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140 504 0 Traditions are very important for every family. Some families form their own traditions, someone turns to the traditions of their ancestors. But perhaps all families, once a year, remember that solemn day when they united their family stories and became one. A wedding anniversary is one of those holidays that is celebrated year after year, from generation to generation. What to give and how to celebrate anniversaries over the years, more on that later.

Wedding anniversaries by year - features of the celebration

Table 1: Wedding anniversaries and their names by year

Year wedding anniversary name Peculiarities
marriage dayGreen *It is called so because the family is still immature, so to speak "green". Young people still have a lot to go through, and most importantly, it is to create strong bonds of marriage and live for many, many years.
Flowers are the symbol of the wedding, which is why they decorate the premises of the wedding and the subsequent celebration. Flowers should also be in the bride's bouquet and boutonnieres.
1 yearCalicoAnother name is gauze. And it came from the nature of married life in the first year. In fact, in the first year of marriage, the spouses began to get to know each other better, and their family bond is more like a thin fabric, such as chintz. Another definition of the name speaks of the too active intimate life of a young couple, which leads to the thinning of chintz underwear to the state of gauze.
On the first anniversary, light alcohol should be consumed: wine, liqueurs, and champagne left after the wedding should be drunk. Celebrate outdoors.
2 yearPaperPaper is also a fragile object, which is why the second year of marriage got its name. Only being together, the spouses create a strong union, it is desirable to have offspring by this time, which will further strengthen the family. Celebrate outdoors.
3 yearLeatherThe symbolism of the anniversary is leather, it is already a more durable material. Marital relations at this stage have become stronger and more durable. Celebrate outdoors.
4 yearlinenAnother name for rope or wax. No wonder the symbol of the four years of family life has become flax. It symbolizes wealth, purity, strength of family ties. You can celebrate your anniversary any way you like.
Linen is a durable material. After all, the couple lived together for 4 years, they learned to listen and hear each other, which means they are ready to continue their journey hand in hand. If the anniversary is celebrated, then there must be a linen tablecloth and candles on the table.
In the old days, it was believed that on the fourth wedding anniversary, you need to weave a rope from flax, tie the hands of the spouses with it. If they get out, then the marriage will be long and happy.
5 yearWoodenThe first round anniversary date of the family. Wood is a durable material, which means that relationships have gained their steadfastness and strength. By this time, the spouses probably had a child, perhaps they already have their own home. There is such a sign that on the fifth anniversary of the family, a husband and wife should plant a tree. This will become a memory for their descendants, as well as "root" the union.
6 yearsCast ironThis material becomes the first, durable, metallic symbol of family ties. Many years spent together mean that the relationship has some weight, they are important to you. But this does not mean that relationships can be left to chance, if a cast-iron product is dropped, it will break, and so it is in relationships. Any misunderstanding, understatement and turmoil can destroy a marriage. A good attitude, love and respect will hold it together.
A cast-iron wedding also symbolizes a strong home.
6.5 yearsZincNo matter how many holidays there are, they will always commemorate something. And the day when a new family was born is of particular importance for the spouses. It would seem that this is not such a holiday, but you can make yourself pleasant on such a day. This small holiday speaks of a relationship as pure as zinc. A small rest is arranged at home, in the circle of the closest relatives, or just to be alone.
7 yearsCopperEach anniversary is marked with a certain symbolism. And this is all for a reason, the symbol speaks of the stage of building a family, the relationship between spouses. Seven years is marked by a durable and valuable material - copper. This suggests that spouses are of incomparable value to each other.
The most important goal of the spouses for the future is to bring their relationship to a silver and gold wedding, that is, to make the relationship even more precious and stronger.
8 yearsTinYour life together is 8 years, which is already a lot, but not so much to forget about each other. This period of time gave each other to get used to the interests of each. Relations at this stage enter a new direction. Family relations at this stage are completely normalized, filled with warmth and understanding.
9 yearsfaienceThe concept of faience means a strong union. So your relationship has become even more connected and strong. This material is not strong, so for the strength of family relationships, you need to express all claims to each other.
Another symbol of the nineth anniversary of the family is chamomile, a homely, summer and pure flower that blooms only in the warm season. This is a great symbol for family life, which also blossoms when you give each other warmth. Do not forget that the family is built on the brightest and warmest feelings.
10 yearsTinIn another way, this anniversary is marked as pink. Tin is a flexible material that is very suitable for family relationships, for a fortress that needs to be adjusted to the interests of a partner. But the rose means passion and love, which has been kept for so long and still has not faded. This day should be celebrated in a big way.
11 yearsSteelSteel is a strong and durable material, which means that relationships in the family must correspond to it. The married couple has already overcome the difficulties of the first years of their life together, now the spouses have become closer, dearer and unity. This event is usually celebrated in the family circle.
Having overcome the path of eleven years, the couple proved that their marriage is strong, resilient, as if similar to steel.
12 years old or (12.5 years old)NickelSometimes this date is marked with silk. Nickel means that the married couple's family life has become stable, most likely they have their own house, a child, and even several. The family has already passed many trials, but it remains like a nickel, shiny, strong and strong.
13 yearsLaceThe symbol of the wedding is lily of the valley and lace. Both symbols are very tender and reverent, exactly what both spouses should have. Lily of the valley indicates devotion and purity of marriage.
Lace is characterized by sophistication, tenderness and beautiful appearance. The same can be said about the close relationship of the spouses, it is like lace, just as quivering and skillfully carved by both creators of the family. Despite the fact that the number "13" is unlucky, it has no meaning for the celebration of the wedding anniversary.
14 yearsagateThe symbolism here is agate, a hard and durable stone. It means longevity and health of husband and wife. On this significant date, the "young" again must confess their love for each other, as well as talk about their innermost dreams and secrets. Agate is designed to protect the family way of life. This day is usually celebrated in nature.
15 yearsCrystalDespite the fragility of crystal, this anniversary speaks of the strength of family ties, great love and understanding between husband and wife. This date shows the purity of family relationships and the happiness of two loving hearts. There must be crystal on the holiday, as the main symbol of the anniversary.
At the celebration, the husband and wife should exchange crystal glasses. Guests will be required to break a plate, glass or something else made of glass.
16 years*—— ——
17 years*—— ——
18 yearsTurquoiseA beautiful and strong stone, which has not in vain become a symbol of the 18th wedding anniversary. All passions, quarrels and grievances have passed, only a bright future lies ahead, there are fewer everyday problems. Turquoise signifies calmness and happiness. Your relationship by this time will sparkle with a new, turquoise color.
19 yearsPomegranatePomegranate is a red fruit and in the nineteen-year life of the spouses it personifies love, sincerity in marital relations, respect for each other.
20 yearsporcelainPorcelain is a very expensive material, in the dark it glows very brightly, thus illuminating the right path in difficult times. It symbolizes a strong family, in which there is always prosperity, comfort, warmth and a pleasant atmosphere.
