How to hint to a guy to meet. How to hint to a guy that you like him. Ways to show women's interest

Before you actively begin to turn your acquaintance into a serious relationship, answer two questions for yourself. First: do you know this guy well enough, his habits and nuances of character? Perhaps, when you first met, he seemed like a fairy-tale prince to you, but during subsequent communication he will turn out to be rude, uncouth and “narrow-minded.” Second question: do you really want to reduce the distance between you by becoming his girlfriend? Imagine that the development of the relationship has taken place, you have become a couple, each has at least minimal responsibilities towards each other, responsibility towards each other. Are you sure that this guy is what you need, and you definitely don’t want to wait for the next prince? Then it's time to act.

Which guys need hints of a closer relationship?

Usually guys are quite active and are the first to propose a serious and closer relationship. But there are exceptions:

  • He is also not indifferent to you, but he is afraid to take the first step towards getting closer (kiss, write a letter, send a valentine or talk to you directly) because he does not want to lose you and is afraid of scaring you away. Usually he communicates nicely and kindly with you, doesn’t mind going somewhere together, is always ready to help, actively sets topics for conversation, and he definitely doesn’t have a girlfriend. If all this is about your potential boyfriend, then you can safely take the first step yourself, and then he will make sure that he likes you and take the initiative into his own hands. Note: guys of this type are afraid to scare away a girl because of their sympathy for her and strong attraction, they are afraid of losing “their only one,” since their natures themselves are romantic and faithful. Therefore, hint at the relationship easily and delicately (this will be discussed below), avoid open pressure, so that he does not get scared of you and think that you want to “eat” him and are not at all the girl of his dreams. Act carefully and remain a princess at the same time.
  • "Brakes in life." This is the saddest type. Such guys make henpecked husbands, husbands who are not able to take responsibility for their family. They always need someone to push them and often hope that everything will sort itself out and work out on its own; they prefer to go with the flow. Often they are dependent on the opinions of relatives, friends and their mother, who protects them all their lives and does not let them go far from themselves.

Indecisive guys are often looking for a “mommy” girl who is ready to surround them with care so that they can continue to lead their measured existence. If you feel that your potential boyfriend is one of these, then think about whether you are ready to play the role of “I am both a woman and a man” for the rest of your life or the period of your relationship?

Which guys should you stay away from?

There are three types of guys you should be wary of and for whom hinting at a relationship is not only not worth it, but also useless. He is “hunting” for completely different girls than you, so he has not yet taken any active action:

  • The guy likes to "sail and throw." He does not perceive any girl as a future companion or wife. His goal is to seduce and disappear with minimal losses for himself and without falling into the mud in front of mutual acquaintances. There is no action in your direction because he doubts, does not know how to approach you, he is afraid that if you learn about the frivolity of his intentions, you will humiliate him in front of his friends, leaving him in the cold. Be wary if you know that he doesn’t have a girlfriend now, but just recently broke up with his 20th.
  • These guys like to “grin”, look at you meaningfully, sometimes take you by the hand and pretend to be a “modest” person who doesn’t dare to do more. And as soon as the girl takes the first step (and he is just waiting for this!), he will immediately say that you understood everything wrong, that he did not expect such a turn. You will feel humiliated. And the moral of this fable: all the girls hang themselves on him, he is the king and the king, but you are one of 100. These are very self-centered types.
  • He communicates with you often and in a friendly way, but he will never offer a relationship and you should not hint at it, because his interest is self-interest. This guy is for love “of convenience”, and you are not his cup of tea. Unfortunately, this type is by no means uncommon. Take a closer look: if he often talks about money, his expenses, inheritances, real estate, and likes to mention his influential relatives and acquaintances, then this is a reason for you to think.

