How does the universe give hints? (On one example from my life). How to use the clues of the universe in everyday life

It turns out that throughout their lives, each person constantly receives clues from the Universe. But can we see them and use them to increase success and happiness in our lives?

We create all the events in our life together with the outside world. These events reflect one or another of our beliefs and emotions, since the world around us is an extension of ourselves (the law of reflection).
It is important to realize that positive judgments about yourself and the world around you create pleasant situations, while negative thoughts and emotions create stressful situations. And that's all, i.e. any situation, any event occurs on all planes of being: explicit (that is, visible) and implicit (invisible).
Our subconscious, through the world around us, warns in advance about what can happen to us after some time on an explicit plane.
It turns out that if I see misfortune in the outside world, it means that misfortune is already inside me on an invisible plane. It's just that it has not yet manifested itself on the "gross" physical plane, since it only arises in the subconscious (or, as some adepts of esotericism say, at the astral level). And the world around me gives me a signal about it. If you see someone rejoice, then there is already joy in your subconscious. And the world around you signals the approaching joy.
The world around you is your world. Be attentive to everything that happens in it.
Thus, it becomes clear that advice like “Yes, spit on all this”, “Pay no attention” is the most harmful advice that can only be given to a person. It is necessary to act differently - pay attention to everything! There are no trifles in life. Therefore, be very attentive and sensitive to the world around you. After all, this is your world! Let everything be your business. Strive to help people. By helping others, you help yourself.
The world around us is our reflection, which means that no one wishes us anything bad.
It turns out that everyone and everything in this world: both people and Mother Nature - help us in the implementation of our intentions. Only this help comes in accordance with the model of our worldview:
1. Model "Victim - Tyrant". Helping you and teaching you will be a carrot and a stick: in your life there will be both encouragement and punishment. But in this case, it is not God who will punish you, but you yourself, using the energies of the Universe that were given to you by the Creator, through the actions and deeds of those around you, you will punish yourself.
2. Model "Master or Wizard". In the life of such a person there will be only prosperity and joy from his creativity.
THE WORLD IS THE UNIVERSE'S CLUES
Our subconscious mind warns us in advance about the approach of an event. Just like road signs along the road warn the driver of a car. Every driver knows that there are warning, prohibition, prescriptive, informative and service signs. And if you follow the rules of the road, then the movement on the road will be calm and safe.
The same applies to our life: on our life path, each of us meets the same signs, only they look different. Simply put, success and happiness on the journey of a lifetime depends on the ability to recognize and read these signs of the universe. A person is prone to make mistakes, so the Universe always tells us in which direction we are moving: along a favorable or problematic path.
Two groups of clues from the Universe:
- hints of consent and harmony;
- Warning tips about danger.

Universe's clues about harmony and concord

Such clues indicate that a person lives in harmony with himself and with the world around him. That is, he is on the right path and he is accompanied by good luck and success in all his affairs. They usually say about such people: "Lucky" or "He has his own guardian angel."
These signals include everything that you like and brings a feeling of confidence and satisfaction. It may just be a kind word addressed to you. Or you are going to an important meeting, and on the way you meet a wedding procession. And on this day you make a good deal. Or your co-worker got a new job and a pay raise. And for you, this is a favorable signal to improve your financial situation. Or your neighbor bought a new car.
It is important to understand that the success of a neighbor is NOT a reason for envy, as many ordinary people tend to react, while destroying and eating themselves from the inside. It is important to understand that the success of others is a signal of good luck for you. Better rejoice with them, inspire such a lucky one to even greater achievements. Thus, you will quickly attract good luck in your life. Thus, if you meet such signals, then there is harmony in your soul. Everything is going as it should.
A story from the life of Valery Sinelnikov: “... one middle-aged woman dreamed of getting married and creating a strong and friendly family. ... She read my second book, The Power of Intention. She asked me to help her make her dream come true. She and I made up the right intention and worked on a subconscious level with obstacles. ... You know, - she added, - but just a week after our last session, long before I met my husband, I had a sign. My friends and I came to the church to light candles. My friend and her husband lingered near the car, and I approached the priest with their driver to find out something from him. “Do you want to get married?” he asked us. “To get married? - I was surprised. - May be. But not today, and not with this young man. He already has a family. Today we came to you on a different issue.” Even then, I realized that the priest saw me as a bride, which means that the wedding is not far off. »

The universe's warning signs of danger.

