Folk signs about rings and real life. What actions betray a man in love

First of all, rings are a symbol of energy closed in a circle - inseparable unity, domination, obedience.
Why are rings useful? What magical powers have rings? What do the rings represent?

What is a Ring?

The ring is associated with the solar symbolism of the circle - the symbol supreme power solar deity and the divine power of pharaohs, kings, church ministers. Dominion, mental and material, as well as spiritual superiority embodies the circle. The strongest is the energy of the circle.
The circle has the most powerful protective power. Rings are the conductor of our forces. Putting on the ring we come into contact with it. Therefore, what metal the ring is made of and on which finger we put it on plays a big role. This determines with what force we come into contact, its nature and influence on a person. Putting on the ring of another person, we transfer his energy, preserved in the ring, to ourselves.

A psychologist from Australia, Tim Wanley, studied the "insider things" of 1.5 thousand married couples and revealed interesting patterns: wedding rings and the way they were worn clearly correlated with how these people developed married life. And what is even more interesting - with the thoughts and aspirations of their owners, which they told the scientist about. - The research topic was family psychology and not rings. But all of a sudden I found some patterns,” says Wanley. – Often people could not explain why they wear a particular ring, but in 80 percent of cases there was a connection between their story about very personal things and the type of ring worn. Perhaps there is ground for serious research here ...

What do you wear on your ring finger?

Here are some options from Tim Wenley's "collection".
A thin "classic" ring (2 - 5 mm wide) - satisfaction with a partner, the owner is not inclined to seek sexual relations on the side, marriage can be long. But in the future, relationships can become routine. Thick weighted ring (more than 5 mm) - uncertainty about the strength of the relationship, the reliability of the partner, an intuitive desire to prevent a future break.

An engagement ring with “frills” (risks, notches, small diamonds) - the owner subconsciously strives for a more “bright”, passionate relationship than he currently has in alliance with a partner. Or he fears that the "fire-breathing lava of passions" will not last long and in the near future everything will be covered with a veil of boredom.

There is no ring at all. Only a small percentage of such people are secret erotomaniacs who do not want to show that they are married. Most of those who do not wear a wedding ring, subconsciously resist "family oppression", although they live a generally normal married life.

If you dreamed of a ring, it is usually in a dream that is not associated with events related to fidelity, oaths, love. If you dreamed in a dream that you were wearing a ring, then all your undertakings would be completed successfully. It is also a symbol of imminent marriage. If the rings were worn by your friends, then wait for new acquaintances. A dreamed iron ring portends the attention of a person whom you will seek with great difficulty.

For a girl, a dream in which she is given a ring suggests that she does not have to worry about relationships with her beloved, because now he will devote all the time to her.

When you see a broken ring in a dream, it means for a girl the loss of her friend. In the case when a ring adorned with a diamond is put on your finger, then a person you like will soon notice you;

wedding ring is yours personal life improve in the near future. In a dream, putting a ring on your friend's finger means that you are true to your feelings. And if you lost your ring in a dream, then your personal life may upset you, separation from your loved one is possible. A dream in which you cannot choose a suitable ring can be interpreted in such a way that in currently you don't like anyone.

In a dream, a ring fell from your finger - you broke some kind of oath that you gave to your loved one. Golden ring means long relationship with your loved one. silver ring- you can quietly gain power over your beloved, while calling yourself his slave.

Seeing a snake curled up in a dream means you will be confused, you have to distinguish true love from simple flirting. If you had a dream in which a snake wrapped a ring around you and hissed its tongue out of its mouth, in real life you will fall in love with a very dangerous person.

Gymnastic rings portend a situation in which you can stand up for yourself, get rid of the wrong accusations from your partner. Hanging in a dream on gymnastic rings - you will not believe your friend's next lie and you will be absolutely right.

