Cool messages for a girl on VKontakte. What to write to a girl to make her melt and fall in love? How to make her smile

I saw a beautiful girl - take it. Not you, that means someone else. The competition is hellish. For one girl on a dating site, there are ten pick-up artists. While you are thinking about what to write to a girl after saying hello, normal guys are improving their seduction skills. On the other hand, your doubts brought you to our site - and that’s great. Once upon a time, it was hard for me to start dating. But I wanted to become different. I got into trouble, kicked myself, met the most beautiful girls. I wasn't looking for a life partner. I was gaining experience. And today I share it with you. First of all, I’ll tell you how to hook a girl with the first phrase. Come on, open the questionnaire. Not hers, but yours.

provocation

directive style

the right compliment

How to interest a girl by correspondence: examples

Interesting

not interested

Don't make mistakes at the start

platitudes and cliches

not a word about sex

Selection of a dating site

Before you text a girl, check: are you ready?

Correspondence is important. A full 30% of your literary talent determines whether she responds or not. Guess who owns 70% of the shares of the Dating enterprise? Your profile. , we've already sorted it out. Open and read. Only then send the girl the first message. By the way, even if you are the coolest guy on the site, remember about PMS, the funeral of your beloved rat, a broken nail and other fatal circumstances that no man can overcome. Add “ ” to your Favorites and switch to the next one - you’ll practice here later. Wait a minute though. Did you happen to text her: “Hi, how are you?” Then they simply didn’t notice you. Let's talk seriously about what to write to a girl in the first message in order to ignite the fire of love or at least curiosity in her heart from the very beginning.

How to anchor a girl from the first message: pickup lessons

When wondering what question to ask a girl to interest her, don’t reinvent the wheel. Everything has already been thought out for you. Write an opener. Openers are the first phrases of communication that make an impression. What touches her instincts, evokes emotions, attracts attention, sets you apart from the crowd of losers who sit on VKontakte, Odnoklassniki and dating sites around the clock without a chance of sex.

Intrigue

When thinking about what you can write to a girl, try the game of intrigue. "Hello. I know something about you that others don’t know...” you write, and it’s unlikely she can resist scribbling to you: “I wonder what?” More examples: “Wow! What are you doing here?" or “You know what I liked about you? You combine two incompatible qualities. Usually men don’t like them, but I’m delighted.” The girl is a curious creature. He will languish until he finds out the answers. When intriguing, do not forget to pause between messages.

Provocation

Provocation is what will force her to answer you. On a dating site, provocation serves as a catalyst for communication. Refrain from rudeness and vulgarity. Here are examples, take it and use it:

“I want to ask you an intimate question...” Yes, it will be tense, but her attention is already focused on you. Continue: “Do you happen to work in a creative environment - among designers, artists, photographers?” The young lady will be surprised, relax and probably ask what is intimate here. “Well, of course. This is a personal question. And the personal is always the territory of the intimate.” You not only provoked her reaction and emotion at the start, but also earned her a reputation as “not like everyone else.”

Provocation on a dating portal is not incitement. Provocation in the context of making an acquaintance is devoid of aggression directed at the partner. Here provocation is motivation, stimulation, motivation. A game, not a conflict. A gender challenge, not a confrontation.

Directive style

You can use the style that pick-up artists call direct. We are talking about the dominant manner of communication. Without misfires, he works with beautiful girls who, by default, are looking for a “Real Man.” Dominance can easily mask a lack of experience communicating with girls, fears and complexes. When practicing direct style, convey the image of a strong and confident male, a fearless leader of the tribe:

"Beautiful girl. I like you. Write your number. Let’s meet in a more convenient place for communication.”
“Hello, beautiful. We'll meet tomorrow. What time will you be free?"

When choosing a directive style for your first message, return to your profile. Is there really an alpha male in the photos?

The right compliment

“If you don’t know what to write to a girl, write compliments,” my mother told me. Everyone loves flattery. Even you. And while you're scratching your beard, what should you write to a girl to make her feel good? I'll give you a hint: don't write platitudes. Flattery must be of jewelry quality.

Not “you’re beautiful,” but “you have impeccable style.”
Not “I’m drowning in your eyes,” but “how many men have you driven crazy with your dreamy gaze?”
Or like this: “Hello! I'm one of those annoying creeps who thinks you're stunningly beautiful."
Even better: “Your parents deserve a Nobel Prize. Or what do they give out to the creators of world masterpieces?”
And I’ll tell you what: generate compliments by studying her profile. Pay attention to details - almost no one does this: “You have such thin aristocratic wrists”, “An original dress in the shabby chic style. You have impeccable taste."

