Pair test for a couple online. Test for two: will your relationship last

Text: Guy Seregin
Illustrations: Vlad Lesnikov

Family and relationships in general in couples have long been the object of socio-philosophical research, because a person loves to measure and systematize everything, even things that are not measurable in principle. Candidate and doctoral dissertations devoted, strictly speaking, to one topic - “Can a boy be friends with a girl”, today about 15 thousand are published all over the world a year. And if you add all sorts of treatises, brochures and studies here, then you get such a huge mountain of waste paper that one more small article on our website is unlikely to cause a stir in the scientific community. But with her help, you and your girlfriend can have fun for half an hour and find out at the same time why you are completely unsuitable for each other. Or come.

The test is based on Clifford J. Sager's 1976 classification of Marriage Contact and Family Therapy. This book is the bible of most family psychologists (we only twisted it beyond recognition, because in the original it is incredibly boring).

So, armed with a mouse, answer the test questions with the girl (you are “for you”, she is “for her”). It is advisable to answer thoughtfully, choosing not the first answer that seemed appropriate, but having previously gone through all the options and brainstormed them. Even when it seems that some of the answer options are almost the same, think carefully about the nuances of the wording and still choose the most appropriate option.

Once you know your "family types", see if their combination is promising. Regardless of the results, then have sex. There must be some joy to others from our work!

Questions for you

Questions for her

Type Combination

Twin - Twin

Very good. But complications may arise due to the fact that a pair of "twins" closed on each other often falls out of the outside world and does not develop one by one.

Gemini - Single

An unsuccessful combination in which partners have opposite requirements for each other. But not everything is hopeless: the stubborn "twin" has a chance to firmly bind the "loner" to himself.

Gemini - Parent

Not bad. The “twin” is easier than other types to endure the control and guardianship of the “parent”, and the “parent” often willingly allows the obedient “twin” to invade his personal space.

Gemini - Child

Acceptable option. The “twin” is allowed to invade the hidden nooks and crannies of the “children's” soul, as the “child” perceives this as a manifestation of self-love.

Gemini - Hamster

The problems are not only that the "hamster" is often jealous of his independence. The “twin” will also not be satisfied with the unity of souls that the “hamster” can somehow give out.

Gemini - Tiger

"Tiger" will be quite pleased, but the "twin" will have a hard time.

loner - loner

Seemingly such a harmonious relationship, however, runs the risk of being broken due to the fact that this couple will have a minimum of common affairs, interests and goals.

Single parent

One of the worst combinations, almost inevitably leading to a fiasco: the “loner” does not tolerate control, and the “parent” sees the meaning of the relationship only in such control.

Single - Child

The "child" is more fixated on himself than on his partner. And if the "loner" will show enough care in relation to the "child", then he will be able to maintain his freedom.

Loner - Hamster

Of course, Romeo and Juliet will not work out of this couple, but in an even and friendly disregard for each other, they will be able to live a long and happy life together.

Single - Tiger

Badly. Aggressive exactingness of the “tiger” is sometimes harder than the importunate guardianship of the “parent”. It will be difficult for a "loner" to withstand it.

Parent - Parent

A very good combination. Partners will easily understand each other's desires, and if they have the wisdom to put up with each other's control, then everything will be fine.

Parent - Child

The control of the "parent" in such a pair often turns into a mania, and the "child" runs the risk of becoming a hysterical creature who does not know what he wants, but is always dissatisfied with everything.

Parent - Hamster

As long as there are no upheavals, this couple can coexist peacefully. But in difficult situations, the "parent" will either have to deal with the problem on his own, or wag after the hamster's tail.

Parent - Tiger

Difficult, but possible. As long as the “parent” perceives the “tiger” attacks as childish pranks, everything will be more or less tolerable.

child - child

Hopelessly. The beauty of this union, perhaps, is only in its programmed short duration. "Children" do not know how to take care of others and do not know how to live without such care.

