Statements about family and children. Smart thoughts about home, marriage and family

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Look for happiness in life, as well as positive advice. And may your family make you happy, and may your children inspire you.

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A man must feed and protect his family. If this is not enough for a woman, let her turn to a goldfish.

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Sometimes we forget that home and family are more important than any business.

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You are only mine, and I am yours - we have a wonderful family!!!

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God has given us gifts, these are our husband, family and children, we love them all our lives alone, wonderful, sweet and dear.

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Neither an interesting job, nor good children, nor a beloved wife can replace you with a good rest from them.

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When controlling children, you need to learn and trust them.

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Your family will never betray you, never humiliate you. Family are the only people who will never laugh at your weaknesses. Family is the only place where you will always find love and respect.

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Children are wonderful because they don't care about your opinion.

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Our most important wealth is not money and power... but a strong, happy family... with charming smiles... beautiful kids!!!

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In order for peace and love to reign in the family, you have to get up first in the morning... well, you know.

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In family life you need to be able to seem to be “oh, what a fool” so as not to remain “oh, what a fool”

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A woman gives birth to her first child for herself, the second - for a good dad...

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Today, tolerating each other is considered normal family life.

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When children stop asking questions, parents begin to do so.

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A good family life makes you stronger.

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True family happiness is when there are at least three of you.

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Family life is good because there is always someone else to blame for family troubles...

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My joy is my children, my joy is my husband, the rest of the world’s sparkles fade away next to them!

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A quarrel is a quarrel, but my husband needs to be fed on a schedule!!!)))

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It's not about how much time you spend with your children, but how much love and attention you give them during your time together.

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What is true marital love? This is work, patience and loyalty.

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In that family they shut each other up, where, in fact, there is nothing left to talk about.

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Mom can replace everyone, but no one can replace mom!!!

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Over time, you realize that there is nothing more valuable than parents and children. The stream of life turns into a river, separating them on different banks...

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To look at yourself from the outside, pay attention to your child’s behavior. And then everything good and bad is immediately obvious!

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I got myself a cat... Now this face has more photos than me!

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All parents in their lives have one, identical and incurable disease until the end of their days - this is their mental pain for the health and happiness of their children and no matter what age their children are.

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In a family, everyone must stand up for each other, otherwise trouble will knock on the door.

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You return from work in the evening, and you are greeted by children's laughter, scattered toys... your husband's socks are greeted from different corners... This is HAPPINESS when EVERYONE IS AT HOME!

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Family life is a complicated thing. And making a marriage happy is an art.

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A union made in heaven comes down to earth, and the main thing here is not to trample it into the dirt.

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A family is not born, it is made.

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Don’t rush to put an end to family relationships... But if you do, remember that any point, if desired, can easily turn into a comma.

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Pamper your children, gentlemen! Nobody knows what awaits them in the future.

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Don't overdo it when protecting your children from life's problems. Children need to gain life experience so that they can survive and succeed.

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The most valuable gift from God is a smiling child in the house!!!

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Don't take on too much. Thus, you make your loved ones helpless!

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To live means to always love; it cannot be any other way in life. Husband, Mother, father or children, we love everyone and cannot live without them.

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Family life is an attempt to have two “I”s under one blanket.

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They say that it’s easy to be a good mom when you have a good dad nearby... HA, it’s easy to be a good mom when you have an AWESOME grandma nearby!!!

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A woman, as the keeper of the hearth, has every right to break the firewood so that the hearth will glow and the man will not be bored)))

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Of all the diversity of life, we, having tossed around a lot, still choose the simplest thing - FAMILY.

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The strength of a family, like the strength of an army, lies in loyalty to each other.

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When a child is born in a family... the apartment gradually turns into a toy store!

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Children need to be raised in an atmosphere of parental love, and not in hostile squabbles.

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Live happily, joyfully! Protect the family! Holy bonds! Love each other and children!

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If sorrows are divided in half, joys are doubled.

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It’s good for one person... but with a strong... created in love... young and happy family... it’s better!!!

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If it breaks, it means it’s not a family, and if it’s a family, then you still can’t break it.

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Children and parents are birds of a feather, but grown at different times.

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A family is a place in which, as in a children’s game, by saying: “Oh, I’m in the house,” you can hide from the most terrible troubles and problems. Where you are loved for who you are and not for anything, but simply LOVED...

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In addition to principles, almost everyone has a wife and children...

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First we lead children by the hand, so that later they will lead us by the nose.

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HAPPINESS is when your children are ALL GOOD... And your HEART doesn’t hurt for them!!!

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Parents, don't hurt your children! Do not use force on children! Don’t scold for pranks and tricks, because children are happiness, given to you by God!

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I love my family madly, mom, dad, brothers, granny, aunt, uncle and sister, I don’t even understand how such a piece of trash like me got such a wonderful family)

