many pairs do you buy per season?
5. Is there anything that annoys you more than anything in the world? What is this?
6. Do you like to watch horror movies? How much can they impress you?
7. Do you like to paint? Does it give you pleasure, or are you happy with the result?
8. Do you have a hobby? What do you like to do most in your free time?
9. What do you usually take with you when you go out? With the contents of your purse, can you also live a month at the North Pole?
10. How many languages ​​do you know? Do you feel when you speak with an accent on them?
11. At what age did you first fall in love with a guy? Was it mutual love?
12. Do you like doing household chores? What do you dislike doing the most?
13. How often do you tell lies?
14. What character trait do you dislike the most in a person?
15. What traits of your character do you like the most?
16. Have you ever been bitten by a dog?
17. What do you not know how to do and what would you like to do very well and would love to learn?
18. Do you often go abroad?
19. Do you like children? How many children would you like to have?
20. Does it ever happen to you that nothing can force you to do something?
21. Do you like cats? Why?
22. Do you imagine your life at the North Pole / in the village / in the mountains? What do you think you would do there? 23. What do you think? Are you a lucky person? What are you usually lucky in?
24. Do you like to be photographed? Do you have favorite photos?
25. Are you registered in social networks? How do you feel about communication and dating on the Internet?
26. Do you like what you do?
27. What would you like to be if you had another chance to choose a profession?
28. What do you think, whoever you become for nothing in the world?
29. Are you more of an open or closed person to society?
30. What interests you more, career or family? What can be an obstacle in each case?
31. What could you be proud of all your life? How do you feel about your possible failures?
32. Do you have something for which you would be ready to give your life?
33. Can you remember whether any of what you thought of on New Year's Eve came true?
34. Have there been any situations in your life that contributed to a change in your thinking at the root?
35. Do you have an idol? Who would you like to be like?
36. In what company of people do you spend most of your time?
37. What do you think you would do with a huge amount of money that would be given to you just like that?
38. Where do you dream of going to relax?
39. Would you like to be a movie star or a famous singer? If yes, why?
40. Would you like to return to your childhood? What are the happiest moments from your childhood you can remember?
41. Were you a quiet child or did you always bring trouble to your parents?
42. Can you imagine what you would be like if you were a boy?
43. How would you like your boyfriend to be?
44. If you were given two vouchers only one way to another distant country, who would you take with you?
45. Do you think you have more friends or enemies?
46. ​​Are you a romantic or more of a realist by nature?
47. If you were given the opportunity to choose where you were born, which country would you choose?
48. What do you think is the difference between a man and a woman?
49. What can make you happy? And what can lead to a frantic delight?
50. Do you have any shortcomings, and which ones hinder you the most?
51. What is your specialty that distinguishes you from the rest?
52. Are you satisfied with everything in your appearance, if not, what would you like to change?
53. What do you think? God exists?
54. Do you have enemies?
55. Do you believe in karma and that if you do something bad to someone, it will come back to you like a boomerang?
56. Played computer games, which ones?
57. Did you kiss the guy first?

However, try not to use

Do you know what's happening now? Now the most important thing is happening - you wanted to change your life in terms of communication and fill it with beautiful girls. Although, maybe you even know a girl who will outshine them all, and you want to achieve it. But I'll tell you now one thing that you may not believe, but it's a proven fact. In both cases, you need to qualitatively change your vision and communication with women in general (why in the second case I will explain later).

Right now, you most likely perceive women and their popularity based on magazines, movies, or TV. From there, naturally, they pour out slogans: “Dress, as we say, and all your women” “Buy our perfume and you are macho” “Chew our gum and beauties will run to kiss you.” But their goal is not to make you successful, but to sell a product and they do their job well. In this regard, the majority (perhaps you too) have natural stereotypes. I will start earning more, there will be women. Started ... did not increase. Okay, I'll buy a car, then everything will be cool for sure. Bought. There are no shifts.

You know why, because when you show your money, without backing them up with cool communication, you turn into the object of a coveted feeder for lovers of freebies. And there are two options: either a frequent constant "dynamo", or "like I communicate for the possibility of spending money on me." Naturally, I am in no way trying to dissuade you from making more money or buying a nice car. Just remember - money alone is not real success with women.. As an aid, yes, but nothing more.

