How do you know that a girl likes you by her behavior, words and non-verbal signs? How to attract the attention of a specific woman
Girls are mysterious, shy and like to hide their feelings. It is quite possible that in your immediate circle there are beauties who are attracted to you. How to tell if a girl likes you.
It is often not easy to understand whether a girl likes you. Some girls don't hide it, flirting openly, giggling and blushing whenever they're around you. Others, on the contrary, are very shy and hide their feelings. However, it doesn't matter at all what type of girl you come across because there are a number of unmistakable signs that give her away. If you like a girl and want to find out whether your feelings are mutual, or simply want to understand whether your classmate or social circle friend likes you, follow the proven methods below.
1. Notice what she does
1.1 Try to catch her eye on you. This is what will give her away. If you look across the classroom or the hall at a party and catch her looking at you, then she might like you. And if she, noticing that you have caught her gaze, turns away shyly or smiles weakly at you, then she practically admits that she has fallen in love with you.
Watch her just as discreetly, otherwise she will think that you are staring at her.
1.2 See if she gets embarrassed in your company. This is the next evidence that she likes you. If she blushes or gets embarrassed every time you walk past her or address her, this means that she likes you and she is worried about how and what to answer you. If you notice that she is blushing, do not ask her about it again or tease her, because such behavior may scare her and push her away from you.
Just make sure she's not the kind of girl who blushes every time any guy talks to her, because she might just be shy around guys.
1.3 Observe how much she laughs around you. Most girls laugh a lot in the company of guys they like, because being next to a guy they like is inspiring and can turn their heads. If the girl next to you giggles and laughs often even when you haven't said anything funny, she probably likes you. She may laugh because she just likes you, but if she really thinks that everything you say is very funny, then she is head over heels for you.
The next time you talk, take a closer look to see if she laughs often. Make a light joke and watch how she laughs - she probably has feelings for you.
1.4 Take a closer look at how the girl’s friends react when passing by you. They can tell a lot about her feelings without saying a word. Next time, walking down the corridor, take a closer look at how the girl’s friends, when they see you, will make fun of her, nudge her with their elbows, or simply nod their heads in your direction, indicating to the girl your presence. This is a pretty clear sign that the girl has her eye on you.
If her friends greet you with a sly smile, this again may indicate that the girl is not indifferent to you.
1.5 See if she is looking for a reason to be with you. If a girl has her eye on you, she will want to spend a lot of time next to you. And for this she will look for any reason. For example, she will ask you to help her with math, or even invite you to watch a movie or a concert. She may do this casually so that you don't guess her true motives.
If you have been in the same social circle for a long time, and the girl began to show herself relatively recently, this probably means that she is not indifferent to you.
1.6 Notice how much attention she pays to her appearance in your presence. If a girl dresses up and preens more often in your presence, she may be trying to impress you. If you spend time only with her or in a small company, and she often puts on lipstick or gloss, admires herself in the mirror, or constantly adjusts her clothes, she is most likely trying to please you.
If you unexpectedly find her in casual clothes, it means she is dressing up just for you.
If you happen to meet at the grocery store and she starts making jokes about her plain appearance, it means she's embarrassed that you saw her like that.
1.7 Read her body language. A girl's body language can tell you a lot about her feelings. If she constantly looks into your eyes, moves closer, and turns completely towards you when you talk to her, this is an indication that she likes you. Here's something else you need to pay attention to:
If she twirls her hair while talking to you, it means she's nervous about liking you.
If a girl crosses her legs, changing them, she again becomes nervous when talking to you.
If she looks away and sometimes looks at the floor, it means she likes you.
1.8 Look how she behaves with other guys. It is very important. Sometimes you think that a girl is in love with you, but in fact she may turn out to be flirty, sociable and playful with many guys. Some girls really fall in love with guys, and some simply prefer male company to female company. You might misunderstand a girl who is friendly with everyone into thinking that she has a crush on you.
Check how a girl behaves with guys. If she behaves the same way with everyone, it means that she is just that kind of person.
If she treats you differently, paying more attention to your person - or, conversely, less attention because she is shy when talking with you - perhaps she is in love with you.