Beautiful statuses about family and children

Statements, quotes, sayings and beautiful phrases about family with meaning, as well as quotes about the family of great people and unknown authors: I only fit into the family, and then only “half”. A. Ivanov.
  • Without a strong family there will be no civilization...
  • Family is the best thing that can happen in any person’s life...
  • Family is a great wealth...
  • The family is the crystal of society. V. Hugo.
  • A brother may not be a friend, but a friend is always a brother. B. Franklin.
  • The secret of family happiness: a woman should make it pleasant for a man to come home, and a man should make it pleasant for a woman to meet him.
  • Happy is the one who has a family where he can complain about his family. J. Renar.
  • Enemies" and "neighbors" are unambiguous concepts in ancient languages.
  • A good family is one in which the husband and wife forget during the day that they are lovers and at night that they are spouses. J. Rostand.
  • One can say about life and family that these two concepts are inseparable...
  • In a family conflict, the culprit is no longer the one who explodes, but the one who presses the button. I. Shevelev.
  • Family replaces everything. Therefore, before you get one, you should think about what is more important to you: everything or family. Ranevskaya.
  • Great quote about family: All happy families are the same, all unhappy families are unhappy in their own way. L. Tolstoy.
  • To create a family, it is enough to love. And to preserve, you need to learn to endure and forgive. Mother Teresa
  • Family is a sacred thing!.. Unless, of course, it is artificial. L. Sukhorukov.
  • Better friend or brother? - A brother, when he is also a friend, is better. U. al-Maali.
  • If a person perceives family as a great value, then the marriage will be strong: “Where your treasure is, there will your heart be.” Priest Pavel Gumerov
  • Dad: A diminutive nickname that children give to their mother's husband. A. Decourcel.
  • If I had lived at the beginning of the world, I would have first listened to what my neighbors said about the murder of Abel before loudly condemning Cain. T. Fuller.
  • A considerable benefit for a family is the expulsion of a scoundrel from it. P. Beaumarchais.
  • The source of family conflicts is the desire for equality. I. Shevelev.
  • When I realized that I couldn't afford to support my family, I was already married.
  • Who is a greater friend than a brother? Sallust.
  • Everyone dreams of their own - Get enough sleep... Grow up... Find love... Start a family... Relax... Become famous... A lot of money... How many times throughout our lives have we changed our dreams... And in the end - we all dream of being simply happy!
  • Not a government “unit of society”. Not a romantic “union of hearts”. One flesh. S. Averintsev. (quotes about family)
  • I will replace family members in case of short-term absence. Inexpensive. When replacing a husband, there are big discounts due to male solidarity. I. Gevorgyan.
  • Devastation within a family is periodic and must be experienced. And then relive it again. Once again. And further. You won't get divorced. E. Ermolova.
  • There are people so rich that they can afford not to have neighbors. E. Howe.
  • The bee family is a prototype of the mafia family: all the honey goes to the house, the enemy gets a sting. Statements about the family - B. Shapiro.
  • If you really strive for leadership in our family, then be kind enough to always do as I want.
  • Quotes about family and difficulties - The family hearth not only gives warmth, but sometimes it smokes. T. Kleiman.
  • What do we live for if not to serve as entertainment to our neighbors and, in turn, to laugh at them? A. Kloots.
  • Family is if you can guess by the sound who is taking a shower in the shower. S. Dovlatov.
  • The main idea and goal of family life is raising children. The main school of education is the relationship between husband and wife, father and mother.
  • Family is the most important thing in the world. If you don't have a family, consider that you have nothing. Family is the strongest bond of your life. D. Depp.
  • All neighbors are bad, but the ones above are worse than the ones below. K. Melikhan.
  • I will say one thing about family - this is my life, my meaning...
  • The family is such a thing, made of fragile, easily breakable material, that every family member is obliged to take care of it. L. Viilma.
  • Apparently, in a woman who managed to keep her family together until old age, optimism is deeply rooted. Ya Kawabata.
  • He who wants to have friends must be friendly himself; and there is a friend who is more attached than a brother. Book of proverbs.
  • When a conflict situation arises in the family, immediately ask each other a question: “Do you want to be Right or Happy?” (Very interesting quotes about family and happiness)
  • Interesting phrases about family - A strong family is sometimes like a melodrama - violent conflicts and invariably a happy ending. I. Shevelev.

Dear parents!

By Presidential Decree Russian Federation dated 01.01.2012 No. 761 “On the national strategy of action in the interests of children for 2012 – 2017” declared the unconditional priority of family and family values, and provided for the development of state family policy. Children must become active participants in the implementation of these most important tasks aimed at reviving and fully strengthening the social institution of family, family values ​​and traditions as the basis of Russian society and the state.

The Commissioner for Children's Rights under the President of Russia, Pavel Astakhov, proposed holding “Lessons on family and family values” in all schools in Russia on September 1, 2012. This proposal was supported by the Minister of Education and Science of the Russian Federation D.V. Livanov.

What could be more valuable than family?

What could be more valuable than family?

The father's house greets me with warmth,

They are always waiting for you here with love,

And they send you off on your way with kindness!

Father and mother and children together

Sitting at the festive table

And together they are not at all bored,

And it’s interesting for five of us.

The baby is like a pet to the elders,

Parents are wiser in everything

Beloved dad - friend, breadwinner,

And mom is closest to everyone, dearest.

Love it! And appreciate happiness!

It is born in a family

What could be more valuable than her?

On this fabulous land

Thoughts and statements of famous people about: family and marriage, mother and motherhood, fathers and paternity,
about family education.

About family and marriage

  • Every family is part of the state. Aristotle
  • The laws of education are the first laws that a person encounters in his life. And since these laws prepare us to become citizens, each family should be governed after the model of the great family, which embraces all the individual families. C. Montesquieu
  • There are only two types of marriage - for love and for convenience. If you marry for love, you will definitely have many happy days and, most likely, at least as many difficult days; if, by calculation, you will not have happy days at all. F. Chesterfield
  • Where there is marriage without love, there will be love without marriage. B. Franklin
  • Love is not a goal, but a means to create a family hearth. O.Balzac
  • Family starts with children. A.I. Herzen
  • The dominance of a man in marriage is a simple consequence of his economic dominance and naturally disappears with the latter. F. Engels
  • Family love is the most widespread between people and the most lasting, therefore, in the family of influence on people's lives, the most important and most beneficial of all the good feelings of a person. N.G. Chernyshevsky
  • If the purpose of marriage is a family, then someone who wants to have many wives and husbands may get a lot of pleasure, but in no case will have a family. L.N. Tolstoy
  • A good marriage rests on talent and friendship. F. Nietzsche
  • Family is one of nature's masterpieces. D. Santayana
  • The best solution to the problem of love is a marriage based on attraction, love and companionship. A. Maurois
  • Nothing cements a marriage like working together. Business cooperation is added to the love union. A. Maurois
  • There is nothing more wonderful in the world than a marriage in which the spouses have everything in common: a bed, thoughts, victories and defeats. A. Maurois
  • The meaning of marriage is not that adults produce children, but that children produce adults. Pieter de Vries
  • The best family diplomacy is the diplomacy of complete mutual trust and boundless sincerity. I. Shamyakin

