Typical mistakes of women on the first date and not only - what can not be said to a man? What do men think about on a first date?

You met a man and received an invitation to a date. At first glance, you liked him, but how to understand how much he liked you, what are his plans for you for the future, who is he in life: profession, education, upbringing, character? It's no secret that men, when caring for a woman, try to show only their positive sides such as courtesy, gallantry. They carefully hide the shortcomings for the time being. How not to get burned, biting through in time men's tricks? And it's not that difficult. Just don't hang in the clouds, be attentive, analyze his actions, which always speak much more than words and compliments, and his gestures, by which, for example, after two minutes of communication, Dr. Lightman from American film "Lie to Me"

After all, no matter how you pretend, gestures and the expression of the eyes cannot be constantly kept under control, they appear at the subconscious level.

Do not doubt that a man wants to impress you, to please you if, when you appear, he tries to look his best: comb his hair, straighten up, pull in his stomach. He is not indifferent to you if, when greeting, he squeezes your palm, holding it in his for a little longer than necessary, and turns off his mobile phone so as not to interfere with your communication. But if he sees you and takes a long time to scold for being ten minutes late, obviously you ran into a bore. Here you should seriously think about it, because he still does not have any rights to you, but is already making claims, so what awaits you if he becomes your gentleman or even your husband?

If you are late, without having a serious good reason, he himself, and you are not in love with him until you lose your pulse - turn around and try to disappear from his life.

But now, having met, you decided to continue communication in a cafe. The cheap eatery or cafe offered by him makes you assume that your boyfriend is either a poor student, or an egoist and a lazy person, and in this case you do not need such a relationship.

If you continue the meeting in a cozy cafe or restaurant, talking to quiet pleasant music, pay attention to how and what he orders. If he tries to choose dishes and wines cheaper, he is simply stingy. Of course, you can also find advantages in this, calling it frugality, realizing that, living with him, you can not be afraid that he will go on a spree, having drunk his entire salary, or will start an adultery that requires financial costs. He will save up money first for a car, then for a dacha, though saving on movies, sweets and flowers. Are you ready to give up pleasant things for global acquisitions? Then do not refuse such a gentleman.

Pay attention to the little things - whether he opened the door for you, whether he pulled up a chair, whether he asked permission before lighting a cigarette. If the answer to all these questions is negative, then there is a high probability of his inattention and selfishness in everyday and sexual relations.

Your interlocutor tries to make a favorable impression on you - this is natural, but if he criticizes his former passion, complains that he is not appreciated and bypassed at work, this should alert you.

It is normal if he is interested in you, your interests, family, work, tastes and preferences, that is, he tries to find out as much as possible about you, if he is attentive to trifles, which is a quality that is quite rare for a man.

Try to notice his attitude to the story of your past. After all, if he is jealous, in the future, in order to avoid scandals, he will have to reduce communication with male comrades and colleagues, remove some friends from Odnoklassniki, and reduce correspondence on Vkontakte. Of course, a jealous person will take care of you, considering you the most beautiful and sexy, but he can turn your life into torment with his suspicions.

See if he's on his own. After all, there are men who constantly ask their mother for advice on any occasion, whether it is ordering dishes in a cafe, or buying flowers. Would you like it then? family life the three of us, when, in case of any petty quarrel, he will run to complain and seek support from his mother?

Or maybe you met a frivolous, easy and cheerful person who has many friends to whom he is ready to help at any time of the day or night? On the one hand, this is also good. With him you will not have gray everyday life, he will not whine and grumble, just get ready for spontaneous parties, trips to the sea, to the forest and mountains. But, on the other hand, these qualities are good until a child appears in the family, and you can share his entertainment. And everyday life can ruin your family.

And now the evening is over and the time has come to pay the bill. Psychologists believe that paying a bill for a man is a demonstration of power, desire and sexual potency. If your boyfriend offers to pay the bill equally, he does not feel anything like falling in love with you. Of course, you have to pay, but draw the appropriate conclusions.