Such clues from the Universe indicate that a person has deviated from his true Path - the path of success and happiness. Therefore, negative character traits, emotions and thoughts begin to appear in it, which literally drive a person into unpleasant events.
The outside reflects the inside. This is what our subconscious mind is trying to tell us through the events of the outside world.
Any problem in life is a signal to us that we have stopped in our development. It's time to learn something new, something to realize and move on. Simply put, the Universe's warning signs warn you that it's time to change your behavior and expand the horizons of your mind. This is a kind of bell announcing the start of a new lesson.
A story from the life of Valery Sinelnikov: “... please explain to me why in my youth I felt confident, was calm for myself? I knew that I could solve any issue. All doors were open for me. But after my child became seriously ill, this feeling of confidence and calmness went somewhere. Now it happens extremely rarely and for a very short time.
“The fact is,” I explain, “that the child’s illness was a very important test for you. You had to change and learn a lot. And then you, having coped with this problem, would feel even more confident.
A person has to study all his life. As a child, he learns to walk, talk, master space and time. With age, more deeply learns the laws of this world. This process is endless. Because life itself has no end. She is eternal! »
THREE SUBGROUPS OF UNIVERSE CLUES
Throughout his life, a person constantly receives support from the Universe. In some situations, she tells us: “Be careful!”, And in others, she points in the right direction. The main thing is to be attentive and respond to signals in time.
All clues of the Universe can be divided into three subgroups.
1. These are personal signals. That is, those signals that our brain and our body gives us. For example, a disease is a signal from the body that its owner is doing something wrong (for more details, see Valery Sinelnikov's book Love Your Disease). Another example is one's own thoughts, especially the so-called "obsessive thoughts": a person's subconscious mind persistently gives a hint signal.
2. These are close signs and signals. Such clues from the Universe come from people from our close circle: parents, children, relatives and friends, as well as our property: animals, personal belongings, house, car.
3. Distant signs and signals. They come from those people and things with which there is no direct contact. For example, you stand in line at the savings bank to pay utility bills. And suddenly, in front of you, a complete stranger to you begins to tell his neighbor a story about the theft. It would seem that this does not concern you: it was not you who were robbed. But on a deep level, we are all one. And through these people, God suggests that by some of your behavior or thoughts you can attract thieves into your life, and gives you a warning - change! And it is better to respond in time and correctly to this distant warning than to wait for the same to happen directly to you.
Based on the materials of the book by Valery Sinelnikov “Vaccination against stress. How to become the master of your life

There is an incredible amount of events going on around. It is difficult for the human mind to perceive such a powerful flow of information and most of it remains in the depths of the subconscious. Every second the wise world gives many clues, but the intellect considers this information insignificant. It is necessary to learn to understand the universal language of signs in order to fulfill your dreams more effectively. The ability to distinguish useful signs sent from above in seemingly ordinary events will help make life fuller and gain luck.

Important answers can be obtained in a million different ways. Strange circumstances, illness, a piece of text, a phrase or sound accidentally heard can turn the idea of \u200b\u200bone's own destiny, forever changing the direction of the path.

How to recognize a sign

Trying to interpret everything, which is simply impossible, can easily drive you crazy. It is necessary to decipher information that causes special feelings. Everyone has their own way of figuring out how hooked they are with information. You need to trust only your own feelings. Watching himself, an attentive person will definitely not miss the sign.

There are situations where much-needed hints and warnings are ignored or go unnoticed. The Wise Universe sends a whole series of endlessly repeating identical events, the strangeness of which is incredibly difficult not to notice, constantly increasing the intensity of their manifestation. Gradually, the necessary understanding comes, it is possible to avoid too risky situations or achieve sudden success.