About family education

  • Parents do not fulfill their duty enough if they teach their children to eat, drink, walk, talk, and adorn themselves with clothes, for all this serves only for the body, which is not a person, but serves as a hut for a person. Y.A. Komensky
  • If children grew up in accordance with our expectations, we would only produce geniuses. I.Goethe
  • Parents least of all forgive their children those vices that they themselves instilled in them. I. Schiller
  • Disrespect for ancestors is the first sign of immorality. A.S. Pushkin
  • Family life for a child is the same as social life for us. His soul is nourished by the impressions he receives in his family. Here the child learns to love one thing and hate another, here he gets used to work or idleness, receives his first... aesthetic tastes, here all his interests, affections and authorities are initially concentrated. A.N. Ostrogorsky
  • Parents raise, and children are raised by the family life that develops intentionally or unintentionally. A family can live harmoniously and be friendly towards strangers, but it can also quarrel, get angry, show callousness and hostility not only towards strangers, but also towards their loved ones. A family can live by spiritual interests, love reading, music, paintings, or become completely absorbed in squabbles, economic bustle, and worries about pennies. There can be both order and confusion in a family. Life, one way or another, of a family is strong because its impressions are constant, ordinary, that it acts unnoticed, strengthens or poisons the human spirit, just as the air we breathe strengthens or poisons our physical body. A.N. Ostrogorsky
  • Parents are most reluctant to forgive their children the flaws that they themselves instilled in them. M. Ebner-Eschenbach
  • The whole secret of family education is to give the child the opportunity to develop himself, to do everything on his own; adults should not run around and do nothing for their personal convenience and pleasure, but should always treat the child from the first day of his birth as a person, with full recognition of his personality. P.F.Lesgaft
  • The best way to make children good is to make them happy. O. Wilde
  • The main danger from which children must be protected is their parents. B.Shaw
  • If only parents could imagine how annoying they are to their children. B.Shaw
  • For the purpose of the mental and moral development of children, parents try to convey to them what they themselves consider good, which constitutes the so-called folk wisdom developed by the people over many centuries of their cultural and historical life. A.E. Bogdanovich
  • Spoiled and pampered children, whose every whim is satisfied by their parents, grow up to be degenerate, weak-willed egoists. F.E.Dzerzhinsky
  • We must instill in children love for people, and not for themselves. And for this, the parents themselves need to love people. F.E.Dzerzhinsky
  • Parents do not understand how much harm they cause to their children when, using their parental authority, they want to impose their beliefs and views on life on them. F.E.Dzerzhinsky
  • Where a father or mother leaves the family, the family as a collective is destroyed and raising a child becomes more difficult. A.S. Makarenko
  • By raising children, current parents are raising the future history of the current country, and therefore the history of the world. A.S. Makarenko
  • Each family represents a special, individual phenomenon, and educational work in one family should not at all be an exact copy of the same work in another. A.S. Makarenko
  • Our children are our old age. Proper upbringing is our happy old age, bad upbringing is our future grief, these are our tears, this is our guilt before other people, before the whole country. A.S. Makarenko
  • The true essence of educational work... lies not at all in your conversations with the child, not in direct influence on the child, but in the organization of your family, your personal and social life and in the organization of the child’s life. A.S. Makarenko
  • A child gives birth to parents. Dace
  • The main meaning and purpose of family life is raising children. The main school of raising children is the relationship between husband and wife, father and mother . V.A. Sukhomlinsky
  • You can establish yourself in society by raising good children. Good citizens, good workers, good son, good daughter, good parents. V.A. Sukhomlinsky
  • A child is a mirror of the family; Just as the sun is reflected in a drop of water, so the moral purity of the mother and father is reflected in the children. V.A. Sukhomlinsky
  • Often we, educators, forget that knowledge of the world begins for young children with knowledge of man. Good and evil are revealed to the child in the tone in which the father addresses the mother, in what feelings his views and movements express. V.A. Sukhomlinsky
  • The most valuable moral trait of good parents, which is passed on to children without much effort, is the spiritual kindness of the mother and father, the ability to do good to people. V.A. Sukhomlinsky
  • Beautiful children grow up in families where mother and father truly love each other and at the same time love and respect people. V.A. Sukhomlinsky
  • V.A. Sukhomlinsky
  • By raising your child, you are raising yourself, asserting your human dignity. V.A. Sukhomlinsky
  • If people say bad things about your children, it means they are saying bad things about you. V.A. Sukhomlinsky
  • Children are our judgment on the world, our mirror, in which our conscience, intelligence, honesty, neatness are all visible. Children can shut us down, but we can never shut them down. V.P.Astafiev