21 years oldOpalOpal stone symbolizes a long, strong and good relationship between spouses. According to tradition, this holiday is celebrated by spouses alone at home.
22BronzeBronze, an alloy of two metals, symbolizes the union of two different personalities into one whole and inseparable, as well as their plasticity, the ability to make concessions. By this time, the couple had learned to adapt to each other.
23 years oldBerylBeryl is a symbol of renewal. It is believed that the relationship of the spouses are on a new level. The stone symbolizes prosperity, comfort, prosperity and love. If, after going through so many years together, the couple remained united, then the relationship is really strong and durable.
24 yearsSatinSatin is a light fabric, which means that the relationship should be the same. Having lived so many years together, the spouses already understand each other perfectly. You already have everything, the children have grown up, life is settled, it remains only to live and enjoy every minute with your loved one.
25 yearsSilverThis is already a big and significant day. Silver is one of the most expensive materials, which speaks of a long journey and the strength of marital ties. An anniversary like this should be celebrated in a big way. One of the traditions of the jubilee celebration is the exchange of silver rings between spouses, which are worn along with gold ones.
26 yearsJadeJade is a very mysterious stone, it symbolizes strong bonds, warm relationships. He is also entrusted with guarding the sacrament of marriage. This is the first year after the Silver Wedding, which can be celebrated with family or alone with each other.
27 yearsMahoganyBy this time, the spouses had already grown children, perhaps grandchildren had appeared. The name of the wedding is associated with the growth of the family tree. Mahogany is very expensive and durable, it can only be compared with the priceless minutes spent with the family at the hearth of the parents.
28 years*—————— ———————
29 yearsVelvetThe name of the wedding symbolizes warmth, love, tenderness between spouses. At the celebration, your spouse should wear something made of velvet. Symbolizing material represents wealth and prosperity in the family.
30 yearsPearlThe anniversary date symbolizes the cohesion and greatness of a married couple, like a precious stone, whose beauty is created by nature itself and years of life are spent on it. Pearls symbolize the nobility and beauty of the spouses, their rich life experience, role model and ideal. It is customary to celebrate the anniversary in a restaurant with an invitation to a large number of guests.
31 yearDark (sunny)The past years of family life symbolize the warmth and comfort of the hearth, the closeness of the spouses and their resistance to any troubles that arise.
32 and 33 years * —————————- —————————
34 yearsAmberThe wedding date, like the stone itself, shows the greatness of the spouses who have gone through all the difficulties of life and formed a real strong family. In addition, amber, as a mineral derived from the sun, also symbolizes the warmth and openness of the parental home.
35 yearscoralThis anniversary also has other names - linen or linen, but their names are rarely found so as not to be confused with other dates. Corals represent a special formed world of longevity, tranquility like ocean serenity, a symbol of grace and well-being, health.
36 years*————— ———————
37 yearsMuslinThe lived years of living together have created a special stamina and strength of family relationships, like muslin material, which is a beautiful thin fabric that cannot be torn apart by hands, which indicates the inseparability of the relationship of the spouses and resilience in the face of danger.
37.5 yearsAluminumIt is customary to celebrate thirty-seven and a half years so that the spouses have easy relationships and an easy life, because the symbol of the holiday is aluminum, as the lightest metal.
38 yearsMercuryAlthough mercury is a toxic substance, at the same time it is a material capable of acquiring any shape of a vessel, which undoubtedly symbolizes the ability of spouses to smooth out all problem situations and find compromises in any life situation that arises for them. Mercury on this anniversary is a symbol of understanding and compliance.
39 yearsCrepeIn view of the complexity and versatility of the life and character of the spouses, thirty-nine years of marriage symbolize the existence of a firm trusting relationship between husband and wife that appeared over the years of marriage and whose fates intertwined with each other like threads of crepe material.
40 yearsRubyThe red stone symbolizes the long years of love and mutual respect of spouses, feelings that have passed the test of time will never fade away despite the hardships of fate and the storms of life.
41-43 years*——————- ————————
44 years oldTopazForty-four years of family life is symbolized by topaz, which is known for its purity of beauty and strength, as a mineral it personifies the purity and openness of marital relations similar to the most beautiful and precious feeling - love.
45 yearsSapphireSince ancient times, sapphire has symbolized eternal love and has been a talisman against evil. And that is why this stone is entrusted to accompany forty-five years of marriage. Like this precious stone, spouses must protect each other from all the misfortunes of life and show everyone their resilience to the coming difficulties of life.
46 years oldlavenderLavender is a mountain flower that can only be picked by climbing to the top of a mountain. A kind of exotic name for the anniversary date is associated with the tenderness, kindness and care of the spouses for each other over a long period of living together.
47 years oldCashmereCashmere is one of the most expensive fabrics, it takes a lot of effort and patience to create it. Compare such work to the efforts of the spouses to create an ideal family and achieve harmony and peace in it.
48 years oldamethystAmethyst is one of the gemstones destined to accompany the forty-eight year of marriage. It is a symbol of uniqueness and respect for marriage, the ideal of the family.
49 years oldCedarSince ancient times, the cedar has been considered a long-lived tree, therefore an honorable role has been assigned to personify the long years of the life of the spouses, their good health and resistance to all the misfortunes of life.
50 yearsGoldenThe anniversary date is considered golden because the spouses value each other more than gold over the long years of their life together. Therefore, the symbol is gold. It is customary to celebrate the anniversary on a grand scale with friends and relatives.
51-54 years*————————— ————————
55 yearsemeraldThe symbol of the anniversary is the emerald gem, which symbolizes the eternal happiness and well-being of the spouses. Anniversaries are celebrated in the circle of close relatives. The main wishes are never to grow old, to love each other.
56-59 years*———————— ————————
60 yearsDiamondThe most durable mineral in the world is a diamond, it is he who is destined to personify the sixty years of marriage. The diamond itself says that the hearts of the spouses will no longer be able to share any hardships and difficulties of life.
61-64 years*———————- ————————
65 yearIronThe years spent in marriage, like iron, show how strong the spouses turned out to be to all the hardships of life and how strong their marriage turned out to be.
66 and 67 years*——————- ———————-
67.5 yearsStoneIt is known that the stone never changes even under the pressure of time, spouses who have been married for 67.5 years show future generations that their relationship, like a stone, is indestructible and inseparable. Anniversaries are celebrated with family.
68-69 years*————————— —————————
70 years oldGraciousOn this anniversary wedding day, the spouses, as it were, thank each other for all the years they have lived together, their children and grandchildren.
71-74 years*———————— —————————
75 years oldCrownThe crown shows the highest position of the spouses in the family hierarchy, their wisdom and steadfastness in all life's problems. Celebrated in the family circle.
76-79 years*——————— —————————
80 years oldoakThose who are lucky enough to meet this date compare it with oak as a symbol of nobility, power and longevity.
81-89 years*——————— ———————
90 years oldGraniteGranite is a long-lived stone, as are those who survived and celebrate the 90th anniversary of their life together. There are no special celebration traditions; as a rule, close relatives and close friends of the family gather for the anniversary.
91-99 years*——————— ———————
100 yearsPlatinum (red)The tradition of celebrating the centenary of marriage came to us from the Caucasus Mountains. Platinum or red color show the sublimity of the spouses' feelings almost to the skies, both for each other and for their children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren.