Finger To see the thumb on your hand - there is a danger that you will become a victim of dodgers and dubious luck; experience pain in thumb- failure in business; lack of a thumb - need, loneliness;

the thumb seems unnaturally small to you - a fleeting joy;

Unnatural thumb - Your success will be swift and brilliant;

The thumb is dirty - you will experience pleasure, giving free rein to your passions;

Too much long nail on the thumb - the pursuit of dubious pleasures will lead you into sin;

Seeing the fingers on your hands dirty and scratched - to sorrows;

Beautiful white hands with well-groomed fingers are yours. sincere feeling will be appreciated, your benevolence and generosity will make you famous;

There are no fingers on your hands - big material losses.

Interpretation of sleep from: Miller's Dream Book

Rings can symbolize a contract or the assumption of certain obligations, such as in marriage. Sometimes rings indicate our desire to make a commitment to ourselves or to receive assurances of a commitment by others towards us or a particular enterprise. magic rings may indicate the acquisition of supernatural POWERS. The rings or “wheat circles” drawn on the ground are related to protection, because the ring is a border that evil is not allowed to cross. In dreams of this kind, you may worry about the inexorably advancing circumstances and feel the need for an intercessor. Do you make or find the ring yourself? Do you feel like you are in control of it? This ring is being used by someone to gain power over you.

Rings and circles. Rings and circles are archetype symbols. We may dream of round rooms, the magic circles of a shaman, an oracle or other soothsayer, a circus arena, or even round roads - all these are objects round shape. In fact, the circle is a positive image, but when interpreting dreams, other objects should be taken into account, as well as experiences associated with the appearance of circles in a dream. Did you yourself or someone else encounter a round object? The circle was interrupted or was it closed?

If you want to understand the meaning of a sign, look not at the thing, but at its symbolism, meaning, at the images that you have. After all, not the object itself, but its meaning in the mental field affects us. The wedding ring is a symbol of marriage. Therefore, everything related to the ring is transferred to interpersonal relationships paired with. Cracked, darkened, lost, fallen - it is believed that the same will happen with the fate of marriage. This is how our thinking works. This is how superstitions are born. Faith in empty fuss. It is sad and insulting when people are worried because of signs, but not because of their own attitude towards themselves and their partner. All stories below are real. If there are mystical coincidences, I honestly write about it. These are rare special cases.

1. Uneven surface of the wedding ring - family life with scandals and breakups. What is behind the desire to buy an unusual - not like everyone else - engagement ring? Perhaps the bride and groom are still children at heart and want to play wedding: a limousine, guests, White dress, exclusive ring. Or accustomed to getting all the best, spoiled. Or pay more attention to outside life: wealth, beauty. Or they like to splurge. If so, then problems in their future relationship are inevitable. But not because of the ring, but because of the unpreparedness of the newlyweds for the difficulties of marriage.

My friend got married in July. Her ring is smooth, but on front side four large diamonds at intervals. They said they couldn't. Now they live through a stump-deck: sometimes they reconcile, then they swear, then they generally fight.

My girlfriend was dissuaded from buying a newfangled engagement ring (one spins inside the other + stones). She was told that the ring should be smooth, symbolizing stability. But she chose beauty. And life with her husband, and the truth, failed. At first they lived quite richly, then drugs and dismissal from work, then theft and slot machines. Now my husband is sitting. So, probably, superstitions are born or justified?

The uneven surface of the ring can be viewed differently. Do not be afraid of difficulties, be ready to overcome them, as the spouses from the story described below did.

“We recently lost our rings with my husband. Now we want to get married. When they bought the first ones, they approached with superstition to buy smooth ones and so that life would be smooth. And now we will buy ribbed ones to reflect the difficulties of married life.

2. For strong and happy marriage rings must be gold. There is a perception that choosing a traditional gold ring will help build a strong marriage. And I can give you examples. But remember that this is a newfangled sign, since the ability to buy expensive rings was not at all times. Our grandmothers also managed with simple copper ones. I do not think that the choice of material plays a mystical role. Rather, household. If the young are so poor that there is no money for rings, then build life together will be much more difficult. Love does not always stand the test of lack of money.

