The guy asks about me. I can not understand how a man treats me. He keeps you on a short leash

Is it possible to accurately determine whether a guy likes you or not? Sometimes uncertainty can just drive you crazy, and by all means, you want to understand it. And if you want to be 100% sure that a guy is interested in you before “taking a step towards him”, this is understandable and quite natural. Why make a fool of yourself when you can avoid it... How to understand that a guy likes you?

I'll tell you what most guys do and how they act when they like a girl, even if they want to hide it to look "cool". There are always signals that give out.

There are many subliminal signals that are almost impossible to hide, it's a natural behavior when a guy feels something for a girl.

In addition to the obvious signs, you can also find some less obvious signs on this list. They will reveal his real desires, which he is trying to hide, not only from you, but possibly from himself as well!

So, how to understand that a guy likes you:

1. He says it

Are you kidding? Not at all. I understand what could be more obvious than that?! But, the guy who tells you, “I like you. I love you.” is probably not lying.

Another question is what he puts into this "like"! Whether he wants you to be together, or just wants to get you into bed, after which he will just tell you " I'm sorry but it's gone«.

1. He asks a lot of questions

He's obviously trying to keep the conversation going with you. He is trying to get to know and understand you. So he keeps asking, and asking... Many questions may not be entirely clear or illogical, but he tries to keep the conversation going and avoid awkward pauses.

He may just ask some questions out of politeness, but as soon as you notice that he asks not only out of necessity, this means that he is interested.

That is, you should not think that he is head over heels in love with you if he asked you: “How are you?”. Use common sense.

If he does not like you, he will not seek meetings with you or start a conversation without business if he is finished with something he does not need (for example, help with something).

But remember, when he sincerely asks questions, tries to get to know you more, digs deeper and deeper, this is a really good sign.

1. He finds common interests with you

One of the reasons why he asks a lot of questions is he wants some information about you that he can use to hook you up. If you say that you like... And he goes on and on, telling how he likes the same music, movies, or something else just like you, he (perhaps subconsciously) is trying to prove that you fit each other, and have common interests.

The guy you like will usually not get into an argument, on the contrary, he will seem nice and try to be nice.

If there is a lot of “and I like it too” in your conversation, this is a good sign that you can be compatible.

1. He leans

When you talk to him, he leans towards you. Even if he hears you perfectly. You may be in a bar or club with music, so he will have to lean in to hear you. But still, if he makes an effort to hear you and be closer, this is a great sign. Look at the amount of effort he puts into talking to you. This is the easiest way to determine its relationship. Pay attention to his body movements, gestures, to what his subconscious says.

A normal guy who isn't trying to "act cool" will tend to show a lot of subliminal signs and try to get close to you.

He can also act "cool" around you, but just because a guy acts like he's not interested in you doesn't mean he really feels that way (more on that later).

1. He approached you

Another obvious thing. Yes, but there are some "buts". If he "accidentally bumped into" you, he probably liked you... Or your girlfriend! And he's just using you as a strategy to get closer to her. Who knows? Either way, a guy who approaches you in a cafe or bookstore, etc. obviously finds you cute.

When he strikes up a conversation, you can ask yourself why he didn't approach someone else. If he most likely chose you on purpose, then it definitely means something.

1. His behavior changes when you are around

Watch him when he is with friends or other people. How does he behave? Does his behavior change when you're around, or is he 100% the same as he was?

This tends to happen to younger, less experienced guys.

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1. He completely ignores you

Some guys use the "I don't give a damn" strategy. So they try to be different, that's their way of thinking.

But he will talk to you in private when no one is around. He probably really likes you, but he doesn't have the courage to approach you when you're surrounded by girlfriends or other guys.

He needs you to give him a sign (just look!) that you are open to talking to him.

Anyway, a lot of times when a guy "sort of" ignores you, it's because he's either not interested in you or he's very interested. It's a trick as old as the world.

Think, in a normal situation where a guy isn't interested in you, he'll be okay with you, and may well engage in casual small talk (depending on the situation), but he won't (usually) completely ignore you.

Guys show mixed signals when they try to hide how they feel. Look for different behavioral deviations. Anything out of the ordinary is usually a good sign.

1. His body language gives out = he turns to you

You can judge his liking by the body language when he is around. Does he straighten his back or puff out his chest in an attempt to look more masculine? Some guys try to hide their interest; others, on the contrary, show it openly.