Among my friends there are many such examples. Moreover, their vision of the world of women through this prism is so entrenched in them that they don’t even want to hear about something else. But among my acquaintances there is another category of people who are successful with women, seemingly having nothing to do with it ... except for their charisma, their charm, sometimes unpredictability and the ability to communicate with beautiful cool women.

And you already started by reading this article. All that remains for you, after reading it to the end, is to do a few things that you will read about here. And then, tearing yourself away from the chair, go outside and start getting high from talking with girls (I’ll tell you where to start;)

First you need to change yourself a little, your internal attitudes and attitude towards communicating with girls. It won’t work right away, but after a while everything will be assimilated.

1. Communication is a natural need of all people.
2. Communication with girls brings you pleasure.
3. Communication with you brings pleasure to girls.
4. In communication, it is not the goal that is important for you, but the process of communication itself.
5. You can achieve your goal only through class communication.
6. For friends and those around you, your communication with a girl raises you in their eyes.

As you probably already noticed, there are no words "acquaintance" or "seduction". Because acquaintance and everything else, in fact, is only a part of communication, try to perceive them now in this way. Write or print these six points on paper and hang them in a conspicuous place where you will often see them. Every time you leave the house or when, for example, you call a girl, just look at them again, do not memorize, do not memorize, but just look.

There is a common opinion that in order to learn how to meet girls, you need to say a certain phrase to girls a certain number of times, squeezing it out of yourself through fear and “I can’t”.

We will go the other way. Let's not beat our heads against the wall and try to learn an unnatural acquaintance, then coming to the stage "what after the first phrase?"

We will learn to communicate with girls in such a way that they themselves would like to get to know you, i.e. following all the same 6 points.

To begin with, we will use socially acceptable phrases, continuing them outside the box.

Examples:

- “Can you tell me where the nearest cafe is here? (girl's answer) Don't you know the coffee is delicious there?

- “Tell me what time it is now? (answer) And you have an accurate watch, otherwise mine got lost and now I’m looking for someone accurate ”

“Has the last bus left long ago? (answer) Will there be a new one soon? :)"

- “You know, I seem to have dirty my back with something, can you see? (looks) oh really nothing? Thank you, otherwise I go around shying away from everyone :)”

Your goal is a positive reaction from the girl. To achieve it, you need a few things.

First, say it in a good mood, not frowning. Sometimes smile at a girl, but don't grin all the time. Will not understand:)

There are a few more simple rules when approaching:

Start the conversation smoothly. That is, not in a harsh voice

If a girl comes forward, do not block her path. Walk with her in parallel and two meters away from her already approach her. That is, approach a little from the side.

Better come on the left. This is not a panacea, but statistically it is better on the left. There are several reasons, but for now, just trust me.

If the girl is walking ahead, then first catch up with her so that she notices you, and then start talking. Don't scare her :)

Always repeat the movements of the girl. Don't copy, just repeat. For example, if she shows you with her hands how to go somewhere, then, asking again, also do about the same movements.

When talking to a girl, look at her, not to the side or down. But like a boa constrictor at a rabbit in the eyes, you should not stare either. Look at the carrier. You can briefly appreciate her figure by glancing at her.

Don't stand stock still in front of her. Change the position of your legs every 7-10 seconds.

Hands are also not at the seams. Gesticulate, be interested in her, believe in what you say.

So. You are doing everything right, observing everything that is written above. But how to understand that a girl is interested in you and wants to continue communication?

There are a few simple signs by which this can be easily understood. It may not be easy for you to track all of them now, but over time you will do it on an unconscious level.

So, the main signs that a girl is interested in you:

Looks at you

smiling

Straightens hair (or puts it with a hand behind the ear)

She asks questions

Fixes parts of his clothes

Tilts head slightly when talking

Touches you or your clothes

There are many more signs, but they need to be discussed in more detail.

And now, when you ask quite simple questions, notice how the girls react. You never even noticed it before, but most of them already wants to communicate with you further. you to them already liked it. You just have to not spoil the whole buzz.

You may not believe me, but many girls like you at first sight. Many just want sex with someone who has the courage and perseverance awn. Naturally, they will not run to you with hugs. You yourself must take the first step. Are you a man, after all, or where?!

When you are fluent in these phrases, you can move on to a little non-standard. The girls will have some confusion for the first second or two. It's okay, it's even good. Your task at this moment is to let her know that a certain “game” is starting, that this is communication where she can go beyond the usual. Such communication is a gift, both for you and for her. Therefore, while waiting for her answer, look forward, and do not be afraid. Again, while saying them, follow the rules of approach described above.