If a man likes you, and he wants to continue the relationship, he will never put you alone in a taxi, but will take you all the way to the house and clarify when he calls.

Do not lose your head, be observant and attentive - a mistake can cost a spoiled life!

1. Be late

If a woman makes you wait, then she is not late, but delayed (because make-up, wind curls, unwind curls and pull out hair with a curling iron, try on 5 dresses, cry, repeat make-up, decide in favor of shorts with heels, well, etc. ). A man who appeared not at 7, but at 7:20 is a boor and stupid. Because ... yes, because you don’t care! If you are not able to competently plan your own time, you will not be able to cope with a woman.

2. Not having a plan

The last thing a woman wants to hear when she comes to a meeting, where you yourself invited her, is a sluggish “Well, what are we going to do?”. It just so happened historically that the function of animation (at least in the context of the first times) lies entirely with the man. If you don't like it, start dating guys.

3. Take the wrong position

Any psychologist will tell you, and I will confirm: a stranger, seated at a table directly opposite, causes an uncontrollable nervous and is associated more with the investigator of the criminal investigation, rather than with the cutie-obayakha, whom you might want to kiss after a couple of hours. I would also not advise flopping next to you - it’s too intimate for a first date, and you’ll probably push with your elbows. The best option is to sit diagonally to each other. So the conversation will flow more naturally, and the girl will have room for maneuver to coquettishly look away and let the straps of the dress fall off her shoulder.

4. Order wings, ribs and other "sloppy" food.

Perhaps the women of the Mursi tribe would have been impressed by the way you carnivorously bite into the flesh of an innocently killed animal, suck on the bones and crunch on cartilage. But for the refined-emancipated us, this will rather cause awkwardness and disgust. And a vegan girl can even begin an attack of tachycardia, if not worse.

5. Talk only about yourself

Etching tales that put you in the right (read: heroic, romantic, etc.) light - standard procedure for the first date. But to be limited only to this genre means that it is guaranteed to be imprinted in the eyes girls chatterbox and show off. Tales with your participation and questions addressed to your companion should go in a 50:50 ratio. He told about how you and dad went to the wild boar - ask how the girl feels about pork, is she friendly with her parents and does she want to go to the shooting range for next week. Adhering to such a scheme, you: a) will not blurt out too much; b) demonstrate your attention and interest in the person of the companion; c) you will not rack your brains about what else you would like to talk about, except for the weather.

6. Mention your ex

Neither good nor bad. If the one you are dating shows an unhealthy interest in this topic, you should: a) characterize her predecessor and the situation on personal fronts concisely and calmly (“We broke up almost a year ago. not from her"); b) make a note for yourself that the girl is not painfully versed in gender etiquette and, perhaps, in general with foolishness.

7. Embellish reality

It is not a fact that the girl will decide in your favor precisely because of the information about the black belt in Muay Thai, possession of the 5th foreign languages and real estate in Portugal. But he will definitely be disappointed and break off when it subsequently turns out (and this is inevitable) that the only thing you can boast of is an indefatigable fantasy.

8. Complain

Heartbreaking stories about how your mother fed you “whiskas” as a child, you didn’t go to college because there was no connection, and at work the goon boss instead of a computer gave you a typewriter and wooden abacus, leave it for later. Better yet, to yourself.

9. Reply to mobile and sms

Phone switched off for dinner - much more simple, elegant and visual way make it clear to your companion that you are seriously interested in everything that happens and in herself, than even the most curly bouquet.

10. Compare

“In profile, you are the spitting image of Lindsay Lohan!”, “You speak word for word, like my mother”, “When you sneeze, you look like such a, you know, cute badger!” Compliments based on comparison are dangerous because each of us has our own associative array. And you still don’t know each other well enough, so the probability of a “misfire” is critically high. It is possible that, unlike you, the girl considers Ms. Lohan a dirty whore, in principle does not classify mothers as examples of virtue, and she can’t stand rodents.