It all depends on how confident he is. The problem is that most guys don't want to "fall on their face" and don't want to take risks. Especially in situations that may have social consequences - at work or school, or if he is a family friend, etc.

1. He treated you

In some cultures, it is normal for a man to treat a woman. If you're with a group of friends and he buys you something, it doesn't mean anything. But then again, if there's only two of you and he insists on paying, either he's just a gentleman in general, or he likes you.

Watch him, does he treat his friends?

If he does this, he's just a generous guy in general and considers you a friend. But if he only pays for his own stuff and then treats you to something, that's a distinct difference. But then another question arises, if he is stingy, maybe he is not the guy you would like to be with?

Again, it really depends on the location, if you're in a bar and he buys you drinks, he might want to make you drunk. In this case, you need to be careful.

1. He asks for your number

This is another obvious sign that indicates sympathy. Sometimes!

Use logic. If he finds a relatively stupid excuse to get your number, he may want a way to stay in touch with you and ask you out on a date in the future. When he takes your number, and there is a really good reason for this, then perhaps she is only to blame for everything. Nothing more.

1. He found and added you on social networks

Just one of the "evidence", which, of course, may not mean anything. But if he sends you messages, likes a photo, then this may already mean something. Look for more clues, dig further.

1. Tries to kiss you

There is nothing to explain here, everything is clear. Even if he was tipsy, it only revealed his subconscious desire. No matter how much alcohol he drank. It's clear that if he wants to kiss you, then he likes you, anyway. The only question is, does he want a serious relationship with you or just a one night stand?!

1. Hey, my eyes are here!

He knows where your eyes are. But your chest is like a magnet, and sometimes it's hard for him to control himself.

Just look at his eyes and where they're looking... No matter how hard he tries to look uninterested, his look will tell a lot. When you pass in front of him, he will look down on you.

When you speak, he looks at your lips, and does it often... He likes what he sees! The easiest way to tell if a guy likes you is to look into his eyes. What is he looking at when you speak?

1. Lots of eye contact

Of course, if he is not examining your body, he may like your face. He will look into your eyes when you speak, and he will hold his gaze a little more than other people, but in a way that does not arouse suspicion.

1. He turns away

If you catch his eye, and he quickly turns away, as if he is busy with something, this is a great sign. Just think, a little nervous about you or trying to hide his interest. This usually happens when you are still not very familiar. In case you know each other, he probably won't look away... in this case, he'll make eye contact, smile, or ask for something to keep the conversation going.

1. He smiles or laughs (a lot)

Just a smile does not mean sympathy. But when no one said anything particularly funny, this can serve as a signal.

1. You have a boyfriend?

This is a question guys rarely ask unless they have sympathy. In any case, there must be a reason for such a question. I mean, if he doesn't have feelings, he doesn't care if you're alone or not. This is an easy way to understand whether you are free or not.

If he doesn't ask directly, it may be indirect or implicit. This is another clear indicator that he is interested. Again, this is just one of the signs to note to yourself. The question itself, of course, means nothing.

1. Agrees with everything

With everything you say. Maybe he does not have his own opinion, but perhaps he does this to make you feel - "you have so much in common." This may be too good to be true.

It's good when your views on life converge, but it's also normal when your opinions differ. Disagreeing on difficult issues can be really fun and educational!

1. Nervous when you're around

When someone is nervous, you can get infected. These emotions jump from one person to another... Look for signs of nervousness in him when he is around you. When the conversation ends, there is awkwardness, there is tension between the two of you, and he seems to be thinking “what should I say next?”. If so, these are all good signs.

If he is not interested in you, he will not care how he looks from the outside, and will not be nervous.

How to understand if a guy likes you?

1. He's trying to be alpha

Shy guys will get nervous around you. But more self-confident guys may try to show their masculinity ... Or show their superiority - (money), knowledge, or something else that distinguishes them.

Look for something, some oddity. He will either be shy, or an expressive extrovert who tries to show off his best "features" - anything that you might find attractive in his opinion.

1. Protects you

You started noticing that when people push you on the street trying to get past you in a crowded place, he positions himself in such a way that they won't touch you; he is trying to protect you to some extent.

He will take the hand, will go ahead to push the crowd. This is another sign of sympathy - he will protect you.