About father and paternity

  • One born of an evil father cannot be good. Euripides
  • He is the father who educates, not the one who gives birth. Menander
  • A father is pitiful if his children's love for him depends only on the fact that they need his help. M. Montel
  • The father who knows his own child is wise. W. Shakespeare
  • One father means more than a hundred teachers. D. Herbert
  • Anyone who wants his son to respect him and his instructions must treat his son with respect. D.Locke
  • By producing and feeding children, the father fulfills only the third part of his task. He must give the human race people, society - public figures, the state - citizens... He who cannot fulfill the duties of a father does not have the right to be one. J-J. Rousseau
  • Perhaps there has never been a father who did not consider his child to be something completely original; and it seems to me that learned fathers are more susceptible to this lovely error than any other category of fathers. G. Lichtenberg
  • You, Father's house, are the basis of all true natural education of man. Father's house, you are a school of morals and the state! I. Pestalozzi
  • All fathers want their sons to accomplish what they themselves failed to achieve. I.Goethe
  • Immediately after God comes the father. W. Mozart
  • Father and mother, whatever they may be, want to make their children the same as themselves, or at least what they themselves would like to be. L.N. Tolstoy
  • Becoming a father is very easy. Being a father, on the other hand, is difficult. V. Bush
  • In order to truly love your wife and children, and in order for this love to bring lasting happiness to the former, and true benefit to the latter, you must be a highly developed person, or at least you must constantly live in a healthy and strengthening atmosphere of honest work. D.I.Pisarev
  • It is much easier to become a father than to remain one. V.O.Klyuchevsky
  • The role of a man - a father - is determined by his responsibility. A father who knows how to be responsible, who knows how to owe, is a real man; his will becomes a force capable of disciplining the thoughts, feelings, desires, and impulses of children. V.A. Sukhomlinsky
  • The masculinity of a Man, Husband, Father lies in the ability to protect and protect children and wife. A man's moral duty and moral responsibility require him to be the main breadwinner of his children and mother. V.A. Sukhomlinsky
  • Only where the father educates himself is child self-education born. Without a bright example of a father, all talk about self-education of children remains an empty phrase. V.A. Sukhomlinsky
  • Any worker - from a watchman to a minister - can be replaced by an equally or even more capable worker. It is impossible to replace a good father with an equally good father. V.A. Sukhomlinsky

About mother and motherhood

  • Initial education is most important, and this initial education undoubtedly belongs to women. J. -J. Rousseau
  • The best mother is the one who can replace the father for her children when he is gone. I.Goethe
  • At first, maternal education is most important, for morality must be instilled in the child as a feeling. G. Hegel
  • A mother’s heart is an abyss, in the depths of which forgiveness will always be found. O.Balzac
  • When spiritual motherhood coincides with physical motherhood, the result is a miraculous and unexplained rather than inexplicable phenomenon that constitutes the essence of motherhood. O.Balzac
  • Mother's hands are the embodiment of tenderness; Children sleep well in these arms. V. Hugo
  • There is nothing brighter and more selfless than a mother’s love; every attachment, every love, every passion is either weak or self-interested in comparison with it! V.G. Belinsky
  • Mother is the name of God on the lips and hearts of little children. W. Thackeray
  • A mother who does not have time to take care of her child and give him the most ordinary maternal affection in the first years of life - a mother who rarely manages to see her child cannot be his mother, she inevitably treats him indifferently, without love, without any caring, as if you were treating a completely stranger’s child. And children who grew up in such conditions later find themselves completely lost for the family, they will never feel at home in the family that they later acquire, because they are too accustomed to living alone. F. Engels
  • It is an amazing fact that most brilliant people had wonderful mothers, that they acquired much more from their mothers than from their fathers. G.Bockle
  • The participation of a mother in raising a son or daughter is not only important, but even necessary: ​​the future character of the child in many respects depends on the influence of the mother; in her hands is the opportunity to give his awakening thoughts one direction or another. The responsibility of a mother is great, her duties are sacred. D.I.Pisarev
  • A loving mother, trying to ensure the happiness of her children, often ties them hand and foot with the narrowness of her views, the short-sightedness of her calculations and the unsolicited tenderness of her worries. D.I.Pisarev
  • A woman - a mother will save the world. F. Nietzsche
  • Let us praise the woman - the Mother, whose love knows no barriers, whose breasts fed the whole world! Everything beautiful in a person - from the rays of the sun and from the Mother's milk - is what saturates us with love for life! M. Gorky
  • No one can misunderstand a child more than his mother. N. Douglas
  • Having become a mother, a woman already really excludes the possibility of treating herself only as a female, only in crude sexual interests. She finds here her highest human dignity, which raises her - even given her spiritual limitations - to an unattainable height. This is the meaning of the word “mother”. Take away the children, leave the adults to their own devices, and we will float out into the vastness of the grossest tyranny and debauchery, in which, as if at the stake, our physical and spiritual health will burn. M.M.Rubinshtein
  • A real mother, educating, giving an example, arousing love, admiration, and a desire to imitate, will only be that mother who herself lives a real, full human civil life. A mother who limits her responsibilities to simply serving her children is already a slave to her children, and not a mother raising them. A.S. Makarenko
  • A mother who limits her responsibilities to simply serving her children is already a slave to her children, and not a mother raising them. A.S. Makarenko
  • Mother and father, dad and mom are the first two authorities on which the world is based for a child, faith in life, in man, in everything honest, good and holy. G.A.Medynsky
  • There is a most beautiful creature to whom we are always indebted - this is our mother. N.A. Ostrovsky
  • For some reason, many women think that having a child and becoming a mother are the same thing. With the same success one could say that having a piano and being a pianist are one and the same thing. S.Harris
  • The mother not only gives birth, but also gives birth. If she had only given birth, she would not have been the creator of the human race. V.A. Sukhomlinsky
  • The mother creates your unique human personality - that is the meaning, art and skill of what we call birth. V.A. Sukhomlinsky
  • From the mother's wisdom comes spiritual strength that morally disciplines the father, affirming in him a sense of noble human responsibility for the family. V.A. Sukhomlinsky