11. Criticize

Does she listen to Stas Mikhailov? Watering a 40-year-old Macallan with Coca-Cola?! Does he think that the police reform was carried out in a timely manner and successfully?!! The first dates are necessary for this, so that you, like your companion, have a chance to evaluate the person sitting opposite. Listen, observe, draw conclusions. But you should not openly attack and turn the evening into the program "To the barrier!". You still won’t teach good things - you won’t just have time, but you will be remembered as an evil asshole.

12. Go over with alcohol

MH colleagues will forgive me, but not drinking at all on the first date is stupidity and sado-masochism. The tension is colossal, and somehow you need to get rid of it (masturbation helps less, checked). But even worse - to get drunk enough not to knit a bast or, conversely, to carry the devil knows what. Almost every girl I know has a story in her biography when the gentleman got drunk until the peacock scream, and the next day he called, blamed and explained, they say, he was nervous. Keep in mind: no one will take this as a veiled compliment of their own irresistibility, which demoralized you.

13. Confess your love

You may not believe me, but even among men there are exalted types who, after 5 minutes of communication, begin to grab women by the hands, declare their love and invite them to take a walk in the registry office without waiting for dessert. Probably, it seems to them that this is such a trick - to stun the girl with his hyper-spontaneity and overflowing emotionality. At the same time, it is clear from the outset that best case one in a million will answer “Class! I love you too! Hurry up and get married!" The remaining 999,999 girls will consider you either a jester or a psycho. Both roles are not the most successful.

14. Cheer

Among me and my friends clear signs miserliness is, firstly, calculating the amount of a tip with a calculator or, in principle, refusing to pay for the service (“This sleazy mixed up the sea bream with sea bass! Yes, you should be shot for this, not rewarded!”). And, secondly, the offer to pay equally for dinner.

15. Put a bold point

You'd be surprised how many girls come home after a perfect date and have a seizure. self-doubt and begin to reflect on the topic “What if he really didn’t like me?”. This is all to the fact that in the case when the lady definitely liked you, and you would not mind repeating-continuing-deepening, you are obliged to make a "control shot in the head." Simply put: at the very end, unequivocally and openly let the girl know that you like her. Lyrical passages will fit that it was best evening in your life. And attempts to agree on the next date. And the desire to steal a slightly less chaste kiss than on the cheek. And even a soft casting of fishing rods about "drop in for coffee." But the leader of the hit parade is still post-dating romantic sms. For a girl, this is a kind of material evidence that she did not imagine your eyes burning with passion.