Child - Hamster

These egoists can coexist - subject to a decent annual income, health and other worldly benefits that will help the "hamster" pose as an average nanny.

Child - Tiger

"Child" is the best prey for "tiger". But the "tigers" are famous for anything but indifference to their victims, so the "child" will also receive the attention they seek.

Hamster - Hamster

Jointly avoiding unpleasant situations and simultaneously hiding from any painful heroism in their cozy hole, hamsters can show the world a couple of the happiest spouses.

Hamster - Tiger

Nothing will work. Concern for their own safety will not allow the "hamster" to spend the best years of his life cohabiting with the "tiger".

Tiger - Tiger

Amazing. True, it is unlikely that such a couple can do anything other than an endless showdown. But here they will reach maximum heights!

Classic compatibility tests are tests for two. However, in recent years, such questionnaires have been actively used in other situations. With their help, you can identify the similarities in the temperaments of friends and colleagues, understand why sometimes sympathy arises completely unexpectedly, and sometimes does not arise at all, how it is easier to get along with people and what prevents us from doing this. The tests collected here are absolutely free to pass, it will not take much time. And the result can be truly priceless.

Pair Compatibility Tests

Are you suitable for each other? Do you have a chance to be together? What are the prospects for your couple? What would your family life be like? Pass tests for couples and you will discover the reasons for failures in your personal life, you will take a fresh look at yourself and your partner. They help someone make the right choice, but for someone they become a real litmus test in a relationship.

Name Compatibility Tests

No less useful are tests that reveal name compatibility. As a rule, they contain additional questions about the zodiac sign, date of birth or conception. Knowing all this, psychologists and astrologers determine the characteristics of the psychotype and character. You can take such tests in order to find out how you influence each other, what can be expected from your union. By the way, you can use them to check friendships.

Boy and Girl Compatibility Tests

Do you like the guy? Will your girlfriend stay with you? Will your sex life be harmonious? Or is your incompatibility predetermined at the genetic level? These tests answer these questions. They do not solve the complex psychological problems of couples, but they are quite capable of becoming a reliable online assessment of relationships.

Are you suitable for each other?

Does it make sense to continue the relationship? Which one of you needs more love? What will you be like as a spouse? It's all in our compatibility test. Pass it, and your doubts will dissipate, giving way to confidence and cloudless happiness.

Do you have doubts about your husband's feelings? Worried about your wife's behavior? Is your marriage in jeopardy? By certain signs, you can not only find out the true feelings of your soul mate, but also understand what exactly is preventing your union. This test is a real lifesaver. None of his questions are random. Therefore, you need to pass the test carefully and thoughtfully.

Based on typical behavioral reactions, psychologists have created a unique test: it allows you to identify the compatibility of people and understand the prospects of their relationship. Do you trust your partner with your most secret thoughts? Is it easy for you to communicate? How often do you have misunderstandings? By answering these questions, you can more accurately assess the situation.

Do you annoy each other? Discussing sexual issues? Do you share your feelings with each other? Psychologists have formulated eight important questions. Each of them is aimed at identifying a specific problem in the relationship of the spouses. Take this test to get an expert opinion on your compatibility.

Surely, you have repeatedly asked yourself the question of whether you have created an ideal union. Ideal relationships can be created, but for this you need not only to love and feel affection for each other, but also to share interests and outlooks on life. Let them not completely coincide, but it is important that they complement each other and “do not enter” into dissonance.

Want to know if you are the perfect couple (you and your partner)? Then you should start taking the next test.

In order to pass the Test: "Are you the perfect couple", prepare a piece of paper and a pen. Write down the scores indicated next to the selected answers and sum them up. At the end, you will receive an answer, which depends on the amount of points you have earned. Good luck

1. When your lover tells you something, are you thinking about something at that moment that is not related to the topic of conversation?

A) quite often (0 points);
b) you have caught yourself doing such an “occupation” more than once, but in any case you try to focus on the words of your beloved man (1 point);
V) no, you always listen carefully to the person (2 points).