* - these wedding anniversaries do not have names. They are usually not celebrated due to the fact that previously it was considered a bad omen.

Today, more and more often, the anniversary is celebrated with a magnificent celebration, some even repeat their vows given on the wedding day, with a large number of guests. In fact, a second wedding is arranged, with the same groom and the same bride, with gifts and guests.

Someone celebrates anniversaries together at a romantic dinner or with family, reviewing photos and videos from the wedding.

The photos of pensioners who have lived a long life together and decided to celebrate this event by arranging a photo session in the style of “Lovestory” look funny.

Table 2: What to give for a wedding anniversary

wedding anniversary name Anniversary gifts
GreenNowadays, money is considered the most important gift. And there, the newly-made family will decide for itself what to buy for them. Together with the desired envelope, you can give amulets dolls or bags of incense. This will help protect the newly-made family from adversity and envy.
CalicoAs gifts, bed linen is perfect to replenish the supplies of a young family. It is unlikely that in a year of living together they have acquired a sufficient number of them. Pillows, aprons, towels, etc. are also suitable.
PaperTwo years of married life has long been compared to paper. All because there is a lot of trouble and worries, which brings the spouses out of balance. Paper is easily torn and burns, which is why it is better to present something paper as a gift to replenish its reserves. Money, books, albums, paintings, etc. will help to cope with this difficult task.
Do not forget about gifts between spouses, this should generally become a tradition for a newly-made family. In this case, you can present money that everyone will spend on their own needs, or something made with their own hands, preferably from paper, such as a wedding album.
LeatherAs a gift, it is best to present something made of leather: a keychain, a wallet, a bag, furniture, etc.
linenLinen is a durable and expensive material. This is also considered the fourth year of marriage, many problems have already passed, the spouses have got used to each other, perhaps a child has appeared, or even two. On an anniversary, it is customary to give something made of linen. It can be tablecloths, towels, etc.
WoodenAs the name implies, the tree becomes the symbol of the wedding. Accordingly, gifts should be wooden. If the couple already has their own home, this is great for home use. Wooden furniture, toys, jewelry, wooden photo frames, crockery, jewelry boxes and other items can serve as gifts.
Cast ironOn this day, a married couple should give something made of cast iron. It can be a frying pan, which is very useful in everyday life, or other products made of this metal.
ZincIf you decide to invite relatives and friends to this holiday, then it is better to present them with appropriate zinc items as a gift. It can be dishes, kitchen utensils, etc. In everyday life, this will definitely come in handy, especially for a young family.
CopperOn this day, it is customary to give something that contains copper: a horseshoe, a belt, candlesticks, etc.
TinOn this day, you can give anything, but that it be in a tin box or made of tin. Perfect for baking trays, trays, tin cans, etc.
faienceAs already mentioned, faience is a fragile material that can break easily. To hint about this married couple, it is tedious to give something fragile on this day, which, if handled carelessly, can break. Spouses should compare their relationship with this gift and carefully keep them in the future. As a gift, you can choose a service or crystal glasses. It is desirable that the gift be fragile.
TinThis day is celebrated on a grand scale. Accordingly, gifts should be expensive and worthy. On this day, spouses can be presented with a huge bouquet of red roses, which symbolizes passion. It will be difficult to present something pewter, so you can limit yourself to flowers. In addition to them, various souvenirs, bedding and other red items are suitable.
SteelOn this day, it is customary to give souvenirs, dishes, cutlery made of steel. You can also get something with a steely tone, this is also great as a gift. Do not forget about the packaging, it should be bright and colorful.
NickelOn this anniversary, spouses should be reminded of the purity and radiance in the pulp, thereby hinting at their relationship with each other. nickel items (jewelry, candlesticks, etc.) can be presented as a gift.
LaceOn this day, it is customary to give something tender, with a pleasant aroma. Do not forget about the bouquet of lilies of the valley, if the anniversary is in the season of their flowering. If not, then fine products for the interior, lace underwear, napkins and much more will do. You can also knit something with your own hands, it will be a great gift.
agateOn this day, you can give agate products, caskets, jewelry, etc.
CrystalYou can give a panel, a picture, glasses or other crystal products, etc.
TurquoiseAs a gift, you can present any item of turquoise color. It can be jewelry, household items, etc.
PomegranateAs can be seen from the names of weddings, her symbol is given. Well, do not give grenades to spouses. Therefore, something red will be a great gift, and what it will be is up to the guests.
porcelainDespite the fragility of porcelain, this material is considered expensive and noble. The couple have lived together for many years, a lot has already been experienced, everything seems to be already there. What to give to guests who come to the celebration? An excellent gift would be something made of porcelain, after all, for so many years the family already needs to update the dishes.
OpalIt is believed that opal is a repulsive stone. However, it is opal products that should be given as a gift. Probably because two opals are able to attract each other.
BronzeIt is customary to give bronze items.
BerylFor the holiday, they give a blanket, a calendar, bathrobes with photos of spouses, beryl products, etc.
SatinIt is customary to give something from the satin: ribbons, decor, pillows, etc.
SilverGuests should present something made of silver. It can be jewelry, cutlery, collectible coins, etc.
JadeGive jewelry with jade stone.
mahogany weddingAs a gift, you can present mahogany products, pieces of furniture on which this tree is depicted.
VelvetYou can donate velvet products.
PearlOn this anniversary, as a rule, pearl jewelry is given to the wife, interior items with mother-of-pearl or pearl jewelry are given to the man.
Swarthy (Sunny)It is customary for children to buy vouchers for their parents to southern resorts, as a symbol of the anniversary, the sun and warmth, or they give coffee and chocolate.
AmberOn the anniversary date, it is customary to give each other, as well as guests, gifts made of amber (interior items, jewelry)
coralThey give coral products (beads, bracelets, decor items). Often there are gifts from various canvases. On this date, the wife gives her husband a linen shirt.
MuslinThe most common gifts given on this date are curtains, muslin curtains, and clothes.
AluminumIf you are invited to the celebration, then you should grab gifts made of aluminum (ashtray, vase, etc.)
MercuryAn anniversary gift is a cake with elements of a confectionery product in the form of mercury droplets, as a symbol of the holiday.
CrepeOn this wedding anniversary, handkerchiefs and crepe tablecloths are given.
RubyGive jewelry with a ruby ​​stone (earrings, rings, pendants, bracelets).
TopazIt is customary to give jewelry with topaz stones.
SapphireOn this anniversary date, spouses and guests give products and decor items with sapphire.
lavenderSince lavender is a southern plant, it is customary to give the wife flowers of southern origin, ideally a bouquet of lavender flowers. Guests present gifts of their choice, but the attribute of a flower bouquet is required.
CashmereChildren give their parents items of cashmere material, guests of their choice.
amethystJewelry made of amethyst stone or any other stone similar in color to amethyst is given.
CedarRelatives and guests at a cedar wedding present products or pieces of furniture made from cedar. An ideal gift is a jug of pine nut oil.
GoldenFor the anniversary, spouses buy new wedding rings made of gold, it is also customary for relatives or friends to give gold rings.
emeraldThe couple exchange emerald jewelry.
DiamondOn the sixtieth wedding anniversary, it is customary for children to give items with diamond jewelry. Guests are allowed to give crystal objects.
IronOn this rare anniversary, it is customary to give interior items with iron elements. A horseshoe is considered a blessed gift - a symbol of good luck and happiness.
StoneSpouses are supposed to give products made of natural and noble stone, which is marble, malachite or phosphor stone.
GraciousWhen choosing gifts, relatives and guests are not limited in any way; gifts are given that show the love of anniversaries. But most often, anniversary gifts are selected at the request of the couple.
CrownOn a rare anniversary date, they give a joint portrait of the spouses or gold rings in the form of crowns, as a symbol of the holiday.
oakSpouses are given products or interior items, or furniture made of oak.
GraniteThe best gifts for the ninetieth birthday are granite products - vases, figurines and the like.
Platinum (red)Due to the fact that the symbol of the anniversary is red, gifts should also contain shades of red. The only exception is gifts made of platinum (rings, bracelets, chains).

