What is a woman's strength compared to a man? What is the strength of a woman? Seven forgotten secrets of female power. A girl's strength is in her weakness. Is it so
They say a woman's strength lies in her weakness. This is true. And not so. If we understand power as the ability to influence and achieve one’s own, a woman’s power is obvious, but specific.
There is an opinion that it is for the sake of a woman, her recognition, admiration, love, sex that a man makes most of his achievements, feats, and discoveries (the power of a woman). - Femininity can balance, make you happy, and inspire.
What is special and strong about femininity?
In the ancient Russian tradition, a woman is a “darling”, a creature symbolizing the soul, protecting the value of the soul. A man is a spirit. Amidst tough struggle, competition and overcoming (a man’s world), (his) soul tends to become callous. A woman is the one who does not allow the soul to become callous, who softens the soul. How does she do it?
1. Femininity carries “Horizontal” values
Love, philanthropy, brotherhood, kindness, understanding, mercy as opposed to “vertical, hierarchical values.” The horizontal plus the vertical together form a cross, in the center of which feminine and masculine values intersect.
2. Softens the soul
Femininity is the softness of the soul, humanity, without which achievements lose their meaning. Among the thunder and storms of life, there is nothing worse than losing the soft spiritual component within yourself - the soul.
Qualities of feminine power
If we consider strength as the ability to motivate, to push towards something, then the strength of femininity is obvious; the development of femininity at all times has the interest and aspiration of a man.
However, a woman's power (what she pushes with) is specific. This is not the straightforward strength characteristic of men. However, it is still strength, not weakness, expressed in qualities.
Women who discover and demonstrate these qualities in themselves are strong - they create a field to which adherents are drawn, although in our time more masculine values are in trend, and modern women use them with might and main. - Firmness, self-affirmation, responsibility, perseverance, asceticism.
We strive for material achievements and put off spiritual ones. We earn money (material achievement) and do not give birth/raise children (spiritual achievement). The lack of female values (love, warmth) is now very noticeable. Let's talk about feminine qualities in more detail.
1. Love
Radiation of love. Many philosophical and religious teachings say that a woman is the “source of love.” Mercy, acceptance, sympathy, care, even for the imperfect, the wrong (priority of mercy over righteousness), the ability to grow flowers, speak kind words, treat people to pies, etc.
The impact of love is amazing. It is more powerful, and its effect is longer lasting than any pressure (male power). The power of love that envelops a man or a child pushes towards internal transformation and behavioral changes on a voluntary basis. Of course, love is power if it is real.
Many people confuse love and the need for love. The need for love is when inside is empty, sad, hungry. Love - when it is full, there is curiosity to learn, study, accept another, there is tenderness, warmth and care. Needing love is a “give me” attitude. Love - “here, take it.”
If a woman has the ability to love demonstrated in her deeds, people gather around her and are drawn to her. And the “irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired” is need, not love.
What happens when the source of love is blocked, abandoned and unused? - Instead of love, need settles, trade: “I owe you, and you owe me,” - rage, pain (hardness of the soul) replace pleasure and acceptance (softness of the soul).
2. Ability to develop relationships
A man starts a relationship, a woman develops it. He invites you to the cinema, she shares her impressions of the film, engaging in discussion (relationships). He calls on the phone: “Hello, hello,” she is happy, tells the news, involves her in discussion (relationships), etc.
3. Close to nature
A woman is close to nature, she bears and raises (a child), grows flowers, cares for animals, takes care of quality nutrition, health (both her own and those of loved ones), loves to be in nature and in harmony with it.
4 Beauty
Since a woman is a conductor of sincerity and kindness, she tends to look for forms of expressing spiritual content in beauty.
It manifests itself in the ability to surround oneself with beauty, create and arrange beauty (in one’s home, appearance, verbal-emotional-behavioral expressiveness, relationships, caring for the beauty of loved ones), and appreciate art (music, poetry, theater, etc.).
5. Emotional sensitivity
Femininity is emotionally sensitive, and this is its strength. It is expressed in the ability to empathy (emotionally understand), express emotionality in shades, the ability to sympathize, remind of soulfulness and carry it, maintain the value of vulnerability (which prevents the hardening of the soul).
6. Intuitiveness
A woman is sensitive to thousands of small details that are noticed and perceived by her consciousness horizontally-democratically (chaos in which she is well oriented), which allows her to make instantly unmistakable conclusions in certain industries.
She easily (intuitively) notices lies, in general, the mood of another, knows how this mood can be changed (raised or lowered), finds lost things, feels people, selects the tone of a conversation.
7. Sincerity
It is important to distinguish between honesty (a masculine quality based on the courage to confront the truth) and sincerity (the ability to notice one’s current feelings and express them). The female path is not direct, she does not run at the enemy with a broadsword, but it is sincere - it finds the form of announcing the current truth.