2. Notice how a girl speaks
2.1 See if she teases you. If a girl teases you, this is another sign that she cares about you. Teasing is a form of flirting. In this playful way, the girl lets you know that she likes you. She may pester you, making fun of your clothes, playfully pushing or pushing you, and even making fun of your haircut or new shoes. But don’t be offended - this is how she pays attention to you.
Compare who she hits on - all the guys or just you. If she makes fun of everyone, then she's just a joker. But if she jokes only at you, then she is singling you out.
2.2 Notice if she praises you. If a girl constantly praises you, most likely she really likes you. If she says she likes your new shoes, how you responded to stories, or how cool you were at basketball even though you only hit the ball, then she definitely likes you. When a girl likes you, she likes every little thing you do and she's not afraid to tell you about it.
She might just be a really nice girl, doling out compliments here and there. Or says nice things only to you. Who knows - maybe in the latter case she is the type of very nice girl. Or maybe not.
If she compliments you on a new shirt or haircut, it means she is keeping an eye on your wardrobe and changes in your appearance. And this is a strong signal that she has fallen for you.
2.3 Watch if she is looking for a reason to talk to you. If a girl is in love with you, she will look for any excuse to start a conversation, unless, of course, she is irrevocably modest. If you don't have mutual friends or other reasons to cross paths, she might just come up and ask a trivial question about what was asked in math, which, in principle, is easy to find out from other classmates. She may even call or text asking a trivial question in hopes of continuing the conversation.
If she likes you, she may try to start a conversation based on your taste, for example about sports or her favorite TV show. She might just come up and ask you if you watched last night's game or what you thought about the final season of your favorite show. She might share your hobbies, or maybe she's just looking for a conversation starter.
2.4 She may ask if you like someone. The girl will try to insinuately find out if you have a crush on someone, if you are going to spend the weekend with some friend, if you are in love with someone, which allows you to see right through the girl's intentions. If a girl asks a question about whether you are in love with someone, it should be understood as follows: “Do you like me?”
There is only one more explanation for this - she can ask such questions because one of her friends is in love with you.
If you answer her that you don’t like anyone, she may ask the following: “You don’t like anyone at all? You must like someone..." Here she wants to hear that you are in love with her.
Even the fact that she is interested in your personal front proves that she has romantic feelings for you.
2.5 Pay attention to what she says about the girls with whom you move in the same circles. Is the girl trying to humiliate the girls you hang out with in any way? Does she say that all your former passions are unworthy of you? If yes, the girl is hinting to you that she is the one and the only one for you. If she speaks unflatteringly about your friends and any girls you talk to during recess, then she is incredibly jealous of you because you are not paying enough attention to her.
If a girl is jealous even though you haven't even met yet, that's normal. However, make sure that this is not an issue if you end up planning to date her.
2.6 Be wary when she makes it clear that she would like to have a boyfriend. It seems to her that she is just hinting, but if she constantly says: “It would be great if I had a boyfriend,” “I’m not so tired of being alone,” “I wish I had a boyfriend so I could go to the movies with him.” , this means she is asking you to be her boyfriend. If she often subtly hints that she wants to date someone, that someone is you.
There is another explanation for this - she wants a relationship with one of your friends. But if she never asks about your friends, then she has a crush on you.
2.7 Listen to how she talks about other guys. If she says that this or that guy is not good enough for her, or there are no guys like you, she is letting you know that she needs you. In addition, she can also tell who is lacking what, focusing on your personal qualities.
If she says that she would go on a date with a guy who has a great sense of humor, and it is your humor that she constantly praises, this means that she wants to date you.
If she complains to you about other guys, she is letting you know that she likes you more than the others.
2.8 See how often she calls or texts you. If she constantly calls you or texts you, she definitely cares about you. If she sends you a lot of cute emojis, calls you just to say “hi” or to ask you about homework that she can ask anyone, then she is looking for reasons to talk to you.
If she texts you with emojis or words like “hehe”, then she is flirting with you.
3. Find out for sure if she likes you
3.1 Ask your friends. The primary source of information should be your friends. Ask them if they have seen you and this girl together, and then ask them to answer honestly whether they think she likes you. Perhaps friends from the outside know better, and they will tell you whether this girl is in love with you or whether she is flirting with everyone. Ask them to be honest because you have a right to know the truth.