Attitude of parents to children and children to parents

  • Save the tears of your children so that they can shed them at your grave. Pythagoras
  • Love for parents is the basis of all virtues. Cicero
  • Children need to be treated gently because punishment hardens them. C. Montesquieu
  • Parents love their children with an anxious and condescending love that spoils them. There is another love, attentive and calm, which makes them honest. And this is the true love of a father. D. Diderot
  • In general, children love their parents less than the parents of children, because they move towards independence and grow stronger, therefore leaving their parents behind them... G. Hegel
  • Of all generally immoral relationships, treating children as slaves is the most immoral. G. Hegel
  • Love and respect for parents, without any doubt, is a sacred feeling. V.G. Belinsky
  • Reasonable love should be the basis of mutual relations between parents and children. Love presupposes mutual trust, and a father must be as much a father as a friend to his son. V.G. Belinsky
  • The first condition of reasonable parental love is to have the full trust of the children, and children are happy when the parental breast and arms are open to them, which are always ready to accept them, both right and wrong, and into which they can always throw themselves without fear and doubt. V.G. Belinsky
  • The right of birth - the sacred right to the sacred name of the father and mother - no one argues against this; but this is not where it all ends: here man is not yet higher than an animal; there is the highest right - parental love. V.G. Belinsky
  • Selfless love can appear only when the beloved child is seen, first of all, as a person born not for someone else’s amusement, but for himself, for his own happiness, for the fullest possible expression of the idea of ​​​​human life, a person to whom the future belongs. V.Ya.Stoyunin
  • Usually, fathers and mothers imagine that they love their children selflessly, but in reality this rarely happens. If you dress up your children like dolls with the aim of admiring them or causing delight from strangers, if you give them pleasures that are inappropriate for their age, introduce them to the circle of merry adults, if you are looking for an opportunity where your children can distinguish themselves before others, or enjoy the praise lavished on them in their presence, then your love is not disinterested: you do not notice that your vanity is at work here, which brings up ambitious people, superficial people, incapable of any movement without counting on personal gain. V.Ya.Stoyunin
  • Children love everyone, especially those who love and caress them. L.N. Tolstoy
  • The whole secret of family education is to give the child the opportunity to develop himself, to do everything on his own; adults should not run around and do nothing for their personal convenience and pleasure, but should always treat the child, from the first day of his birth, as a person, with full recognition of his personality and the inviolability of this personality. P.F.Lesgaft
  • Children make it necessary to be stricter with ourselves, with mutual relationships, with our relationships with children, with family, with friends... When we educate others, we educate ourselves first of all, for the presence of children often serves as a curb against promiscuity, intemperance, and requires thoughtfulness and labor to give life more order, to satisfy various demands and needs, material and spiritual. A.N. Ostrogorsky
  • Observing the relationship of parents to children, it is necessary to choose between the many different shades that they can take, to identify two extremes between which they are located. Such extremes are: either placing children at the very center of family life, or, conversely, at its extreme periphery. In the first case, children come to the fore in everything: they are given the best rooms, time is taken into account with their needs; Then, in their upbringing, the principle of their independence is placed above all else, and to please them, with great compliance and even consideration, adults do everything possible so that children do not feel constrained on their individual development. Very often, perhaps in most cases, such children grow up to be self-indulgent, selfish, unbalanced and unstable natures. Psychiatrists often note traces of such pampering upbringing among their patients. A.N. Ostrogorsky
  • Children start by loving their parents. Then they judge them. And they almost never forgive them. O. Wilde
  • Love for a child, like any great love, becomes creative and can give the child lasting, true happiness when it enhances the scope of the lover’s life, makes him a full-fledged person, and does not turn the beloved being into an idol. Love, which is addressed only to one person and which exhausts in him all the joy of life, turning everything else only into heaviness and torment - such love carries poison for both. F.E.Dzerzhinsky
  • Parents who work for their children and root for them, even despite all their mistakes, give their children a living and real lesson in altruism, as if introducing into their creation the duty to show human feelings to their future children, and through them to all other people . M.M.Rubinshtein
  • If, growing up, a child has not learned to love his parents, brothers and sisters, his school, his work, if the principles of deep selfishness have been brought up in his character, it is very difficult to expect that he is able to deeply love the woman he has chosen. A.S. Makarenko