2. Have you noticed that your partner intentionally does not tell you about his problems?

A) yes, but very rarely (1 point);
b) you did not notice anything like this for him (0 points);
V) no, you are always frank with each other - you have no secrets (2 points).

3. The occurrence of misunderstandings between lovers is not uncommon. Do you sometimes feel the need to sort things out with your partner?

A) no, you didn't feel that way (2 points);
b) sometimes you are ready to do it (1 point);
V) if this happens, it often ends in a quarrel (0 points).

4. If the need arises, how do you ask your partner an intimate question?

A) first you prepare the mail (1 point);
b) you think carefully before asking such a question, because you are not sure that he will understand you (0 points);
V) such conversations do not put you in an awkward position - you easily discuss with your loved one everything that is interesting to both of you ( 2 points).

5. When you tell your lover about your problems, do you think he gets irritated?

A) no, because he is always actively involved in your destiny - he seeks to help you (2 points);
b) possible (1 point);
V) you know that your problems are not of interest to your partner, so you do not share them with him (0 points).

6. Do any of you happen to make a responsible decision without first asking for advice from your soulmate?

A) you always discuss all important issues together, after which you make a joint decision (2 points);
b) such moments are very rare (0 points);
V) before making a decision, you always consult, although everyone can remain at the same time (1 point).

7. How would you describe the concept of “true love” in your own words?

A) this is a state in which lovers enjoy emerging (2 points);
b) being in love implies that one will “give” himself, and the other will “use” him (0 points);
V) this is complete "dissolution" in the partner (1 point).

8. Think and answer: what could have happened if Romeo and Juliet had not died?

A) they would live happily until their hearts stopped beating (2 points);
b) the lovers' parents would curse them (0 points);
V) family feuds would eventually stop (1 point).

9. Do your zodiac signs belong to the same group (Water, Fire, Earth, Air)?

A) yes (2 points):
b) no (1 point).

10. Do you always spend holidays together?

A) always - if necessary, you and your partner will adjust and take a vacation on a date that coincides with the partner's vacation (2 points);
b) if the time matches, then yes (1 point);
V) no - you prefer to spend your holidays alone (0 points).

11. Do you and your partner discuss what happened during the day?

A) yes (2 points);
b) sometimes (1 point);
V) no (0 points).

12. Do you and your partner always keep promises to each other?

A) you do not always succeed in fulfilling the promise (1 point);
b) yes (2 points);
V) he does not always succeed in keeping his promises (0 points).

So, let's sum up:

19-24 points- you and your partner have complete mutual understanding: none of you feels lonely and does not feel superfluous. You know for sure that your partner will not judge you, he will always support and understand you. Surely, you are pleased to realize that the man you love is genuinely interested in you and your life, and besides, he understands you perfectly. This means that your couple can confidently set an example for others: you and your loved one are an ideal couple.

6-18 points- often you do not discuss your problems with your partner, but not because you do not trust him, but, perhaps, you are afraid of being misunderstood.

Advice: to make your relationship more harmonious, you should try to pay more attention to your partner and not be afraid to share your innermost with him. Lovers will always understand each other.

0-5 points- everything suggests that you either do not make efforts for the harmonious development of relationships, or you are not really made for each other (you are not compatible), which means that your couple cannot be called ideal.

Advice: if you do not love your partner and do not see yourself with him in the future, it is better to end the relationship. And if you need this person and want to live life with him, then you should make every effort - be interested in the life of your loved one, spend more free time with him, talk heart to heart more often.

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Test game for two lovers

Do you want to test your feelings? Take our test

Rules and conditions of the game - test

The lovers take turns answering the questions. If the answer is yes, then you can move on to the next question, and if the answer is negative, you skip the move. If you are not able to answer either "yes" or "no", then you skip the move twice. The game ends when one of the players answers all the questions.

To pass the test more honestly, answer on a separate piece of paper without showing each other the answers. Let one of you read the questions aloud, calling their numbers as well. Agree on how much time is allotted for the answer, for example, 30 seconds.