I read it. Laughed for a long time. Then I thought. And I decided to disassemble this opus "on the shelves." Firstly - the author did not want to clarify - what does he mean by the term "first date" If we proceed from the Imagery of the Russian Language, then "First" is FOR THE FIRST TIME, and "date" is DATE... Therefore, when a man meets a woman, then there FOR THE FIRST TIME I SAW HER (this is the first date - and not at all what the author means) - it is not at all necessary that a man will perform all the actions that are listed above. The first date can be instant (short-term) - we remember: “Love at first sight”, maybe with friends, maybe in motor transport, etc. Therefore, the title of the article DOES NOT REFLECT THE ESSENCE of what is being described. I would call it “the first personal meeting” - then both “intelligence” and “assessment” and so on will fit this Image, and so on ... Second. The first point is "if a man is fond of sports ... then he should have all the best, including a girl." From what ceiling did the author take this idea. real sport teaches NOT TO COMPETITION - teaches TO FULLY DISCOVER ALL YOUR INTERNAL FORCES - and rivals are only an INCENTIVE, not an OBLIGATORY - because it has long been noticed that in training athletes often show WHERE BETTER RESULTS THAN IN COMPETITIONS - remember the video where the athlete sends a spear beyond football field (that is, over 100 meters), the weightlifter lifts weight, which then for years CANNOT LIFT in competitions - because in training, rivals DO NOT Hinder them ... But the author, most likely, has never been involved in sports, and therefore so " wise thought” and arises from him. If a man has some feeling for a girl, then he DOES NOT SPIT - how this girl will be looked at or what OTHERS will say about her, because the spectrum of HIS FEELINGS transforms the perception of the girl into a completely DIFFERENT PLANE and TIME PARAMETERS - remember " happy minutes DO NOT NOTICE". Third: “If a person is sociable and talks a lot about friends ...” - and the author DID NOT HAVE A SIMPLE THOUGHT that a person is worried and DOES NOT KNOW - WHAT TO SAY to a girl, because she believes that if he TALKS ABOUT MYSELF, the girl will consider him a BRAWGER ? Fourth - if a man pays (does not pay) for you - again, the idea did NOT come to the author's head - and if a man DOES NOT KNOW - HOW HE WILL FEEL that he will PAY for the meeting. I’m already silent that it’s not at all necessary to hold the first meeting in a tavern - if it’s so impatient - you can go to a summer cafe and drink coffee - the payment is cheap, and it WILL NOT OBLIGE anyone to anything. By the way, a man can PAY, but at the choice of a girl he is able to DETERMINE the character and tastes of a lady - for example, if a lady orders Widow Clicquot from the “first date”, then it’s better for a man to DO NOT DO business with such a lady at all - and it doesn’t matter at all in the stinginess of men, and in the SPENDERING and SHAFELESS ladies ... We go further. If a man likes to communicate on the Internet... And if a man is in Vorkuta, and she is in Moscow, they met on the train and then decided to continue communication - then how? I also talk a lot in social networks, but this does not mean at all that I like to be in the center of attention - on the contrary, I'm just not a COMPANIOUS FRIEND at all ... Sixth - clothes often DO NOT SAY ANYTHING AT ALL. What if the person came in uniform? And if a man decided to hide from a girl that he wealthy man and came casually or modestly dressed to find out the REAL FEELINGS of the lady, and not the desire to "marry a rich man." Then how? Nothing that the Russian people have Wisdom: "They meet by clothes, see off - by the mind"? Seventh my. Behavior behind the wheel also does not always characterize a person. It characterizes a person's behavior in STRESS SITUATIONS, and not in Family Life. Saluchai are known when people behaved very calmly during a 9-point storm, but a light rain with hail could put them in a state of stress. This has long been noticed by psychologists - especially during the war - some sing under bombs, but they also hide like moles under the ground during mortar shelling - it all depends on the PSYCHE of a person and her (psyche) reaction to external stimuli. If the author believes that the reaction of a man to the behavior of people driving oncoming cars and the reaction of a man to everyday situations are one and the same, then there is no need to TEACH anyone here ... And the last thing - an excessive craving for order? Looks like the author has a problem with this. And my wife and I (and we have been living together for 28 years) have believed all our lives that order in the house is the basis of a Happy Family Life ... And if a man is neat and accustomed to order, a girl, on the contrary, should be happy about this, because, excuse the author, but EXCESSIVE DRIVING TO ORDER - like Love for the Motherland - DOES NOT HAPPEN - it either exists or it never existed ... But in general, it would not hurt the author to read the works of psychologists - Zhikarentsev, for example ... Maybe then the author will realize that in any situation - and including BOTH participate in the "first date" - and the behavior of EACH of the participants can be a REACTION to the BEHAVIOR of the SECOND ... Unfortunately, the author DID NOT even THINK about this ... It's a pity.

The first date is the beginning of something romantic, pleasant, new and unknown. How to spend it? Should we exalt ourselves to the skies or be modestly silent? How to start a conversation and how to politely say goodbye to an annoying gentleman? From zo rules - choose those that are right for you.

1. Don't show your interest from the first minute. Men love chases and pursuits, beckon them a little!

2. Find out if he has platonic female friends. A man should be able to treat a woman as a friend, not as a sexual object.

3. Don't drink too much on a first date, even for courage. First, you have to run to the toilet too often. Secondly, say something wrong.