Careless hints that will make a guy run away

There are three important points that you should a priori observe if you want to start a serious relationship with a guy, and not scare him off:

  • Don't talk to him about his past or current (potential real) girlfriends. If he himself starts such conversations, then reduce them to nothing, avoid them. If you start supporting the topic of his “personal life”, giving advice on how to behave with one and the other, then he will perceive you only as a friend.
  • Don’t tell him in all the colors about what kind of loving husband you dream about, about your future five children, about what kind of wedding dress you want and what country you want to go to on your honeymoon. The guy may simply be afraid of your premature attempt to marry him or he will think that you are not in love with him, but are considering him as an option in order to quickly jump out of marriage, and it doesn’t matter to whom.
  • Don't introduce your parents. Before an explanation of high feelings occurs between the two of you, meeting your parents is taboo. It is inappropriate and will be perceived as “attacking with complaints,” even if your parents are very gentle and cheerful in nature.
  • Do not approach him openly, showing your violent feelings and open sexuality. A normal guy will not build a serious relationship with a “sex bomb” who is ready to do anything at once, because he is such a “cute”.

Remember that your boyfriend must conquer you himself. Your task is to gently and delicately hint to him that you are ready for this, that you expect steps towards rapprochement from him, and that you are very attracted to him.

  • Don't talk nonsense incessantly. Learn to listen to the guy, but don’t be silent in the conversation, keep the conversation going. At the same time, do not interrupt your interlocutor, let him speak, show genuine interest in everything the guy says. Girls who talk too much, incessantly, give the impression of hyperactive, restless people, whom not everyone can be around for a long time.
  • Don't chase him. Walking “on your heels” and “like a shadow” will only lead to him avoiding you.

10 ways to hint a guy about a relationship

  • Smile more often when talking to him. Don't whine, don't complain about life. Let him see the “light” in your eyes, joy, express sympathy and lightness. A smile and a positive attitude are the most effective way to win someone over.
  • Unobtrusively find out: “How are you?” There is no need to ask this question every day, literally and directly. Intersect with him and find out “news” from his life. The main thing is to let him know that you care about his life, his affairs, his well-being, his mood.
  • Try to spend as much time with him as possible. Sign up for the same sports club as him, talk to him, find common interests, topics to continue the conversation. Each of your meetings should be more interesting than the previous one.
  • More humor: “as a joke,” ask him out on a date—what if he agrees? Try to laugh and joke (but not all the time, of course, in moderation). With “jokes” it will be easier to talk him into spending time together, and then the candy-bouquet stage is just around the corner.
  • During your joint trip somewhere (to an amusement park, just a walk, to a museum), casually take his hand. You can start with light, short touches “on occasion”: he helps you put on your coat, passes you a glass, holds your hand in cold weather, when it’s icy outside.
  • Take the two of you on a trip somewhere. If you don't dare invite him, make it seem like you're not going alone. Allegedly, this will be a joint trip to the cinema, but your friends will refuse to get as close to the point as possible - they will suddenly have urgent matters to attend to (agree in advance with your friends/acquaintances). And so you will find yourself in the cinema together, and after the screening, take a leisurely stroll through the park, perhaps he will offer to take you home.
  • It’s good to go out into nature together, maybe in the company of friends. The main thing is that you have the opportunity to communicate with him alone and that he sees you in an unusual, romantic and mysterious image: a long dress, a wreath of wild flowers... Perhaps, after communicating in such an informal atmosphere, the guy himself will take steps towards getting closer and hinting no longer necessary.
  • Through his friend. This is a very effective way. You need good and trusting communication with a guy's friend. Tell him that you like him and, perhaps, a friend will let your potential boyfriend know that it’s time to act and his ears will buzz about what a “cool girl” you are. Just make sure in advance that your friend is an adequate person and will definitely not make you laugh.
  • Going to a disco. Alternatively, invite him to dance and charm him. But ideally, let everything work out by itself: a fiery dance at a disco or party will flow into a “white” dance, and after the waltz that you “suddenly” dance at your best friends’ wedding, he won’t want to let go of your hand.
  • Always keep yourself “in good shape”: a neat appearance, a well-groomed face, beautiful makeup (the latter is not necessary, depending on the situation). Let him notice that you always look beautiful, then the thought will flash through his mind that perhaps you are trying this way just for him.
  • “Freeze” in front of a display case with beautiful flowers during your walk together. This hint is very subtle, but perhaps the guy will guess and soon give you a bouquet and invite you to meet.
  • Tell him about your friend/acquaintance, to whom her boyfriend gave “such a bouquet!” Tell us about an “unforgettable” date between friends, about a friend’s romantic wedding that you attended. This is also a subtle hint, but you can guess the subtext.
  • Show that you are not comfortable/scared to be anywhere. Demonstrate that you are looking for protection and support: a dark park, a slippery path, heavy rain, or let’s say you have trouble seeing and literally broke your glasses an hour ago (any excuse is good). You need to show that you need to be “protected”: covered with a jacket, taken by the arm, escorted, covered with your umbrella...
  • Give a gift made with your own hands: knit a scarf, mittens, a hat, bake cookies and, tying the box with a beautiful ribbon, give it as a gift for Valentine's Day. Just carefully find out in advance what color the guy prefers, whether he wears knitted things at all and whether he eats sweets. Well, if he doesn’t eat sweets, you can also find a way out, for example, make apple pastille without sugar or give him dried fruit.
  • Remember that eyes are the mirror of the soul. Look into a guy's eyes, and they will say everything for you: about your feelings, about your sympathy for him. But the view must be supported by common interests and regular communication. If you just look with your eyes wide open, it will be perceived as if you have a crush on him and are staring.
  • Ask him to help you, for example, with the computer (you yourself will mess something up in advance). He will come to your house, treat him to tea with what you baked yourself. Let him gradually get used to you, to your housekeeping, to the fact that you are nearby. If he likes this state of affairs, he will take further steps himself.