You can also play in pairs, but in this case, the girl and the boy must find a compromise answer.

Questions:

1. Do you prefer to trust him (her) with only small annoyances? (yes, no) 2. Are lovers always a little crazy? (yes, no)3. If you didn’t like the gift of a friend (girlfriend), tell me about it? (yes, no)4. The secret of your couple's stability lies in strong love? (yes, no)5. If a stranger meets you in a crowd, will he understand that you are in love? (yes, no)6. Are you the center of each other's interests? (yes, no)7. Is love best made in bed? (yes, no)8. Have most of your boyfriend's (girlfriend's) friends become your friends? (yes, no)9. Are you able to appreciate the irony and humor of your friend (girlfriend)? (yes, no)10. Do you go for little lies from time to time to avoid unnecessary conflicts? (yes, no)11. Do you listen to the advice of a friend (girlfriend) when buying things, clothes? (yes, no)12. Are you able to appreciate the small sacrifices of your friend (girlfriend)? (yes, no)13. Do you think that going on a separate vacation means to emphasize your independence? (yes, no)14. Do you think love alone is enough for happiness? (yes, no)15. For a woman, the hearth is the throne from which she rules the world. Is it so? (yes, no)16. The most important thing in life is understanding. Do you agree? (yes, no)17. Do you lose interest in your partner immediately after intercourse? (yes, no)18. Have you ever done things to your partner that you yourself would condemn if they happened to you? (yes, no)19. The life of a couple is a constant search for consent, and not upholding one's own rightness. What do you think? (yes, no)20. If your partner is criticized behind your back, will you stand up for him? (yes, no)21. Do you accept the idea that your partner has relationships with friends you don't know? (yes, no)22. Is your beloved (beloved) a part of yourself? (Not really)

Let's summarize:

1. You finished the game at the same time and all your answers matched. Your couple matches the classic models - Romeo and Juliet, Tristan and Isolde. It looks like you won the grand prize in the love lottery. But your happiness and harmony can become the object of envy.

2. At the finish line, you were separated by one or two points. You certainly love each other, but your views on love are different. Your love will know ups and downs. And some problems can be a test for a relationship. In general, life will correspond to the African proverb: love is like rain, and rare drops can stir up the river.

3. Difference at the finish line from three to five points. It seems that you do not have any special illusions of a sentimental plan. But in general, you are satisfied with the relationship, although the feeling of "seventh heaven has passed." Anyway, if you decide to break up, it will happen without drama.

4. The difference is more than five points. Conflicts are inevitable, and therefore it is better not to force them inside. Most likely, any dispute you have turns into a mutual demonstration of strength and a form of self-assertion. But do not forget that each of you has the right to relax. Tip: Bury the hatchet and take a break from your relationship. This manner of communication is also part of the relationship within the couple.

How well do you and your couple know each other?

What do you know about your girlfriend? What does your girlfriend know about you? With the help of our test, you will find out the frighteningly or, on the contrary, reassuringly accurate answer to these two questions.

This quiz is not only a great way to find out what you really know about each other, but also a great excuse to get to know each other better!

Even if you and your partner raised three children together (by the way, whose children are these?), It is not a fact that you know each other's habits well. And without this knowledge, relationships will never be as productive and happy as possible, says Dr. John Gottman, author of The Seven Principles That Make Marriages Work. From this book, we borrowed a test that we recommend that all couples pass.

How the test works

You will need five sheets of paper and two pencils. Okay, from one sheet - it's superfluous - make a paper boat. And pencils can be replaced with pens or, what the hell is not joking, with felt-tip pens. You will take the test one by one. One asks a question aloud, both silently write down the answer, without looking at each other's papers. For example, you ask a girl: “What am I most afraid of?” She writes down her answer: "Giant spiders with tentacles and light music." In the meantime, you write down your correct version: “Your mother.” And so you report on all twenty-five questions. Then flip the paper over and set it aside.