Your buddies may know who else this girl might like. This information may be useful before you try to talk to a girl alone.
3.2 Ask her friends. This is just as risky as asking the girl directly. But if you really trust one of her friends and are sure that he will not rat you out, feel free to go and ask. Her friend probably knows whether she likes you or not - whether he will tell you about it is another matter.
Just don't attach much importance to questions. Don't expose yourself.
3.3 Ask the girl. If you also like this girl and want to know the truth, don't be afraid to ask. Just find a time when you are alone in a quiet place and ask her how she feels about you. If you like her, tell her first and add that you'd like to know if it's mutual. Speak calmly, make eye contact, and give her your full attention so she knows how important she is to you. But don't exaggerate so as not to scare her away.
If she admits it's mutual, ask her out and see where it goes.
If she doesn't have feelings for you, react calmly. Don't be upset or offended - be impartial and show her what a great guy you are.
Adviсe
If you want to confess your crush to a girl or ask her if she likes you, don't choose school or lunch time to do it. Choose a more secluded place and appropriate time for such questions.
Don't act like she's from another planet. And don't neglect her. Otherwise you will break her heart.
If you have mutual feelings, but the girl is very shy, take the first step.
Don't be cowardly, otherwise she will hate you. Behave yourself properly.
Young guys are wondering how to make it so so that a girl appears in their life.
If you are wondering how to attract a woman, pay attention to the advice of psychologists.
Why do girls like tall guys? Find out about this from ours.
What attracts you to guys?
For serious and long-term relationships the girl must see something in the guy that will interest and attract her.
It is believed that modern people pay more attention to their level of well-being.
This is important, but not to the extent that is commonly thought. It doesn't matter how much you earn, and what is your potential, that is, are you able to provide for your spouse and family with children in the future?
We evaluate people within just a few seconds of meeting them and draw conclusions about how pleasant the person is to us.
Activity- this is constant movement, communication, diverse interests.
A woman looks at how strong a man’s energy is, evaluates him as a potential father of her children, even if none are planned yet.
What to do to get a woman:
- Communicate more. If you are, you are missing out on a lot. Start small - say “hello” to a stranger, ask for directions. This is a classic exercise, but it helps you loosen up and learn how to start a conversation.
- Develop your own and attractiveness. If you cannot cope on your own, then attend special courses.
- Stop being a homebody, find yourself a hobby, a job that requires constant communication with clients and colleagues. The wider the circle of interaction, the greater the chances of attracting a girl.
- Strive for development.
- Forget about bad habits- it’s not fashionable now.
How can you interest a girl?
So you go to practice.
It is likely that things will not work out right away, don’t despair - take into account your mistakes and correct shortcomings.
At the meeting
How to interest a girl when meeting:
Online Dating
How to interest a girl on a dating site?
There are thousands of accounts on the dating site, and among them the girl must choose yours exclusively. Pay attention to your profile- what information is indicated in it, think about how interesting it may be.
A photo is what a girl sees before she meets. Don't post photos of celebrities downloaded from the Internet that are too heavily photoshopped. Naturalness is better.
Note, what is shown in the photo- you don’t have to try too hard to put yourself in the best light, but a photo of you hanging out with friends and drinking alcoholic beverages will not be the best advertising. You can put a photo with your favorite animal, at work, near the sea.
On social networks
How to interest a girl on the Internet, on social networks, on VKontakte?
Don't be too intrusive; start the conversation boldly, but at the same time carefully.
Example of a dialogue in VK:
- Hello.
- Hello, who are you?
— I accidentally saw you in the dialogues in the group, liked your answers, and decided to meet you. Do you mind chatting with a stranger?
- Do not mind.
Or another option:
- Hello. I saw you among my friend's friends. Your photo is beautiful.
For example: What do you do for a living? Where did you go on vacation this summer? How do you know our mutual friend?
By SMS
How to interest a girl via SMS?
Short messages are no longer as popular as they were several years ago, due to the fact that people actively communicate through social networks and instant messengers.