- “Oh, happy holiday to you! .. how it is, with what! Today is a day of good mood!”

“What time is it now? (8 hours)… And mornings or evenings? :) (answer) Oh thanks. Helped me right out!"

“Can you help me, I need a woman’s opinion. My best friend is coming in an hour, and I don’t know what to treat her to in a cafe. What do girls usually like?

Phrases can be completely different and on any topic. The main thing is that it should be natural, and most importantly, that you yourself believed in what you say!

By the way, do not kill yourself if the girl refused to communicate with you. Not everything depends on you.

I'll use my friend as an example. The fact is that near the monument to Pushkin, she once met a guy. Everything was fine, but then, near the same monument, he threw it very rudely. Happens. But now she has very bad memories of this place. And, in her own words, no matter how cool the guy is, she will not get to know him near this monument.

Therefore, take any failure or failure as an experience for yourself, as a chance to become better and understand what else you can change in yourself. And if it doesn't happen that often, then you can just ignore it. It may also happen that a girl likes you, but she already has everything in life. But that doesn't make you worse. In general, it happens.

But sooner or later the question arises how to develop this or that topic. What questions to ask? What to talk about?

Of course, I won't tell you everything here, but I can give you some hints. So, the topics and questions continuing them:

Movie

Do you often go to the cinema?

What films do you like the most?

And what genre? For example, I like ...... (comedies) (then talk about the genre that she likes. Find out which films)

Do you go alone more often or with friends?

Have you ever gone to a night session? And on the night "non-stop"? (this is when you pay once and watch 3-4 movies all night)

Do you prefer to watch a movie in the center or in the back rows? ;)

Have you ever noticed that when you go outside after a session, at first you perceive the world around you differently depending on the film. Have you ever had this? (If it was, then ask after which movie and how?)

What was your strongest feeling while watching the movie?

Cafes, bars.

Do you often go to cafes?

What do you like to order the most?

Do you know why some girls go to cafes with their friends so often?

Do you like sweets? ... For pleasure or to the detriment of the diet? :)

Which one do you like the most? Why?

Have you tried to cook something yourself from what you tried in a cafe?

You know, very often girls sit in cafes and get bored. Sometimes it lasts more than one hour. What are they waiting for?

Have you ever dynamite a guy? Well, just be honest;) (regardless of the answer “What a great job you are! :)”)

Parks, street, places of rest

Do you like to walk?

What is your favorite weather? And why?

Where do you like to walk the most?

Have you ever walked in the rain?

Do you often hang out with your friends?

Have you ever walked around the city all night?

Have you been to the zoo for a long time?

What place do you remember the most? Why?

Do you like to swim? Do you bathe often? Where?

Do you often visit the center?

Relationship

Do you fall in love often?

Do you like romantics? And what is the most?

How do you feel about the fact that some people say that relationships can be bought with money?

Have you ever had an all night date?

Have you dated two boys at once? A friend told me that she liked that they fought for her.

What do you think is the toughest competition? Male or female? Why?

Did you have competitors? Were they alive? :)

What do you like more, giving compliments or receiving them?

What do you consider worthy of a compliment? Well, except for a beautiful, intriguing look, of course;)

Common topics

Are you afraid of thunderstorms?

Do you have any collection. Well, bears, for example, or someone else? :)

Do you have pets? The name of? Are you feeding? :)

Have you been anywhere at sea? Where? What are the feelings, what did you like the most?

What kind of music do you like the most? Do you listen often?

Do you often go to clubs? In what? What do you like the most there?

What was your brightest moment in your life?

Can you cook? And what works best?

Can you play anything? (for a long time? what do you like the most?) Do you like to listen?

Do you love sunbathing? Topless? ;)

Do you remember your first love? Kindergarten or elementary school?

Do you have Brother or sister? Would you like to? (To be alone)

What is your favourite season of year? And what do you like the most about it?

