Quotes about resentment. Sayings of great and successful people about feelings of resentment Wise sayings about resentment

Resentment is a negative mixture,
The arrogance in oneself cannot be calmed down
And aggressiveness wanders around,
In everything, he finds a reason for grievances.
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Those who are offended by God should not be offended. ()

It often happens that it is better not to notice an insult than to take revenge for it later. (Lucius Annaeus Seneca (younger))

Resentment has more power over a woman than love, especially if that woman has a noble and proud heart. (Margarita of Navarre)

By insulting another, you are not taking care of yourself. (Leonardo da Vinci)

Never remember past grievances. (Menander)

If a man wants to be considered smarter than he really is, and a woman wants to be considered more beautiful, this delusion is beneficial for both of them and harmless for others. And I would rather make them my friends by indulging them. (Philip Dormer Stanhope Chesterfield)

Just as warm clothes protect against cold, endurance protects against resentment. Increase patience and calmness of spirit, and resentment, no matter how bitter, will not touch you. (Leonardo da Vinci)

The offender sins not as much as the one who allows the offense. (Basily I the Macedonian)

An insult can be more easily endured by hearing than by sight. (Publius Syrus)

Deep-rooted anger cuts too deep. (William Shakespeare)

Anyone who thinks that new benefits can make the great of this world forget about old grievances is mistaken. (Niccolò Machiavelli)

Swallowing insults, you digest yourself. ()

There are few people for whom the truth would not sound like an insult. (Sophia Segur)

If a person cannot swallow an insult, he needs to chew it out! (Evgeny Kashcheev)

The best defense is attack;
Or better yet, offend and be offended yourself. ()

He who harms one harms many. ()

An arrogant apology is another insult. (Gilbert Keith Chesterton)

To understand everything means to forgive everything or to be offended even more. ()

A man who insults a woman with his last words is like a vile, whom even cattle hates. (Georgy Alexandrov)

A stupid person remembers insults, a smart person remembers the offenders. (Vladimir Turovsky)

If you are offended, the enemy has succeeded. (Konstantin Kushner)

You cannot humiliate a person without humiliating yourself with him. (Booker Taliaferro Washington)

People of small minds are sensitive to petty insults. People of great intelligence notice everything and are not offended by anything. (Francois de La Rochefoucauld)

If you have already allowed evil fragments to get into your heart and eyes, suffer and endure. If a fragment comes out of the eyes, sooner or later the one in the heart will come out too!
It will immediately become easy for you and you will go looking for new pain. (S. Lukyanenko)

Beware of the one who did not answer your blow. (George Bernard Shaw)

Memory and conscience have always diverged and will continue to diverge on whether offenses should be forgiven. (George Saville Halifax)

If you are hit on the right cheek, turn your left! ()

For each of us, life has a reserve of grievances, disasters and bitterness at every hour. (Manilius)

It’s better to commit a hundred heavy sins,
To accept a hundred severe torments, to gain a hundred enemies,
How to offend a parent by becoming disobedient,
Why not come to him in difficult times when he calls. (Zakhireddin Muhammad Babur)

« People of small minds are sensitive to petty insults. People of great intelligence notice everything and are not offended by anything." La Rochefoucauld F.

« If an offensive word turns out to be true, do not blame the offender." Georgiev V.

« Sometimes it is not without benefit to shut the offender’s mouth with a witty rebuke; such a rebuke should be brief and show neither irritation nor rage, but let her know how to bite a little with a calm smile, returning the blow; just as arrows fly from a solid object back to the one who sent them, so an insult seems to fly back from an intelligent and self-controlled speaker and hits the insulter." Plato

« Regardless of the reason for which you were insulted, it is best not to pay attention to the insult - after all, stupidity is rarely worthy of indignation, and anger is best punished with neglect." Johnson S.

« Offenders come and go, don't keep them in your heart. Forgive and let them go.» Gibert V.

« Just as warm clothing protects against cold, so endurance protects against resentment and resentment. Increase patience and peace of mind, and resentment, no matter how bitter, will not touch you." Leonardo da Vinci

« It is just as difficult to drown out a grudge at the beginning as it is to remember it after several years.» Jean de La Bruyère

« It is easier to offend than to endure an offense." Sir P.