The ability to give personal compliments will more than once help you climb the most inaccessible mountain.

Answer the three main questions that interest her

I know what interests you. She is interested in something else: who you are, what you want and why you chose her. An individual presentation will enhance the attractiveness of your profile and reduce the distance between correspondence and meeting. Without a pick-up artist, it is worth making acquaintances if there are good reasons for this - for example, your own business. Come on, don't be modest. Trumps - right away. "Hello. My name is Ivan. You know, everything worked out for me. Business, house, tree. There is no main thing. I saw a photo of you looking somewhere into the distance. And I felt that we were looking in the same direction.” You can write to a girl you like with feeling, sensibly and beautifully, even without business. Just don’t lie, but embellish – there will be room to grow.

Ideally, your brain should generate intrigue, provocations and compliments. In the meantime, while his muscle is training, I’ll give you a couple of examples.

“You know, the Constitution says you can’t deprive a person of the right to happiness.”
“Today I finally understood why I registered on a dating site.”
“I saw photos of Rome in the profile. Are you as in love with him as I am?”
“I lost the bet, and for this I have to ask the most beautiful girl on the site on a date.”
“I think I’m not the first one who wants to meet you. But I am the best. Will you check?"

“You look good. Shall we meet?
“Let’s chat or meet”
"Hello. You are cute. Let's get acquainted?"
“If you are interested in me, write!”

Don't make mistakes at the start

Writing an original message to a stranger so that she smiles, melts and even falls in love will not work right away. At the start, just avoid mistakes. No, if nature has gifted you with the beauty of Jude Law or the charisma of Javier Bardem, even for vulgarity you will receive a smiley face. I'm not Lowe, you're not Bardem. Make no mistake.

Platitudes and cliches

What, trying to interest a girl in a “hi-how-are-you” way? Remember duckface. “Hi-how-are-you” irritates a girl just as much as “ducky lips” irritates you. It’s easy to filter out cliches and platitudes: the first thing that comes to mind is to put it in the trash.

Not a word about sex

Even in direct style there is not a word about sex. The Internet frees your hands, but keep them on the keyboard. “Sexy babe. I want to get to know you better,” - with such a tackle you will go farther. Although….

As Yesenin correctly noted, “always and at all times, good, kind girls went crazy from hooligans.” So psychologists say: girls love aggressive, vulgar and rude guys. Good boys end up in the friend zone.

Don't load it

Writing hello to the girl and following up with a claim for IQ-150 is also not an option. The young lady will not sit in an intellectual knockout. If you see a tattoo on your shoulder, don’t write about the chemical composition of the ink. Tell me you want to stuff yourself too. Ask what tattoos girls like, where it’s best to get them (on the arm, stomach), from which artist.

Original phrases for meeting a girl on the Internet: TOP-100

And you can print out the following cheat sheet and hang it on the wall. It will help you meet at least a hundred good girls. But let me remind you that you are not the only one reading our site. Be inspired, and don’t copy, so as not to get into that awkward situation when someone else wrote the same phrase to the same girl before you.