This is only a small part of the topics and questions that you can ask a girl, whatever she would be interested in. But in no case do not turn communication into an interrogation of a Gestapo partisan. Just remember one more rule - never ask more than two questions in a row. The ideal option would be if you, after each question and answer to it, tell us what you think about this topic. For any question posed to a girl, you yourself should have at least some answer. Tell her what you think, argue with her. Sometimes win those mini-arguments, sometimes give up on purpose. When you listen to it, don't be silent either. Sometimes put some words into her story. A girl should understand that you are interested in listening to her. Ask something again, just react to something with the words “cool” “yes, I think so too” “come on?” “It happened to me too” “It can’t be!” "yeah" "and?" "So?"

Preparing for a first date is not only about choosing a place and cultural program. A very important point is the topics for communication with a girl. The first impression made on her will depend on how interesting, relaxed the conversation will turn out. In our article you will find a list of a hundred questions for a girl and step-by-step instructions on how to write your own.

For those people who already know each other (from studies, work, communication in the same company), it is much easier to start and maintain a conversation, since there are already first points of contact and, accordingly, common topics. For those whose first date is, in fact, an acquaintance (for example, the first meeting “in real life” after talking on the Internet), this is a serious test.

Embarrassment, awkwardness, pauses - these are the typical difficulties that the majority of guys and girls face on a first date.

Well, if both are sociable enough, it will not be difficult to start and maintain a conversation. It is somewhat more difficult for those guys who are not so sociable and self-confident, and especially if they have a first date in their life: they painfully think about what to talk with a girl about, what questions you need to ask her so that they are not banal, what you can ask at the first meeting, and what to leave for later, what topics to come up with to make it interesting and fun for her.
Sometimes even the very fact of the first date with a girl can lead a man into confusion. And in a stressful situation, which it is, the brain tends to “turn off”, and all the prepared speech and compliments completely fly out of the head. Therefore, the most win-win option is impromptu, but impromptu is reasonable, thought out in advance.

How to effectively prepare for a first date and overcome embarrassment

There is a simple and effective way, the essence of which can be borrowed from the strategy of preparing for an interview, is the development of communication skills (in other words, rehearsal). The first date is no less responsible event that requires a man to be collected, creative, communicative, and ingenious.

Step 1

First you need to decide what is already known and what else you would like to know about the girl: her range of interests, hobbies, hobbies, life views and priorities, occupation (study or work), and already in these directions it is necessary to subsequently develop topics for conversation and look for common interests.

Step 2

Having thought over the main directions, you can sketch out for yourself an approximate list of questions that you want to ask your interlocutor and which it would be interesting to discuss yourself. For the first meeting, up to 10 topics will be enough, but you must have at least 10-15 more reserve topics in reserve (in case the discussion of these issues “does not go” or some topics turn out to be uninteresting). It is better to write down ideas - visual information is deposited in memory quite firmly. At the idea generation stage, you need to jot down a list of up to 50 questions, so that you can then choose the most successful and interesting ones from.

Step 3

Basically a rehearsal. You can work out the selected questions in front of a mirror (according to the list, having played the dialogue in one person), you can record it on a voice recorder or video, you can attract an assistant (sister, for example). At first glance, such an activity may seem silly, but it is far from being the case.

This practice will give a man a clear understanding of how he looks from the outside, what topics the girl will be interested in, what and how to ask her, and even correct his own speech for “weed” words, which is useful not only in communicating with the fair sex but in various aspects of life.