They say that you can not change such a tradition as gold rings. Some of my friends decided to buy silver ones. Three months after the wedding, they suddenly had a big quarrel and fled. They persuaded them with the whole composition, they just don’t want to put up.

Gold rings became available only in the 60s, before that they either didn’t wear rings at all, or wore copper and silver ones. Both of my grandmothers have copper rings! They married with them in the late 40s, early 50s. One of the grandmothers bought gold only in the 70s. It was like an investment and a symbol of wealth. The second did not wear a ring at all from the moment she got married on the sly. Gold was available to a very small segment of the population, usually it was earrings, rings as jewelry.

3. It is impossible for Orthodox to wear a wedding ring on the left hand, only on the right. It is customary for Orthodox Christians to wear a wedding ring on the ring finger of their right hand. Why this happened, no one really knows. This tradition has come a long time and is firmly rooted in the mind. Now a superstition has already arisen that it is dangerous to wear a ring on the left (unclean) hand. And in other countries, on the contrary, they wear the ring on this side, closer to the heart. It is well known that the church is against superstitions. Often in our hearts we know that the relationship is not destined to last, and we send signs to ourselves. Do you believe that if you once put a ring on left hand are you going to get divorced?

I always knew (by the way, I don’t remember where) that being married, an Orthodox wedding ring can only be worn on right hand and by no means on the left. She got married, she was going to live with this man all her life, not in the sense that she was in euphoria, but that she was going to build a family. The ring is usually taken off at night. And now, about a year and a half later, in the morning I take the ring and clearly, confidently put it on my left hand. And I stand, dumbfounded looking at him. Then I tell myself that it’s okay, it’s all nonsense, we should rather forget it. She didn't tell anyone, and, to tell the truth, she soon forgot. And I remembered after the divorce ...

4. You can not twist the wedding ring on your finger - you will get divorced. A wedding ring is a symbol of a sacred union, a special decoration. Therefore, it is considered unacceptable to have a frivolous attitude to a sacred thing: throw it, twist it. In addition, others are often annoyed when hair, edges of clothing, jewelry are pulled on the nerves. Surely someone will pick up. And this is just a sign of emotional tension hidden inside strong feelings:

An acquaintance, when his wife began to cheat on him, outwardly he was so calm. Only the ring twisted so hard that we even told him about it.

Many will accept the absurd: “If a wife buys socks for her husband, the husband will leave. If cowards - will change. It's easier not to get married at all than to follow all the rules.

We have been spinning with my husband for a couple for 12 years now. We calm the nerves.

5. The wedding ring turned black - unfortunately. It happens that the ring turns black. This is considered a bad sign. Although the reason may be in a cheap alloy. Or the body's biochemistry, the skin interacts closely with the ring. During the stress strong feelings is changing hormonal background. But, I must admit, there are such signs-coincidences, warnings of fate, especially often associated with amulets (for example, crosses, icons, rings).

My wedding ring turned black a month after the wedding. There is no allergy to gold. Went to a jeweler. He said it was the first time he had seen such a thing. The gold is good, but the ring is black. Cleaned up. After 2 weeks it turned black again. Reflected our lives. I left my husband when my daughter was 6 months old, my husband chased me with a knife when I had a daughter in my arms. Was there a sign from above?

I really believe that stories with rings can be harbingers of fate. My husband also lost his ring, and immediately we began to suffer. As soon as he took a mistress, my whole finger turned black under the ring, I was scared to death, went to church, and there the grannies said, they say, a sign from above, a warning. Well, for sure, but as soon as they got divorced, I wore the ring for a long time, so it never turned black. So don’t believe in omens after that!

7. Lose your wedding ring - to divorce. This is the most famous and most controversial sign. It is very frightening, therefore it is dangerous by negative programming of spouses. Rings are often lost right at the wedding, because the hands are used for active manipulation, so it is easy for them to catch and drop. Many get divorced, but not because of the rings. Gloves, wallets, keys, crosses, earrings, flash drives, glasses, documents disappear from the ends. And an engagement ring, worth a little weight loss, easily slides off your finger. Those who have had to go through a divorce will willingly blame failure on a bad omen. It is important to remember that the loss of the ring on a symbolic level is a sign of release from obligations. It happens that people tend to deliberately or unconsciously get rid of it if the spouse got it to the fullest. That is, first a desire to leave appears in the soul, and then the ring is lost.