But they can become a small bridge that brings people together.
Say good night to the girl.
Say how glad you were to meet you.
— It was fun talking to you.
“You’re great, I haven’t had such a good time in a long time.”
The main thing is to give compliments did not develop into unnatural flattery. It is better to use short messages.
Pay attention to how competently you write; with educated girls this can play a decisive role.
On the first date
How to interest a girl on the first date:
- Bring a small bouquet of flowers. You shouldn’t take one that’s too large and expensive for a first date, so as not to confuse the girl.
- Think over your wardrobe. Appearance is very important - dress smartly for the occasion and where you are going.
- Choose the right meeting place. The environment should be such that there is an opportunity to talk and get to know each other better.
- Arrive on time, you can't make a girl wait.
- Hold yourself but not too relaxed. The girl should feel comfortable next to you.
- Manifest initiative.
- Give compliments, but so that they are natural and not confusing.
- Forget it about talking about exes, own problems, complaints.
How to attract the attention of a particular woman?
You have chosen the object you want to attract, now you need to think about it strategy.
Is it possible? How to get a girl's attention at school:
- Be active.
- Develop your sense of humor.
- Be visible all the time.
- Learn to communicate, girls don’t like reserved guys because they’re boring.
- Know how to stand up for yourself and protect the girl.
- Periodically strike up a conversation with her on neutral topics.
- Ask for help with homework. Choose a topic or subject that the girl understands.
- Offer to walk you home or go somewhere.
How to attract a girl you like?
Ability to show persistence- one of the important qualities. This does not mean that you should bother the girl, but you can try to get her to agree to go on a date.
And then you need to carefully prepare for it, think about what you will say, what you will wear, where you will go.
Ask if the girl wants to go to the movies. Such a walk does not oblige you to anything, but you you can spend time together.
Walk her home afterwards, trying to strike up an interesting conversation. Don't just talk about yourself. Show interest in the girl, but do not interrogate her, especially on personal topics.
How to attract your wife's attention?
After several years of living together, feelings cool down, and it may happen that the spouses begin to move away from each other.
And this is a dangerous time when there is a risk of divorce.
To prevent this from happening, you must try to regain your old feelings and improve your relationship.
What to do:
- Be interesting— develop, explore new horizons, constantly move, lead an active lifestyle. If you spend your leisure time lying on the sofa, then over time you cease to be an interesting person.
- Surprise— take you to a restaurant, for a country walk, give an unusual gift.
- Give compliments- your wife will be pleased to know that you appreciate her.
- Less criticism and reproaches- they kill not only relationships, but also the self-esteem of the person they are directed at.
- Send the kids to grandma's and have a night out together, order sushi or pizza and just enjoy a good rest.
How to attract your ex-girlfriend again?
The girl left you the same way, which means you will have to change and show that you have become a different person. Try to understand what mistakes were made that led to the breakup of the relationship.
Surely the girl is for you She said she didn't like it. This does not mean that you should completely adapt to the requirements of another person, but if you have obvious shortcomings, you can work on them and improve your personality.
Invite her to meet on neutral territory. Give a small bouquet of flowers or a soft toy.
Do not rush to sort things out or express complaints to each other - the meeting should take place in the most friendly atmosphere. Do not remember past grievances, this will not lead to a renewal of the relationship.
Show how you have changed. Talk about your plans for the future, share your successes, but don't praise yourself too much. Be sure to find out how the girl lived all this time, what interesting things happened in her life.
She should feel comfortable in your presence.
Don't rush into close contact again, but make it clear that you missed him.
At the end of the meeting, be sure to say how glad you were to see each other and that you would be happy to meet again.
We remember- confident, strong guys who have their own opinions, generous, but not too wasteful. Develop charisma in yourself, constantly move forward, and then you can attract almost any girl.
How to attract a girl's attention? Adviсe:
It's hard to say why girls like to provoke you in all sorts of strange ways. They may have a lot of reasons for this - to arrange some kind of checks, for fun, just by chance. One of the easiest ways to provoke is to ask tricky questions. How to understand whether it is provocative or not? It's actually very simple - either he hooks you or he doesn't. If girls’ questions don’t bother you, then you probably wouldn’t open this article...