wedding anniversary congratulations

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The march of Mendelssohn and the toasts of the guests faded away, the wedding dress and veil were hidden in the closet, only joyful memories, photographs and a video recording one of the happiest and most memorable days in life remained. But this day will be special all my life, and in order to give it even more significance and symbolism, people gave the name to almost every wedding anniversary.

green wedding

This is not yet an anniversary, but the wedding itself. In the first year of marriage, this date can be celebrated every month.

According to tradition, young people are given a lot of flowers at a wedding - so they have become a symbol of a green wedding.

Instead of a bouquet, you can give a miniature tree or houseplant- as a symbol of home comfort. And on this day, young spouses can plant their first family tree together.

1 wedding anniversary (1 year). Chintz (gauze) wedding

First anniversary of marriage. Exactly a year has passed, during which young people got to know each other, equipped their home nest. This is a very difficult period: not all discoveries can be pleasant, and everyday problems and life can significantly overshadow family happiness. Feelings are tested for strength by severe tests, and not all of them are destined to pass them. Therefore, the first anniversary is called chintz (gauze): after all, chintz and gauze are very “delicate” fabrics that are easily torn even at the slightest tension.

What is customary to give for a cotton wedding? Any home textile made of chintz - bedding sets, towels, tablecloths with napkins, curtains, etc.

Wedding anniversary 2 years. paper wedding

second year of marriage. Strength testing continues. Very often, in the second year, a baby appears in the family, which adds difficulties and problems. Will the couple be able to keep their love and become a support for each other? The symbol of this anniversary is paper and glass - fragile and fragile materials that are easy to break or break - as well as relationships in a young family.

On the "paper" anniversary, it is customary to give photo albums, glassware sets, vases, books, money and lottery tickets.

Wedding anniversary 3 years. leather wedding

Leather is stronger than chintz and paper. For three years, the family has grown stronger, having passed the first, most difficult stage of "lapping". As they say, the couple learned to "feel each other's skin."

On the third wedding anniversary, the spouses give each other bags, wallets, belts, gloves and shoes made of leather. Parents can present leather furniture to children. A gift in the form of a leather suitcase is also symbolic: the time has come for the couple to think about the second honeymoon trip!


Works of the leather goods workshop of Sergei Neskromny (Almaty).

Wedding anniversary 4 years. Linen (wax) wedding

It's been 4 years since the wedding. Linen and wax are symbols of the well-being of an already strong family. TO fourth anniversary can be given any linen products: bed linen, table textiles, linen curtains, towels - they will last for many years, reminding you of the sincerity of feelings and wishes for good and happiness.

And also, according to tradition, on this day a couple of beautiful flickering candles must be on the festive table.

Wedding anniversary 5 years. wooden wedding

The tree has long been a symbol of strength. So a wooden wedding confirms the reliability and stability of family relationships.

To the wooden anniversary guests, wishing spouses a lasting marriage and a warm, cozy home, give dishes, spoons, caskets, furniture and interior items, figurines, wooden ornaments or photo frames.

One of the obligatory rituals for a 5-year wedding anniversary is the planting of a family tree. This will be your family tree, your talisman, it will need to be looked after. It is good if you have your own plot, cottage or garden. Otherwise, it will be quite difficult to observe this custom.

What trees can be planted

  • apricot
  • birch
  • hawthorn
  • cherry
  • pear- a magnet of luck and good luck;
  • oak
  • chestnut- cleanses of negativity;
  • maple
  • Rowan- a talisman against evil will, the evil eye;
  • plum
  • Apple tree
  • ash

Wedding anniversary 6 years. cast iron wedding

Cast iron is an alloy, though hard, but rather brittle. So the relationship in a couple only seems indestructible, but in fact they are “afraid” of blows and quarrels.

Gifts for this wedding anniversary are distinguished by originality: fireplace grates, dumbbells, interior items (openwork plates, candlesticks, small sculptures, writing instruments). A woman can be presented with cast-iron dishes.

6.5 years. Zinc wedding

Wedding anniversary 7 years. Copper (woolen) wedding

Seven is a lucky number. And copper is the first "noble" metal in the calendar of wedding anniversaries. The spouses still have everything ahead - they can melt their relationship and give it a completely different shape, but this will not break or break it.

On this day, the spouses exchange copper coins - so that family happiness is ringing. But parents and guests can present as a gift a horseshoe, copper or brass dishes, candlesticks, trays, spoons, or (in accordance with the second name of the date) a blanket, bedspread, woolen blanket.

Wedding anniversary 8 years. Tin wedding

Shiny tin is a symbol of renewal and novelty of relationships, as well as their strength and solidity. The house already has a certain wealth and children. The couple learned to lift each other up and give in, showing flexibility.

What to give for the 8th wedding anniversary? Electrical appliances, interior items, furniture, kitchen utensils - this will help the spouses to update not only the relationship, but also the environment. You can also present sweets, tea or coffee in tin boxes.

There is another, not so well-known name for this anniversary - poppy. It means that the feelings between the spouses are as bright as this flower. So the main dish at the festive feast on this day, of course, should be poppy seed pie!