It is expressed in an attentive attitude to one’s own and other people’s feelings, states, the ability to name them, express them openly, and find a tactful form that the interlocutor is able to perceive.
8. Flexibility, maneuverability
The female path is the flexible path of water, not the rigid path of the spear. This flexibility stems from love, and not just from (objective physical) weakness that forces maneuvering. Femininity does not insist when people don’t listen, does not push when they don’t want to, but finds a flexible way to get its way.
It manifests itself in physical flexibility, grace of the body, in psychological flexibility - the ability to change tactics, adapt to circumstances, the interlocutor (speak his language), wait for the right moment, be different, including tough and bitchy, without getting hung up. Men sometimes call women's flexibility deceitful. However, this is not so - she is sincerely like that (different) every time.
9. Erotica and aesthetics
Sexuality as being overwhelmed by lust is not a feminine quality (it is a masculine quality that he gives to a woman). A woman is erotic and aesthetic – beauty plus sensitivity.
The eroticism of a woman exceeds that of a man (according to sources, 9 times) - it attracts. However, when a woman overly exploits sex appeal, this speaks of her insecurity, her inability to attract in a different way - it plays on the most primitive instincts (of men). She herself usually loses in such a game, because... in the matter of sex, she cannot outplay a man (women are much more vulnerable in this).
It manifests itself in the ability to be natural, open to eroticism, careful (know your own characteristics and organize self-care), tactfully and firmly handling the sexuality of men directed at her, the ability to involve in a relationship, and not just sex for one or two times.
10. Comfort, laziness
If a man is a movement, then a woman is a stop, a respite that softens, fills with strength, gives pleasure from doing nothing, relaxation and rest. Without respite there is no movement, without stop-renewal. A woman's ability to be a stop is expressed in her lazy comfort.
It is manifested through the physicality of a woman - a comfortable, fertile environment (for example, for the birth of a baby), her sincerity, which sets an atmosphere of emotional comfort, the ability to provide an atmosphere of comfort, physical comfort (delicious food, comfortable chairs, etc.) for herself and others.
11. Kindness and gentleness
Femininity is characterized by kindness (mercy) and gentleness. Kindness is based on love, acceptance and sympathy for the nature of another, compassion. At the same time, he won’t let you sit on his neck, because... it would mean treating yourself unkindly. If this suddenly happens, he will be able to gently dodge.
It manifests itself in the ability to establish an atmosphere of kindness and gentleness in your home, among your friends, at work, to hear and understand even a very alien point of view. Take care with kind words and deeds (cook a meal, iron a shirt, connect with the right person, etc.).
12. Blessing
In fairy tales of the peoples of the world, a lot is said about a woman’s ability to bless (good sorceresses, fairies) and curse (witches). In life it is the creation of a blessing or curse atmosphere, emotional and everyday.
Blessing, when it inspires self-confidence, creates a comfortable, calm environment, supports and motivates courage, achievements, gives consolation, heals mental wounds. The curse is in causing feelings of guilt, inferiority, discomfort, emotional and everyday depression.
Any of the listed qualities, when mastered and practically applied, has an impact on others. In general, femininity is like water. – Life-giving, affectionate, bewitching, parting in some situations, she is unwavering and repels the hand of those who strike her in others.
Many novels, poems and prose have been written about love, but this feeling still remains a mystery to us. Why? Think for yourself, because in life, love manifests itself and flows differently for everyone. For some, we observe a strong union that lasts a lifetime, others, without having time to get to know each other properly, break up, and others, having lived half their lives together, suddenly decide that they are not on the same path. So what's the deal? The point is that the main factor in a successful marriage is feminine strength and energy.
Look around and you will see that the same man, being married twice, does not live the same way and his successes also differ. Living with one woman, he becomes a loser, and when he gets along with another woman, he suddenly, out of the blue, becomes a successful businessman or boss. And at the same time, he does not receive any financial investments or assistance from outside. Right?
Or here’s something else worth thinking about: why girls who are very attractive on the outside and quite literate on the inside cannot find a life partner. Why do most of them become old maids, while plain ones have a lot of gentlemen and get married easily?
It also remains a mystery why the appearance of two women of the same age can differ significantly in age-related manifestations. One may look 10 or more years younger, while the second has a rather shabby appearance. Why does one couple live happily all their lives, while the other is in an eternal search for the ideal partner? Why does all this depend and where, as they say, is the root of evil?
The answer may shock you, but it is an undeniable fact. The power of female love and female energy is to blame for everything. It is this energy that attracts gentlemen to ladies, incredible opportunities, people with connections, cash flows, success and luck. But not every beautiful woman can retain natural energy. This is the whole point. After all, neither beauty, nor the condition of parents and benefactors, nor anything else influences this energy and strength of a woman in any way.