Take the next two pieces of paper and follow the same procedure, but with the girl as the defendant. She asks, "What am I most afraid of?" You silently write down: "Your mother." The girl silently writes: "My mother." And so on for all questions.

When you have finished interviewing each other, turn over the papers and compare the results (but first, of course, be horrified by the answers). Count the number of exact matches. Accurate in semantic meaning, and not in the form of a statement. For example, if you answered the question about your hobby “badminton”, and the girl answered “a ridiculous game with a net, rackets and such funny balls in skirts” - this is still a coincidence. It counts. For each correct answer - 1 point.

Questions

1. My favorite dessert
2. What is my shoe size?
3. What am I most afraid of?
4. How old is my mother?
5. What is my blood type?
6. What turns me on in sex?
7. Name two of my closest friends.
8. Do I have a hobby? Which?
9. What will I take out of the fire first, besides you, documents and pets?
10. My favorite movie
11. My worst childhood memory
12. What time of day do I like to have sex the most?
13. How do I like to spend my evenings?
14. How do I want to be buried?
15. A dish I can't live without
16. What gift would I like best?
17. What kind of food do I hate?
18. My favorite musical group
19. What kind of coffee do I prefer?
20. What circle did I attend as a child?
21. What literary genre do I like?
22. What do I want to do before I die?
23. What is your favorite weather?
24. Continue the phrase "You hate it when I..."
25. Do I have allergies?

results

How many points did you get?
0-4
You are very far apart

How often do you communicate? Perhaps you should break away from watching TV shows together and pay attention to each other. Although, with all due respect to Dr. Gottman, what can bring you closer than watching a series together? After all, what else do you need from a relationship?

5-11
Greetings, strong middle peasants!

You know just enough about each other to sleep peacefully and not embarrass yourself at a family dinner, confusing the girl’s mother with her great aunt. You certainly won't call you strangers. But you still have an amazing, full of discoveries, magical way of getting to know each other. Walk carefully.

12-17
Your relationship is enviable!

And surely your friends are doing this, once again watching how your girlfriend serves you creme brulee, although you have not even managed to say "cream" yet. But even in this realm of mutual understanding and harmony there is a subtle point: you need to monitor the protection of your personal space. In addition, you can periodically surprise your partner by throwing aside the crème brulee pan and demanding a Napoleon cake.

18+
You are very, very, very close.

A similar degree of intimacy occurs in people who have lived together for more than a dozen years. Maybe you will stop shocking the nursing home already and combine legal marriage with your permanent grandmother? Obviously, you have every chance for a happy life until the grave.

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Do you think you are the perfect couple? This psychological couple compatibility test for two will help you not only understand whether you know each other well, but also help him figure out his feelings!

This compatibility test is surprisingly simple. It is divided into two parts - you answer the questions of the first part, your beloved answers the questions of the second. So let's get started! For each question, you must choose ONLY ONE answer - "a", "b" or "c".

First you!

1. What professional photo of yourself would you order for him as a gift?

a) where you dance with eroticism in a seductive outfit;

b) a portrait in a classical style;

c) where you look like a model from the cover of a fashionable glossy magazine - charming and incredibly sexy!

2. Where would you like to go with your loved one on a romantic trip?

a) of course, to Thailand!

b) to Paris - the city where love blooms!

c) to Venice.

3. Under what lighting would you prefer to give him love:

a) in the sensual reflection of candles;

b) in the dark;

c) under the soft and mysterious light of a lamp with a red shade.

4. Your clothing style can be called:

a) MEGAsexy!

b) elegantly refined and very feminine;

c) glamorous and fashionable.

5. When he invites you to a bar, you are most likely to order:

a) exotic cocktails;

b) red wine;

c) champagne.

6. Ideally, you would like to see yourself in the image:

a) sex is a symbol;

b) a sophisticated feminine secular lady;

c) a very sweet, touching and romantic heroine from a romantic fairy tale movie - after all, this is how you ideally imagine your life.