Let me introduce you, charming creature. And even if you make three grammatical errors in the word yes (in the form of the letters n, e and t), I will not pay attention to it. Beauty can be forgiven a lot.
Before I saw your profile, I considered myself a happy man - a man who has everything. Now I understand that something is missing in my life - you. Are your legs tired during the day? In the morning I saw your profile, and all day you stand before my eyes. Sit down, let's get acquainted.
I know what you look like. I know your name (according to your profile information). But I want to know you more. Will you allow me?
I am an employee of the employment service and I really want to keep you busy with something interesting in the very near future. Do not mind?
Hello! I am a guest from the future and came to Mamba to save you from loneliness.
Until today, he was a confirmed bachelor. But it seems my preferences have just changed.
Have you ever met a charismatic, purposeful, intelligent, wealthy, well-built and, most importantly, very modest young man?
Let's not tempt fate, hoping that we'll meet somewhere by chance on the street, but let's get to know each other right now.
I propose to debunk the misconception that dating on the Internet is not serious. Shall we prove the opposite?
I’m sure coffee and dessert won’t spoil your impeccable figure tonight.
I wrote you a long letter about how wonderful you are. And suddenly the lights turned off. So I'll be brief. Hello. Let's get acquainted.
Do you have a strong thread to start our acquaintance?
It’s somehow irrelevant to ask about your son-in-law today, but I really want to.
I don't believe in love at first sight. That's why I had to look at you twice to understand for sure - this is love.
If I were a unique girl like you, I would pay attention to a special guy like me.
Hello, my future love life. And what are you doing here in my absence?
I'm writing a book about online dating. I want to ask you a couple of questions.
I’m writing an article about what beautiful girls want. I'd like to hear your opinion.
I'm a journalist and I want to interview you. Tell me what it's like to be a beautiful girl.
I want to change your plans for tonight. Will you allow me?
What are you going to do tonight after our date?
Hello amazing. Tomorrow we have a date. What time is convenient?
What are your plans for life? I want to make a little adjustment and become part of them.
I'm sure I'm not the only one who wants to meet you. But I'm the best. And I can prove it.
Hello. I just read a romantic story about how a guy met a girl and they lived happily ever after. Do you know how they met? He wrote to her: Hello. I just read a romantic story...
Your beauty will turn even a gay man into a normal man. Now imagine what you do to normal men like me?
You shouldn't think that I just want to get to know you. I have other, more serious plans for you.
Do you want to chat with a person who really likes you? You will learn a lot of new and pleasant things about yourself.
Such spectacular girls should not spend time online. Beauty needs to be walked. Let me take you out to a very decent place?
Wasn't it painful to fall from heaven, beautiful Angel?
Can you tell me where heaven is? You look a lot like an angel.
Girl, are your parents pirates by any chance?.. Then where did they get such a treasure?
Your parents should be given a Pulitzer Prize. Or what do they give to the creators of unique masterpieces?
Something happened to my eyes. They are stuck on your profile.
Do you remember me? I'm from your dreams. True, when we met, I was on a white horse and in armor.
May I know your real name? I want to try it on with my last name.
I feel sorry for the girls on this site. Your presence turns them into a gray mass.
When I saw you, I thought how lucky it is that I’m not married.
When I saw your profile, I was glad how great it was that I was free and we could meet.
Girl, you hurt my heart. Give me first aid.
Girl, I'm drowning in your bottomless eyes. Help me.
Your eyes tell me a lot. The only thing they don’t say is their phone number.
In one of your photos you are looking into the distance. I think you and I are looking in the same direction.
I can give you my free time in exchange for a phone number.
Girl, can you tell me the recipe for cactus jam?
Please advise what can be made from dumplings.
Hello. Tell me how best to spend my salary.
Do you know why this site is better than others? This is where we met. By the way, my name is Sergey.
I thought dating sites were a waste of time. Until today I saw your profile.
What should an interesting guy write to a very beautiful girl so that she gets to know him?
You probably don’t believe in love from the first message, but I’m ready to write to you again and again.
I want to treat you to a delicious dinner and, if you allow, an equally delicious breakfast in bed.
I would like to offer my courageous hand to support you on your walk this evening.
I think you too are very bored in this gray crowd. I suggest you go somewhere from here. For example, in a cafe.
I’ve been looking for a cafe for a long time where I can invite a special girl like you. And today I found it. Reward me with your presence and smile.
I want to invite you for a cup of coffee with very serious intentions.
How about casual flirtation with commitment?
Next year I'm running for president. Leave your number - I want to tell you the details of my election program.
The creator of the Internet needs to erect a monument. Without him, I would never have met a girl like you.
And how can you call the Internet a time waster if you meet girls like you there?
You spend a lot of time online. It's bad for your health. Let's get divorced in real life?
You can’t spoil such beautiful eyes by sitting at the monitor for a long time! Let's go to a cafe.
From your profile I learned that you love Italian cuisine. Unfortunately, it is impossible to enjoy the taste of food on the Internet. I want to treat you in real life.
If you print out all the compliments you deserve, the planet will be left without a forest. Let's get acquainted, beauty.
Today I promised my hamster that I would meet the most beautiful girl on the site.
Let me make you happy. But first, let's get acquainted.
Amazing style. Are you a stylist or an innate sense of taste?
Don't you have a spare heart? Mine was just stolen.
You're so beautiful that I forgot everything I knew about pickup.
And where were you all my old life?
I'll drown in your eyes, okay? (Eduard Asadov).
I have never seen such beautiful ones (Sergei Yesenin).
Seeing you, I realized that I needed to cancel all plans for this evening.
I have an excellent vacancy for a trip to a cafe. Will you respond?
While you are a mystery to me, I am ready to guess your secrets, secrets and desires.
Can you tell me the way to your heart or at least to your phone number?
I am a distributor of happiness. Do you want me to give you all the happiness that I have, for free?
I suggest changing. You will give me all the sadness that is frozen in your eyes. And I give you all my joy.
A stunning girl like you must have a stunning font. I'm right?
Lead me out of the labyrinth of loneliness, beautiful stranger.
There are things that cannot exist without each other - day and night, river and riverbed, you and me.
You have a good taste. True, some accessories are missing. But I can fix it.
I wonder if your inner world is as beautiful as your appearance?
The form is impeccable. What about the content?
You know, you fit perfectly into the interior of my life.
You are probably often invited to the registry office? But you can start with a cafe.
What a stunning dress in this photo. True, it will look much better on the back of a chair in my bedroom.
I know exactly where our communication will lead. But let's not rush. The candy-bouquet period has not been cancelled.
I suggest you play the next game. You tell me your number. I will call you. And then, holding hands, we will go have dinner.
If you don't answer me, I won't be able to sleep all night. Will you not be tormented by remorse?
What feat must I accomplish for you to agree to have coffee with me? For your sake I am ready to be Hercules.
I saw you on the street today. Everyone walked with gloomy faces, but you smiled. What were you thinking at that moment?
From now on, I cannot imagine my life without you.
What do you think, beauty, what do I ask you now?
I have a problem that only you can solve. The thing is, I don't have time to spend hours on the site, but I don't want to lose you. Would you mind leaving your phone number?
You have beautiful wrists. Previously, these were considered a sign of aristocracy.
Would you mind taking me to a restaurant this evening? I'm very afraid of the dark.
I don't want to fill your pretty head with all this pickup truck nonsense. Let's just get to know each other.
There are a lot of original phrases running through your head, but I don’t want to fool you. Maybe we can do without beautiful but meaningless words? My name is Ivan. I like you.