1. Gets jealous

When you talk to other guys and even more laugh. You can see jealousy on his face or read from his behavior. Just watch. He will try to look funny, but with one eye will check on you, and how you respond to other guys.

He could sigh, get angry, or make a petulant face. Try to understand these little clues.

1. remembers your name

Let's say you met him once, in the company of your mutual friends ...

Ah, when you met again, he remembered (surprisingly) your name. So at that moment, you were significant to him.

It is also possible that he has a good memory (plus he is smart). Most guys don't remember names, especially at a party.

Seriously, if he remembered your name, that's a good sign.

1. Remember your birthday

Social networks have one useful feature, they remind you of the birthdays of friends. Imagine if there was no information about your birthday on the Internet, how many people would know about it, or rather remember it? And now he sends you a message with congratulations on VKontakte! If he's not wishing all his friends happy birthdays, he's probably just trying to develop a conversation. Answer him and see how he keeps the conversation going.

1. Trying to impress

You can think whatever you want, but the guy who bragged about his job, car, money, clothes, accomplishments, etc. is mean (because cool guys know they're cool, that they don't have to show it).

But he also wants to impress you!

Either way, there are many different ways to impress, and trying to present yourself in a good light can signal that he likes you.

1. He initiates a dialogue

Let's say you're at some party, with a bunch of people. He randomly starts talking to you, asks a question, or smiles.

It doesn't mean that he likes you; maybe he's just being polite. On the other hand, does he do the same with other women around? Always pay attention to how he treats other women around, is his attitude different? Yes? Then this guy is sympathetic.

Shy guys who are waiting for the right moment to show their interest - throw the bait and expect a reaction. Provide an opportunity, and at this time you can observe and check if he has feelings.

1. Joking and teasing

Constantly mocks you and finds something to hurt? If he jokes with you, trying to make you laugh, or sarcasm is heard in his words, this is a signal for you.

A guy almost never teases a girl he's not interested in. This can be one of the types of flirting (not quite a good option, of course, but what can you do). Either way, it's a sign of interest.

1. Lingers one second longer

When you run into him on the street, at work, at school, at a party, in a club, on a bus, wherever you are - you start talking to him, and then ... There is a moment when he is about to leave and then ... there is this one tiny little second. He stays a little longer, as if he wants to stay or take you. Then he leaves. Look at this moment.

His words that you are the only one do not sound too convincing to you?Hm! Maybe he's not the best speaker, or maybe you just don't understand his messages of love. But still, How?

I am sure that a similar question torments so many girls and women.Here's another one from the same series:« How my feelings?".
How difficult it is in a relationship between a man and a woman!

Especially for women who want to better understand their beloved man, we have included lesson No. 14 in the training called “Magic Words”. I recommend.

Why can't we just and, most importantly, honestly talk to each other about our feelings?Why are we afraid? Why do we hide what we feel?
This is how the psychology of relations between us works ...

In this article, I will talk aboutby short messages that he sends to your phone. I often talk about this in my trainings. It's time to reveal the meanings of some of the most frequent text messages from men.

A few phrases aboutHow

Love cannot be understood until you experience its presence and effect on yourself.You may feel like you've already experienced it. But years later you see a man, your heart flares up and the understanding comes that here it is REAL LOVE! And everything that was before that seems only passion.

Most often, people who bind their destinies get stuck in everyday routine. As a result, this state for them becomes synonymous with love.In fact, this is already a habit that rarely has anything to do with love.However, love is real. It’s just that everyone in a relationship understands the language of love in their own way. Men are no exception.

That is why it is not always easy for you to understand that a man likes you, that a man is in love with you. It is rather difficult to determine the presence of this wonderful feeling, but it is possible. For example, in text messages.

So here are 10 text messages that just scream"I love you!".They will help you understand that your man is in love, but hidesit's for whatever reason.

SMS No. 1."I am so proud of you"

Yes, pride is not the best argument. But in such a context, from the lips of a man, he speaks of respect and acceptance as a result of love. If a man is proud of you, then he loves you.

Why? Consider this: Generally, pride means feeling satisfied with one's own accomplishments.Therefore, if he is proud of the achievements of his woman, then he equates them with his own. And from this follows the conclusion thathe considers you two as one! AND .

Therefore, from such a short SMS message, you can understandis a man in love with you.