The meaning of emotions

The most important signal indicating the right path is the feeling of joy and pleasure from what is happening. Rapture and enthusiasm are signs of oneness with the world, and sudden sadness and apathy almost always signify a mistake or impending disaster.

Emotions can be the best advisers in making an important decision. If you need to find the answer or the right direction, you must first try to understand yourself and your own role in the vast world.

Random conversation

Everyone, having heard a fragment of a phrase accidentally thrown by someone, received a real insight, an answer to the riddle of fate or an effective solution to a problem. If you really listen to the conversations around, your speech and the words of the interlocutor, you can learn a lot.

Having paid maximum attention to a conversation that happened by chance, it is easy to decipher the message of the Cosmos, designed to help find a way out of a difficult situation, to get an important clue.

Unexpected reservations, when something completely different is suddenly pronounced instead of a phrase prepared in advance, can often tell a lot. They contain involuntary thoughts of the interlocutor or information intended to give further direction to the listener's actions. Own casually uttered or frequently used expressions can indicate a mistake, better understand your inner world, reveal hidden abilities and problems.

Printed words, inscriptions on banners and walls of houses can give an excellent clue in a difficult situation, serving as an answer to a question that has been tormenting for a long time.

New acquaintances and close people

The environment is a reflection of our inner world. Every person you meet on the path of life is called upon to teach a certain lesson. Relationship problems indicate mistakes that need to be fixed urgently. The shortcomings of a spouse, relative, acquaintance often echo our negative character traits, and actions almost completely copy the behavior or habits that greatly interfere with finding happiness.

Sometimes frequent memories of an old acquaintance mean the need for an urgent meeting that will bring new opportunities and the necessary knowledge, clarifying some points.

unexpected thoughts

Random thoughts can tell a lot about future events. It would seem that thoughts that are not related to reality can give an unexpected idea that can make efforts more effective, direct actions in the right direction in order to solve internal problems.

Diseases

Absolutely all ailments contain hidden indications of errors or effectively keep a person from fatal actions. Official medicine tries to cure only the physical body, without taking into account many factors, and sometimes it does harm. Often, working through fears, psychological issues, or a change in behavior will lead to sudden, complete healing.

When an illness occurs, it is necessary to catch the emotions that accompany it, which can indicate possible causes of a negative state of health. Sometimes associations associated with illness reflect life mistakes. For example, leg fractures may indicate an incorrectly chosen direction or an unstable position in one's own destiny, and accidents, involuntary mistakes, circumstances that seem unfavorable protect against even greater troubles and difficulties, serve as a clear warning.

Invisible forces protect each person. In a dream or material reality, seemingly random events, meetings, bright natural phenomena show a successful solution to the most hopeless problem. Ignoring the clues of fate and your own premonitions, you can deprive yourself of a sure chance to make your life really successful, interesting and effective.

Friends, I am glad to welcome you here again!

Today I want to tell you about a very interesting phenomenon. This phenomenon can greatly facilitate our path to our goal. It's about the clues of the universe! I will tell one story from my life, which, in my opinion, perfectly shows how useful it is to follow the prompts of the Universe!

So, what is it - the clues of the Universe? What are they needed for? And how to recognize them?

When a person gets on his way, that is, goes to his Goal (I told about how to determine your Goal), the Universe begins to help him! Don't ask why she does it, I don't know. But it really is! Someone calls it subconscious tips, someone calls it the help of higher forces, superconsciousness, etc. It doesn't matter how you define this phenomenon. The important thing is that it exists in the life of each of us, and it can help us a lot if we can use it correctly. What does it mean? This means being able to identify these clues and understand what exactly the Universe wants to convey to us.

So what are these clues? Yes, whatever! Heard a phrase, text from a street advertisement, a piece of lyrics from a car passing by, an unusual situation, advice from a friend, etc. and so on. It may even be a thought that suddenly came to your mind!