When it comes to the guy of her dreams, the girl involuntarily begins to feel shy. Without a doubt, this is exactly what you imagined in your dreams. But what if the object of sympathy does not show proper interest? Right! Take the first step. Not every woman can talk openly about falling in love. For this reason, there is a need for sophisticated methods. All you have to do is give a guy a hint about a relationship, and then he will do everything on his own. Let's talk about women's tricks and give step-by-step instructions.

Step #1. Collect information about the young man

  1. It's hard to set traps if you don't have enough information about the guy. Maybe he will be the last villain who uses girls and dumps them in the first week. You should stay away from such men.
  2. First, study the young man’s profile on VKontakte. Carefully look through the photos, read the statuses. If there are platitudes and swear words on the wall, it is quite possible that the guy is not well-mannered.
  3. You can collect information from your mutual friends. Try to establish contact with the guy’s classmates or fellow students. Find out in more detail about the young man’s personal life, his hobbies, family and even pets.

Step #2. Assess the guy's intentions

  1. After you have surfed the page on social networks and learned a lot about the young man through your friends, you can proceed to the next stage. Now you need to understand whether the young man has sympathy for you. This means not as a friend, but as a future life partner.
  2. In most cases, guys evaluate girls in one way or another when they first meet. One lady is suitable for intimacy, the second you can hang out and joke with, the third will become an ideal wife. If a guy has already included you in the “Friends” category, it will be difficult to hint to him about a relationship.
  3. To assess true intentions, observe the behavior of the object of sympathy. An interested guy shortens the distance, tries to be closer to his passion. A man wants to be alone and communicate in every possible way. You will often catch his eye on you.
  4. In the case when the guy only glanced at you without paying attention, he is not interested in you. If everything goes well, proceed to active action.

Step #3. Look for a meeting with the object of sympathy

  1. If all the above signs indicate reciprocal love, you cannot hesitate. Go on the offensive, but don't overdo it. If you are too annoying, the young man will run away in the first week.
  2. Get yourself in order, review your wardrobe. Toss your sneakers aside and replace them with mid-heeled shoes. Create romantic curls and experiment with makeup.
  3. Try to catch the guy's eye more often. When you catch his eye, smile and say hello nicely. Be confident, but not cocky.
  4. Organize supposedly random meetings. Attend parties that he also goes to. Join the company of a young man, conquer him at school or college.
  5. Add the guy as a friend on a social network, start an active correspondence. Look for common ground and any reason to communicate. Come up with original topics for conversation.