SMS number 2."I already know what we'll do after our date"

Such a message can at least annoy you if your relationship has not yet moved to the level when intimacy has already become the norm.But let's try to be realistic. Does he really mean what we thought?

Firstly, such an SMS message can be interpreted quite harmlessly. Perhaps he just prepared a surprise for you in the form of a walk along the embankment under the starry sky.
Secondly, even if he means intimacy after a date, think about it, is it really that bad?The way he behaves after that may well giveunderstand that a man likes you, and not just being another achievement on his path of sex exploits.

Spending the night together after a successful date could well mean a new level in your relationship. If after one of these nights a man does not disappear from your life, then he has long-term plans for you.

Therefore, after such SMS, you should not conclude that“They all need THAT” . Take the proposed date and maybe you canunderstand if a man is in love with you. Anyway, if you don't like it, leave.

SMS number 3."I miss/love you"

Do not be distrustful of such messages. It may seem to you that this is some kind of special tactic, the purpose of which, one way or another, is to get you into bed.My advice to you - do not try to see what is not really there. Keep it simple and learn to understand words exactly as they sound. There is no need to look for a hidden meaning in everything.

Although, perhaps, you have a completely different point of view and it seems to you that such SMS messages are a manifestation of the excessive softness of a man. Reading them, do you imagine that he is sitting in tears with a distant look?If so, then you have a very wild imagination!
It just means that he really misses and thinks about you constantly during the day.

SMS No. 4."Have you already eaten?"

Yes, a strange SMS from a man, you might think. To the inexperienced eye, this is a rather innocent text, without any background. But if you look a little deeper, then such an SMS from him can give youunderstand that a man is in love, but hides This. He may be carefully disguised, but such messages do not intentionally give out his feelings for you.

SMS No. 5."You don't have to go to the gym!"

Such a phrase should not be taken as permission to quit doing yourself and gain a dozen extra pounds of weight.

Of course, if his feelings are real, then even after that he will not stop loving you. But he means something completely different.Such SMS only directly givesunderstand that a man likes youthe way you are at the moment. Everything is just plain...

SMS No. 6.“I watch a movie/read a book/listen to a song that reminds me of you”

These posts also helpunderstand if a man is in love with you. When a person (whether a man or a woman) falls in love, his subconscious constantly tries to remind him of who he loves in a variety of ways.

If you often receive such messages, be sure that he sees your image many times during the day. And this does not annoy him at all, but only makes you once again remind you of your feelings.

SMS no. 7. Any message with the word"embrace"

For example, "Come, let's hug!" . Such messages in some women immediately cause the feeling that he just wants to have sex with you. I want to tell you that according to such texts you canunderstand that a man is in love, but hidesThis. Maybe he just doesn't feel comfortable putting his feelings into words.

Understand that men need affection too. Therefore, such messages should be taken literally: he needs your company, communication and hugs.Sex after that, of course, can be. But rest assured, in most cases this is not planned by him in advance.

SMS No. 8."Let's not go anywhere tonight"

Don't think he doesn't like dating you anymore.
Do not also think that you are tired of him.
He just wants to be alone with you more often.
After all, you are the most important thing for him and he does not want to share your attention with anyone else.
Nights like these will make it easier for youunderstand that a man likes you.

SMS no. 9."I wish you were here now"

Such SMS means that he wants to do everything with you. No matter what, it is important that the two of us. And to more often and longer ...

True love is born between two people who feel good together not only to communicate, but also to do something.Do you want him to be with you now?

SMS no. 10."My mom wants to meet you!"

Men do not disturb their mothers over trifles.This statement does not require proof, since it is a well-known truth. Therefore, constant hints about meeting his mother means that he wants to introduce the two most important women in his life. . And this is a clear confirmation that he sees the future in a relationship with you.

If he still does not introduce you to his mother and constantly comes up with all sorts of excuses, then it is very likely that he does not have tender feelings for you.Although there may be other reasons for such behavior (a strict mother who does not share his passion for you). But in this case, do you need this man?

What do his brief messages tell you?

So, if at least once in your life you received such messages from a man, it means that:

- he is proud that such a woman is next to him;
- he already has his own plan for you;
- it is important for him to know how you feel;
- he loves you the way you are;
- thoughts about you constantly hover in his head;
He wants you to be around more often and longer.

And this all says one thing - you are interesting to him as a woman. He wants to be with you.