The woman who has this same power in full can easily attract everything positive and maintain the resulting harmony without difficulty. With such a lady, any man will become successful and she will help him find not only himself, but also his place in life.
And it has nothing to do with it, the lady will attract the man only with her strength. Remember, for sure, among your acquaintances there are those when the man is handsome, a successful boss or businessman, and his wife is unattractive and unattractive.
How does a woman's love power manifest itself?
This force represents a certain energy inside a girl or lady. And if such a sorceress has this wonderful feeling for you inside, then this is a miracle and you are incredibly lucky in life. The fact is that, against the will of this very woman, fluids emanate from her, as it were, which act on the man’s birth canals.
Thus, allowing the latter to understand himself, find his way in life and recognize all his skills, abilities and abilities, develop them and achieve considerable success. It is also impossible not to say that men themselves are attracted to such women. They seem to unconsciously cling to them, feel them.
Love power in a man's energy field
As you already understood from the above, not every representative of the fair sex has a wonderful love power and not everyone can fill her man with it. For this power to work, it is also necessary that the lady herself has a harmoniously tailored and completely healthy energy field. After all, even the slightest gap in him will not allow a woman to make a man successful and loved.
In the old days, women possessed ancient knowledge that allowed them to develop, multiply and restore female love power. They secluded themselves, meditated, performed certain rituals and thus healed their energy field. That is, women had time for themselves, for privacy, and they were allowed to do so.
The same should be true now in the modern world; a woman still needs this. And no matter what, a lady needs at least 2 hours for one such self-healing session. Otherwise, nothing will come of it and the strength will be completely lost.
Someone will doubt and say it’s all nonsense. It’s in vain, just try leaving your lady love for a couple of hours a week completely alone, while voicing how long you will be gone and asking her to take a break from everything and do nothing around the house. After just a month, you will feel that something has begun to change for the better in your home, family and life in general.
Men, you harm yourself, you damage your own energy field. And this dramatically changes everything for the worse and the chances of success become less and less. You will not deny that sexual contact with a woman gives you not just physical satisfaction, but something more. So this greater thing is the act of self-filling of both partners with this very sexual energy.
Listen to yourself, think, try to remember your feelings after the act. Surely you felt a surge of energy, strength, and were drawn to heroic deeds. It is this energy that attracts you to a woman and that is why you cannot find the one and sometimes change them like gloves. Wrong energy, wrong woman, wrong effect if you want. Are you sure?
Empty woman
When a girl does not have the feminine power of love and her energy has some damage, then no matter how beautiful her body and face she has, no matter how old she looks, and no matter what material wealth she owns, she will still mean nothing to a man . And all because it is simply energetically empty. A man is energetically weak and, being next to a lady who is equally empty in energy, he may not notice her at all, much less create an alliance with her.
But a man feels a woman filled with love power from a distance, this happens unconsciously. At the same time, she can be short, have crooked legs and teeth, wear clothes that are completely unfashionable today, but at the same time be your star and energetically successful in life.
What deprives a woman of her strength?
Of course, with age, strength dwindles, as does a woman’s health. Regular stress, long-tired work that does not bring satisfaction, life’s troubles, etc. interfere. These are all factors that deprive a lady of strength and energy.
Therefore, you need to know what methods and sources to use so that your success is always in good shape and give your beloved a break. Let her be alone, refill herself for you, restore her inner state and then everything will be fine with you!
Strong Women have always lived, they were listened to, they were worshiped. They boldly led men who felt not only strong spirit, but also determination, drive and independence.
Every Woman has such strength. Men are used to calling us “the weaker sex”, “gentle creatures”, but when it comes to promoting one’s own goals, protecting one’s child or preserving family well-being, an affectionate cat becomes a tigress who is able to show the whole world the true purpose of a Woman.
So what is our greatest strength? When do these unthinkable qualities appear, which sleep until a certain moment in each of us? Let's talk about this in.
"Ochachok"
Agree, without a “hearth”, there is no family warmth, comfort, harmony and warm relationships.
Love and peace can be preserved in a family by a woman-mother-wife. Children in a full-fledged family are happy, the husband feels like a protector, a provider for his “pack”. But everything is lost when the “hearth” does not warm the family.
An intelligent, calm, loving woman will always extinguish a family conflict in the bud, warm everyone up, caress them and create the necessary harmonious atmosphere in the family.
Happiness is when there is someone to wish Good morning, Good night... And just knowing that they are waiting for you and you have somewhere to rush.
Support
Loving your husband, appreciating him as a Person, praising him, guiding him, giving practical advice, supporting him in difficult times - this is Love.