Step #4. Don't be afraid of skin-to-skin contact

  1. When you reach a new level and can talk calmly, joke more often. Use tactile contact. For example, you can lightly push a young man on the shoulder while having fun.
  2. Make fun of the guy. If he steps in a puddle, tell him that wet sneakers are in fashion now. The same can be said about a wrinkled shirt or an ugly tie.
  3. Stay close to the guy if possible. If he tells an interesting story, lean your ear towards his lips. Pretend that you didn’t hear the phrase well.
  4. If the object of sympathy adequately reacts to your manipulations, we can assume that the “fish” has taken the bait. Keep up the good work, but now try to be alone more often.

Step #5. Show weakness

  1. Call the young man under a plausible pretext, ask him for help. Let them know that you need to move furniture or run errands around the house. You can deliberately “destroy” the PC system, then say that it needs to be reinstalled.
  2. After the guy helps, treat him to tea. If the young man refuses, make it clear that this is not suitable for you. When he arrives, bake a pie or buy other sweets, and then pass them off as your own. Later, as the relationship develops, you will laugh together about Operation “Capture the Dream Guy.”
  3. You can demonstrate weakness in other ways, for example, in the cinema. If you are planning to attend a horror or thriller movie, act like you are scared. Look for his support in everything: walking on a slippery road, a dark alley in the park.
  4. It is important to find any opportunity that will encourage the guy to cover you with a jacket, take you by the hand, and walk you to the entrance. Girls are supposed to be weak. In this way you will show the young man that you need him. The guy will take the hint.

Step #6. Take decisive action

  1. If a guy shows all the signs of attraction, don't be afraid to do more for him. Prepare a small present. You can knit a scarf or make a collage of photos. When the relationship is developing quickly, create a romantic atmosphere and invite the young man to a picnic.
  2. You can bake a cake and then invite the object of your adoration for tea. Some ladies are more cunning. They buy a souvenir, after which they casually give it to the guy with the words: “I was walking along the alley and thought about you. Here you are!". Cute and nothing superfluous, take it into service.
  3. After such actions, disappear from sight for some time, do not visit the general company, do not appear on social networks. If the guy calls your phone, tell him that you are roaming. Let him be nervous.
  4. Find out from your friends if he was interested in you during his absence. If yes, the fish is on the hook. At this stage, it is necessary to convey to the young man that he is lonely without you. This fact will force a man to actively act, and not wait for the lady’s initiative.
  5. After that, appear at a joint event in all your glory. Dress fashionably, do makeup, tidy up your nails and hair. Let the guy realize that he misses you. Invited to the cinema? Great, the hint of a relationship is clear!

What not to do

There are hints that a guy may not understand. In order not to scare off the young man, follow practical recommendations.

  1. If a young man has potential girlfriends for further relationships, do not ask about them. Try to reduce such conversations to “no”, and put yourself in the foreground. Also, you should not give a guy advice on how to behave with this or that lady. Otherwise, the man will add you to the “Friends” category.
  2. At the first stages of shaky communication, you should not tell what kind of husband you dream of, what wedding dress you will wear, how many children you will give birth to. Such drastic statements will make the guy run away in an instant. It is important to convey that you are interested in the guy, and not in the desire to get married as soon as possible.
  3. If you have not yet reached a “high” relationship, do not try to bring a young man into the family and introduce him to his parents. First, resolve the issues between yourselves, make sure there is a strong connection, then go “matchmaking.” Otherwise, obsessive conversations from household members will cause the guy to run away.
  4. Guys love sexy girls only with their eyes; they take exemplary and caring ladies as wives. There is no need to openly show desire, climb into his crotch and demand tenderness. Try to hold back the attraction until the relationship is on a stable track. So both you and he will be confident in each other.
  5. Don't talk non-stop, learn the art of listening. Not every guy can stand a girl constantly talking next to him. Also, do not stalk the young man, leave him personal space. Don't try to control a man, let him make his own decisions.

Collect information about the guy through social networks or mutual friends. Make sure the sympathy is mutual. More often you are alone with the young man, give him a gift with your own hands. Don't be afraid to show weakness, move away a little and let him miss you.