4. If a man resembles your father in any way, run away immediately.

5. If you lower the bar, you can get married tomorrow. So don't lower the bar. It's better to wait for something worthwhile than to waste time on something that won't last long.

6. If a guy says he wants to take care of you, run away too. The case will end with the fact that you will take care of him.

7. If a man criticizes food in a restaurant or coffee, draw conclusions. Criticizing on the first date - what awaits you in a month?

8. Don't be too picky! Some ladies leave men because they have too big a head, too tart cologne or too pointy shoes. Give them a chance to improve, otherwise you will drive a beautiful person away because of some trifle.

9. Don't compose too much. Then it will be difficult to remember what you talked about on the first date.

10. Don't have sex on the first date.

11. Do not delay the first date, otherwise there will be nothing to talk about on the second.

12. Never date more than one man. This is tedious and fraught with trouble. As a result, you will want to say goodbye to both of them, because they gave you so much excitement.

13. Before you go on a date, look courageously in the mirror and think about whether you are morally ready to spend your whole life with the same person.

14. If you're comparing a new partner to your ex-boyfriend, you're not ready to move on.

15. If you really like someone, don't wait for them to call or make the first move, take matters into your own hands. Otherwise it will be a waste of time.

16. Find out who does the laundry and cleans his apartment - mom or housekeeper. Do you need an independent man?

17. You will meet right man when you become the right woman- self-confident, independent and optimistic.

18. Refuse to play his games. If you like him, just come up and get acquainted: all these looks, languid sighs do not work with normal men.

19. If a man constantly talks about money, this is the first sign that he is insecure.

20. Don't talk about marriage and kids on the first date.

21. Don't shoot your eyes around on the first date and make sure he doesn't stare at pretty girls.

22. No need to make assumptions and far-reaching plans, otherwise it will be painful and sad. One or two dates does not mean that you are in a serious relationship.

23. Be realistic. All mothers think that we will marry tall, handsome, successful businessmen. But what if I'm short, just pretty and work at an interesting, but low-prestige job? As soon as we become realistic, life will get better.

24. Learn to flirt. No, do not shoot with your eyes, but conduct an interesting intriguing conversation, look into your eyes and maintain unobtrusive bodily contact. Encourage next steps. But this must be done naturally and in moderation, otherwise the man will decide that in front of him is a psychopath obsessed with sex.

25. When you need to scare a man away, talk to him about something boring, like computers or the weather.

26. Brush your teeth before you go on a date: There's nothing worse than smiling with your teeth full of lettuce.

27. Mobile phone on a date, it is better to put it on vibration mode, and if there is an answering machine, then do not pick up the phone.

28. Do not agree to continue the first date at a man's house, even if all the bars are full, the restaurants are closed, there is a snowstorm and a blizzard on the street, and taxis are boorishly passing by.

29. Don't try to politely end a date. passionate kiss goodbye, especially if you realize that you no longer want to meet this person.

30. It is better to sit at home in splendid isolation than to meet complete losers.

You have taken everything into account, then, good luck, good dates, reliable relationships and great happiness.

Getting to know a man is more of a matter of technique, says relationship coach Levo Vozhevatov, but it’s often not easy for women who are looking for a relationship with a man to have a proper first date. Is it possible to fall in love with a man after sitting with him for only an hour or two in a cafe? This is exactly the goal that should be set, the coach believes, and he describes in detail the mistakes of the first date in the book “The Goddess for Her Man”.

How simple tricks fall in love with a man? More precisely, not what to do with him so that he falls in love, but on the contrary, what should one become in order to resist you was impossible? Here are three binding rules for first date success

First rule: create the right mood

A date has to be in the mood. First of all, you create it, not a man. Because a woman is more accustomed to creating a mood. You are more sociable than the average man, more sensitive, more emotional. Such is the nature of a woman. And that's why it's you who creates the atmosphere on a date.

Do you want me to suggest a universal mood that works with all men? There is a cheerful and playful enthusiasm for each other in the air, seasoned with a light flair of romanticism and enjoyment from the evening.