« Time heals sorrows and grievances because a person changes: he is no longer who he was. Both the offender and the offended became different people." Pascal B.

« Resentment and resentment are like poison that you drink in the hope that others will be poisoned. Happiness begins with forgiveness." Combden K.

« The ability to protect yourself from threatening injustice is a sign of intelligence, but the reluctance to repay for the insult caused is a sign of insensitivity." Democritus

« If you are cursed and you are offended, then the curse has achieved its goal." Gevorgyan I.

« Do not forgive your servants if they have offended a stranger. Forgive your servants if they have offended you." Jiju Ch.

« Wash the insult received not in blood, but in Lethe, the river of oblivion." Pythagoras

« Beware of a person who does not respond to your blow: he will never forgive you and will not allow himself to be forgiven." Shaw B.

« If you are offended, the enemy has succeeded." Kushner K.

« Don't judge and then you won't need to forgive." Tarasov V.

« It is doubly difficult to endure insults from those people from whom we have the least right to expect them.." Aesop

« Resentment is usually an acute internal disagreement with the inevitability of what you yourself have persistently strived for.» Yankovsky S.

« The memory of grievances is more durable than the memory of good deeds." Buast P.

« Carrying grudges only makes relationships worse. It is important to be on time cope with resentment. » Afonchenko V.

« There are few people for whom the truth would not sound like an insult." Segur S.

« A person is most offended if his sense of humor or his right to be unhappy is questioned." Sinclair L.

FUNNY AND FUN SAYINGS, APHORISMS AND QUOTES ABOUT RESULTS

« A word can offend, a dictionary can hurt." Don Aminado

« A stupid person remembers insults, a smart person remembers offenders." Turovsky V.

« Women and elephants never forget an insult." Munro G.

« Two negatives make an affirmative. Therefore, if they are trying to confuse you with g@vnom, just f@k about it." Yankovsky S.

« If a person cannot swallow an insult, he needs to chew it! Kashcheev E.

« Some swallow the insult, others swallow the offender." Covered S.

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Learn not to be offended. It's very difficult, but so rewarding!

Free your soul from insults... and you won’t notice how your soul will take off!)

In the east there lived a sage who taught his disciples this way:

“People insult in three ways. They may say you are stupid, they may call you a slave, they may call you untalented. If this happens to you, remember a simple truth: only a fool will call another a fool, only a slave looks for a slave in another, only a mediocrity justifies what he himself does not understand by someone else’s madness. Therefore, never be offended by anyone, and do not insult yourself.”

Start with a simple thing: wish all the best to the people who once offended you.

No need to carry around stupid suitcases of grievances. If only because if your hands are busy with something bad, then it is impossible to take something good from them.

The wiser a person becomes,

the less he finds reasons to be offended.

No one can offend me unless I allow it myself.

Mahatma Gandhi ---

You should not be offended by the person who offended you - in his soul he is more offended.

No one is interested in hurting you, no one is waiting for an opportunity to hurt you, everyone is busy guarding his own wound.

The inner world does not tolerate chaos. Take a “broom” and clean up the shower. It’s time to finally sweep out all the grievances and sorrows, losses and disappointments that have accumulated there. It's time to finally make room for something truly new, bright, pure and beautiful.

You don't forgive others to heal them. You forgive others to heal yourself.

Chuck Hilling

It is impossible to offend a happy woman...

You can only make her laugh!

If you have learned not to be offended, it means that you have learned to look into the heart of another.

Challenging behavior towards you is not a personal insult towards you, it is a measure of a person’s suffering. This is how he shows you how much he hurts and how much compassion he needs.

They may say you are stupid, they may call you a slave, they may call you untalented. If this happens to you, remember a simple truth: only a fool will call another a fool, only a slave looks for a slave in another, only a mediocrity justifies what he himself does not understand by someone else’s madness. Therefore, never be offended by anyone, and do not insult yourself, so as not to be branded as stupid, untalented slaves.