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“Love will come unexpectedly.” Perhaps this situation happens sooner or later in the life of every young lady. Falling in love is a wonderful state, but what to do if the object of your feelings is in no hurry to reciprocate your feelings? What if he doesn't have any feelings for you? Or did you seem to him not as beautiful as he did to you? Calm down, no need to panic. It is important to understand this situation and follow a few simple steps, which this article will cover.

How to hint to a man that you like him through correspondence? Start communicating on social networks or via SMS. Source: Flickr (Charles_Subritzky)

If you like a guy - where to start?

If you like a guy, of course, you shouldn’t immediately rush into his arms when you first meet. After all, this is still a stranger to you, whom you don’t know one bit. And the first thing you need to do in this case is to find out as much information as possible about who caused a flurry of emotions in your heart. How to do it?

  1. Find out the whole truth from the guy himself. There is an opinion that it is not good for girls to be the first to approach someone. Alas, this rule was in force back in Tsarist Russia, and now is a different time, so there is nothing wrong with if you personally approach the guy and get to know him.
  2. If the first option seemed too radical to you, you can go the other way - find out everything from the guy’s acquaintances, his friends, relatives.
  3. In the era of the Internet and social networks, we all have accounts through which we can learn a lot about a person. You can find a young man on social networks and find out a lot of interesting information about him there.

This is interesting! A person is capable of falling in love in one-fifth of a second, and this process is controlled not by the heart, but by the brain. It is the brain that receives nerve impulses indicating sympathy has arisen, which then pass through the heart.

When all the necessary information about the guy has been collected and you absolutely decide for yourself that he is your one and only, you can begin to act. Next, the answer to the question “How to hint to a guy that you like him?”

How to behave and what to say?

Of course, in order for a guy to understand that you like him, you don’t have to tell him about it directly. He must get to this point himself, otherwise it turns out completely uninteresting. Of course, self-confident and straightforward people can immediately say about their sympathy without unnecessary words and actions. But what a blow it will be for them when it turns out that the sympathy is not mutual. In this case, it is better to use the old proven female method - hints. “How can I hint to a guy that I like him?” - you ask. So, the most common methods that work flawlessly:

  1. How to hint to a man that you like him through correspondence? Start communicating on social networks or via SMS. Communication should be easy, relaxed, as if you are very interested in communicating with the young man. Start complimenting the guy: “You are so strong and strong-willed - you go to the gym. I have always dreamed of such a man!” or “How smart you are: you know so many languages, you get a second degree. You are a dream man! After such words, the guy will immediately understand that you are not indifferent to him. If you are afraid to give a compliment directly, then the best way is to find a postcard with a complimentary statement or a suitable song on the Internet and send it to your interlocutor.
  2. Start transforming yourself. Get a new hairstyle, manicure, buy an elegant dress - your future admirer will clearly notice it and, of course, appreciate it!
  3. Sometime in a conversation, hint to the guy that you have long wanted to go to a new film, but there was no suitable company, or you have long dreamed of trying the Tiramisu dessert in the coffee shop around the corner, but there was no such good interlocutor. No guy will refuse such an offer.

But what if the guy didn’t take the hint? The answer is in the next part of the article.

If a guy doesn't understand your hints

You try, hint and hint, but the guy doesn’t understand you. Or doesn't want to understand. Don’t worry, most likely, your chosen one is just busy with school or work, and doesn’t care about anything else yet. You should not be intrusive - delicately ask whether you are distracting your chosen one from important matters. If he answers “no,” then continue the conversation; if “yes,” then apologize and stop the conversation for a while until the young man himself wants to communicate with you. It happens that a guy does not respond to your hints because you have not yet managed to interest him.

How to tell a guy you like him

This is a rather exciting question - how to hint to a guy that you like him. It happens that a guy, after your hints and conversations, understands everything himself and is the first to admit his feelings. But what do you do when you have to take matters into your own hands?