What to write to a girl if she answered: we are moving towards the goal

If they answered you, well done. And you are also a “chatterologist” if you don’t get a contact in the first row of correspondence. While her attention is focused on you, take the number and invite her on a date. For example, for a horse ride. Cinema and cafes are popular but disastrous date options. You won’t be able to socialize at the movies, and kissing places aren’t for you yet. The cafe can drain your bank card because you never know what kind of truffles she likes. And by the way, you will never know if, on the laurels of your first success (“answered!”), you begin to surf the expanses of web correspondence. Remember about the “friend zone”, in which there are always vacancies.

Results

I gave you a couple of ideas on how to ask a girl to meet you on the Internet, but don’t copy them. Just…

Be confident and arrogant in a good way.
Communicate as equals or even from above.
Tailor your communication to a specific girl.
Don't talk too much - pick up the phone and call.

And further. The less we write to a girl, the more she likes us. Good luck!

Want say something to a girl to make her melt? Let's first figure out how and why to do this.

As you’ve already heard somewhere, girls love with their ears. They like it when guys compliment them. But you should understand that a compliment is different from a compliment. Because you can say something that is not at all appropriate in a given situation, and also look unnatural at the same time.

I would like to say more about the last point. When you communicate with a girl, try to make your communication with her look as natural as possible. Guys often try to say what they think the girl wants to hear. This is wrong, as speech begins to sound forced and unnatural. Of course, when you behave unnaturally, it repels the other person.

How to say nice things to a girl

Therefore, when you want to compliment a girl so that she melts, try to speak from the heart, and the way you want it. In this case, he will really appreciate your sincerity. This article gives some examples of what to say. But if you want to say it sincerely, you can very quickly come up with something of your own. After all, every girl is unique. Think carefully about what you like most about her, what makes your heart beat faster. Maybe it’s some kind of cute habit of hers, a way of speaking, behaving, or just a peculiarity in her appearance. Highlight it, tell her, and show her how this trait has a positive effect on you. The more unexpected the compliment, the more it will impress the girl.

Remember that everything should be in moderation. You can say something very pleasant and unexpected to a girl. But if you constantly bombard her with compliments, she will get used to it and will not perceive them.

What to tell a girl to make her melt - examples

All the phrases below really work. However, use them at the right time. You can write these sentences on VK, or just say them in real life.

#1 Talking to you makes me think about the soulmate theory.

#2 I can't imagine my life without you in it.

#3 How do you always manage to look so attractive?

#4 I feel happy next to you.

#5 You always know how to surprise me.

#6 You're so cute when you smile.