Happy people cannot be evil. Only those who are unhappy themselves try to offend others. Your offender was not trying to offend you. He was only projecting onto you what was the real purpose of his aggression. (Anthony de Mello)

The greater the resentment, the more I lose strength.

Resentment is the problem of the one who is offended. This means that it was you who did not have enough mental strength for this person, it was you who could not cope with yourself.

If you are full of strength, energy, if you feel good simply because it is spring outside, and you feel strength and power in yourself - is a person in such a state capable of being offended by someone? When we are full of energy, grievances pass us by. If we are offended, it means that somewhere there is already an outflow of energy, it means that somewhere you have not tracked your condition and have not taken measures to bring yourself back to normal. So what do other people have to do with it?

Why are you offended that no one thought of you or washed the dishes on your birthday? Why didn’t you warn about this yourself, didn’t you say so? Why are you silently, angrily gritting your teeth, doing something, instead of asking someone to help you? Why do you create dramatic images and feel sorry for yourself to the point of tears? Why? Maybe you want to torture yourself?

Any of our grievances is connected with our self-esteem, in other words, with our ego. That is, we are offended that they underestimated us, did not predict our desires, did not think about us first.

(quotes from the article “Adult Children of Resentment” - Maria Petrochenko - Wheel of Life June 2013)

When you have the same people around you, it somehow comes naturally that they come into your life. And having entered your life, after a while they want to change it. And if you don’t become what they want you to be, they get offended. Everyone knows exactly how to live in the world. But for some reason no one can improve their own life.

Paulo Coelho "The Alchemist"

Don’t clog your memory with grievances, otherwise there may simply be no room left for beautiful moments!

Blaming others is such a little trick that you can use whenever you don’t want to take responsibility for what is happening in your life. Use it - and you are guaranteed a risk-free life and a slowdown in your own development.

Resentment provides two important benefits that people have a hard time giving up. The first is judgment, and the second is a sense of self-righteousness.

Most people get angry because of grievances that they themselves have created by attaching deep meaning to trifles.

No one can offend you without your consent.

I still don’t understand why people stay angry with each other for a long time. Life is already unforgivably short, it’s impossible to really get anything done, there’s so little time that you can say there’s none at all, even if you don’t waste it on all sorts of stupid things like quarrels.
Max Fry

Regardless of the reason for which you were insulted, it is best not to pay attention to the insult - after all, stupidity is rarely worthy of indignation, and anger is best punished with neglect.
Samuel Johnson

If a donkey kicks you, don't kick him back.Plutarch

Resentment is actually a way of grooming and protecting one’s self. (Rollo May - The Art of Psychological Counseling)

The collection includes quotes about resentment, grief and insult:

• I often offend people, unintentionally. I still don’t understand whether it’s because they are such idiots, or because I’m so bad. Faris Rotter
• ... I said nothing. I know how to swallow grievances and pretend that everything is fine. Yulia Shilova. I want a rich man, or Who didn’t hide, it’s not my fault!
• It's stupid to be next to a man who is generally good, but offends you all the time. Salma Hayek
• Most people get angry because of grievances that they themselves have created by attaching deep meaning to trifles. Lucius Annaeus Seneca (younger)