Second Rule: A Clearly Stated Purpose

Any meeting should have a purpose. Especially the first ones. The classic goal is to interest, charm a man (provided that the man liked it, if not, then the communication must be ended quickly).

The goal may be that a man at the end of the first date invites you to the second one.

You can confuse a man a little. So that he does not know how to approach you (appropriate for overly confident and experienced men).

Or vice versa, stun him with your inner world and show your personality.

Finding out what a man is, while remaining a dark horse for him is also a goal!

In the end, the goals can be different: have fun and enjoy communication, have a great evening, no matter how it ends!

Third rule: aftertaste

They fall in love when they start thinking about a person when he is not around. How more man thinks about you, the faster he falls in love, and vice versa. Therefore, you must learn to leave an aftertaste: you are not around, and a man cannot forget your meeting and your image. A couple of days of torment and - voila. He's in love!

What can be done to create an aftertaste? You can admit to a man that he is cool, but you are afraid of him. Several times he acted strangely. And to the question - when and how, you smile mysteriously and offer to discuss it at the next meeting.

Or so. When saying goodbye, ask the man to freeze and not move. Place your two fingers on his lips and then kiss them. Then look at the man mysteriously or cheerfully and let him die. And then leave quickly. Here's a playful aftertaste for you!

Come up with a few chips for this moment. Maybe some intrigue for the next date, maybe an understatement on the first one, maybe an ambiguous end to the meeting, maybe some kind of present for a man - think about it and you will find an idea.

First date mistakes and what they can lead to

1. Interview. There is a popular saying among men now, they say, with age, more and more dates become like job interviews. This feeling comes from the fact that the girl simply answers questions, without setting the pace, not starting topics, not 100% involved in communication. Role position: you ask me, and I will answer.

Outcome: the man invested energy, but received nothing in return. After such a date, a man has a feeling of fatigue: “It’s somehow uncomfortable with her, although she’s beautiful”, “Not mine”, “She doesn’t like me”.

2. I am a problem. This is when a girl dumping all her problems on a man she wants to talk too much. It immediately pops up that she was rude in the store, she is looking for a job for the second month and damn pneumonia haunts her.

Outcome: rejection on an instinctive level (an unhealthy female - sick children - must be dumped) and simply unwillingness to get involved with a person who has continuous failures.

3. You're wrong! In this case, the date turns into a discussion. Arguing, discussing (even if the man is wrong) is very short-sighted and at least stupid.

Outcome: “The brain is taken out at work, the brain is taken out on the road, and even on a date they spoil the mood. I’ll go and pick up and say hello away from this fury! ” A man came to enjoy the meeting, and as a result he gets negative.

Any attempts to equalize or in some way to convince a man is a masculine position. That is, by putting pressure on a man, you yourself become a man. And then the two men met. Then do not be surprised why he began to be friends with you, and you wanted a relationship.

If you like to talk with a man, exercise in intellectual games, that is, one chip that combines both dispute and a pleasant aftertaste.

So. Start your favorite discussion. It will be especially juicy if you raise a dispute on a topic in which a man more or less understands, or is passionate about it. First, start giving arguments, questioning men's arguments, remembering examples from life, in general, everything is as usual. Let the discussion open up, let the man get involved in this confrontation as much as possible.

Remember: your goal now is to captivate a man with this conversation. Stay in this conversation for 10 minutes. As soon as you feel that the degree of discussion is off scale, change your strategy dramatically. Fully acknowledge the correctness of the man, bringing down all your arguments and at the same time complimenting the male professionalism and intelligence.

Such a powerful inversion will create an incredible state in a man: “With the previous girls, I got tired, spent money, but this one filled me up. I want it to be like this forever. I need to call her. And in general, she is cool, they marry such people.

4. Solid and boring. Once a woman came to me for a Skype consultation with the following problem: men either do not invite me to a second meeting, or they try to establish business contacts with her.

After listening to the audio recording of another first date, I understood what was going on. Three and a half hours of decent conversation, with virtually no hint of flirting.