Therefore, the most important way to deal with provocative questions is not to succumb to provocations. That is, react as if it doesn’t bother you. Because if you start frantically thinking and coming up with the correct answer, that’s it, you’ve already fallen for a provocation. And even if you answer something, it seems correct, then this will be the beginning. Girls are very good at seeing men's insecurities because it is such a stark contrast to what they value most in men - confidence. Noticing your uncertainty, when trying to answer such a question, a girl can act like an excellent boxer who notices that the enemy has swum - she knocks out such a man with a series of the following questions.
Fortunately, this doesn't always happen. In the first stages of dating and seduction, girls can be especially demanding of men. But in the future, the girl will not finish you off, but will simply take note.
A show of confidence is what a girl needs most often, not the right answer. If you confidently answer “I don’t know,” or “I can’t tell you that,” or “I don’t want to talk about that,” then it will work just like any other answer. But it may raise more questions that you must also answer confidently and calmly. In addition, it often happens that there is no correct answer - the girl just wants to get to know you, and that’s why she asks something.
What questions can most often be considered provocative or inconvenient? First of all, touching on topics to which you do not have an answer, either you yourself are afraid to give one, or you are embarrassed to answer. For example, a list of questions or phrases that may be stressful or seem provocative:
- What are you thinking about?
- Say something nice...
- Do you live with your parents?
- What do you do for a living?
- Do you have a license/car?
- Do you have a girlfriend?
- How do you feel about me?
- Who am I to you?
- Do you like me?
- Do you just want sex?
- Do you love me?
- Is this your first time?
The list goes on. After all, each guy may be slightly different, and if all the questions are summed up, there will be a whole volume of war and peace. The general recommendation is to answer directly, confidently and truthfully. If the truth seems too unpleasant to you, then come up with an answer to ALL questions that are difficult for you in advance.
For example, some guys are afraid that a girl will ask them about their girlfriend and it is difficult for them to answer that she is not there - then he is like a loser, and to say that he is - then why is he hanging out with a new girl. A confident guy would simply tell it like it is, and not worry, but then work with the girl’s reaction. But if this is not your option, then at least come up with some witty answer that you can wrap up in the topic. "Do you have a girlfriend? – (smiling) are you already looking at this role? :))” – and thereby provoke the girl.
Another strategy for responding to a provocative question is to respond not to the question itself, but to the request. After all, a girl asks for a reason, but for some purpose, and sometimes it is more important for her to achieve her goal than to receive an answer. For example, asking who you live with could mean asking “will we have somewhere to have sex?” When you start responding to a girl's requests, you will be surprised how much more productive your communication will become.
To summarize, when answering a girl’s questions, it is important to remain confident, have an answer (the truth or a blank), and answer the girl’s unspoken request. And, probably most importantly, do not perceive the girl as an investigator who is trying to split you during interrogation - treat these questions and answers as an entertaining game. Then you will have a good and fun time, not only trying to answer, but forcing the girl herself to work hard on tricky questions.
7. She raises an eyebrow
This is an implicit sign of strong sympathy, so it should be taken into account in conjunction with others.
8. The position of her hands
If a girl crosses her arms over her chest, you can be sure that either she is cold or she is cold towards you.
9. Position of her palms
Another clue that the girl is interested is her open and upturned palms.
This position of the palms shows openness and readiness to develop relationships, while clenched fists are a bad sign.
10. She leans towards you
If she leans towards you when she doesn't really need to, take it as a sign. For example, she may lean in under the pretext that it is difficult for her to hear your words.
11. Showing off your body
Women know that men cannot resist women's charms, so a sure sign that a girl wants you is to show your loved one the open area of her chest, legs, and shoulders.
12. Physical contact
Did she casually touch your hand or hit you on the knee while laughing? Women don't touch people they don't like.
A girl may not be into makeup, but if being around you thanks to cosmetics increases her beauty level, don’t forget to take note of this.
In addition, her outfit, which is, for example, a tight dress, is an additional argument to think about.
16. She initiates communication
If a girl does not wait for you to call her, but calls you first, it means that she is very interested in you and in the development of the relationship.