Wedding anniversary 9 years. Faience (chamomile) wedding

With each passing year, the family becomes more friendly, relationships become stronger, and the house is filled with prosperity. Chamomile is a symbol of the flourishing of married life, and faience personifies the beauty of relationships and at the same time reminds that beauty is a fragile thing and needs to be taken care of.

On the 9th wedding anniversary It is customary to give faience dishes (services, decorative plates, dishes) or elegant figurines.

Wedding anniversary 10 years. Pink (tin) wedding

Tenth anniversary - first anniversary, whose symbol is beautiful roses. At this stage of their life together, the spouses return to romantic relationships again, filling them with new life, hope, tenderness and love.

The husband on this day should present his beloved with 11 roses: 10 red - as a symbol of love - and 1 white - as a symbol of hope. The wife puts on a pink dress for the holiday or decorates her hair with a rose flower. And even the festive table, covered with a pink tablecloth, looks romantic: it has rose wine, a roasted bird in pink sauce, a cake with roses, tea with rose petals.

A good gift for a pink wedding there will be a vase for flowers, a box or furniture made of rosewood, paintings of roses, jewelry with pink-colored stones, pink or red linens, red or rose wine.

There is also a second name for this anniversary - a tin wedding. Tin characterizes softness and flexibility. Such have become by this time and the relationship in a pair. An original tradition is associated with a tin wedding: in your bosom or in your pocket on this day you need to carry a spoon (of course, pewter), and put it under the pillow at night.

There is another tradition. On the 10th wedding anniversary, the couple plant a tree. The first tree, planted according to the customs on the anniversary of "5 years of marriage" for a wooden wedding, has already grown, strengthened, and next to it on the wedding anniversary of 10 years of marriage, a new tree appears - as a sign of new joint plans, movement towards achieving new goals, heights , wishes and realization of a new dream. Just remember to take care of the tree. It's a symbol and a talisman.

What tree to plant on a 10 year wedding anniversary

  • apricot- family amulet in love, protects against infidelity;
  • acacia- the tree of nascent life, brings children;
  • birch- a symbol of fertility, brings joy, happiness and light to the house;
  • hawthorn- brings hope, protects marriage;
  • beech- increases resistance to stress, helps to show greater tolerance;
  • cherry- promotes romance, adventure, new meetings;
  • pear- a magnet of luck and good luck;
  • oak- a symbol of power, firmness, reliability, nobility, often depicted as a world tree;
  • spruce- symbolizes longevity and health;
  • jasmine- protects from bad incidents, meetings and not good people;
  • figs- protects against wrong decisions, gossip and deceit;
  • chestnut- cleanses of negativity;
  • elm- returns the meaning of life and restores strength;
  • cedar- lives for 550 years, accumulates light energy and shares it with a person at the right moment;
  • maple- helps to cope with stress, misunderstanding, conflicts;
  • fir, pine- increases endurance, gives vitality, helps to survive hard times;
  • rowan, juniper- protect from evil will, the evil eye;
  • plum, rosehip- a talisman of the emotional sphere of love, gives tenderness, unity of souls;
  • Apple tree- a symbol of sexuality, sensual love and youth;
  • ash- a guardian of knowledge and inspiration, connects the spiritual and material worlds.

Wedding anniversary 11 years. steel wedding

Relationships in the family were tempered like steel. This metal symbolizes the inviolability of the union, its strength and stability.

For the 11th wedding anniversary you can donate tableware or household items made of steel (except knives), jewelry, souvenirs or electrical appliances.

Wedding anniversary 12.5 years. nickel wedding

It is customary to celebrate the nickel anniversary 12.5 years after the wedding. This day is usually celebrated in a narrow family circle. Nickel, like zinc, symbolizes the renewal of family relationships and a reminder that efforts must be made to make them “shine”. A good tradition on this day is to visit your favorite cafe or memorable places for a couple.

As gifts for this anniversary dishes, various decorations, candlesticks, nickel lamps are suitable.

Wedding anniversary 13 years. Lace (lily of the valley) wedding

Life weaves its own lace. So the relationships in the family become just as refined, gentle and harmonious, but at the same time - fragile and in need of protection.

In addition to lace, lilies of the valley are a symbol of the 13th anniversary.- it is customary to give them on this day. And as a gift, the husband can present his wife with lace underwear or a peignoir. Guests also give lace napkins, tablecloths or bedding sets with lace, openwork knitted scarves.

Wedding anniversary 14 years. agate wedding

14 years together. Every year, relationships acquire new colors, like agate, famous for its variety of shades. This is the first gem in the life of a married couple. It symbolizes loyalty, love, trust. It is believed that on this day the spouses should tell each other the most intimate, so that there are no more secrets between them.

Agate is a talisman stone that protects and protects marriage. Therefore, a gift with this gem would be logical: a ring, a pendant, earrings, beads, cufflinks, a tie clip. Or a wooden box - to store all these jewelry.

Wedding anniversary 15 years. crystal wedding

The people call the 15th wedding anniversary "crystal" or "glass". It is these materials that are designed to embody the purity and transparency of relationships in a couple.

What to give for the 15th anniversary of marriage? Spouses exchange glasses, and guests can present any dishes made of glass or crystal: a vase, glasses, salad bowls, etc. By tradition, at the end of the festive feast, a glass or a plate is broken - for good luck!

18 years. Turquoise wedding

The 18th wedding anniversary is painted in a bright color of turquoise. This means the end of the crises and difficult situations that the couple experienced in the second ten of their relationship. Often this date coincides with the age of majority of the first child, so gifts are given not only to spouses, but also to the eldest child in the family. It can be turquoise products or any turquoise-colored items.

20 years. porcelain wedding

The second round date is 20 years. What kind of wedding is this, probably everyone knows. Its symbol is porcelain. Why? Firstly, it's time to replenish the supply of dishes, and secondly, the relationship in a couple in 20 years of experience is harmonious and beautiful, like real Chinese porcelain.

The festive table is served with new porcelain dishes - this is an indicator of the increased (compared to the faience anniversary) well-being of the family. And it is also customary to give porcelain on this day - in the form of sets, plates and other utensils.

21 years old Opal wedding

22 years old. bronze wedding

23 years old. Beryl wedding

24 years. satin wedding

Wedding anniversary 25 years. silver wedding

Having lived together for a quarter of a century, the couple is celebrating their silver anniversary. On this day, it is customary to exchange silver rings, which spouses wear on the middle finger of their right hand.

This wedding anniversary is usually celebrated widely.- with all relatives and friends who give spouses silver dishes, cutlery, interior items, jewelry. You can also present a commemorative silver coin.


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26 years. jade wedding

27 years. mahogany wedding

28 years. nickel wedding

29 years. Velvet wedding

Wedding anniversary 30 years. pearl wedding

Pearls symbolize the ideal of family relationships- because he never fades and does not become cloudy. On this day, the husband gives his wife a pearl necklace of 30 pearls: they represent 30 years strung on the thread of time. This gift also has another meaning: pearls are tears shed by the wife during quarrels, and giving the necklace, the husband seems to be asking for forgiveness for those words and deeds that upset his wife.