"Why flirt? I decent woman, I'm 41 and I sex not needed, I want a relationship! We are still too little acquainted with a man to giggle and hahanki.

Well, here you go. Men in relationships are usually driven. If a woman at the first meeting offers the role of a friend, well, well, so be it. A man does not feel anything with such a partner when meeting, except for the work of the brain.

“Why do I need a woman with whom I am like a colleague at work. No. She wonderful person but I don't want it."

Instead of "I respectable woman, and sex is a taboo for me, ”you need to bring in a different mood. “I love sex and am very relaxed, but with worthy man who will show himself by deeds, and if this happens, oh, what are we going to do with him! - that's what I understand, bait!

First date: test drive

Well, do a cool test drive for a man. Create an atmosphere of flirting, lightness and joy at the meeting. Tasty, but for 1.5 hours.

When you communicate with a man, show him that you are a hot thing, a sea of ​​\u200b\u200bpassion boils in you, but at the same time you restrain yourself. He must notice how he affects you, and in doing so, he must understand that you are holding back. Like a spring. You have great potential, but it needs to be unlocked. And if he does something wrong, the fire goes out a little. And vice versa.

Can not be lazy men, are unmotivated. This is the mistake of millions of women - to expect that a man will conquer them from scratch. Illogical! Let a man enjoy you a little, taste your charm literally a fraction, and he will begin to court, realizing that at the end he will have an amazing prize!

Of course, in a couple no one owes anyone, but the division of roles is still present, whatever one may say. Do something easier and more natural to a man, something for a woman.

So. A man is, of course, achievements, security, responsibility, resources (including financial), protection. And a woman is the atmosphere, the "weather in the house" and entertainment. Is it cool to be the head of the fun?

Yes, the first meeting is acquaintance, and often it's just a restaurant or cafe. But then, if a man is not creative, it is useful to offer his own options. Why? I tell you one more secret.

Second date: crash test

One of my students went on a first date with a man who positioned himself as successful and worthy. We came to the restaurant: beautiful music, soft light, delicious coffee. They sit and yell.

A man, don't be a fool, drew a luxurious picture of himself beloved. Stories from childhood beautifully turned into stories about sporting achievements, then something interesting and non-trivial about business, and then a juicy compliment. There is no egocentrism or sycophancy. In general, smart. The girl swam!

As a consultant, I suggested that the next meeting be held in karting. And then came the long-awaited Saturday. They sit in the cars, they started. A couple of laps together, after which the gentleman's engine stalls, and he retracts at speed into the bump stop.

My ward drives up to the man to find out how he is doing and, perhaps, to help with something. And what does she see? On the face of her boyfriend. He yells, waves his arms, squeals and accuses her of slipping a broken car into him and almost killing himself. The man gets into her car instead of the girl, and orders her to stand in the middle of the track and wait for the karting worker. And left.

She realized that now men need to be evaluated in stress, or at least in actions, and not on the comfortable sofa of an expensive restaurant. Many people have learned to speak fluently now.

Conclusion: after the first introductory meeting ideal option there will be an action date.

If a man shows himself worthy, then it will not be difficult for you to fall in love with him, if only because the best format for this is just to do something together, to overcome obstacles, showing your best qualities! Overcoming obstacles together brings people together ten times faster than long emotional conversations.

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25.03.2017 17:48:13

I don't know how to make a man fall in love with me. But I know how to make him think about you. Gotta try to borrow from him. more money and don't give up :)

In the light of recent topics - very relevant :)

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Dating a man what not to do on a first date... We all tend to get nervous on the first date and it's a natural part of the dating process. How to fall in love with a man?

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Do not go, of course, and do not fool him. Survive somehow and marry normal girl. And you yourself will still find a man according to your needs, with a thick wallet.

Here, the same word with the letter M ...., God forgive me.)
Well, I would have left the woman more requested, lined up for a lady, groomsmen. So no, it will roam, be ostracized, disfigured.))