Over time, you will learn to recognize these clues and pay attention to them.

To make it clear what is at stake, here is the promised story.

My first car was a red Hyundai Accent. I adored him and with great pleasure drove this glorious car for 4 years. And I would go further, if not for one "but". And here was the thing.

At that time, we moved the horses we were working with to a new base. The base was located in a village near Moscow, or rather, outside the village. That is, to get to the stables it was necessary to drive through the whole village. The road was normal, asphalt. In summer no problem. But in winter... The "small" nuance of this village was that it was located on the slopes of a huge ravine.

The road went the same way - first down-down-down, across the bridge over the river running along the bottom of the ravine, and then up-up-up. As I said, in the summer everyone drove along this road without problems. In winter, they would also pass by ... But then another “small” nuance of this cute village came into play. Namely, the old water pipes, which broke through constantly. When I write “constantly”, I mean exactly this - literally all the time water flowed along the slopes of the ravine and along the road. I don't know why none of the villagers or local authorities cared about this... During the few years that we spent with the horses at that base, the water in the village flowed continuously.

So, if in the summer such a permanent flood did not cause anyone much trouble, then in winter it all turned into a truly natural disaster (for some reason, it is also perceived by local residents and authorities as an inevitable evil that is unrealistic to fight, like rain or snowfall).

And just imagine how “fun” it was for me to get to work and back every day! It was possible to force the ice slopes only from acceleration! If you had to slow down somewhere in the middle of the mountain, you could safely slide back in reverse - the front drive of my Hyundai was not enough to pull away on the icy slope of the ravine. I stopped heroic attempts to do this after I almost "sat down" in a snowdrift on the side of the road, when the wheels of the car scrolled on the ice, and she herself slowly but surely crawled backwards down the slope.

In general, having somehow survived two winters in this way, before the onset of the third, I realized that something had to be changed in this life. Namely, a car. To stay safe and sound on these "fun rides", I need an SUV!

At that time, I was fascinated by the Hyundai Tussan. Why I liked him so much, I don't know. Probably because it was also a Hyundai, like a familiar brand. But I just drove it into my head that I want him and only him!

But, apparently, the Universe has accepted my more global request that I need an SUV. And I began to implement a plan for the implementation in my life of the best SUV for me. Apparently, Tussan was not suitable for this role, so all my plans to find a suitable car (I was looking for a used one, because there was no money for a new one) could not be crowned with success. But I'm stubborn, so I continued to break through the closed door!

This went on until the Universe, obviously having lost hope that I myself would come to my senses and pay attention to something else, gave me the first hint. Mom told me that one of our distant relatives seems to be going to sell her car. "What kind of car?" I asked. Suzuki Grand Vitara. My first reaction was rejection - this is not the coveted Toussan. But surrendering to my mother's persuasion, I still went and looked on the Internet, what kind of animal is this - Grand Vitara. Oh what a great machine! I immediately liked the "predatory muzzle" and the general appearance. Read the specifications. What a good option! So the first step was taken at the prompt of the Universe.

Tussan was forgotten, now I wanted a Suzuki! It turned out that that relative, it turns out, is not going to sell her car. This convinced me that this whole situation was needed precisely in order to prompt me to think about a very specific brand of car. Well, then I will look for myself. And I started searching the Internet for the car of my dreams!

If the brand and equipment are more or less clear, what factor in choosing a car becomes decisive? I think the girls will support me - well, of course, this is the color! So, I was inflamed with the desire to get myself a car of golden color! Now I understand that these were also hints - I began to come across golden Suzuki on the roads in the most advantageous form - brand new, clean! Naturally, I was fascinated! Why the universe needed this will become clear later.

So, I decided to buy a car through an official used car dealership. Firstly, there was a guarantee that the car was checked by the traffic police for a criminal past (whether it was stolen, whether any crimes were committed on it). And secondly, there you could immediately exchange your old car for the chosen one (with a surcharge, of course) - I just wanted to come in my Hyundai, and leave already for Suzuki.