Raising children in a family

  • Children always willingly do something... This is very useful, and therefore not only should not interfere with this, but measures must be taken to ensure that they always have something to do. Y.A. Komensky
  • It is better to keep children strict and fearful than to reveal to them the depth of your love and thereby open the door to self-will and disobedience. Y.A. Komensky
  • Do you know what the surest way to make your child unhappy is to teach him not to refuse anything. J. -J. Rousseau
  • Giving children rewards all the time is not good. Through this they become selfish, and from here a corrupt mindset develops. I. Kant
  • If physical punishment is repeated often, then it creates a stubborn person, and if parents begin to punish children for their stubbornness, then they will make them even more stubborn. I. Kant
  • Punishments should always be carried out with caution, so that children see that the ultimate purpose of punishment is only their correction. I. Kant
  • Nothing acts in the young souls of children more powerfully than the universal power of example, and yet all other examples of no one else are absorbed into them more deeply and firmly than the example of their parents. N.I.Novikov
  • Parents who spoil their children doom them to unhappiness. P.Baust
  • Corporal punishment even at the hands of one’s own father becomes unbearable; it destroys moral feeling. N.I.Pirogov
  • How grossly mistaken are many, even the best fathers, who consider it necessary to separate themselves from their children with severity, severity, and inaccessible importance! They think by this to arouse respect in their children and in fact arouse it, but the respect is cold, fearful, trembling, and thereby turn them away from themselves and involuntarily accustom them to secrecy and deceit. V.G. Belinsky
  • A child who suffers less insults grows up to be more self-aware of his dignity. N.G. Chernyshevsky
  • I think that... it is not only difficult, but impossible to raise children well if you yourself are bad. And that raising children is only self-improvement, which nothing helps as much as children. L.N. Tolstoy
  • Education seems to be a complex and difficult matter only as long as we want, without educating ourselves, to educate our children or anyone else. If we understand that we can educate others only through ourselves... then the question of education is abolished and one question remains: how should we live ourselves? I don't know of a single act of raising children that doesn't include raising yourself! L.N. Tolstoy
  • When upbringing, it is necessary that the child always be in conditions under which he can develop freely: he must, if possible, overcome the obstacles he encounters himself, be accustomed to constant, but not monotonous work with a specific goal, understand the truth and, in addition to the word directly addressed to him , not be subject to any rewards or punishments. P.F.Lesgaft
  • Understanding the significance of a child’s type, you have to constantly think about your own actions and strictly discipline yourself, since what you don’t want to see in a child, you shouldn’t do yourself. P.F.Lesgaft
  • Parents often confuse the concepts of “upbringing” and “education” and think that they gave their child an upbringing when they forced him to study so many subjects. Hence the frequent disappointment of parents in their children in subsequent years. A.G. Rubinstein
  • A child is mainly influenced by deeds, not words. P.F.Lesgaft
  • Educating does not mean saying good words to children, instructing and edifying them, but, above all, living like a human being yourself. Whoever wants to fulfill his duty regarding his children, to leave behind them a good memory that would serve as a testament to posterity on how to live, must begin education with himself. A.N. Ostrogorsky
  • Parental demands on oneself, parental respect for one’s family, parental control over one’s every step - this is the first and most important method of education! A.S. Makarenko
  • Your own behavior is the most decisive thing. Do not think that you are raising a child only when you talk to him, or teach him, or order him. You raise him at every moment of your life, even when you are not at home. A.S. Makarenko
  • Even in the best, happiest cases, even in the hands of talented and attentive parents, raising an only child is an extremely difficult task. A.S. Makarenko
  • In a good family, there is never any punishment, and this is the most correct way of family education. A.S. Makarenko
  • Whatever method of family education you choose, you need to find moderation, and therefore you need to cultivate a sense of moderation in yourself. A.S. Makarenko

Secrets of a happy family

Family is the most important thing in our life. Many people want to have a happy family, but not everyone knows what actions will help improve relationships within the family. The tips below will help you strengthen your family, bring more warmth into it and make it happier.

1. Have dinner together.

Joint dinners are a great opportunity to feel support and understanding and discuss pressing problems. Even if an extremely unpleasant situation is discussed over dinner, family members remain confident that together they can overcome difficult times. In addition, daily communication with the family is a huge help for children mastering the language. Of course, they need to read books, but they also need to talk to them - and what better time to do this than during dinner!

2. Show your love.

Everyone loves to hear that they are loved. And even if love seems obvious to you, don’t be lazy to talk about it more often. Back up your words with actions. It is not at all necessary to often buy expensive gifts for each other. You can just sometimes leave a romantic note on the mirror, a flower on the driver's seat, or send a card via email. You can buy a cute toy or favorite treat for children. This way the child will gain confidence that he is loved. And they love him not for certain actions, but simply for the fact that he exists. Gentle touches and a fleeting smile will also add warmth to your family nest.

3. Create traditions for your family.

You can set aside one day a week on which you and your whole family can relax in the entertainment center. This could be a trip to the cinema, water park or zoo. Or perhaps it will be a shopping trip to buy groceries for the week. Choose something that everyone in the family likes. Family traditions make your family unique and give household members a sense of stability, reliability and confidence in the future.

4. Invite guests.

Research shows that children who frequently interact with adults other than their parents feel more confident and happier. When receiving guests you will feel like a team.

5. Divide household responsibilities.

When household chores are fairly distributed among all family members, there is no room for dissatisfaction and irritation. Each family member is responsible for fulfilling his responsibilities. You can complete household chores at the same time. A common cause unites, evokes team spirit and mutual respect.

6. Get a pet.

Pets and birds are faithful helpers to improve your mood. They will surround your household with affection and love. In addition, caring for our little brothers will help to instill in children a sense of importance and responsibility. Before getting a pet, discuss your pet care responsibilities and the likely consequences of not meeting them.

7. Respect other family members as individuals.

A family is several individuals living under one roof. Each has its own disadvantages and advantages. Don't try to change the character of others. Accept all family members for who they are. Support each other, listen, compromise. It is necessary that all family members feel comfortable.

8. Be punctual.

It is very important for each family member to feel important. Don’t be late for your child at the kindergarten, pick him up from the guests on time. According to the psychologist, punctual parents give children self-confidence. Such children know that their parents will never let them down and that they can be relied upon.

9. Tell your family story.

It is very important to tell children about your childhood and how other family members were little. This allows the youngest members to better understand the elders. Many children think that their parents never had a childhood with their childhood problems. They believe that their parents were born somewhere around the age of 30. Share with your husband memories of your childhood and information about previous generations of your family. Such knowledge will help children better know their roots, understand who they are and where they come from.

10. Take care of each other.

Buy other family members' favorite cookies, or a random item you see to add to your children's or spouse's collection. This could be a much-needed book or a cute little refrigerator magnet from a business trip. This will show that your loved ones are dear to you and you think about them even when they are not around.

We have read many different sayings about family and consider these aphorisms about family to be the best. Read a wonderful collection of family aphorisms not found on other sites. They help express our deepest feelings to our loved ones, the people dearest to us. They contain human wisdom and feelings for loved ones.

We are glad to welcome you to the site, where many beautiful aphorisms encourage you to think about the meaning of life, happiness, and family values. They are sure to warm your heart, so enjoy them.