Did you answer questions? Well done, but that's not all! 🙂 Which letter prevails in your answers - “a”, “b”, maybe “c”?

If "a": your almost supernatural sex appeal makes you almost supernaturally attractive to members of the opposite sex. Think about it: do they really only want sex from you? Maybe you should not present yourself solely as an easily accessible erotic dish? Maybe you are a delicacy, but so far only for the body - but not for the soul, considers this test for your compatibility with the opposite sex.

If “b” prevails: you certainly have impeccable taste; you are a refined nature, loving elegance in everything - and relationships with men are no exception. However, there is also an element of arrogance in your sophistication, which can scare men away and create problems in your personal life. Just remember that angels in the flesh do not exist among both men and women - that is, you are not the owner of a halo with wings. In general, be simpler - and the love of the opposite sex will reach out to you!

If most of the answers are “in”: how difficult it is. Difficult - and launched. You are so sentimental that you try to build relationships exclusively from thin matters - which are too thin for men, and therefore are quickly torn. You came up with an ideal love, but such does not exist. Less than all these ah-sighs, hints and soul-searching - at least in the presence of a man you like, and you will definitely spark interest in him!

The next compatibility test, or rather, its second part, is for HIM! Call him to the monitor - Are you ready, sir? Then let's get started. As an answer to each of the six following questions, choose one of the options under the letter "a", "b" or "c", and then calculate which letter prevails among those chosen by you and read the verdict! 🙂

1. Which photo of your sweetheart would you mind getting?

a) where she is on water skis in a bright revealing swimsuit, well, or on the beach in a translucent sundress, worn directly on her naked body! (Mmm!)

b) where she sits astride a motorcycle in a baseball cap and frayed jeans;

c) her elegant portrait in evening dress.

2. Where would you like to spend a week or two of your vacation with her?

a) at the ski base;

b) on a deserted island;

c) at some aristocratic fashionable resort.

3. Under what lighting would you prefer to have sex with her?

a) in the romantic light of the moon;

c) in the dimmed light of a night lamp.

4. You dress up...

a) extravagant

b) sports. And convenient!

c) classical style.

5. Your favorite drink out of the following is…

a) real red wine from French cellars;

b) tequila;

6. What type of woman is most attractive to you?

a) charming and unpredictable;

b) selfish bitch;

c) very feminine, self-confident beauty.

Calculate which letter prevails in your answers?

If it's an "a": you are an adventurer in life, in which you prefer an active position. You like to be in the thick of things, where there must be pleasure and entertainment. Your character is the character of Casanova - a true connoisseur of women, you probably have a lot of them too! However, you have a chance to live many interesting years with one, if this woman is like you - energetic, relaxed, in love with experiments and life!

If it's a "b": Do you like "bad girls"? However, this is not your type - such love constantly involves you in various dubious enterprises, because you are very reckless in life, and therefore you constantly make problems for yourself - these are the results of this psychological test. You need a relationship with a pragmatic and sane life partner who would direct your craving for risk in a more peaceful and creative direction.

If it's "in": hello, dear Hippolyte from the film "The Irony of Fate, or Enjoy Your Bath!"! You look terribly like the guy who just passed this psychological test for two - exactly "terrible." This guy is just as TERRIBLY correct as you are, without even the most innocuous frivolity and even the smallest cockroaches in his head. However, as soon as this guy falls in love like a fool with a girl with them, all his terrible correctness will disappear somewhere, and a new and more interesting life will come to replace it.

AND NOW - THE MOST INTERESTING! 🙂

Remember which letter prevails in the answers of each of you? Look for your couple's score in the interest match table, that is, look for which score your interests overlap. What score did the compatibility test give you two? The higher your score, the more successful you are!

If your score is too low, don't worry! It's just a psychological test. In this case, this paired compatibility test can only say that you complement each other - like two halves of one whole! Keep your love, and take care of your relationship like the apple of your eye. And accept the most sincere congratulations and be happy!

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