After going through all the used car dealerships, I found the coveted golden Suzuki in only one of them. Ironically, this salon was at the other end of Moscow. Naturally, other things being equal, I would hardly go there, I would choose one closer to home. But since there was only a golden car of the configuration I needed, I flew there!

The desired car was in the parking lot of a car dealership and was shown to me by a young consultant. Well, yes, the car was golden, but upon closer inspection, chipped paint on the hood, a cracked fog light became visible ... I was honestly warned that not everything was in order with the engine, there were some noises, I don’t remember. Well, yes, I thought, what can you do, the car is not new anymore. But it seems that the price is acceptable, and the color must be taken.

And then a surprise awaited me! The consultant called the owner of the car (it was in the salon for sale) to discuss the final terms of the deal. And suddenly it turns out that the owner of the car, it turns out, took it off the sale and is going to pick it up from the salon! And the consultant with whom this was discussed forgot to tell everyone about it! And the car was up for sale.

What started here! I am under stress (it seems that I have already set up a purchase), the consultant is under stress (such an incident with the client!), The rest of the consultants are under stress (for the company, apparently). In general, everyone has fun!

Well, nothing to do, I went home. On the way, I analyzed the situation, calmed down a bit and concluded that, apparently, this car was not intended for me. Why was she needed then? Everything pointed to the fact that the situation was created by the Universe in order to bring me to this particular car dealership. Well, I thought, then I need to calm down and wait for what will happen next. Moreover, I agreed with the consultant that he would try to find another car for me.

A couple of days passed and the consultant called me with the news that he had found a couple of machines of acceptable configuration and price. True, one is blue and the other is crimson. Eh, I already decided that in the face of the coming winter, the color of the car is not so important. And the next day I went to look.

The blue car did not impress me, it was somehow completely shabby ... The raspberry one was supposed to be brought in a couple of hours (the previous owner still drove it, but it seemed to be on sale). I was sitting in the office, the consultant was browsing some sites in search of more options for cars, and then mentioned that just yesterday another Grand Vitara had arrived, although they are asking for a higher price for it, because it is much newer. And she's silver.

I still have nothing to do for now. Well, let's go, I say, let's see. And we went. We went out to the parking lot, walked along the rows ... Oh, my God!!! This is my dream car!!!

Sparkling silver handsome Suzuki! It's practically a new car!

It was love at first sight! Do you know that feeling when you understand, just by looking - here it is - MINE!!! I realized that this is my car!

I'm calling my mom. Yes, I found. Yes, the car is great! But more expensive.

The money was found. A few days later I left the salon in my new car.

On this silver handsome I still go. This is really MY car - I'm comfortable with its dimensions, I like its power, I love its predatory muzzle! This is EXACTLY what I wanted! And even better!

If you consider the whole situation as a whole, you can see how I was led step by step to this car.

A hint about the brand of the car - orientation to a rare color - a car of this color is only in a certain salon - it was in this salon that my silver handsome was brought (his former owner lived nearby). I went through the chain of clues and got my valuable prize at the end!

But if I had rested at the very beginning and would not have wanted to follow the prompt of the Universe, I would not have received the most optimal car for myself.

I have already convinced myself many times that we cannot know and see ALL possible options for the fulfillment of our desire (realization of the goal). We see only a narrow-narrow sector. And it often happens that the best option is NOT in this sector! And we choose from what we see.

The universe sees all options. Naturally, she sees the same one - our best option. Therefore, do not resist when life throws unexpected offers at you. Perhaps this is the beginning of a path leading you to your desired goal!

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It turns out that throughout their lives, each person constantly receives clues from the Universe. But can we see them and use them to increase success and happiness in our lives?

It is important to realize that positive judgments about yourself and the world around you create pleasant situations, while negative thoughts and emotions create stressful situations. And that's all, i.e. any situation, any event occurs on all planes of being: explicit (that is, visible) and implicit (invisible).