Well, the guests give spouses jewelry, interior items or household utensils in pearl color - white, black, pinkish or mother-of-pearl.

31 year. Swarthy wedding

34 years. Amber wedding

Wedding anniversary 35 years. Coral (linen) wedding

Coral reefs are a symbol of the days spent together. A linen tablecloth represents well-being and home comfort. This anniversary is a tribute to the mistress of the house, who kept the warmth of the hearth all these years.

Husband gives his wife a bouquet of 35 red roses, and guests bring as a gift linen tablecloths, napkin sets, bedspreads, towels and bed linen, or coral jewelry and souvenirs, red aged wine and red-colored flowers.

37 years. Muslin wedding

37.5 years old. aluminum wedding

38 years. Mercury wedding

39 years. Crepe wedding

Wedding anniversary 40 years. ruby wedding

Ruby is a symbol of fiery love. It reminds spouses of the feelings they had for each other when they got married. In addition, the deep red color of the ruby ​​symbolizes the blood closeness that relationships have developed over the years.

Best gift for wife this wedding anniversary there will be a ruby ​​ring presented to her by her beloved husband. The ruby ​​should also be present in the gifts of the guests. These can be jewelry, jewelry boxes, watches, vases, bowls or ruby-colored objects.

44 years old. Topaz wedding

Wedding anniversary 45 years. Sapphire wedding

This date is usually celebrated in the circle of close relatives. Sapphire is a precious stone that symbolizes the purity of relationships, love and fidelity carried through the years.

For this anniversary decorate wedding rings with sapphires. But guests can give spouses anything - the main thing is that the gift is from the heart.

Wedding anniversary 46 years. lavender wedding

Lavender is a touching and delicate flower, which, no matter what, is able to withstand natural disasters.

As a rule, on this wedding anniversary, a bouquet of lavender is given.

47 years old. Cashmere (woolen wedding)

48 years old. amethyst wedding

49 years old. Cedar wedding

Wedding anniversary 50 years. golden wedding

The half-century anniversary is celebrated magnificently and solemnly. On this day, spouses pass on their wedding rings to grandchildren or great-grandchildren - as a family heirloom, bequeathing them love and happiness in family life. The “newlyweds” themselves exchange new rings (you can also arrange a second marriage ceremony).

Golden wedding gift there may be gold or gilded jewelry, interior items, souvenirs.

Wedding anniversary 55 years. Emerald wedding

The brightness of feelings does not fade with age. This confirms the bright green color of the precious emerald. On this anniversary, it is customary to give emerald jewelry.

Wedding anniversary 60 years. Diamond (platinum) wedding

The symbol of this wedding anniversary is a diamond- the hardest and most expensive of the precious stones. And platinum is the most expensive of the precious metals. Both diamond and platinum embody the strength of marriage and the value of the years lived hand in hand.

Of course, the best gift would be diamond jewelry, but the holiday arranged for the elderly spouses and the gifts made from the bottom of the heart will be no less valuable.

65 years old. iron wedding

67.5 years old. stone wedding

Wedding anniversary 70 years. Gracious (grateful) wedding

The whole family comes to congratulate the spouses on this anniversary. It is on such days that the understanding comes that love, embodied in children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren, is true happiness and real grace sent from above.

75 years old. Crown (second diamond wedding)

80 years old. oak wedding

Wedding anniversary 100 years. red wedding

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Wedding day is the happiest day of life for many. Or one of those, because the birth of a joint child is a much greater happiness. The name of weddings has very deep roots and it is better to come up with even modern educated minds beyond the power. After all, in the old days people felt nature much better and identifying each person with it, they found those truths that modern psychologists teach for a long time in educational institutions. The names of wedding anniversaries by year also determine the gifts that are usually given to spouses.

But what is it for? After all, a modern person is used to celebrating only anniversaries without attaching importance to intermediate ones. Previously, people believed more in the signs that their ancestors taught them and strictly observed them. Perhaps, or perhaps some higher power kept the marriage of those who did everything according to the rules. That is why absolutely everyone knew the names of wedding anniversaries by years and they did not need special reminders.

It is worth explaining to a modern person why exactly the name of weddings is personified with one or another adjective. This is what we'll do. So, the name of the wedding:

The wedding day is called green. Because a young family, like greenery, with which in the old days any beginning was compared, is very beautiful, fresh, light, but at the same time fragile and immature. It is better if many flowers with greenery are presented on this day.

1 year is a chintz wedding. This material was valued for its lightness and thinness, but at the same time, it was quite everyday and inexpensive. So the family has not yet grown stronger, but the romance of the first months of marriage is already beginning to fade, and everyday life takes its place. This day is very important, because. right now they open a bottle of champagne, which was tied on the table of the newlyweds on their wedding day with another bottle. By the way, the second is opened for the birth of the first child in marriage. Gifts must be calico.

2nd anniversary - Paper. Naturally, a fragile union that can withstand ups and downs only in a dense lump. On this date, the spouses should write each other a message on colorful paper or a postcard with a declaration of love. The second name for weddings, which was invented for this anniversary, is glass, but is rarely used, because. there is another anniversary with the same name. Also associated with the fragility of the material. Spouses should exchange glass figurines representing love. Gifts made of glass or paper (wine glasses, decanters, wallpaper, paintings, etc.)

3 years after the big day comes the Leather Wedding. Spouses by this moment should already feel great about each other. Therefore, the comparison of ancestors was with the skin. Gifts, respectively, from the skin.

4 years after marriage - Linen or rope. On this day, a married couple was tied with ropes hand and foot on nearby chairs. If they were unable to get out, then their union is strong and long. Gifts: linen items or weaving.

5 years. Wooden date. First anniversary date. Usually, the first child appeared on this anniversary. Therefore, it received its name from the eternal symbol of fertility, flowering and new life. The fact of the birth of a baby has always cemented the union and the spouses grew roots to each other. Also, by this time, his own house and furniture in it should have appeared. Gifts made from wood.

6 years lived in harmony - Cast-iron wedding. This metal has always been valued for its heat-resistant properties, but was very brittle when struck. So is the family. In order to strengthen the union, on this day it was necessary to carefully clean the house and pay special attention to all cast-iron objects. Guests were not always invited.

6.5 years. Zinc Union. During this period, disagreements often arose. Therefore, just as galvanized dishes are sometimes rubbed to a shine, so relationships should be polished with love and attention from one to the other. The date was always celebrated to show the guests that everything is wonderful with them. Gifts are usually from galvanized items.

7 years after marriage. Copper wedding. Copper is a valuable metal, but not a noble one. Therefore, the spouses have all the valuable dates ahead. It is better if one of the guests gives a symbol of prosperity and prosperity - a copper horseshoe.