#7 I dreamed about you last night.

#8 I'm crazy about your smell.

#9 You dance so well!

#10 When I see your smile, my mood rises to the skies.

#11 And why did I only meet you now?

#12 You are the most beautiful girl I have ever met.

#13 Your eyes are so deep and expressive that you can drown in them.

#14 Your love for me makes me move mountains every day.

#15 You are very cute when you sleep.

Now you know what to say to a girl to make her melt.

Write to the girl you like on VKontakte much easier than admitting your sympathy to your face. Of course, this does not apply to confident people, but what should shy guys do who, seeing a girl, begin to blush and stammer.

First: watch this video. Second: you can write a message to the girl you like in contact, as you will have time to correctly express your thoughts and express your feelings.

What should you write to the girl you like so that she will respond?

The times when guys sent letters to girls in paper envelopes are gone. Now we have social networks and email accounts. You no longer need to find out from your friends where the object of your love lives; you go to Odnoklassniki or VKontakte, enter your first and last name, and here it is - your beloved’s page. But at first glance it’s all so simple, but in practice it often happens that a girl does not respond to messages on VKontakte, or answers in monosyllables like “How are you”, “Okay”... and no further communication is possible. So how can you meet a girl on VKontakte so that she communicates with you with interest and then goes on a date?

The very first rule that many guys forget when they are tormented by the question “what to write to a girl on VKontakte in order for her to like her, what kind of message should there be so that she likes me...” This is that in addition to the message itself, you should also have a cool page - what to write about yourself in VKontakte, and how to create it is described in detail here.

But these 2 things, if of course you want to please a girl and get a response to your letter, are interconnected: your cool VK page and an interesting first message that will interest the girl.
First you need to think everything through carefully. Ask yourself questions: “Why do you want to meet this girl?”, “How do you feel about her?”, “Do you want to have a serious relationship with her?” The text of your message will depend on your answers and what you can write to a girl when you meet her, and what it is better to refrain from (at least in the first messages).

1. Simple, understandable sentences without subtext.
A message like “I need to know your location” will obviously be unnecessary. Sometimes guys want to appear smarter than they really are. This is a mistake because ease of communication this is the key to success. Write in a language that everyone can understand, avoiding jargon or specific words. But there is another extreme: you shouldn’t write too politely, especially when addressing a girl as you. The simplest advice is to write as you would write to your just good friend (removing swear words and slang words and expressions)

2. Literacy.
Girls can also be illiterate, but as they say, you can’t be seen behind yourself, but for others it’s even very much so. If you have mistakes in every word, it will work against you. Do not use incomprehensible abbreviations “I’m studying at the university” and slang words “let’s go to a cool party.” Of course, there are a type of girls who communicate like this, but they are no more than 15-18 years old. An adult girl will not appreciate this type of communication.

3. Emoticons.
To begin with, there is no need to support your words with cool emoticons in the very first sentence; this will show your either super interest (a bunch of roses and flowers) or uncertainty (a wink, an embarrassed smile - instead of masculine words). But even this matter must be approached with imagination. Then, depending on how your communication goes in contact - yes, of course you can and even need to use them to create a cheerful and positive mood that will definitely bring a smile and lift your spirits.

To make it more clear to you, 1 emoticon for a cheerful mood can be used to show that you are not a busy, abstruse type, but a cheerful, ordinary, simple (but at the same time interesting and handsome) guy. But 5-10 emoticons, especially if there are few words in the first message to the girl you like, are 100% not necessary.

4. Interesting text.
You need to write a text that will interest the girl.
To the letter “Hello. How are you? My name is Sasha, I really like you, let’s meet,” you won’t get an answer from the girl in most cases...

In general, I advise a girl to write anything in her first message, but not this phrase “Hello, how are you?”, this phrase is written to more or less attractive girls on VKontakte by dozens, if not hundreds of guys, you can believe me, and it will most likely only cause irritation in them , and at best you will receive a standard answer “Hi, okay...”

Just like in everyday life: there are 2 types of approach: quick and contextual (when you start a conversation for any reason and look for interesting clues in the profile and photographs of a girl on the site in contact or classmates).
First option (it’s possible, but I don’t recommend it): “Hi Rita. I have liked you very much for a long time, but I still don’t dare to approach you, because your beauty leaves me speechless. So I decided to write you this letter, which will allow me to express my feelings for you..." will make the girl think... But this can only work with a girl you already know, and you know that she pays attention to you...