And one friend's husband came home from work and said that he had lost the ring. And then they got divorced, sorted out the relationship. He admitted that he handed it over to a pawnshop, and squandered the proceeds with his mistress.

My friend got divorced after she lost her ring. True, she was already on the verge of a divorce, and the loss of the ring only assured her of her decision.

When 3 years ago the child broke the mirror into 2 parts, the husband then left us for his mistress. They also said, they say, do not believe in omens. And he left and still hasn't returned. Before he chose her, I lost my wedding ring in a week.

8. You can’t wear someone else’s wedding rings - you take over the fate of the former owners. Another ambiguous sign. Lots of conflicting opinions on this subject. I think it's important to trust your heart here. Do you want to wear the wedding ring of your mother-in-law, mother, grandmother? How easy and comfortable is this thought for you? Are you afraid of invisible energy? Or, on the contrary, do you feel the protection and patronage of your ancestors? Answer the questions and it will become clear whether you need to take someone else's or buy a new one.

Before our wedding, my mother-in-law also ordered rings from her engagement ring for my husband and I, she had such a thick one. Cool rings. I do not worry about the fate passed on, she and her husband have been living for 35 years! I wish them more! So, if we pass on their marital fate to us, I'm all for it!

I felt sorry for the money for wedding rings, a wedding, and so it is a costly business. I wear my mother's ring, and my husband wears the ring I married for the first time. We polished them in a jewelry store. The husband immediately took off his ring: he clung to him several times at work, it almost came to an injury. I wear mine without taking it off.

My opinion: marriage is new life, which the young will build themselves, with clean slate. Therefore, the rings must be new! As an example, I will give the story of my friend. Their rings were also not new, she inherited from her great-grandmother. He has what is left of his father, with whom his mother divorced almost immediately after the birth of his son. Their life is terrible. He walks, likes to drink. Many times they broke up and got back together because of the child. There are no normal relationships. Everyone lives as they want.

But in our first marriage, we went to the registry office with “rented” rings: one from a friend, she left after a divorce, and the second is my mother’s engagement ring, although they didn’t get divorced, they didn’t live together. The first marriage broke up quickly, and it was somehow ... painful, for both. It seems to me that it is better to buy new rings, albeit inexpensive, even if not from precious metal: you can then buy others for some anniversary.

I dare say that new wedding rings do not always mean happiness. In experience: the first marriage with completely "fresh" rings and broke up, and the second - with the rings of my husband's deceased parents. Unfortunately, I didn’t recognize these FINE PEOPLE, but I’m sure that only in loving family such a wonderful person could grow up - my HUSBAND. I wore their wedding rings to church and they were lit up there. We've been married for seven years. Happy. What we wish you!

In no case!!! No used jewelry, no earrings, no brooches, no rings!!! All the energy accumulated by the thing from the previous owners will go to you!

9. You can not throw the ring on the floor - it will be offended. In family life, sanity and the ability to understand your spouse are most important. If you want to preserve the family hearth without offending the ring, but getting your spouse with superstitions, tears, insults, then such a task is hardly feasible. It is not the thrown ring that destroys the marriage, but your selfishness, tantrums and anger. In the heat of the conflict, the rings are thrown both on the floor and out the window, wherever they have to. But the fate of marriage is decided by the ability of a woman, and this is to cope with her emotions of anger, fear, resentment, helplessness. Do not take care of your spouse, but worry about the ring - God help you!

In a fit of emotion during a quarrel, the husband threw the wedding ring on the floor. A reconciliation followed, and naturally he put it back on. I read that you can’t throw the ring, it can be offended. Even if people reconcile, the crack in the relationship will only grow, reaching the point of parting. My husband does not believe in all this, but he sees how nervous I am and cry all day. I am a very emotional and impressionable person. Is it true? And how to avoid it? If this is true, then how to “reconcile” the wedding ring and make it not “offended”? I read a lot of forums and have already surfed the Internet in the morning. Many say that you can’t do this (although they did), but there is not a single word how to fix it.