  • Family is your masterpiece, which you create with your own hands.
  • Wealth appears and disappears, but family ties become more and more important with each passing year.
  • We will never understand our parents' love for us until we become parents ourselves.
  • Things may change us, but it all starts and ends with family.
  • A family does not only consist of children, it includes a man, a woman, pets and colds.
  • Your dynasty is the best team you could ever ask for.
  • Relatives like pies are mostly sweet, but sometimes with a few nuts.
  • Your family knows your shortcomings, but, of course, continues to love you.
  • Marriage is the mines of King Solomon, only it is worth more than mountains of gold.
  • You can choose or change friends, but you can never choose your relatives.
  • Rod always gives courage to fight for life.
  • Friends only know part of you - what you are willing to show them. Only your family knows everything about you, even what is hidden from prying eyes.
  • We may be brothers of the same blood, but this will not make us related.
  • Much happiness and unhappiness come from one source - marriage.
  • Caring only about the family can set a bad example for household members to focus on themselves.
  • Family, nature and healthy children go hand in hand. (We recommend).
  • Little things can make a big difference in a marriage.
  • For a moral person, family relationships require a careful approach, but for a stupid person everything is simple.
  • Today, families are attacked and defended with equal passion.
  • Even after death, we still remain part of the family, where it is customary to remember and remember us after we are gone.
  • By agreeing to the price your family must pay for the success of family life, you will ignore minor disagreements, enemy pressure, and temporary setbacks.
  • What is our family? This is a touch to your heart and the opportunity to see your full reflection in the loving eyes of a loved one.
  • In a heartless world, your loved ones are hearts that beat only for you.

About family with meaning

  • Many people can make a fortune, but very few can build strong family ties.
  • Nothing is more beautiful than the love of your family. (You will probably like these, which we recommend reading).
  • You should never sacrifice three things - your family, your heart and your dignity.
  • The “wise” of this world can stop the decay of the atom, but they cannot stop the disintegration of families.
  • The boss does not have the same authority as the head of the house.
  • Dynasties fall apart when they take advice they didn't need and miss hints they did need.
  • Friends come and go, but family remains forever.
  • The only people you have never asked to love you are your family members. They've always done this.
  • All loving families have their share of eccentricities, wayward young people and family discord.
  • Sometimes the best way to maintain peace in a family is to move away from each other for a while.
  • When circumstances change or lose friends, family will always be there to provide support.
  • When others have betrayed you, your family and friends will always show that they are on your side.
  • The strength of a person is in his character. A great and wise man is one who understands that his main priority is family ties.

Christian aphorisms on family topics

  • God is the designer of the family.
  • Family spirituality depends on good example.
  • It is important to remember that family members have one common enemy - Satan.
  • Remember, God is part of your dynasty.
  • You shouldn't use God's Word as a gag in marriage.
  • Trusting in God in family relationships means that everyone qualitatively fulfills the role assigned to him by God.

Aphorisms about family and family values

  • A family is a group of people who decided to live together, and not just survive. We decided to love each other for the rest of our lives, and not just for a moment.
  • Love for family begins with caring for those closest to you at home.

  • Family is a school of responsibilities based on love and fidelity.
  • The strength of a dynasty, like the strength of an army, is its loyalty to each other.
  • True marital relationships are rooted in relationships between individuals, not bodies.
  • Love for loved ones is the greatest blessing of life.
  • A person’s condition is measured not by money, but by the presence of a friendly,...
  • The goal of each family member is to be compassionate.
  • If there is no exchange of thoughts in a marriage, then it is cohabitation.
  • Food tastes better when the whole family eats it.
  • When you have nowhere to go, your family will always accept you and be glad to see you.

Aphorisms about family and home

  • No amount of success in social life can compensate for failure at home.
  • There should be a holy atmosphere in a Christian home.
  • A person shivers from the cold in the house when he has no relatives and is alone. Family means that no one will be forgotten, abandoned or frozen in their own home.
  • No home is perfect today, although this is the place where we are without any masks.
  • A home where nothing has ever been discussed will usually find many reasons to continue doing the same thing.

Conclusion

Aphorisms about family show the very essence of unique relationships between loved ones. Where, regardless of times, good or bad, a shoulder was always offered to lean on or cry about your misfortunes and troubles. The aphorisms quoted on this page will help you find the right path or say what is in your heart, but what you did not dare to say.

Sincerely, Andronik Oleg, Anna.

In order for there to be harmony in the family, spouses must have wisdom and good character traits, and a pleasant appearance is more suitable for entertainment.

Family is the rhythm of my heart. When everything is in order, it beats smoothly, and when there is trouble, it jumps out of the chest.

The basis of a happy marriage is a husband who understands his wife without words...

Happiness is when you don’t need virtual communication online, because you have loved ones nearby.

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HAPPINESS is an interesting job in the morning and a beloved family in the evening.

When loved ones are next to you and you can hear them, touch them, feel them - this is true happiness.

Family happiness is an exact coincidence of two ideals.

Add frankness, responsiveness, respect to a marriage - and it has a chance to be called ideal...

Happiness is when everyone in the family is healthy, there are no traitors among friends, and there are no rats among partners.

There are people who are not adapted to family life, to whom the concept of “family” is alien.

Happiness is healthy, strong children, and also a spouse – the best in the world!

The greatest happiness in life is the confidence that your family loves you, loves you for who we are, or despite the fact that we are who we are.

“Take care of those around you. Appreciate someone who has forgotten his pride for your sake. Those who forgave a lot and always waited... God sends such people only once!”

Happy is not the one who has a lot of good, but the one whose wife is faithful!

Getting married is a very serious step! When we quarrel with our parents, we don’t think that we need to look for new ones! So the husband should become a dear little man! One for life!