When there is peace and harmony in the family, neither spouse will look at the other for comparison. If this happens, he will definitely understand what treasure awaits him at home.
- “A wise wife will build her home, but a foolish woman will destroy it.” (parable of Solomon)
Neck
Yes, every Woman is able to control a man, get what she wants without war, hysterics and curses. It's worth showing how much we believe in our men. When men are confident in us as a submissive, obedient and faithful companion, the whole world is at our feet.
Making it clear that the main one in the family is the Husband, that he is the head, the ruler, the king, in the end, then, believe me, there will immediately be a place for the queen next to him. Only when a man receives such necessary support, care and, most importantly, the opportunity to demonstrate his masculine leadership qualities, a woman has no less great things to do to guide her ruler in the direction she needs.
- The husband is the head, the wife is the neck.
- Wherever the neck turns, the head will look.
- If you want a smart head, learn to turn it correctly, in the direction you want.
Feminine weakness
Men value their strength so much that sometimes they have to demonstrate it next to a weak Woman. Therefore, it is so important to demonstrate to every man in time his masculinity, determination, strength and power. A weak, light and airy Woman will help you do this.
You shouldn’t put pressure on pity by constantly sniffling your nose and reminding you of helplessness. You can ask correctly once, pointing out the man’s merits.
In front of the strength of a true man, female weakness acquires special sophistication and beauty.
As she is
Being yourself, without playing or putting on different masks, is important for each of us. Someday the mask will fall, and this will not be the most opportune time. The main thing is to learn to live by your own rules. Pretending to be another person means living a different life.
Feminine strength is hard work on yourself. Defenseless, timid and a little shy, at the same time strong in spirit, wise and faithful: what is not the Ideal Woman!
Ideal is a different concept for everyone. Striving for your ideals is the meaning of life. Look into the future, go towards your goals, value and respect other people's opinions, then Fate will bestow its blessings!
Nature has given us everything we need for feminine strength to make our plans come true. The main thing is that she gave us Men who were so strong, self-confident and thirsty for female love and affection. But what can they do without a wise and weak Woman?
Be sure to read the beautiful words of a loving and very strong Woman
I will tie your life
From fluffy mohair threads,
I'll tie your life together
I won't lie a single loop,
I'll tie your life together
Where there is a pattern across the field of prayer,
Wishes of happiness
In the rays of true love,
I will tie your life
From cheerful melange yarn,
I'll tie your life together
And then I will give it from my heart.
Where do I get threads?
I will never confess to anyone.
To connect your life
I secretly unravel mine.
(Valentina Belyaeva)
Ecology of life. Psychology: Every woman wants to have powerful feminine energy, to be strong in a feminine way, attractive, to feel her feminine resources...
Every woman wants to have powerful feminine energy, to be strong in a feminine way, attractive, to feel her feminine resources, right?
We do many practices in order to get closer to this goal, to become harmonious, feminine, holistic, and internally calm.
It is important for us to be strong as a woman so that there will be a courageous man nearby, strong as a man, responsible, protective and faithful. After all, it is our feminine energy and its quantity that allows a man to remain faithful and not gain energy from other women.
We also want to be strong as women, so that when we encounter obstacles in life, we can look at them wisely and calmly, learn a lesson from them and see the care and love of God in this situation, instead of being nervous, complaining and asking “for what?”, bring yourself to nervous breakdowns and ultimatums to God!
We want to become strong as women, so that we have enough patience, love and endurance to raise our children in an atmosphere of tenderness and acceptance, so that for them their mother will always be an unshakable support and haven of love at any age, and not a nervous, overwhelmed woman who is not herself. enough strength to live.
We need feminine strength for friendship, because sometimes our beloved friends feel bad and difficult, and with our energy and love we can once again inspire them to develop and move forward, we can give them faith in themselves and the strength to create their reality.
We really need feminine strength to live harmoniously, internally easily, calmly and happily as a woman.
Feminine power or shakti is the basis of the creation of the world, it all began with her and she is the source of everything in this world. Our feminine energy creates reality, it is she who creates the material world, she gives birth and nurtures, she beckons and attracts, this is an eternal value more significant than gold and diamonds, because feminine power is the essence of creating reality, the key to life!
And that’s why men really need female muses to create great things, children need affectionate mothers, grandmothers need caring granddaughters with love in their eyes!
Everyone needs a strong woman, because wherever she goes, she awakens life and energy in that place, she creates the energy of space and fills it with vibrations of love.