And an acquaintance own wedding in a fit of rage, he threw his ring into a snowdrift. Naturally, they didn't find it. They have been living for over 15 years.

10. In order for the marriage to be strong and the spouses not to part, you need to wear rings all the time. The most dangerous superstition that can cost you your health. There are activities where the ring on the finger increases the risk of injury. She herself is familiar with a wonderful person, an excellent family man who tore off his finger while jumping off the side of a truck. The ring caught on a piece of iron. This did not affect the marriage in any way, but there is no finger. It is even more difficult for a woman: the body changes with pregnancy, childbirth. Edema begins, weight is gained, and adjusting the ring under new size for some reason no one is in a hurry.

My fingers swelled during pregnancy. I came home and ... God, what are these sausages ?! And how to be now? The nameless man turned blue under his wedding band. The husband says: “If you don’t take it off in the evening, we’ll go to the injury.” I understand everything, but I CANNOT allow, let alone saw the wedding band. I don’t really believe in omens, but this is TABOO. My talisman. In general, four hours, alternately lubricating the fingers with gel from edema, holding hands under ice water, all in soap and vegetable oil, scrolling the ring by the thread, I did IT!

Read what this sometimes leads to. Be reasonable!

And my husband recently almost lost his finger because of a wedding ring - he caught the ring on some piece of iron at work. Thank God it worked out. And just shortly before this incident, I boasted to my friend that my husband never takes off his ring. Praised, jinxed.

I know a case from my mother's friends. Also, my husband persuaded me not to take it off. And during childbirth and after, when she was in the hospital, this began! Almost lost a finger: a rush of blood there or something. During childbirth, she screamed from the pain in her finger, and not from contractions! And after giving birth, right on the chair of the women in labor, the carpenter sawed it off for her. So she had a month, probably, the finger did not move at all. And now he is bigger than the rest, the hematoma has turned into a bump. And the engagement ring will definitely not fit now.

The strength of the relationship depends more on the qualities of character, many stories strong marriages this is confirmed. I myself do not believe in omens, we do not wear wedding rings as a husband.

Dad sold his ring right after the wedding. Mom doesn't wear hers at all because she doesn't like rings. And nothing have been living together for more than 30 years. There was never even a talk of divorce.

11. At night, you need to remove the rings, otherwise sex life will go wrong.

There is such an opinion. Decide for yourself whether to follow it.

By the way, do you know why they wear rings on the ring finger? And still advise to shoot at night? It's in China, they seem to have found out that ring finger responsible for sexual energy. You put a ring on your finger - oops, and you don’t want anyone ... They squeezed the energy ... So they wear it so that it doesn’t stand on others. And they rent houses so that they want a husband-wife. I follow the advice, we are doing well in bed.

Why is there a need to follow signs? The choice of a life partner, wedding, marriage are the most important milestones in our life, determining the fate of a person and his children. I myself have been married for 17 years and very happily. But I will say that it is still not easy to build this business. common life with another person, especially if children are born. Responsibilities are getting bigger! It's good if you can rely on the experience of your parents, grandparents: on the experience of generations, whose continuation you are. If their family life was happy, then you are calm and omens worry you a little. They did it, and you can too. We just repeat. But if our parents had scandals, there was a divorce, trouble, the pain of betrayal, or, on the contrary, long loneliness, we ourselves - the first in the family - must build strong and warm relationship. Think about how easy this is? Often young people try to find support outside themselves, for example, in signs. That's why wedding superstitions a bunch of. Be critical of signs, do not believe their forecasts without analysis and reflection.

My cousin made a terrible scandal when they tied a tape on the car - yellow. We all say that yellow at the wedding to parting. So she began to rage, she almost canceled the wedding. They went to meet her, removed this tape. She calmed down. They got married and divorced six months later. She just has such a character that no one can live with her. That's all superstition.