True, this happens very rarely, and much more often the girl initiates the development of communication implicitly.
For example, she may spontaneously give you 2 flyers to a nightclub, without really explaining anything, in the hope that you will invite her with you.
17. She invests in communication
The girl takes the initiative to do something for you, offers to help or treats you with something, for example, coffee.
18. She asks if you live alone
Why do you think she might ask you this? Right to make sure no one will disturb you when you are alone.
19. She talks about your possible girlfriend
This is a classic. When the interlocutor says something like “Your girlfriend should like this!”, the purpose of the words spoken, of course, is not related to concern for your passion, which, perhaps, does not exist at all.
It's just that your new friend is trying to determine your status to make sure that you are a guy who is not burdened with a relationship, and she is not wasting her time.
20. She makes it clear that she has no one
Has she told you more than once that she doesn't have a boyfriend? And why do you think? It’s clear that the girl wants you.
21. She initiates conversations on intimate topics
If a girl is not a journalist on the staff of Eros magazine, it is unlikely that she will raise intimate topics in communication with you.
Women won't have these conversations with men they don't see as romantic partners.
22. She teases you
If a girl gently teases you, it means the flirt switch is set to the “On” position.
23. She tickles you
A girl wants to touch you, but doesn't want it to be too obvious, so trying to tickle you should count as attraction.
24. She can't look at you without smiling.
A smile is one of the main indicators in trying to figure out a girl’s attitude towards you.
When a girl smiles at you, it is a good sign that she is feeling positive and enjoying your company.
If she flirts with you and smiles constantly, then most likely she wants you.
25. She kisses you
This does not mean that your friend will sleep with you 100%, but she is clearly preparing a springboard, so 99% is already yours.
As a result of the kiss, the girl will find out whether she wants more, so give her a really worthwhile kiss.
26. She notices details
It's all in the details. If a girl notices that you have a fashionable haircut, a toned torso, or a delicious smell of eau de toilette, this is a clear indicator that she is breathing unevenly in your direction.
27. She compliments you
How to understand that a girl wants you? Listen to what she says. Especially if a friend gives you gifts, tells you that she likes the way you look, or praises your intelligence, humor and your talents.
28. She's looking for a compliment
A girl might ask you: “What do you think about my hair?” or “How do you like my dress?” Satisfy your interlocutor's interest and tell her that she is beautiful.
29. She doesn't look at her phone.
Today, people rarely look away from their mobile gadgets. But if the interlocutor hides her phone and, having entered into a conversation with you, simply forgets about her mobile friend, completely focusing on you, know that there is not much left before sin.
30. She asks questions
By asking questions, a girl shows that she is interested in you and wants to get to know you better.
31. She laughs at your jokes
If a girl constantly laughs at your jokes, she is definitely attracted to you.
Does this mean that your friend is ready to sleep with you? Most likely not, but you are definitely moving in the right direction.
32. She agrees to do everything you suggest.
Even your most boring proposals seem like a great idea to her. The girl wants to spend time with you, no matter what you do.
33. She shares her food with you
“Take it, try it.” Has this ever happened to you? That's it. No one will share their food with people they don't like.
34. She borrows your clothes
Have you started to notice that your sweater is increasingly hugging the girl’s shoulders, instead of keeping its owner warm?
It might just be cold outside, but most likely your friend wants to feel you closer to her.
35. She texts you at night
If a girl is texting you after midnight, she is thinking about you in a context that is definitely different from a purely friendly one.
Just don’t get ahead of the curve by trying to spice up your correspondence with piquant texts. Let her bring up the topic.
36. She always answers messages
Does a girl always respond to your messages without making you wait long? If so, then soon you will get to know her as closely as possible.
37. She really wants to meet
If a girl herself invites you to meet, especially if you accidentally bump into each other somewhere, she is clearly up to something. Or maybe the girl just wants you.
38. She herself offers to exchange contacts
In this case, the girl wants to get to know you better and, apparently, meet you again. A great sign of her strong interest.
It's great when a girl asks you to exchange phone numbers, because this doesn't happen often.
The girl’s desire to exchange contacts in order to quickly get rid of you is not taken into account.