Our subconscious, through the world around us, warns in advance about what can happen to us after some time on an explicit plane.

It turns out that if I see misfortune in the outside world, it means that misfortune is already inside me on an invisible plane. It's just that it has not yet manifested itself on the "gross" physical plane, since it only arises in the subconscious (or, as some adepts of esotericism say, at the astral level). And the world around me gives me a signal about it. If you see someone rejoice, then there is already joy in your subconscious. And the world around you signals the approaching joy.

The world around you is your world.
Be attentive to everything that happens in it.

Thus, it becomes clear that advice like “Yes, spit on all this”, “Pay no attention” is the most harmful advice that can only be given to a person. It is necessary to act differently - pay attention to everything! There are no trifles in life. Therefore, be very attentive and sensitive to the world around you. After all, this is your world! Let everything be your business. Strive to help people. By helping others, you help yourself.

The world around us is our reflection, which means that no one wishes us anything bad.

It turns out that everyone and everything in this world: both people and Mother Nature - help us in the implementation of our intentions. Only this help comes in accordance with the model of our worldview:

model "Victim - Tyrant". Helping you and teaching you will be a carrot and a stick: in your life there will be both encouragement and punishment. But in this case, it is not God who will punish you, but you yourself, using the energies of the Universe that were given to you by the Creator, through the actions and deeds of those around you, you will punish yourself.
Model "Master or Wizard". IN the life of such a person will be present only well-being and joy from his creativity.

The world around us is the clues of the universe

Our subconscious mind warns us in advance about the approach of an event. Just like road signs along the road warn the driver of a car. Every driver knows that there are warning, prohibition, prescriptive, informative and service signs. And if you follow the rules of the road, then the movement on the road will be calm and safe.

The same applies to our life: on our life path, each of us meets the same signs, only they look different. Simply put, success and happiness on the journey of a lifetime depends on the ability to recognize and read these signs of the universe. A person is prone to make mistakes (***************), so the Universe always tells us in which direction we are moving: along a favorable or problematic path.

Two groups of clues from the Universe:

hints of consent and harmony;
danger warning tips.

Universe's clues about harmony and concord

These signals include everything that you like and brings a feeling of confidence and satisfaction. It may just be a kind word addressed to you. Or you are going to an important meeting, and on the way you meet a wedding procession. And on this day you make a good deal. Or your co-worker got a new job and a pay raise. And for you, this is a favorable signal to improve your financial situation. Or your neighbor bought a new car.

It is important to understand that the success of a neighbor is NOT a reason for envy, as many ordinary people tend to react, while destroying and eating themselves from the inside. It is important to understand that the success of others is a signal of good luck for you. Better rejoice with them, inspire such a lucky one to even greater achievements. Thus, you will quickly attract good luck in your life. Thus, if you meet such signals, then there is harmony in your soul. Everything is going as it should.

A story from the life of Valery Sinelnikov: “... one middle-aged woman dreamed of getting married and creating a strong and friendly family. ... She read my second book, The Power of Intention. She asked me to help her make her dream come true. She and I made up the right intention and worked on a subconscious level with obstacles. .... You know, - she added, - but just a week after our last session, long before I met my husband, I had a sign. My friends and I came to the church to light candles. My friend and her husband lingered near the car, and I went up to the priest with their driver to ask him something.
"Do you want to get married?" he asked us.
"Get married? - I was surprised. - May be. But not today, and not with this young man. He already has a family. Today we have come to you on a different matter.”
Even then, I realized that the priest saw a bride in me, which means that the wedding is just around the corner. »

Sooner or later, a person begins to think why certain things happen to him. He tries to unravel the causes of good and bad in fate. And he begins to understand that many things in his life were lessons. And by continuing to think so, he receives confirmation of this. In many great books, philosophies and the lips of enlightened people, there is a saying: “Life is a school of growing up. All the people are around the teacher, and the situations are the lessons.”