8 years lived together. Tin date. By this time, it is full of warmth and durability, just like the durable metal tin. Tin gifts will be the most suitable option.

9 years of married life is called a Romashkova or faience wedding. Since ancient times, chamomile has been considered a flower that knows about true love. Also, faience has always been personified with a prosperous union. It is better if you celebrate this day in nature. And if the weather does not allow, then the house must have a bouquet of daisies.

10 years together is called the Pink or Pewter Anniversary. The second anniversary date was celebrated necessarily with those who were present at the wedding. Scarlet roses were considered the constant flower of passion, and tin was compared with spouses who are able to adapt to each other by this time. Gifts of red, scarlet or pink flowers meant a wish for love and passion, and from tin - compliance and mutual understanding.

11 year marriage. Steel wedding. The union is already undergoing a hardening process, after which only death can separate.

After 12.5 years, it is customary to celebrate the Nickel wedding. More often it is celebrated in the 12th year of marriage.

13 years from the date of the wedding - Lace or lily of the valley. Since ancient times, this number was considered unlucky, but the name is a hint of romance and beauty at any time and in any trouble.

14 years of marriage. Agate wedding. A precious stone, although not very expensive.

15 years of married life - Relations by this time should be transparent and even.

If they lived together for 18 years. Turquoise wedding. Usually, in this year of married life, the first child becomes an adult and a new stage of life begins for the family.

20 years together. porcelain wedding. Warm and cozy, home union.

21 years after marriage. Opal date. A beautiful stone that represents a soft and strong relationship.

22-year-old date -- Bronze wedding. A "prize" anniversary that precedes more noble dates. Valuable and strong relationships.

23 years old. Beryl Anniversary.

24 years after the wedding day, the Atlas season is celebrated. A soft and gentle relationship, but not noble or hardened enough. Although, satin was highly valued for its beauty and softness. It was holiday stuff.

25th Anniversary Silver Anniversary. Noble relationship.

26 years after marriage Jade date.

The 27-year union is called the Mahogany Wedding. The nobility and value of such a union.

29 years - Velvet date. Very valuable material in ancient times. Even brocade could not displace velvet from the wardrobe of noble people.

30 years after marriage - Pearl. The union created over the years bit by bit. Long-term relationships, which in the end turn out to be a real treasure.

31 years lived in love - Swarthy wedding. An anniversary that shows all the work done on the strength of this married family.

34th anniversary of Amber. Also a valuable natural stone that shows both the time frame and the beauty of love.

35 years. Coral or linen anniversary date. Linen things have always been strong and solid. Coral is the personification of the eternal.

37 years after marriage Muslin date.

37.5 years is the Aluminum Union. More popular than the previous one and celebrated six months earlier.

38 years from the date of the wedding Mercury wedding. Soft and flowing, but indestructible.

39 happy years in marriage - Crepe date.

40 Year Relationship -- Ruby Anniversary. A noble stone is a noble and honorable union.

44 years of marital consent is called the Topaz date.

At 45, the Sapphire or scarlet anniversary is celebrated.

46 years from the date of the wedding is called - Lavender wedding.

47 years after marriage, it's the Cashmere Anniversary.

48 years from the date of the wedding - Amethyst date.

If you have lived 49 years together, then the wedding anniversary is Cedar.

50-year milestone -- Golden jubilee date. A noble union and very honorable at all times.

55 years of marriage is commonly referred to as the Emerald Wedding.

60 years together - Platinum or diamond wedding. Strong metal, and valuable stone.

At the age of 65, the Iron Date is celebrated. A strong, hardened union.

At 67.5 - Stone anniversary. Like a mountain that only time can destroy.

70 years in love - A grateful and fertile date. Gratitude for the years spent together, for children and grandchildren. Blessed, because everything is there and only the happiness of relatives is needed.

After 75 years, it is worth celebrating the Crown wedding. The crown was associated with power and honor.

80 years is called the Oak Union. There was no tree stronger than oak. But it is warm and eternal.

100 years is not only a century together, but also a Red Anniversary Wedding. A date that was celebrated by one Ageev family. These centenarians lived together for more than a century and called the centenary union Red. Indeed, before the red color was considered beautiful, elegant, festive and a sign of noble persons.

Wedding anniversaries are celebrated every 5 years. Despite this, many celebrate them in a modest family society, because the older the family, the more relatives: children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren.

But whatever the name of the wedding, may eternal love reign in your family. We wish you mutual understanding and together survive the century from the date of marriage!

Now we propose to find out whether it is easy for a young couple to live together for 1 year and what kind of wedding it is.

When young people are in love, absolutely everything seems to be in pink, and the loved one is the best of all in the world and the only one like that. On such days, few people pay attention to shortcomings. And it would be important to do this and ask myself the question: can I put up with them, will I accept them? Lovers rush to the registry office, and then often suddenly get divorced, without understanding and not accepting each other. So how to save a young family and survive all family crises together?

When you can understand and accept. When is divorce the best option?

Each new family is a separate small state with its own world and its own rules. Sometimes love reigns here, and sometimes passions rage. So, when should you try to make concessions and accept a loved one, and when is it better to file for divorce?

If in the first year of the wedding, young people do not want to give in to each other, and for this reason quarrels often arise, but at the same time the couple wants to save the family, a possible way out of the situation would be to try to figure out what is happening or contact a family psychologist.

Grinding in everyday life really often destroys families. Moreover, if one tries to give in and understand the other, and the second does not participate in this in any way and continues to behave as before, most likely, such an alliance will collapse, or will continue to exist as long as the one who has enough patience who fights to save the marriage.

The first year for a young fragile family is indeed a real test of strength, patience, wisdom and love. If you manage to survive it safely, for sure, the next years will be much easier for the spouses. We offer to find out if the couple lived for 1 year, what kind of wedding is it.

Printed wedding - the first anniversary of the newlyweds

All loving couples try to celebrate this special day of their marriage. After all, it was then that they promised to always be together and go hand in hand, in spite of any difficulties and obstacles.

Interestingly, each such wedding anniversary has its own original name. Many people know about gold and ruby ​​weddings. But about the beryl and mother-of-pearl wedding, for sure, few people have heard. One way or another, the wedding is not called by chance, but based on the experience and strength of the relationship.

At 1 year, the wedding is called calico. Everyone knows that chintz is a very delicate material and, if handled carelessly, can easily tear. The same is true with marital relations. If you do not cherish love, do not give in to each other and do not try to understand when it is needed, the marriage may well collapse.

The first wedding anniversary is really always very exciting for two.. After all, this means that they have passed, albeit a small, but still milestone and at the same time managed to maintain feelings for each other, and most importantly, they want to continue to go through life together. In fact, it is not so important what kind of wedding in 1 year of marriage - chintz or gauze. It is important that people were able to save the marriage union and now they are confidently setting goals for a further joint future.