First, let's figure out when to do it - confess your sympathy. Of course, this is purely individual, and everyone has their own ideas about the timeliness of recognition. But there are still opinions that confessing your feelings to a guy is important when:

  • you communicate on the phone and on social networks for quite a long time;
  • you had about five or six dates with him;
  • you know all the shortcomings and advantages of your chosen one;
  • the guy is always kind and courteous to you;
  • you are absolutely sure that you want to date this guy.

If you agree with all these statements, then it’s time to think about confession, but if there is at least one answer “no,” then it’s better to hold off on confession.

So, are you ready to tell your guy how you feel? What is needed for that?

  1. Think about the location where you want to do this. It would be good if it was some romantic place, as if specially created for lovers: sunset on the sea, sunrise on the roof, or a quiet evening in a cozy park. You can choose your favorite cafe the old fashioned way. Even a movie will do, the main thing is that the whole atmosphere and situation are conducive to such an important event.
  2. Think about what to say. A banal “I like you” may work, but it’s better to work hard on recognition. Come up with a heartfelt speech, tell us why the young man interested you, how you felt when you first met him, and how you feel now. If you are embarrassed to say all this in person, you can sign a postcard or make a video.

What to do after confession

And now you have finally admitted your feelings - what to do next? How to behave? What should I say?

Of course, after you have said your cherished words to each other, and your feelings turn out to be mutual, your relationship should move to another level. The “candy-bouquet” period should begin for you, and everyone around you should consider you a couple. But there's no need to rush.

Note! All guys are conquerors by nature, and if a girl is the first to confess her feelings to them, then they develop an instinctive sense of ownership and even, to some extent, disdain. This happens when a girl declares her feelings too quickly, and the guy himself has not really decided whether he likes the girl or not. Therefore, we once again urge you not to rush into this matter.

If the feelings are still mutual, and you are both in love with each other, then you can safely move on to the relationship stage. Well, that's another topic.

In conclusion, we note that if you like a guy and you really want to build a relationship with him, go for it!

Human relationships are ornate and multifaceted in their retrospect. Young people of opposite sexes who have been friends for a long time often become one happy family. They can carry friendship from childhood through their entire lives and then ultimately understand that they cannot find a better candidate for the post of spouse. Love does not come immediately; it can rush in with lightning speed and become the reason for one person’s dependence on another. But, unfortunately, in this case it is not always mutual. How to hint to a guy about a relationship if he is your longtime friend?

Love “happened”: what to do next?

Life is so unpredictable, so sudden in its random impulses and manifestations, that it is difficult to predict its next attack. You never know in advance what will happen tomorrow. Especially in matters of the heart: you are never sure who your choice will fall on, since everyone knows that you cannot order your heart. You can fall in love with a person who is simply physically unattainable, not to mention reciprocal love. You can lose your head over the cute new tenant of your house, who recently moved in from a neighboring city. Or you can fall in love with your own friend, suddenly realizing that the feelings of friendship experienced earlier gradually grew into feelings of love. And then how to hint to a guy about a relationship?

Firstly, you should let off steam and think about your further actions. Sitting silently and hiding your emotionally unstable state is not a very good choice, since sooner or later patience and silence will crack and result at the most inopportune and inappropriate moment for this. Therefore, you should initially think about how to hint to a guy that you want a relationship and crave reciprocity from him.

Secondly, sometimes you need to hear an outside opinion. Advice from friends who have already found themselves in a similar situation or the help of friends of the object of their adoration can significantly contribute to establishing a favorable atmosphere and preparing the ground for further actions in the mission of carefully disclosing your feelings to your loved one. What methods help give a guy a hint about a relationship?

A hint of feelings through a friend

One of the most effective and reliable steps to “taming the obstinate” is to influence the object of your adoration through his friend. That is, in other words, in order to successfully confess your love to a guy, you need to enlist the help of his friend in this matter. But here you need to be careful: in 99 percent of cases, immediately after receiving information about the liking of a pretty girl for his friend, the young man will not fail to immediately notify his friend about this with a phone call or message on Twitter. Therefore, you need to insist on confidentiality or show him the benefits of his silence in the form of help in a student test or help in developing a project at work - by any means you need to force him to keep this sacrament secret.