Lately I have been paying a lot of attention to my feminine strength, not my mind, not my knowledge, but my internal energy! And I noticed this thing: people’s attitudes towards me are changing very much, men take care of me, even people I barely know - they help, protect and offer support. My daughter began to treat me with great affection and tenderness. Acquaintances and friends help in the common cause, support and always come to the rescue if I suddenly feel sad. If I’m in a good mood, everyone becomes joyful; if I’m sad, then those around me (especially men) begin to make efforts to make me cheer up, because they depend on my energy.
Being an energetically strong woman is very beneficial.
Firstly, you create the mood and energy around you, and don’t fall under someone else’s influence. I wanted it - everyone laughs, I wanted it - everyone is nostalgic, or suddenly everything became romantic - and everyone around was drowned in thoughts of love.
Or, for example, I came home and my husband was angry after work. She put herself in a calm, gentle mood, walked up to him, silently hugged him, kissed him, wrapped him in her energy like a soft blanket, and went about her feminine business in the kitchen. 5-10 minutes pass, the husband comes into the room, already calm, and inquisitively asks how you are doing. He has already calmed down and everything is fine again. Convenient, right?
Or the child cries and is capricious, and you take him in your arms and say: “You are my good one! I understand how sad you are…” and you bathe him in your love. And after 2 minutes the cub is already smiling and running to play.
There is no need to swear, explain, prove, be nervous, overthink and worry. I personally always use my feminine power, even at work: the workers had a fight in the team (they are doing repairs in my studio), everyone is on edge, something is going wrong, you go up to the foreman, put your hand on his wrist or on the edge of his shoulder and calmly, softly say, “You have already done such a great job, everything is already so beautiful...” or you can say nothing at all, just immerse the person in your state through touch, and that’s it, he will calm down. A few minutes pass, they are already working smoothly and everything is fine again.
Secondly, you create your own reality. When a woman has strong energy, all she needs to do is wish for something in a good mood and let it go, just continue living. It won't be long before her wishes come true!
Third, you feel like you are part of God’s great creation, part of the great cosmic feminine power, and you are always protected. You always feel and realize that the Great Ma are guiding and protecting you.
And it’s not just some words that really protect, through people. You just need to trust!
Recently, in my studio, movers left the faucet open overnight and flooded the floor with water, causing the beautiful chocolate-colored parquet to swell and deteriorate. Not only did I lose a lot of money, but I also lost precious days, because I already wanted to quickly move into the studio and start doing great women’s things there. I sat down and became sad. I didn’t think about anything at all, I just sat and was quietly sad. They immediately started calling me, and when they heard my voice, help and support immediately began to flow. The next day the guys arrived and not only laid new floors in 1 day, but also stood up for me and made those careless movers take responsibility for their actions.
Fourthly, you feel everything great!
When you are in touch with yourself, you perfectly feel the states of people and their needs. Women are very empathic by nature, and for them clairvoyance, clairvoyance, and clairaudience are not a special gift, but a common thing. All women who have come into contact with their nature have these opportunities. And therefore, a strong woman feels everything in advance, without any logic, she already knows on a subtle level how what she started will end. And therefore, having learned to listen to our intuition and our heart, we, women, receive the key to world knowledge, to foreseeing and controlling our destiny.
Each of you has at least once received answers from the universe in the form of dreams, premonitions, inner voices or sudden awareness. But when we are in touch with our feminine nature, we can be connected to this state constantly.
For example, in my circle, where women live in accordance with their nature, feeling each other is a completely normal phenomenon.
Just a couple of days ago, my cosmoenergetics mentor called me and said: “Yulia, yesterday I was minding my own business in the evening, and suddenly I felt that you were unwell, I received information that I need to keep you under certain energies. What has happened with you?". And in fact, at that time I had a very serious condition and everything that she described to me fit perfectly into reality.
Do you think it's magic? Nothing like this. We can feel this way for everyone if we enter our energetic feminine pole, instead of our mind we begin to listen to our heart and trust our feelings.
In a word, there are a lot of benefits and benefits from strong feminine energy. I can describe them for a long, long time.
Lately, in my consultations, I have been increasingly asked the question: “How can I become strong as a woman?” What does this force consist of? How to get it? How can I multiply it in myself?
I think this question is relevant for many women!
Let's find out!
Where does feminine power begin...
From realizing oneself as a woman. Not just the understanding that I have this gender identity, but precisely the feeling and acceptance of myself as a woman, my body, my characteristics.
It is very important for a woman to accept several facts about herself and treat them with acceptance and calm.
The first most important fact: “A woman is a creative force. When a woman feels bad, everyone feels bad. When a woman feels good, everyone prospers!”