Because every girl needs a slightly individual approach. Such a letter is suitable for a romantic lady who loves brave men - and you know that she likes you. But for an active woman who never sits still, it is better to offer an exciting pastime. After reading her profile and looking at the photographs, you will be able to understand what type the object of your sympathy belongs to.

Also, under no circumstances should you write this message to an unfamiliar girl.

Therefore, it is better to start meeting a girl on the Internet with the second option: “Hi, your photos are cool - you are so smiling and positive everywhere in them, my mood immediately lifted. And you ride (walk) a bicycle much more often (rollerblading, hiking, going to the movies, with friends), etc.”

Another important point is that the first message to a girl on the Internet should not be short - since it should also encourage her to answer you with a shorter version. It’s difficult to respond to this message with the words “Hello, okay...”. And usually girls also write phrases of several words, where they like to relax, where they have been. And the more details in the girl’s response message, the easier it is for you to continue further interesting conversation and correspondence with her.

a simple example of what you can write to a girl in the first message

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Everything will be shown there using examples of my personal profile and VKontakte page...

How to communicate with a girl on VKontakte further

5. Action
If the girl responded to your letter, then you can exchange a few more messages and you definitely need to make the girl very interested in you. Your subsequent messages on VK should be as non-standard and as interesting as the first message. Only in them will you not only be interested in the girl’s life, but also show what an interesting life and hobbies you have, and after that you must definitely offer to meet.

if there was interesting communication in the previous days, invite the girl to meet later

Because then a very long, even interesting correspondence can come to naught. Having caught her interest in some kind of pastime, be sure to invite her to go together to a museum, a skating rink, a concert, or drink delicious green tea in a cafe...

If there is relaxed and interesting communication, in future messages it is already possible and even necessary to use emoticons, as if showing that you are constantly cheerful and positive.

In order to interest a girl even more and make her like her on Kontakte, make a lot of interesting photo albums from different places on your page, write purposeful and positive statuses on the wall, add various videos, change your avatar, putting the best new photos on it. It will also not be bad if you have comments and likes on your page from other beautiful girls...

I can offer very modest romantics one more option: write a letter and send it by mail along with a cute postcard - a woman can also appreciate this romantic act...

But in any case, if you do it in real life, it will make a much stronger impression. Because few people like shy and weak men!

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Most couples meet on the Internet, this is the modern style of life and communication. So I met my incredibly beautiful and sexy wife on the pages of a popular social network. networks.

Oh yes, let's get to know each other first, - Dmitry Aleksandrovich Kotlyar, who works at the plant, managed to win the heart of an incredible beauty, created a great family, and all this with the help of the Internet and the ability to communicate.

I will tell you a few simple but very important tricks on how to please a girl by correspondence. By collecting and analyzing all the information and actions of your friends, you will find real secrets from real men who have achieved their dreams.

By following simple steps to achieve your goal, you can achieve success for any girl, despite her marital status. Simply put, there is a boyfriend or husband, it doesn’t play a special role.

Success from the beginning of communication or how to write to a girl so that she likes her

Grammar, spelling and other rules that you simply must, if you don’t know by heart, then learn them with the help of a textbook.
- The person who begins the phrase “Hello deFChOnka” in most cases ends up in an emergency. These same phrases include “Why are you so timid,” etc.
- A woman’s brain immediately recognizes the illiteracy of her interlocutor, and the subconscious automatically makes an assessment and is far from favoring the one who wrote illiterately.
Explore her interests. The way the female psyche works is that everything that worries her, she posts either in status or in pictures with a hint. With a smart approach and understanding of female nature, you can immediately find out about her hobbies, favorite films or music, attitude towards the world, towards friends.
Be sure of her marital status; if the girl is single, all the cards are already in your pocket. If you have a boyfriend or husband, you will have to work hard here, maybe longer than usual. If when you see a girl you understand that this is fate, then your rivals, even the strongest ones, are not a hindrance.

So, scrolling through a wall or seeing a beautiful girl by chance, you decide that this lady’s heart should belong to you. After looking through the wall and reading the statuses, you determined her interests and you liked them. Which side should you approach from so that you don’t get knocked out in three seconds?

The question of how to please a girl via correspondence on VK worries most of us. I think everyone has encountered a situation where they saw a beautiful girl, the incredible eyes on her avatar captured the brain, and rushing into personal correspondence, she was refused, ignored, or immediately blocked from her page.

I suggest, friends, to figure out how to interest girls by starting a correspondence on VK.