I hope that after reading these short messages from a man, it will be much easier for you.understand that a man likes youand occupy an important place in his life.Write in the comments if you received such SMS from a man. If yes, please share your experience.

Perhaps you will also be interested in lesson number 46 of our training called "Spicy SMS". In it, we analyze only working schemes for a subtle psychological impact on a man with the help of short SMS messages.

Thank you for your trust in this matter. I wish you real female happiness - to be loved and always be able to understand in time (and this is important!) That a man really likes you.

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Science has proven that women express their feelings more emotionally than men. Whether it's anger or resentment, love or jealousy, she doesn't keep it to herself. Others clearly see that a woman is experiencing strong emotions.

Men are stingy with the expression of emotions. It is rare to find a man who revealingly demonstrates joy, fear or dislike. The same rule applies to love.

However, if the heart of a representative of the strong half of humanity could not resist this eternal feeling, this is immediately evident.

A man in love is ready:

Make an impression;
do romantic (and crazy!) things;
change lifestyle.

Female and male love - what are the differences?

Women's love is earthly and pragmatic. A woman gives her heart to a man who, in her mind, looks like:

earner - he is able to feed future offspring, equip life;
strong and reliable, solves life's problems;
ready for family life. Frivolous womanizers are the lot of windy and stupid people. A smart woman thinks ahead: is this man worthy of becoming a husband and father?

Male love is not so pragmatic and thoughtful. A man does not care about the social status of the chosen one, material wealth. He draws attention to the appearance of the chosen one, diligence, the ability to run a house.

What are they, signs of a man in love?

Sign No. 1. Thirst for communication

A man in love talks a lot. He talks about his work, friends and relatives, shares memories, emphasizes life achievements.

A man in love wants to look successful and strong in the eyes of his chosen one.

In addition, a representative of the strong half of humanity is interested in the life of a woman she likes. He is ready to listen to you for hours. He is interested in where you were born, how you studied at school, your favorite food and hobbies.

A man in love during communication:

gallant, polite;
looks into the eyes of the interlocutor and listens to every word;
is next to the chosen one;
feels awkward, embarrassed;
constantly preens (straightens hair, clothes).

Sign #2. A man in love takes care of his woman.

He asks if you put on a hat and gloves on a cold winter day, if you want coffee or a snack. Before going to bed, he will call to wish you good night, and in the morning he will definitely instruct you on how to drive a car carefully.

A man in love helps by deed, not by word.

The feelings of a man in love are not expressed as expressively and vividly as those of a woman. Stormy emotions and showdown in the character of a woman. A man, if he loves, acts.

Whether your kitchen faucet is leaking or you need to take your cat to the vet, a man puts the burden on his strong shoulders.

Gifts are another indicator of care. A man gives flowers, pays the bill in a cafe.

Sign #3: There is always time for you.

Even if a man is the president of an international corporation for the protection of animal rights or a sought-after actor, he will definitely have a minute to communicate with his beloved woman. He finds time for dates, no matter how busy his work schedule is. Meeting with you is a priority.

Often calls, writes funny messages. Most often, this is a conversation about nothing - how are you, mood, plans for the evening.

Sign #4: Non-verbal contact, jealousy, and ownership

His touches are light, perhaps even unconscious. When you get off the bus, he gives you his hand. On the street, his hand rests unobtrusively on your waist. When talking, the man's torso is completely turned in your direction. that has serious plans for you.

He frowns when you smile sweetly at a passing man or talk warmly about a friend who helped you in a difficult life situation.

Sign number 5. Acquaintance with parents, friends

A classic and striking indicator of male interest. A man in love will introduce you to his social circle. He will invite you to a family Sunday dinner, introduce you to friends. It doesn't need a reason. If he says: “Let's go to friends, drink coffee,” it means that you are not just a momentary hobby for him.

If, while meeting friends, you see their evaluating views, it means that they already formally know you - the man was talking about you.

He also wants to get to know your family and friends. During the meeting, the man is polite and gallant, especially your parents.

Sign #6: He controls your behavior and social circle.

A man in love is interested in where you are, what you are doing and when you will return home. He worries about who you're going to for your birthday, what you plan to do on Monday night, and why you're still up at midnight.

This does not mean that you are forbidden to go to a disco with your friends or take a walk with an old friend in the park. However, a man, if he has tender feelings for you, longs to be at the center of your life.