Thanks to communication with a friend of a potential pet, you can find out his personal status, understand whether he is in a relationship with someone, test the waters regarding his interests, hobbies, preferences in appearance and internal qualities of girls. Being armed, it is much easier to develop a further strategy for taking the “Bastille” called a man and come up with a plan on how to hint to a guy about a serious relationship.

A note with a hint of love

Very often, shame prevents people from acting. A certain embarrassment, fear, and excitement overwhelms you and prevents you from further impulses and desires to do anything. Especially often such a stupor happens to a person who is in love. When his object of affection appears, he becomes numb, first experiences confusion, and then terrible excitement, which does not allow him to adequately think and express himself. What can you advise in such a situation?

Or a note - this is the simplest hint to a guy about a relationship. The question is: what to write in this note and how to express thoughts and feelings so that they hook and force you to react in the most favorable way for the author? Again, the notorious embarrassment sometimes goes off scale even in silent communication with a young man pleasing to the heart, so many girls use anonymity to express their feelings through a love letter. So, without much fear, you can express your confession on a piece of paper and quietly throw it on your desk or in the pocket of the man you like.

Hints about relationships through social networks

Today's society's dependence on the World Wide Web is truly great and significant. Work, study, shopping, paying for services, making utility payments, business, financial transactions, media, communication and communication - absolutely everything today is reflected in Internet communications. And one of the most powerful resources of the Internet is the social network. Through this application you can exchange messages, calls, information, photos, videos, posts and other data. It’s no wonder that social networks are the ideal bridge between a girl and a guy she likes.

How to hint to a guy about a relationship? “VKontakte”, “Odnoklassniki”, “Instragram”, “Viber”, “Whatsapp”, “Twitter”, “Mail.ru” - a huge number of various websites provide the opportunity today for a girl to give a guy a hint about her feelings and offer to join relationship in a more unobtrusive way than in a face-to-face meeting. Draw fancy graffiti on the wall, send a love “GIF” or picture, post a romantic audio recording on the wall - in any way you can make yourself known, being a confident user of social networks.

An important indicator can be an unusual hint to a guy about a relationship - status. Here you can express all your thoughts directly or veiled, openly or between the lines, with or without subtext. An attentive man will be able to discern in it a phrase intended for him personally.

A gift with a declaration of love

If a guy and a girl have been communicating for a long time, are work colleagues or friends at university, neighbors or visitors to the same sports club, a competently presented gift to the young beauty will help him express his feelings. With or without a reason, on a holiday or on an ordinary gray Monday, a romantic craft created by a girl with her own hand, or a figurine with two lovers, or a heart-shaped pillow - anything that will help her convey her feelings and emotions in a small symbolic gift without further ado. Any man will like such a warm surprise and will be at least pleasant. And if he is as favorable towards the girl as she is towards him, everything can work out.

Creative impulse with a hint of relationships

An equally frank declaration of love and a hint of a relationship is the poetic form of a love letter. A person who knows a lot about poetic reading, or simply a guy who has a keen sense of the emotional background of such creativity, will always appreciate the step that a girl has decided to take by reading him her favorite passage from a rhymed poem by a famous writer or from her own love essay.

Mini-quest with confession

A well-organized and well-planned mini-quest by a girl, the final step of which will be her sincere confession, will help give a guy the opportunity to play “cat and mouse” and play the role of a hunter looking for his prey. This form of how to hint to a guy about a relationship serves as a vivid example of non-standard female thinking, but a very effective and interesting option for showing your attitude towards a young man.

Voice message revealing feelings

You can confess your love to a guy using such a simple gadget as a telephone. By leaving an SMS message or sending a voice message with a text about how things are in the soul of a girl in love, you can get rid of exhausting thoughts about how to make a declaration of love to him as simply and sincerely as possible. Recording on a voice recorder all those words that I wanted to say to him for so long, but there was no opportunity and I didn’t have enough strength - this is the ideal way out for a shy and timid young lady.