This awareness is very important so that a woman does not exhaust herself, does not suffer from a deficit and always takes care first of all about her emotional state, knowing that all the people around her depend on it. A woman who has realized herself always understands that you need to give and create only out of abundance, and first you need to fill yourself with grace, your body with pleasure, and your heart with love! When you realize that you are psychic energy, then many things in life fall into place: you stop adapting to men and their gloomy mood, you stop depending on the opinions of your friends, you are calm about the whims of a child and are able to cope with it. And knowing this, you will always care not about doing as many things as possible, but about your mood and state, because they are the key to your joy and the joy of others.
Second important fact which we all know about, but are trying to fight: “A woman is not stable”
Feminine energy in itself is unstructured and chaotic; it is a clot of power that can turn into good and evil. We are not constant and stable, our mood often changes, because we strongly feel the vibrations of the planets, the general energy of the city, country, planet, energy flows pass through us and we periodically broadcast the pain or suffering of various egregors.
We are mediators, guides. Therefore, even if everything is good in a woman’s life, she may periodically cry from internal pain of unknown origin. This is how women's karma is worked out - through states.
It is not possible to explain your condition to a man.
One day I was driving a car with my husband, everything was fine, and suddenly I saw a couple of old men crossing the road: a lame, blind old man, led by the arm of his exhausted and tired of life wife. They were approaching the store. And looking at them, I felt their state so much: alienation, uselessness, loneliness, despair, powerlessness in front of the world, pain from their helplessness and weakness. I burst into tears. I cried and couldn't stop! The husband, as always, did not understand what was happening. Just now my wife was telling her review of the film normally and cheerfully, and now she’s sitting there crying!
I think the story is familiar to you.
And many women try to fight their instability, discipline themselves, suppress emotions, and as a result, their masculine strength increases.
Instead, you need to accept your impermanence and emotional changeability, and take it into account in your life. You can laugh at him sometimes, because sometimes it is very funny. And you need to make allowances for this in everyday life, and not reproach yourself for coming to the store to buy boots and leaving with new underwear. Or if you are overcome with sadness, do not look for reasonable reasons to be sad in order to explain your condition to people. Just say, “I'm just sad... for no reason! It’s no one’s fault. I’ll cry now and calm down. Stay with me, hug me…” - this means being in touch with your emotions.
A woman is Chaos, a man is Cosmos (translated as “order”), and if you feel that you have become Cosmos, it means you have moved away from your power. For a woman, chaos is a completely normal phenomenon, she knows what is where in her chaos :). A good example is a women's bag. This bag only has a couple of compartments, but they hold a million things. How to find what you need? You put your hand in, close your eyes, turn on your intuition and voila - you have the thing in your hand the first time. I observe this phenomenon in myself and other women. For order and structure, a woman needs a man, and then there will be a place for him in the relationship, and he will grow and develop in it.
People often ask me: “Julia, tell us about your time management, how do you manage to do everything?”
I honestly don't know. My time management is pure intuition, I intuitively feel which road to take, which business to start, which to postpone, where to go, what to do first. All my attempts to bring myself to classical discipline were crowned with a loss of strength and irritation, as well as an increase in male energy. Sometimes it even happens to me that I leave home and don’t yet know where I’m going, I just trust my hands, the feeling of the road, and then suddenly I find myself in a very necessary place or meet a particularly important person. Pure chaos, no man will understand me.
Don’t try to force yourself into strict boundaries, discipline, organize - this requires a man! Remain chaos, and Cosmos will come to you...
What else makes a woman strong, powerful?
Women's skills and abilities. Yes, they are the ones who increase our female self-confidence, prepare us for relationships, and create the foundation of female strength.
Let's look at an example of two women:
Skills and abilities of the first: she is a doctor of legal sciences, two higher educations, speaks a computer, speaks languages, studied at the best business schools and knows how to negotiate clearly, drives a car, understands politics.
Skills and abilities of the second: she is an excellent cook (she has completed several culinary courses), knows sexual practices (tantra, vumbilding, Danish practices and of course, she has read “Peach Branches” translation into Russian of the Kama Shastra), she knows how to do massage, knows the psychology of women and men , deals with energy and knows how to control his conditions and treat.
- Which of these women do you think will feel most confident and calm in a relationship?
- Which of them will find it easier to attract a man into their life?
- Who will find it easier to create a strong family?
- With which of these women will a man develop a harmonious relationship?
The more purely feminine skills a woman has, the more chances she has to build harmonious relationships, the more in demand and unique she is.
This summer I often had to communicate with men of a fairly high level. In a dialogue with one of them, it accidentally turned out that I can give a massage, cook deliciously, heat a bathhouse, soar with a broom, dance and do a bunch of other feminine wisdom. He looked at me as if I had descended from heaven to earth and timidly asked if I could teach his wife, because, in his opinion, these skills make a woman simply a treasure in the family!
Think about what feminine areas will education bring you greater self-confidence as a woman?