Psychologists and gesture experts tirelessly tell us to pay attention to the little things. Today's article is dedicated to men and wedding rings that they wear. Spinning the ring is a very meaningful gesture that largely depends on the context. I will list all possible interpretations, and you choose the one that suits your particular situation.

attraction

In a one-to-one conversation, usually with a woman for whom he feels sympathy and attraction, the man suddenly begins to twist the ring. Why is this happening? In some cases, this can be interpreted as a desire to get rid of duties and relieve yourself of marriage bonds. With this gesture, he shows that he is ready to sacrifice marital fidelity and not averse to starting a new relationship.

Desire to be saved

A married man is talking on the phone with his wife. Constantly swears, the conversation takes place in raised tones. Very uncomfortable, his hands are busy with the phone, but he still tries to remove the ring from his finger. What does it say? According to psychologists, his relationship has reached a critical level, so with this gesture the man shows that he is determined to get rid of the ring forever and get a divorce.

Nervousness

Difficult, stressful situation. Need to be accepted correct solution, to say the main words. A man often begins to twist the ring, unbutton his cufflinks or buttons on his shirt. All this is accompanied by rapid breathing, slurred speech and excessive sweating. IN similar situation there is nothing reprehensible. Very soon, he will calm down and stop touching his wedding ring.

Boredom and impatience

Someone taps his fingers on the table or his foot on the table, for others it is pleasant to fiddle with the ring. Perhaps the man is just bored. Somewhere late, which means there is no time, patience is about to burst. If he leans back in his chair and yawns, there can be no question of any deception. Just boring.

Deception

Often this happens when communicating with unfamiliar people. If a man says that he loves his wife, while looking away and nervously twisting the ring, you know he is lying. And most likely, he is trying to convince himself of this, and not the interlocutor.

Regret and nostalgia

Being in a circle of friends where there are no women and absolute freedom, men often like to be nostalgic. Recall the past freedom and fun days. If he spins the ring, it means that he regrets the heavy burden of married life.

If you are a man and suffer from the habit of twisting the ring, be careful, an experienced woman can easily figure you out. Well, for you dear women I hope my article will be very helpful.

In this article, we will cover the most important ones.

Steps

Part 1

Pay attention to her look. A woman who is interested in you will not only take a close look at you, but also let you notice it! Repeated eye contact from across the room - reliable sign the fact that a woman invites you to come up to her and say hello (especially if her glances are accompanied by a smile).

Watch her face. When a woman is interested, her face becomes more animated. Pay attention to her eyebrows, lips and eyes - they will give you information about how the girl will react to what you say. Pay attention to the following signs Special attention:

Pay attention to where the girl is in relation to you. An interested person will try to get closer to you. If you are sitting at a table, she may put her head on one or both of her hands to get closer to you.

• Beware of crossed arms. If a girl sits on a chair with her arms crossed, there is a chance that she is bored or uninterested. Try to win back her interest by starting a lively conversation about her and her life. If all else fails, you will have to look for another girl.
• On the other hand, if a girl touches your hand and immediately removes hers, pressing it against her chest, she reflects her interest.

1. Pay attention to how the girl touches her hair. Gentle, gentle movements, such as carelessly twisting a strand around your finger or running your fingers through your hair, are all signs of interest. Fast and abrupt movements are a manifestation of embarrassment or impatience, especially if complemented by a wandering look.

   • Quick sharp movements do not mean that the situation is hopeless. If you push too hard, take a step back. Be careful not to dominate the conversation or give too many compliments. When in doubt, read the wikiHow articles on how to flirt to learn how to turn a conversation in the right direction.

2. Pay attention to her fingers. When a woman is interested, she caresses with her fingers erogenous zones his body, twirls Jewelry or playing with his glass.

   Pay attention to her legs. Most often, girls who are interested cross their legs. It's exclusive good sign if the leg is pointing in your direction. She can also iron lower part thighs or flatten your pants (doing this before, or doing it at the same time) to keep your attention on your legs.