We prepare bait or create an interlocutor who is ideal in all respects.

We clean out our photo albums - without any sense of nostalgia, remove photos with your exes, photos while intoxicated, or those where you look unaesthetic. It just so happens that girls love beautiful people.
We remove pornographic texts, videos, photos. This does not make us look good, but will show dissatisfaction in this regard.
I recommend it to everyone! Have a photo shoot by choosing a beautiful but masculine backdrop. A couple of suits to change, a T-shirt or comfortable, casual clothes. Every day, novice photographers, for a small fee, will take you several dozen good photographs where you will be in all your glory. Half the battle is done! Now, a young lady who sees your profile with an excellent photo will be able to really appreciate the irresistibility of her admirer.
Don't rush to start a dialogue. Visit her page, rate her photos and statuses. Get her interested in the fact that she liked it, but don't reveal all the cards at once.

To be honest, when I met my wife, she lived with a guy... I added her, saw that her marital status meant being busy, and gave up the attempt. To my surprise, he was added as a friend, but did not communicate with her. I had a picture from the world of philosophy, and I noticed that this girl was interested in the topic of philosophy and meditation. Then something tugged at me, I studied her interest groups and wrote, as I remember now, utter nonsense on this topic.

She was silent for a long time, did not react, then she said that I did not understand this matter and advised me to read certain books, then it would be possible to talk with me about this topic.
I never read like that in school! In three days I read everything she wrote.

The second attempt was more difficult with communication; I acted very carefully so as not to scare him away. I sought a meeting from the day of the second attempt for 7 months. And only after 7 fascinating months of dialogue he invited me to a tea party.

At first we communicated as acquaintances with similar interests, I myself liked the topic, I could give out my no longer stupid thoughts and reasoning.

What conclusions can I draw from these steps?

Girls are unpredictable in their decisions and choices. If you want to please a girl by correspondence, one mistake made in a hurry will ruin all your efforts.

Which path of communication should you take to a girl’s heart?

Always ask how the day went, what new and interesting things happened. – Do not under any circumstances give any hints of jealousy or control on your part through your communication. Only sincerity and interest in her pastime. This is one of the main mistakes that girls do not tolerate; they can only be controlled after the start of a relationship, but not before.
If you notice even the slightest hint of a bad mood, try not to be intrusive. A beautiful bouquet of roses, daisies or a basket of flowers sent with a postcard will certainly please the fairer sex. This type is suitable for a variety of pictures of cute bunnies, cats or dogs, which evoke pleasant emotions, a smile and a good mood in the delicate female nature.
Come up with a greeting and farewell ritual. In the morning, send your cute cat wishes for a good day. At night, send cuddling bunnies, sleeping dogs, etc., depending on the stage of correspondence and your already established relationship. During the day, you can casually send her a flower or a cute picture. But I don’t advise you to go too far with this; it’s better to seem like a courageous Banderas than a “cute bunny.”
Don't devote all your time to communicating with a girl, even if she is the only one you can think about soberly. A busy person is much more interesting than a boy who responds to any messages within ten seconds.
Any hobby that will characterize you as an interesting conversationalist, a person with a lot of knowledge and knows how to behave in society, attracts attention.
Develop, learn. Sign up for foreign language and swimming courses. Visit gyms. Etiquette courses will also be useful. Perhaps this baby has always dreamed of learning how to dance in pairs. There are certainly such courses in your city, invite her to dance as your partner. Be sure to admire her successes and help her overcome her complexes.
Become her reliable friend and interesting conversationalist. Be an integral part of her daily communication.

When a connection is found and communication between two people is set up, at this moment it is important not to miss a special detail. You must clearly, courageously show that you want a serious relationship. To do this, set yourself the goal of conducting all communication according to the scheme of creating strong relationships, and not friendly communication. And if your lady, when hinting at such a relationship, does not begin to move away or refer to friendship, then everything goes according to plan.

Well, if you allowed me to become a friend, then I suggest you remember the film “Sex for Friendship”. A created friendship can easily become the beginning of your relationship.