Questions to ask a girl on a first date

1. Tell me about your childhood: did you play pranks, or were you the right, sedate girl?
2. Did you like school? What did you want to be when you grow up?
3. Did you have a nickname in kindergarten/school? Maybe you yourself came up with nicknames for classmates?
4. What is the most vivid memory you have from your childhood?
5. Do you love circus? Did you often go there as a child?
6. Did you go to camp as a child?
7. Do you have childhood friends?
8. How many people can you call friends?
9. Who do you mostly spend your free time with?
10. What is your ideal boyfriend/girlfriend?
11. What traits turn you off in people?
12. Who knows you best?
13. Are there secrets that you have not told and will not tell anyone?
14. How do you feel about friendship between the sexes?
15. Was there love at first sight in your life? Do you believe in her?
16. At what age did you first kiss?
17. When did you have your first love? Was she mutual?
18. What is the ideal man for you?
19. How do you feel about a significant age difference in a relationship?
20. Do you believe in fate: that there are ideal halves destined for each other from above?
21. What is the most important thing for you in a relationship?
22. Have you ever confessed your love first?
23. What would you prefer if you could only choose one of two: to love or to be loved?
24. How do you feel about change?
25. Is there any justification for "lying for good"?
26. If you could live anywhere in the world, in any city, which one would you choose?
27. Do you like to travel?
28. What cities or countries would you like to visit? Where have you already been? What do you remember, what do you like?
29. Do you love the sea? Where do you usually spend your holidays/holidays?
30. What kind of music do you like?
31. Which celebrity performance would you like to attend?
32. Do you have a favorite song? Motto song?
33. What genres of cinema do you prefer?
34. Is there a movie you never get bored no matter how many times you watch it?
35. If you were making a movie, what would it be about?
36. What books and authors do you like?
37. What would you recommend to read from the last liked? Something that would grab.
38. Do you watch TV?
39. How do you usually spend your weekends?
40. You're a night owl or an early bird?
41. What is your favorite ice cream?
42. What is your signature dish?
43. Do you have a big family? Do you have a brother or sister, nephews, godchildren?
44. Do you have pets at home?
45. What breeds of dogs do you like?
46. What are your most hated household chores?
47. What do you dream about?
48. What would you like to be doing in 10 years?
49. If you won a large amount in the lottery, what would you spend it on?
50. If a book were written about you, what would its title be?
51. How does it feel to be the most beautiful girl in this city? Yes, in general, on the whole planet?
52. Do you love to dance?
53. What sports do you like? What are you doing on your own?
54. Do you like to go to clubs?
55. How long can you go without internet?
56. Do you play computer games?
57. Have you ever gone hiking?
58. When was the last time you played snowballs?
59. If you could know the future or turn back time, which would you choose?
60. Would you like to be able to read other people's minds?
61. What are your favorite flowers?
62. What is the most unusual gift you have been given, or have you given to someone?
63. What is your favorite holiday?
64. If you caught a goldfish, what would be your three wishes for it to fulfill?
65. What would you do in the end, knowing that until the end of the world remains 24 hours?
66. If you could switch places in your life with one celebrity, who would you choose?
67. If you were given the opportunity to try on an invisibility hat for one day, what would you do?
68. If you could be a man for one day, how would you spend that day?
69. Would you like to live on a desert island?
70. What is the scariest thing in life for you?
71. Are you afraid of the dark?
72. What is the craziest thing you have done in your life?
73. Do you like spontaneity more, or do you try to plan everything?
74. Do you believe in omens?
75. Do you have a favorite number? How did it become a favorite, what is the story associated with it?
76. Do you believe in such a thing as horoscopes? What is your zodiac sign?
77. What is your favorite color?
78. What is your favorite season and why?
79. How does your New Year usually go?
80. What would you choose: to be twice as happy or twice as smart?
81. Why did you cry the last time?
82. What would you choose: a large apartment in a prestigious area, or a small house with a sea view?
83. What is the most extreme thing you would like to do in life?
84. Are you a happy person? What do you lack for complete, absolute happiness?
85. Tell me about the best day of your life?
86. Do you like surprises?
87. What is your ideal day?
88. Have you ever kept a diary?
89. Do you eat in the shower?
90. Have you ever played cards for wish? What's the funniest and craziest thing you've ever said to a loser?
91. Do you like your job/chosen profession?
92. When did you realize you were an adult?
93. You are a creative person?
94. What are you more guided by when making decisions: the call of the heart, or rational considerations?
95. What do you think is the secret of success?
96. What would you like to do if you were not studying/working now?
97. Do you have any talents that have yet to be realized?
98. Do you agree with the statement that the success and achievements of a man largely depend on the woman who believes in him?
99. Would you agree to heaven in a hut?
100. Would you like to become a famous person?

These 100 ideas are just a small part of what you can ask a girl to get to know her better.

Questions not to ask on a first date:

1. How much do you earn?
2. Tell us about your past relationships: why did you break up?
3. How many men have you had?
4. Why do not you have a boyfriend?
5. How much do you weigh?
6. Do you like me?
7. Can I kiss you?

Such questions are incorrect, and can only confuse or upset the girl. It will be possible to talk about past relationships at further meetings, when a sufficient degree of intimacy and trust is established, but not at the first, even if you really want to. Also, on the first date, you should wait a little with questions about preferences in sex, etc.

No need to ask permission to kiss. It is very likely that, even if the girl does not mind, she will refuse.

Questions about weight, figure parameters, income level for a woman are offensive, and they should not be asked at all.