The Universe has developed an individual training plan for every person on Earth. She teaches someone condescension, namely, to see the good in people and give more. Another teaches to live with the heart, to think less, to succumb to desires. Third, take care of yourself and your health. Others - to help people, overcoming their egocentrism. Someone - to defend themselves, steadfastly holding blows. Wisdom is to understand what they want to teach you and learn the lesson.

Not “For what?” But “For what?”. Know - providence does not sleep, and everything happens to you for a reason;

3 main lessons of the universe

The world is a radar that captures our conscious and subconscious needs

He directs people to realize them. Our passionate desires, like waves in the universe, come from us in order to return in time with the embodiment of what is invested in them.

There are no accidents in life, any event or person comes into your life with a specific purpose. He came to teach. Often these are not those people with whom it is easy, but those with whom it is difficult. Who scolds us, attacks and causes discomfort. Although not everything is so hard when you sincerely regret something good. For example, find your soul mate. The world, having caught your intentions, directs it to you. Another thing is that you don't always see it. Immersed in your problems or living with a clouded mind, you cannot take advantage of the chance that is right under your nose.

The people around us are mirrors that reflect the lightest and darkest sides of us.

The best way to know yourself is to pay attention to those around you and how you interact with them. If you feel that people around you love you, then you yourself are a loving person. And if, for example, you are treated with hostility at work, then there are two options. Either you are aggressive and unfriendly, so co-workers pay you the same coin. Either you are so different from the team, it rejects you, showing that you are not in your environment.

Here's another example: 3 girls left you. And each of them said that you are a good person, but there was no heart desire to live life with you. This suggests that you have good personal qualities, but lacked your feelings, emotions, passion. You were more friends than loved, so in the end the relationship turned into friendship.

A person projects on the outside world what he is inside

If it seems to you that people on the streets are angry, then you yourself are angry. Not all people you meet can be evil, someone must have been calm, and someone was even cheerful and smiling. Just in an annoyed state, you were focused on the negative.

Imagine a situation: the seller in the store was rude to you, you asked him a lot of questions. You considered him evil. Having allowed your feelings to rage, try to look at this situation from the side, you may have provoked it. Sometimes we don’t notice the tone in which we speak with people that we don’t greet when we meet, we don’t thank for the help. He may not have been evil, but you took his words that way, and he was just exhausted from the work shift.

Everything you see in others is in you.

You would not be able to see good or bad traits in another if you did not have them in yourself. How would you know that there is an elephant in front of you if you have never seen it. How would you understand that a person is angry without experiencing anger. If you have not experienced sincere love, you will not be able to understand that you are loved.

To see a virtue or a fault in another is to have it in oneself. Everything in our lives is a projection. We receive from the world what we give. By regulating what you radiate into the world around you, you can change a lot.

What are the reactions of a person to difficulties

Life brings hardships that people might call blows of fate. For example, dismissal from work and problems finding a new one, the departure of a loved one, a serious illness, financial problems. According to the reaction to such situations, everyone can be divided into 3 groups.

First group reacts by crying, complaining to others and asking for help in solving problems.

Second group- with anger, people from this category are angry at the cruel world, at the people around, at themselves and begin to fight with those who are considered guilty.

Life will again and again put the people of their first groups in the same situations, each time increasing the scale of the problems. She will repeat the lesson, wanting to teach them how to deal with it.

Third group reacts to the situation as a lesson, tries to understand what the world teaches them. People in this category eventually learn it and it doesn't repeat itself in their lives.

After reading the article, you have gained knowledge, and now it's time to work it out in practice. Take a piece of paper and write “a problem situation in my life” at the top. Under the title, describe it in detail, then write the question “what does life want to teach?”

If the answer came immediately, then write it down. But if there are no thoughts, then put aside a piece of paper, do not think about the question. The next morning, with a fresh mind, read what was written as if it were about a stranger, and think about the answer. Repeat the exercise several times to get a complete answer about what they want to teach you. This knowledge will help you understand yourself, learn the lessons and not repeat past mistakes, take your life to a new level.