Maybe you will feel more confident inviting guests to the table and preparing for them a signature dish that makes them moan with pleasure?
Maybe you want to discover the priestess of love within you and learn sexual practices and techniques that will not only make you a desirable woman, but also deepen relationships on an energetic level?
Maybe you want to improve your qualities as a hostess and learn how to create comfort and welcome guests with warmth and love?
Personally, I know exactly what trump card I can pull from my deck of trump cards when I want to charm a man. And every woman has her own signature trump card. Which one do you have now? And are you planning to expand the deck with trump cards?
And of course, the most important condition that gives a woman strength, making her invincible is the ability to love! Sincerely, truly, with the heart, not the mind...
Love and its experience is one of the most important goals in a woman's life. We women are ready to do a lot for the sake of love... we are ready to suffer, ready to overcome the impossible, ready to wait, and sometimes even die for it!
But are we ready to just let her in and let her be in our lives? Are you ready to love yourself? Love those around you? Or is it safer to live without feelings?
In the modern world, there are a lot of dogmas about love, stereotypes that come to us through the painful experiences of other people, through fairy tales and stories, through films and beliefs.
Almost every woman has in her mind a set of these stereotypes that separate her from great power:
1) Because of love you will have to suffer/give a sacrifice...
2) If people love each other, they should be together. If they are not together, it is not love...
3) You can only love once...
4) It is impossible to love everyone at once...etc.
I think you can add many more conditions and restrictions for love to this list.
But no matter what we think, no matter how we interpret the rules of love, it still remains a state that is available to everyone who is ready to open their heart...
And it is very important for us women to get rid of the dogmas that keep our hearts closed. The heart center fills a woman, gives her meaning and strength to live, it brings sensations, feelings, depth into her life. It gives peace and magical power... if it is open.
We are very much limited by the conventions of our society, which says that if you break up, you must hate each other and be offended, you can no longer love each other.
But that's not true. Sometimes fate turns out in such a way that we lose the people we love, but this does not mean that we should stop loving them, and it also does not mean that everything is over with this love and your heart will never feel that way for anyone else.
Love is all-encompassing and great. After all, when relatives die, we continue to love them, and we can also continue to love people with whom fate separated us...
It is absolutely necessary for a woman to fill her most important love with trust - love for God and love for herself. And when this love lives in her heart, she very clearly feels that “my task, as a woman, is to bring love and tenderness, to bring lightness to the world, and God will arrange everything else in the best way!”
Karma is now unfolding very quickly, in one life we meet several very important karmic people with whom we must share true love, without an admixture of guilt, shame and pain.
A loving woman is beautiful! Remember your state when you love, everything around takes on meaning, content, colors, clarity... and the feeling comes that “this is what I want to live for.” The main thing is not to confuse the state with the object to which it is routed. And then we can preserve this state and live with it forever. And it won’t be so painful for us to let go, because the most important thing remains with us!
Put your hand to your heart and feel if you have the strength to live with love in your heart? Are you ready to discover this power within yourself? And partly, in dissonance with society, continue to live with an open heart?
At some point in my life, I made this choice, and it brought me incredible feelings about life. I chose love so decisively that the people next to me involuntarily begin to open their 4th chakra. And many are afraid of me, because they are not ready to live like this... and others begin to open their hearts, release from it everything that was hidden there, all the power of their love and its thirst. This affects men especially strongly. One of the most frequent phrases I hear from them is: “Julia, what I told you now no one knows about me / a couple of people know / I never told anyone about this!”
Because a woman connected with her heart full of love quenches the thirst for trust! And trust is the foundation of healthy and strong relationships!
A loving woman has powerful strength, she can forgive, she can be merciful!
You know, when I became acquainted with Vedic knowledge and heard that a woman should communicate with a man in this way, should cook for him, should massage her feet, I thought, “This is so difficult!” What kind of patience and endurance you need to have!”
But everything turned out to be much simpler, it’s enough to just love a lot so that you have the strength to create women’s miracles every day!
Therefore, please forgive all the grievances in your heart, restore the thread of love in your relationships with people! You need this. This is for your happiness!
Now just put your hand to your heart and ask:
“What separates me from being in love right now?”
And if you don’t have any compelling arguments, then live this day with love in your heart! published
When we talk about the strength of a woman, we first of all mean femininity - fundamental to all her life principles. However, it would be a mistake to believe that this quality alone allows a woman to be successful and attractive, to serve as a support for her beloved man and children, and to endure unexpected blows of fate. Female strength lies in the combination of unique characteristics inherent in the nature of the weaker sex, which serve both as the basis of female attractiveness and as an inexhaustible source of internal strength.
Where does the true strength of a woman lie?