They lived happily ever after. But still more long than happily ever after.

He and I are like Masha and the Bear. I'm so small, impudent and annoying. And he is big, strong, protects all the time and, no matter what, does not let go

How terrible the world would be if children were not constantly born, bringing with them innocence and the possibility of every perfection!

I have a family. Me, cat and blanket. We even sleep together!

Happiness is when you have a large, friendly, caring, loving family in another country.

Happiness is when you see people you care about every day

Good spouses have the same goals.

Happiness is when you don’t have time to log into Odnoklassniki because you constantly spend time with your family.

There is no greater joy for a woman than children.

Mom will cook breakfast, dad will bomb dinner, but all I have to do is keep an eye on my figure.

A young family (14 and 15 years old) is looking for a family friend with a passport to buy alcohol and cigarettes.

Love for the homeland begins with family.

If my pasta burns, it means “crooked!” You don’t know how to cook!” And if it’s your dad’s, then – “mm, fried”

I love my husband and child. In general, I love my family

“Happiness is when everything is perfect in the family! When the children are healthy and the relationship with the husband is good!”

Many parents pack up their troubles and send them to camp...

All happy families are alike, each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.

Married life is war every day and truce every night...

In family life, while maintaining your dignity, you must be able to give in to each other.

In a family, as in a state, the most dangerous thing is anarchy.

The family is the primary environment where a person must learn to do good

The key to family happiness is kindness, frankness, responsiveness...

Friends are the family we choose ourselves

A happy marriage is a marriage in which the husband understands every word that the wife did not say...

The husband is always right, but the wife is never wrong.

Being loved by your soulmate is better than being rich. Because to be loved means to be happy, and happiness cannot be bought.

My family always comes first..!

In a large family... the refrigerator is empty.

Our mother cries loudly that everyone in the apartment is playing pigs. Hush mommy don't cry, others have the same problem

If there is hazing in a family, then there is fatherlessness.

Dad, dad, who is that there in the corner - shaggy, with red eyes, sitting all night? - Don’t be afraid, daughter, this is our mother on VKontakte.

They lived happily until they began to find out who made whom happy.

A happy family is one in which the husband and wife forget during the day that they are lovers and at night that they are spouses.

A husband is a man who helps his wife overcome difficulties that she would not have known if she had not married him

My friends, family and love are not discussed! They are perfect, period.

Don't have children for the sake of family happiness - have children in happy families.

And in the evenings, the whole family watched the radio...

A good woman, when she gets married, promises happiness, a bad woman waits for it.

There is a family - patience, it relaxes you to the point of loss of self-awareness, there is a family - competition, it makes you nervous and exhausting, and there is, you won’t believe it, a family where they sometimes compete cheerfully, sometimes they understand and forgive, it has everything, and everything is in harmony with time and circumstances.

Family is one of nature's masterpieces.

Family is what matters most, that's what makes my heart beat.

Why did I marry him? Well, I think that since a man is drunk every day, that means he earns decent money!

The only thing you should worry about is your family, and let him worry about the rest!

Statuses about family and children - For a woman, there is no higher joy than children.

If a child is always visible but not heard, this is an ideal child. But even he dreams of ideal parents, who are neither seen nor heard.

I realized that my mother could be proud of my upbringing when, catching my heel on a step and flying half the stairs, I screamed: “oh-oh-oh!”

Happiness is when he, who will not be woken up even by alarm clocks, wakes up because I stopped hugging him.

The main causes of most stress and depression in a person’s life are: family, money and a family without money.

Today, in the morning, complete harmony reigns in our family: the baby took “Vrednolin,” mom took “Stervozol,” and dad took “Papazol.” Everyone is happy

Honesty is the soul of marital harmony.

Judging by how everyone is actively adding each other to relatives, our city is one big friendly family.

Family is the place where you can find love!

HAPPINESS is my child, into whose eyes you look and understand why God created you!!!

Every kiss of the spouses is an acknowledgment of gratitude, every insult is a cry of disappointment.

My family is strange: dad talks to his car, mom with flowers, sister with cats, I’m the only normal one - with a computer and a phone.

Mothers' hands are woven of tenderness - children sleep on them in a peaceful sleep.

A considerable benefit for a family is the expulsion of a scoundrel from it.

I realized that childhood was over when my parents started hiding cognac from me at home!

If family members do not love each other, if fellow villagers and townspeople do not respect each other, such a family is no good, neither the village nor the city.

Happiness exists only when there is someone to share it with.

The family is having lunch at the table. The son reluctantly picks at his plate with a fork. Father: - Eat, eat, otherwise your pussy won’t grow. Wife: – what are you teaching your child?! I'd rather eat it myself!

I don’t want a rich husband with a Mercedes... but I just want a happy family and many children!... that’s all.

Mom, dad, why do you think that elderly people in the village are good company for a child in the summer?

It is easier to win peace in a family by concluding a truce in it on time.

Happiness is when they adjust your blanket at night and kiss you on the cheek, thinking that you are sleeping.

On the day of family, love and fidelity. I wish you happiness, take care of your family, because she is the only one!

Happiness is being needed by someone who needs you

You should always be the youngest child in the family.

Enjoy your family, this is the most beautiful thing on earth...

Even the strongest family is no stronger than a house of cards.

Normal family. In between quarrels and fights, the couple gave birth to and raised three normal children.

All happy families are alike, each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.

Statuses about family and happiness - Happy is the one who is happy at home.

I know the password, I see the ATM, I believe my dad is an oil tycoon

Equality in the family means that the husband has equal rights and the wife has equal rights. Moreover, the wife especially stands out for this.

My family is my castle.

Statuses about family - smack - we are a couple, smack - family, tryn - you are dad, I am mom.