Organized date for a declaration of love

Taking the initiative into your own hands and simply inviting a young man to a cafe for “important negotiations” is a bold but effective act. Why procrastinate and suffer in doubt? Almost everyone knows how to hint to a guy about a relationship via correspondence via SMS or in dialogues on a social network, but daring to take the first step and simply meet fate is the lot of a strong woman.

Message via radio

A brave and resourceful girl can find a way out for her emotions through a message on the air. Saying hello to a man you like on his favorite radio wave and, as if inadvertently, dropping a couple of phrases about your sympathy and desire to start a relationship - this is how extraordinary you can confess your feelings to a young man.

Culinary magic with a hint of relationship

And finally, the most effective, most effective, most ancient way of “taming the obstinate” is the way to a man’s heart through delicacies and spices. Men love not only with their ears, eyes, and body. They love to eat delicious food. And if a girl manages well in the kitchen, this is the key to success in approaching almost any man. Making a juicy cake with an inscription in the form of a declaration of love is something that will truly stun him and lead him into pleasant confusion and subsequent delight.

Life is full of hints. Without them, we would not only be uninterested, but even uncomfortable, because a sign is a direct indication of important but hidden information. Moreover, it can concern not only feelings, but also many other areas. How to make a hint based on the category?

How to hint to a guy about your feelings for him?

Get to know his surroundings. This step will help not only find out what people think about you, but also bring you closer together. To do this, arouse the sympathy of those around you, make a positive impression, become friends with the guy’s sister (if you have one), his cousins, mother, aunts, grandmother, so that they tell him about such a good girl like you.

Get noticed more often. But it should look unobtrusive, even “accidental”. Look just perfect every time so that he will highlight you and remember you. The beautiful stranger will leave an indelible mark on his memory, touching his feelings.

Find out what places he goes to. And then go there yourself. Sign up for the library, gym or any other club - even rock climbing. This way he will understand that you are incredibly close and that you feel certain emotions for him if you took such a serious step.

Flirt with him. When you meet, do not look away, look into the eyes for a longer time and only then immediately turn away. Play around with your eyes. Brush a “shrunken” fluff onto his shoulder if you are in the same company as him, “accidentally” touch your palm, “accidentally” step on his foot, blush when he appears.

Radiate positivity. Express complacency with your entire appearance: rays of tenderness and love should come from you, which he will certainly feel. Don't talk about other guys in his presence and don't gossip. Give a mini-present for some holiday with a card that hints at affection. Create an emotional atmosphere around him, thank him more often for the slightest help and provide assistance yourself.

Admire his photos on social networks. Find out where his accounts are and also register, actively like/like. Send messages about his beautiful eyes, toned torso and noble heart, comparing him to a modern knight.

Write romantic poems or notes. But only without tears and suffering, but in a positive way, bright, joyful, optimistic. Demonstrate your love of life and cheerful disposition - only to him, and not to others, so that he does not think anything bad about you. And don't force yourself.

How to hint at a kiss?


How to hint about a date?

Unobtrusive and original. For example, tie a light paper box with an airplane to a ball by a thread, or just a cardboard airplane with an inscription like “launch me,” “catch me,” or something else, depending on your imagination. It will look like a cute present and will not offend you if you refuse.

Confess in poetry. Quite an unusual way to hint at a date. Using this method, you can offer to meet via SMS, profile message, regular note, or use a classic postcard for any suitable holiday. But you can quote it out loud (especially if a guy proposes a date to a girl).

Hint directly. For example, suggest discussing this topic in light of other couples or ask how events would have unfolded if Romeo had not asked Juliet out on a date. You can ask questions with even more transparent hints.

Invite yourself. And such a turn of events today is quite likely, especially if the young man is shy or is always busy with important matters and cannot be distracted by other problems. So guide him! Let her know that you are not indifferent and after so many years of dating, she is ready to organize a meeting herself.

Write in PM. This arrangement helps if you know each other via the Internet. Let him know that you are ready to go with him on an introductory date, setting a place and time.

Be inviting and fun. When you see him, don’t hesitate, but behave intriguingly and joyfully. Try to hook a guy with a pleasant character, a smile, and optimism, so that he feels very comfortable in your company and wants to meet again.