Should we celebrate 1 year of marriage or not?

Of course, each couple decides to celebrate the first year of marriage or not. But often young people are happy to arrange an excellent holiday on this occasion and invite friends and relatives.. This, of course, is not an anniversary, but a great occasion to gather all those people who shared this joy of marriage with them a year ago.

Where to celebrate your wedding anniversary? This special day in the life of the family can be celebrated at home or go to a cafe, restaurant. Both options are interesting in their own way. At home, the couple and their guests will undoubtedly be comfortable and interesting. There will be such an opportunity to watch a video from the wedding of the newlyweds and photos.

If you want to invite friends and relatives to a restaurant for your anniversary, then by all means choose the best institution in the city. Here everyone should be comfortable and cozy. Alternatively, you can book a table at the restaurant where you celebrated your wedding a year ago. If there is such a desire, be sure to invite a toastmaster or host to the wedding. A great mood is guaranteed for everyone.

However, young couples do not always celebrate their first anniversary with friends. Sometimes spouses just want to be together on this day.. For 1 year after the wedding, you can arrange a candlelit dinner or go on an exciting journey. Especially such a gift as a joint trip will delight a woman. Each trip is always very romantic and especially for two lovers. And if you want - go together to the theater or cinema. Such leisure time spent together will surely give a great mood to each of the spouses.

What do you give for the first wedding anniversary?

You were invited to the first wedding anniversary, and you are wondering what to give to dear people? In this case, be sure to choose something original and always in the interests of the spouses. If you don’t know anything about the preferences of the newlyweds, present an original souvenir. Also as such a special gift can be:
  • bed sheets
  • aprons
  • heart shaped pillows
  • Appliances
  • family portrait of spouses
  • gifts for newlyweds
Of course, if a couple has the same interests, then choosing a gift is not so difficult. Also, for 1 year after the wedding, it is customary for spouses to exchange gifts. At the same time, it is not so important what the price of the gift is, it is much more important that it be presented from the heart and with attention. So for women, an original gift for a wedding will be an expensive perfume or a vacation ticket. A man will certainly appreciate the gift according to his interests. If he is fond of fishing, feel free to give him fishing accessories. Or maybe he loves football? Then please with a themed souvenir.

In the first year of the wedding, it is not so important what gift you give to your dear person, and what kind of congratulation it will be. It is much more important that you show attention and love. And what could be more important for loving hearts than understanding that your love is truly mutual.

1 year of marriage (chintz wedding) is the first small anniversary for a married couple. The newlyweds are still getting used to each other and living together. During this period, positive emotions and a demonstration of deep feelings are very important. In order for the first anniversary to be remembered for a long time, it is important to know what kind of wedding it is, what to give and how to properly celebrate.

What wedding

1 year of marriage is called a cotton wedding. According to ancient tradition, on the first anniversary it was customary to give cloth for diapers. At this time, the first-born usually appeared in the family, so such a gift was relevant. According to another version, the anniversary got its name due to the fact that the newlyweds had not yet had time to buy bed linen, towels and other fabric products. Some compare chintz with feelings in the first year of family life. The fabric is bright and colorful, but fragile.

Traditions

It is customary to celebrate the first wedding anniversary magnificently, but not in a restaurant or cafe. For this purpose, a cottage or a country house is better suited. A rich table is a sign that the newlyweds are waiting for a comfortable life, so it is not customary to save on treats. During the holiday, everyone congratulates the spouses and makes toasts for their health and well-being.

Previously, for a cotton wedding, the newlyweds themselves embroidered a cotton tablecloth, expressing their love for each other, but now this tradition is not so popular. Use as much fabric as possible to decorate the room. Tie a knot with a chintz scarf and hang it in a prominent place. This is a symbol of a strong marriage. Do not forget that the wife must wear a print dress for the celebration. It should be worn from morning to evening and removed only before going to bed. It is believed that then the spouse will have a happy family life. The husband puts on a shirt made of thin cotton fabric with a bright pattern.

On their wedding day, many newlyweds are given 2 bottles of champagne tied together. It is customary to open one of them on the first anniversary of marriage, and the second on the birthday of the first child. The drink is drunk with guests under the pleasant wishes and toasts of those present. There should be many guests at the celebration. Invite everyone you love and with whom you maintain warm relations. The more guests there are, the longer the newlyweds will live in happiness and harmony.

What to give your spouse

A few decades ago, for a cotton wedding, husbands received underwear made of thin fabric as a gift. Now it is also customary to give intimate gifts. A bathrobe is considered a very popular present. You can also order a T-shirt or shirt with an original pattern or a phrase that only spouses can understand.

If the holiday falls on the cold season, give your husband a warm scarf or blanket. Remember that the best gift is a handmade item. Sew your spouse an original case for your phone or tablet. Remember that many men love cars and everything connected with them. If your husband has a car, try making cushions for the salon.

What to give your wife

An obligatory gift for a chintz wedding to a wife from her husband is a chintz dress. The same gifts can be presented by relatives or girlfriends of the newlyweds, but not by men. Do not be stingy and do not stop at one present. Pamper your loved one with an elegant dressing gown or beautiful underwear. Binding to calico is optional these days, so consider options in silk or cambric.

When choosing a gift for the first wedding anniversary, consider the preferences of the wife. Some young women will find a cookbook from a famous chef a great gift, others will be indignant. Jewelry is a traditional gift from a man. If you decide to present the ring, then it should be thin, elegant and without a stone. In addition, collect a bouquet of flowers, a fruit basket for your beloved.

Give each other cotton handkerchiefs, during the celebration, say oaths and tie one knot at a time

Most beautiful ladies love to eat sweets. Prepare assorted chocolates or any other dessert for your spouse and pack it in a box decorated with ribbons. If you know exactly the tastes of your soul mate in perfumery, order a handmade perfume or soap for her. This is how you show your attention and care.

Young women are usually more romantic, so you can make a collage of joint photos, mount a video, write a song. Feel free to connect friends to the creative process, this will make the gift even more meaningful. Give each other cotton handkerchiefs, during the celebration, say oaths and tie one knot at a time. It symbolizes 1 year of marriage. Keep your handkerchiefs and tie a new knot every anniversary.

Gifts from guests

Close relatives traditionally give clothes for the newlyweds and children, bed linen, tablecloths, and curtains for a cotton wedding. You should not give large bulky bouquets, it is better to opt for elegant compositions of wildflowers. Distant relatives usually give textiles for the kitchen: aprons, potholders. Songs, poems and toasts are expected from friends and acquaintances, but it will not be superfluous to grab something from traditional presents.

Now the concept of a print wedding has been interpreted a little, so you can give everything that a young family needs: household appliances, dishes, decor items, furniture. If you are a creative person, come up with something original. For example, write a picture on chintz. This gift will be both traditional and exclusive.