• The more a person is inclined to offend others, the worse he himself tolerates insults. Seneca
• Words are useless when you are offended. In any case. The offender himself must realize the offense inflicted on him. The offended person must forgive the offender. The main thing is what is in the heart; on the lips, as a rule, there are only emotions. Why share them if over time they lose their meaning anyway? Elchin Safarli
• You turned out to be as primitive as an amoeba, and I don’t communicate with microorganisms. Happily! Margosha
• The greatest insult that can be caused to an honest person is to suspect him of being dishonest. William Shakespeare
• They are afraid and offended because they are always waiting for an opportunity to take revenge. Those who offend are also afraid because they are afraid of retribution. Aristotle
• Putting a person out the door is the best way to get him to think about what is left on the other side of the door. Iris Murdoch. Under the network
• When you bear a grudge, you create a new one. Publilius Syrus
• There is nothing more offensive for a man than to call him a fool, for a woman to say that she is ugly. Immanuel Kant
• Too many people stay alone because they are afraid of being hurt. We are afraid to care about people because we are afraid that others will not care about us. Anna Eleanor Roosevelt
• If you are dealing with a man, any word you say that can be understood in an offensive sense will be understood in an offensive sense. If you are dealing with a woman, any word you say that cannot be understood in an offensive sense will be understood in an offensive sense. Sylvia Cheese
• It is impossible to offend a reasonable person; you are offended exactly as much as your feelings exceed your reason. Frantisek Kryshka
• If a donkey kicks you, don't kick him back. Plutarch
• Nature has arranged it in such a way that insults are remembered longer than good deeds. Good things are forgotten, but grievances stubbornly remain in the memory. Seneca Aucius Annaeus (Younger)
• You cannot renounce a friend because of every offense. As-Samarkandi
• The memory of grievances is more durable than the memory of good deeds. Pierre Buast
• Just as warm clothes protect against cold, endurance protects against resentment. Increase patience and calmness of spirit, and resentment, no matter how bitter it may be, will not touch you. Leonardo da Vinci
• Memory and conscience have always diverged and will continue to diverge on whether offenses should be forgiven. George Saville Halifax
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  It is better to bear grievances than to inflict them.
• Beware of specialization: once you successfully perform the role of the offended, you will never get another role. Wieslaw Brudzinski
• People of small minds are sensitive to petty insults. People of great intelligence notice everything and are not offended by anything. François de La Rochefoucauld, "Maxims and Moral Reflections"
• He always disliked people who “didn’t want to offend anyone.” A convenient phrase: say it and offend whoever you want. Terry Pratchett. Is it true
• We are so strong to be offended and completely weak to forgive. Margosha
• Only weak individuals are offended. The strong either hate or forgive. Grigory Mikhailovich Tyutyunnik
• Collecting a suitcase of grievances and keeping it in the closet for the time being is a sacred thing for any girl. “I forgive everyone, but I write everything down” is their motto. Dmitry Yemets. Methodius Buslaev. The secret magic of Depresnyak
• You can be offended when a person repeats insults inflicted in rage, having already calmed down. Isaac Asimov. Fantastic Journey II
• The offender sins not as much as the one who allows the offense. Basil I the Macedonian
• Insults from those in power must be endured not just patiently, but with a cheerful face; if they decide that they really offended you, they will certainly repeat it. Seneca
• Never remember past grievances. Menander
• The offender is either stronger than you or weaker; if weaker, spare him, if stronger, spare yourself. Seneca
• Resentment is usually an acute internal disagreement with the inevitability of what you yourself have persistently strived for. Stas Yankovsky
• Only a friend can offend. Resentment is when you are mortally wounded by someone to whom you have become attached. Maria Semenova
• Resentment is like a tattoo - easy to apply, difficult to remove. Ashot Nadanyan
• A teacher's insult is better than a father's tenderness. Saadi
• It is easier to offend than to endure an offense. Publilius Syrus
• Resentment has more power over a woman than love, especially if that woman has a noble and proud heart. Margaret of Navarre

• An insult can be more easily endured by hearing than by sight.
• No one can hurt or insult you without your permission. Robin Sharma
• Write down grievances in the sand, carve blessings in marble. Pierre Buast
• Regardless of the reason for which you were insulted, it is best not to pay attention to the insult - after all, stupidity is rarely worthy of indignation, and anger is best punished with neglect. Samuel Johnson
• Being offended and indignant is like drinking poison in the hope that it will kill your enemies. Nelson Mandela
• We should not be offended by people who have hidden the truth from us: we ourselves constantly hide it from ourselves. Francois de La Rochefoucauld
• They offend both enemies and friends, because it is easy to offend the former, and it is pleasant to offend the latter. Aristotle
• We, people, keep our grievances in our hearts, cherish them, without even realizing that this destroys us. Just like that, we take pleasure in trying on the role of the victim. Helen Brown
• Wash the insult received not in blood, but in Lethe, the river of oblivion. Pythagoras of Samos
• He who harms one harms many.
• She was not offended, but the bad worm still began to dig holes in her heart. Victoria Platova. Stalingrad, metro station
• Love is oppressed by resentment.
• Salvation from all grievances lies in oblivion. Publilius Syrus
• He who intends to cause offense already causes it. Seneca Aucius Annaeus (Younger)
• Memory and conscience will never agree on whether offenses need to be forgiven. George Savile, Marquess of Halifax
• Treason can be forgiven, but resentment cannot. Anna Andreevna Akhmatova