Sign number 7. Builds joint plans for the future

If a man in the course of a conversation asks where you would like to go in the summer - to Egypt or Turkey, be sure that his feelings are real. This man sees you next to him both tomorrow and in a year.

Behavior of a man in love

To understand what feelings a man has for you, it is enough to analyze his behavior.

A man in love is unpredictable, doing things unusual for him. He is ready to spend hours choosing your dress, skating or learning how to cook paella. A man takes over your interests and hobbies.

However, something similar happens at the initial stage of the relationship, while the man is not sure that the woman reciprocates.

The man turns into a knight and a gentleman. He pampers the chosen one with pleasant little things (chocolate, flowers), prepares surprises, thinks through every date. A man in love constantly surprises.
Male love (at least at the initial stage of the relationship) is incompatible with critical statements about the chosen one. A man admires your taste (even if you are wearing a grandmother's sweater), culinary talent (although you are sure that cooking is not your forte). He will not allow himself and his environment negative statements, critical comments about his beloved. In addition, a man in love does not listen to other people's advice.

During the period of falling in love, each representative of the strong half of humanity behaves in its own way. And yet the signs of male love are universal. A smart woman necessarily analyzes the behavior of a man and draws conclusions.

Hello, I am 23 years old. I met a man six months ago. At first we did not communicate, but then I noticed that he began to look at me often. I could never stand his gaze, he always looked intently and never averted his gaze. This went on for about six months, I never tried to talk to him or get to know him, because. I am married and, I know that he is also married. Then he often tried to shorten the distance between us: he stood next to me, always sat next to me, but he never said anything. By chance, it turned out that we have a mutual friend. Thanks to her, we began to communicate. He talked about himself, about the past, about his family, wife and children. I listened to him, supported his conversation, I was quite interested with him. He is a cheerful, sociable man. But he never asked anything about me. Even what my name is. And I didn't say anything about myself. I think that if he does not ask anything, it means that he is not interested. After a week of such communication, our conversations stopped, if earlier, when we saw each other, he came up to me, sat next to me, and we started chatting about this and that, today he tried to avoid me altogether: he didn’t look at me, he didn’t sit next to me.
Explain, please, such behavior of this person. How he treats me?

Good time Hope. Only he himself knows how this man treats you. Moreover, apart from the looks and the fact that he was sitting next to you, no signs of interest in your direction were noticed. The fact that his gaze was fixed may be a reflection of your interest in him ... You are also very interested in him, and this cannot but be reflected in your eyes. It is possible that you also aroused sympathy in him, otherwise he would not have paid so much attention. But in this case, it is better to pay attention not to his attitude towards you, but to his feelings. What happened to you? For you, this person has become interesting. Is it important to you how he looks, where he sits? Of course, for a woman it is important! To feel attractive, you sometimes need confirmation from the outside. Yes, and family life becomes a routine. Therefore, sometimes there is a need for fresh sensations and experiences. And that's okay. The only thing that is very important is to show interest first of all in your own feelings, and then ask yourself the question "how does he feel about me?" I wish you to continue to arouse the interest of the strong half of humanity, but not to lose yourself. Sincerely.

Silina Marina Valentinovna, Ivanovo psychologist

Hello Hope.

It is impossible to explain the motives of another person's behavior. From what you wrote, you can see that at first there was mutual interest. And now you have expectations, and the man is avoiding you. The reasons for changing his behavior can be very different, including not the most pleasant ones for you: he could change his mind about continuing the acquaintance because he did not like it; he might be in trouble, or he doesn't want to drag you into a relationship for safety reasons. You understand that a man has a family that cannot but influence his life. It is not clear what you feel towards this person and what you expect from him. If your interest in him remains strong, then you should pay attention to the real manifestation of a man to you in order to avoid disappointment. For example, the fact that a man did not ask anything about you, and even your name, raises questions. I think time will give you the opportunity to understand whether the intentions were serious or not.

Sincerely.

Paryugina Oksana Vladimirovna, psychologist in Ivanovo

Hello Hope! This man did not ask your name, was not interested in your family, and at the same time talked a lot about himself. From what you write, it seems that this man has lost interest in you. But you do not seem to continue to be interested in him. Nadezhda, it is important to understand what you yourself lack in life? Try to answer yourself the question: what attracted you to it?

Gorbashova Svetlana Vasilievna, psychologist in Ivanovo