When communication turned into telephone mode

In order not to stammer immediately after the greeting, I suggest you carefully study the following list:

To begin, choose a place for a quiet phone conversation where you will not be interrupted throughout the conversation. Neither your beloved mother with borscht, nor friends with beer should be background sound during your conversation. This will not only distract you and prevent you from focusing on smart words, but will also show your interlocutor that there is no time for her now.
When communicating over the phone, choose a position that is comfortable for you; this is not a video call, so feeling at ease and calm before starting the conversation will be very helpful.
Both when communicating on a social network via messages and by telephone, take an interest in her pastime and mood.
In search of answers to the exciting question “how will a girl like you on the phone,” many guys are looking for phrases, the list of which should, like a magnet, attract everyone who hears them. No matter how funny it may sound, there are such lists, and those who doubt their abilities try to use these tempting phrases. They often fail and say that the list did not work. I don’t agree; girls really are affected by phrases like:

But, you need to feel the moment when exactly these words will strike the girl and force her to echo them in the left hemisphere for more than an hour before going to bed.

Be sure to watch the intonation in your voice; do not shout at others in the desire to falsely demonstrate that you are stronger. Any manifestations of rudeness will indicate your extreme impulsiveness. Such signs immediately repel your interlocutors, watch your expressions of emotions, and you certainly shouldn’t use obscene language in your speech.

As a result, only you choose what to write to the girl you like. If changes happen to you for the better, but the girl you like hasn’t shown reciprocity, it’s not the end of the world.

But the next time you try to start dating, you will definitely be confident in your abilities, and you are unlikely to regret that you have increased your level of knowledge and, accordingly, have become a much more interesting interlocutor.

Try to improve yourself and then, having become the best, you will certainly win a place in the fantasies of the best girl who will appreciate your personality and you as an interesting and individual man. With this you will definitely be comfortable running in the morning, dancing or swimming in the afternoon, and in the evening it won’t be boring...watching a movie.

Good luck on the love front with advice from Dmitry Kotlyar!

2 comments on ““How to properly please a girl by correspondence?””

You need to find a common topic that can be used to dilute communication about relationships. However, the theme of relationships, their presentation, is also good. The main thing is to create an image of an understanding person

Hello, good day. I am 62, looking for a partner in life, preferably my children, I am still young for my years. But after reading the above, I admit that although I was considered a child prodigy from childhood, I am surprised that I did not know some of these truisms, or rather, I did not think about them when I wanted to please a girl. Thank you, now I hope I will find her, the one. Sincerely, Vladimir.

The fascinating technical process of the Internet occupies the majority of people on social networks. Here you can both delve into the information you are interested in and move on to the level of communication. Sometimes you meet the girl of your dreams, but the acquaintance is difficult, then speech is lost, then there is nowhere to put your eyes. That’s when the social network VKontakte comes to the aid of a modest guy.
Some tips on how to start a correspondence with a girl on VKontakte:

Remove your modesty, at the moment, you are out of sight of the person who has interested you.
Be persistent, even if they are not very willing to communicate with you.
A sense of humor, that’s the main thing in this matter, try to conduct correspondence on a cheerful note of communication, with the addition of beautiful phrases.
Write correctly, the girl should understand that she is very well-read and interesting as an interlocutor.

What to write to a girl as examples of communication.

Starting a dialogue is not difficult, but it requires a special approach. Study in detail the photographs on her page, because they contain quite a few tips. Examples include:

-"Hello". “Sorry to ask, where were you on vacation?”
After waiting for an answer, you can spin this topic into a more detailed dialogue, which can last for a long time.

-"Hello". “You have amazing photography, do you play sports”?
Even if sports have nothing to do with it, girls are always pleased that they show interest in her appearance, communication is guaranteed, and then look, you can smoothly move on to open acquaintance.

Feel free to ask questions like these, they are easy and not intrusive. You can also find out about the topic of profession or study. There are a lot of possible options, the main thing is to use your wits in time.

The essence of this will lie in the more piquant details. If the goal of your desire interests you so much, try to study the girl, from the photographs, you can figure out what she likes, what she does, how and in what places she likes to relax.

Important points in the correspondence will be:

Ease.
Politeness.
Humor.
Interesting life events.
Not a lot of flirting (the main thing is not to overdo it).
An invitation to a place that will interest her.

Interest is like a highlight, the approach should go in a different direction. Find in yourself such a trait as the ability to adapt to the character of another person, do not forget the fact that a girl loves with her ears. There are several options that could help:

Find common goals.
Chat on a variety of relaxed topics.
Make friends where you can, offer advice.
Don't force yourself with frequent correspondence.
Do not rush to immediately invite you on a date, do everything slowly and delicately.
In correspondence, interest her in your achievements.
Don't forget about censorship.

On my own behalf I would like to add, be relaxed, get acquainted, communicate. Listen only to yourself, only then everything will work out for you on the love front.