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The sage was asked:
- They say that you know everything, but tell us - what is resentment?
The sage brought a porcelain cup to his lips, slowly drank sake from it and answered:
- Here, there are a few drops of sake left at the bottom of the cup. Do I feel offended by this? If I don't want it anymore, then I don't care. And if I didn’t have enough, then I’ll find more sake, pour it into the same cup, and the remaining drops will dissolve in it. And then I'll drink them. That’s how resentment is, a person decides for himself whether to endlessly torment himself with his resentment, or to make sure that it dissolves with benefit.

Living with resentment is quite easy. The mechanism of resentment simplifies a lot. I am good - they are bad, so I was offended. Resentment removes guilt. Resentment even justifies. But if you are offended for a long time and about many things, then after a while you can find yourself beautiful, living in a bad and offensive world among bad and offensive people. And if you don’t be offended, then questions will arise mostly to yourself. And then you can feel that you are not the smartest, not the most right and not the most beautiful in the world, but at the same time live among good people and in not the worst of worlds.

The husband is offended by his wife because he thought that she would realize that he would need a white shirt tomorrow.
The wife is sulking at her husband because she thought that he would think of buying her flowers.
The child is offended by his parents because they should have guessed that he needed a new construction set, etc.
That is, first we figure out how other people should behave. Then we make sure that they don’t behave like that. And we are offended by them for this. This is normal, because in a madhouse that’s not what happens.

There is nothing worse than the anger of people who were once close to us. Unlike the rest of the world, they know all our secrets, all our weak points and every pain point. And when they get angry, they hit with all their might, as painfully as they can. And they consider themselves entitled to do this precisely because they were once close and enjoyed our trust. So, once again opening your soul to someone, it would be nice to remember that this person can someday become a former loved one...

Who will I be able to amaze with this hackneyed truth?
Do not rush to pronounce words born of resentment.
Do not rush to offend your friend with your injustice,
To suddenly drive him into a corner, even though he is no weaker.
He's just a little kinder. he will wait out the rage in silence.
And the sooner you cool down, the more bitter your departure will be.
And then shame will awaken in you. Don’t rush to part with him.
And the friend will only smile sadly. Like tears, the blood will be wiped away from the soul.

Socrates was never offended. He rightly said that this either did not concern him, or if it did, it was right. If you are offended by a person, then he is taller, smarter and more worthy than you. So take an example from him, reach up to his level. And if he is lower, stupider and less worthy than you, then, by being offended by him, you exalt him with your offense, and humiliate yourself.

A person has offended you, but you go and do him good, give him the warmth and affection of your soul, and the knot will be untied, the anchor will fall from your heart. After this, you will both live and breathe easier. Through such victories with love in the places of your defeat, the heart, step by step, victory after victory, will gain purity.

We waste so much time suffering from grievances that we won’t even remember in a year. No, you need to devote your life to actions and feelings worthy of a person. Let us be inspired by great thoughts, genuine affections, immortal deeds. After all, life is too short to waste it on trifles.

Even if you offended me, why do I need your apology? This is your life and your actions. We make our life by our actions. And if we do the wrong thing, we end up in trouble later. What to do - right or wrong? There is freedom of choice here.

No matter how much you are offended, you still need to trust people, otherwise you will become like a hermit in a cave, who is on alert even in his sleep. Danger can never be avoided anyway. Life is even deadly dangerous, even fatal at the end of life.

There is nothing more enduring than hopeless love. Mutual love can get boring. Passionate love turns into friendship or hatred. But unrequited love will never completely leave the heart, so firmly will resentment cement it.

I'm never angry with anyone. There is nothing anyone can do that deserves such a reaction from me. You get angry with people when you feel that their actions are important. I haven't felt anything like this for a long time.