• Pay attention to the tension in the muscles of the face. It is directly proportional to sympathy. The most noticeable places are around the lips, chin, forehead.
• Girls, not all guys will reciprocate and reciprocate your flirting. You recognize such a guy by his reaction: you laugh at his joke or flirt with him, and in response to this he looks at you strangely or with bewilderment. Guys, don't be afraid to say "thank you but no" to a girl who flirts with you. This way, she won't waste time on you and will be able to start flirting with someone else.
• If a girl looks into space, smiles and looks at you, then she thinks she is flirting with you.
• If a girl takes out a lip balm and takes longer than necessary to put on her lips while constantly looking at you, then she is flirting.
• Showing their interest, girls often shift their gaze from eyes to lips, and then back. This indicates the desire to kiss a man.
• Most of the gestures the girl makes unconsciously. Eye contact and a smile are conscious actions, while copying most often occurs involuntarily.
• If a girl looks at you from head to toe without moving her head, and then smiles, then she is clearly hinting that she likes you.
• Head tilt to the side is the primary indicator of interest; girls often do this during a conversation to show their involvement and agreement with you, as well as to open their neck, thereby showing you that she is comfortable with you.
• You can also use the clock trick. Take a quick look at the clock, and then look back at the girl (unless you were looking at her out of the corner of your eye). For this any will do item. If a girl looks in the same direction you just looked at, then she was watching you. But keep in mind: perhaps the girl thought that you saw something dangerous or interesting, and wanted to find out what it was.
• If her friends are talking about you when you haven't spoken to them, she probably likes you because she talks about you with them.

Warnings

• Not all women have the same body language!
• Do not look at the neckline, even if the girl is wearing a rather revealing outfit. It's a bad habit for some men to look at their décolletage, but if a girl catches your eye, she's almost certainly offended (especially on a first date).
• Consider who is in front of you. If she is not free, she may always act like this, or she is looking for an affair. In the second case, it will not lead to anything good, except for trouble.
• Do not jump to conclusions: if some gesture seemed sexy to you, this does not mean that the girl wants you. If you go for rapprochement, and the girl does not want this, it is unlikely that everything will end well.
• Not every unconscious gesture indicates that she is ready to go to bed with you. Such gestures indicate interest, and sexual behavior - natural way attract a male.

All women, being in a relationship with a man, want to know how he really feels for her. In this girl, the study of facial expressions and gestures of a person can help. This is a very common tactic of psychologists. They can find out when a person is lying, and for years he is sincere.

Gestures

If a young man lightly touches his head when talking to a girl, he just wants to please the lady and show that he is very sexy. These touches to the hair are very light. The man does it absolutely calmly and accurately. It is very easy to explain, many people associate hair with their attractiveness and sexuality. Therefore, he prolongs the same movement several times, as if boasting in front of the young lady.

If a man suddenly began to straighten his tie or watch, began to twist the buttons on his shirt, then most likely he is very worried. But at the first communication with the young lady you like, this is quite normal behavior of a young man.

But it is possible that a man is not worried because a girl might not like him, but simply cares too much about how he looks. He strongly wants to please his interlocutor and tries to subconsciously make his appearance ideal.

If a man often looks in the mirror, while constantly straightening his back and straightening his clothes and hair, this also indicates that the man wants to impress his girlfriend.

Expression of feelings

A man can, when communicating with a lady, not control his movements. For example, he puts his hands in the same way as his partner, or repeats the position in which the chosen one sits. It's all about strong interest men in this lady. If a guy leans towards the lady and raises his eyebrows, then he is definitely already thinking about what future they will have.

If a man twists some round object in his hand, then he unconsciously shows his interest to the girl. A man who has a wife, when communicating with a lady he likes, will twist the ring on his finger, as if trying to take it off.

If a man is interested in a girl, then he will attempt to touch her or her things. Thus, he wants to penetrate into her personal space and be closer to her.

It will also talk about love gaze men. If he does not look away looking at the lady of the heart, then she is definitely not indifferent to him.