It was so intended by nature that a woman, from the moment of her birth, has a huge reserve of internal forces of both an energetic and physical nature. First of all, the ability given to her by nature to give birth to new lives presupposes the presence of endurance and adaptation to high stress on the body. The level of pain threshold in women is much higher than in men. The heart and body of a representative of the stronger sex simply could not bear the pain of childbirth.
The strength of men is concentrated in the area of muscles and mental activity, while a woman is like a vessel, inside which all the richness of her sensory and emotional world is hidden. Not only the life of the woman herself, but also the well-being of her loved ones depends on the quality of the contents of this “vessel”. Returning home after a difficult day, a man, from the first minutes of communication with his soul mate, is “fuelled” by her emotions. If such “feeding” carries negative information, it gives a destructive beginning to the inner world of a man and the relationship in a couple. Constantly charging a man with positivity, tenderness and over time becomes a vital necessity for him. It is precisely this trait of a woman’s character that guarantees the strength and duration of a relationship.
Almost every woman, from her youth, has clear ideas about what her life partner should be like. In an active and persistent desire for their companion to correspond to the ideal existing in these ideas, many ladies make a grave mistake. In attempts to “re-educate” their partner, without noticing it themselves, they suppress their partner’s masculinity with their energy and evoke in him a natural desire to free himself from oppressive and humiliating relationships. And in this, oddly enough, also lies the “merit” of a woman’s strength. The companion of a lady who is persistent in her aspirations subconsciously feels weaker than her and chooses separation as the only opportunity to maintain her personal status. Thus, the true strength of a loving woman lies in wisdom and the ability to build relationships in such a way that, changing for the better under the imperceptible influence of his girlfriend, the man does not feel internal discomfort or pressure from her.
Another quality given to a woman by nature is an amazing sense of intuition. An invisible connection with the Cosmos and nature allows her to sometimes make the only correct decisions in difficult situations, without resorting to analytical calculations and lengthy conclusions. And such a female ability, combined with tolerance and wisdom, is also another secret weapon of a woman. Men, no less than their “weak” girlfriends, need the presence of a person who is able to cope with life’s difficulties and, at the right moment, take responsibility for the successful resolution of a particular crisis situation.
A woman's strength is in her weakness. Is it so?
Many representatives of the fair sex mistakenly believe that the manifestation of female weakness should consist in demonstrating complete vulnerability and helplessness. Men's ideas about this concept are completely different. In their understanding, female weakness is primarily a physical quality. Where male strength and endurance are required, a woman, as a rule, resorts to the help of a partner, and this is completely natural. This not only does not irritate a man, but, on the contrary, gives him self-confidence and consistency as a person responsible for the safety and well-being of his family. A man is first and foremost a provider and protector. He takes this for granted, but if the partner feels that his companion is abusing or exploiting his role in the relationship, discord is inevitable. A woman’s task is to convince a man of his importance and indispensability in situations that really suggest this.
If a woman’s strength is connected with her weakness, then only in one way: any manifestation of weakness should be aimed at raising a man and not come into conflict with his life principles. The stronger sex today prefers to see independent and successful girlfriends next to them, showing weakness only where the patronage and protection of a reliable and physically strong partner is really required. The false ideas of many women that weakness should be manifested in the demonstration of excessive vulnerability, touchiness, or - worse than that - tears or hysterics filled with reproaches - cause an effect that is diametrically opposite to what was expected. Irritation, disappointment, and accumulating fatigue from the relationship can ultimately lead the partner to make a fair decision about breaking up.
A woman's strength is a man's weakness. What does this mean?
Of course, such a formulation has nothing to do with the physical indicators of male strength. A man’s weakness lies in the need to feel support and understanding from a loved one. Men are creatures from the same planet as women. They are also capable of experiencing and sometimes feeling self-doubt, the only difference is that, due to their nature, they are not able to express this on an external emotional level. If a woman subtly feels her partner, his thoughts, sensations and experiences, and strives to become a reliable friend to him, then all her actions and deeds will be aimed at giving the man a feeling of inner comfort and restoring confidence in his abilities. The constant presence of warmth and sincere support coming from a friend becomes an integral part of his life for a man and binds him to a woman much stronger and stronger than sophisticated female tricks and tricks.
A woman's mind: strength or weakness?
It is a common misconception that men avoid smart women. And again, the whole point lies in the concept embedded in this definition. There is hardly a man who would claim that he prefers stupid women to smart women. The presence of intelligence always commands respect, no matter who demonstrates their mental abilities, a man or a woman. Another thing is important: that, being smart and educated, a man’s girlfriend does not suppress his pride, abusing her education and focusing the attention of the man and others on it. Intelligence combined with wisdom is, perhaps, the greatest strength of a woman, giving her value in the eyes of her beloved man and making her truly irreplaceable for him!
