How to make a person pleasant with the help of a successful compliment

Many underestimate the importance of compliments in communicating with a girl. Of course, you can do without them (and many seducers have already proven this a thousand times). However, a well-made compliment can move you more than a well-made joke. :)

Let's dispel a few myths first. Historically, pick-up artists have given compliments rather stupidly. Why? Remember who were the first pick-up artists in Russia. These were programmers (because only then, back in 1994, they had access to foreign conferences), who read the advice of Western colleagues and perceived these advice as step by step algorithm. And here's what came out of it.

Myth 1. Compliments should not be made, because by doing this you raise the status of a girl and belittle your status (and Western colleagues wrote that the status in communicating with a girl is very important!). If armed common sense and see how girls react to cool and appropriate compliments, then we will quickly realize that this is complete nonsense. Compliments often allow you to raise a girl's interest in you, this good tool for seduction.

Myth 2. A compliment is a dating tool. Many schools still teach how to get to know each other according to the principle “you approach, you say something, then you make a compliment…”. In fact, when you learn to compliment, the first thing to do is to use it during a date, when you already have a good dialogue. Then compliments will turn out better - more sincere and less intrusive. And almost anyone expects to hear a compliment during an acquaintance. nice girl.

Myth 3. Compliments are meant to please a girl. This is where it gets a little more difficult. A compliment is a tool to increase interest. But, if you do it to please or arouse interest, the compliment will turn into flattery and work exactly the opposite. The Right Motivation- absolute disinterest as a result of a compliment. And you should compliment only those girls and only those qualities that you really liked.

As we can see, compliments must be able to be made and it is worth learning this. Exist certain rules and easy-to-hear word patterns that will help you give really good compliments to girls. And now I will share with you these schemes.

But first, let me give you some examples of compliments that you can use right now. These will be compliments to girls in SMS and photos - you won't have to wait long for the situation to use these examples.

Examples of compliments for girls in SMS

What to write in SMS to make her feel like it's a compliment and not something else? Let's look at a few examples so you get the gist.

For example, if you communicate with her via SMS, and she teases you, then you can make the following compliment to the girl:

"Masha, I like your sense of humor and impudence!"

Some seducers in such cases are advised to arrange a competition with the girl, whose joke will be funnier and “more painful”.

But everything changes when, instead of playing this game with her, you make a compliment. Thus, you show that you perfectly see her game, that you are above her, and descended to her in order to make this compliment. Those. you perceive her behavior as the playfulness of a little girl, and act as a caring dad. Many women like this approach very much - try it and you will see the result!

Another example: “I love it when you get angry! So you become more sexy!

If during the correspondence she told you that she went to training, you can make the following compliment: “I think that only really strong people go in for sports.” This is the indirect compliment model, which I will tell you about a little later.

Note that in all of these examples, the compliment is your response to her behavior or situation. Those. a compliment really deserves it.

Compliments to girls for a photo

Texting teaches us to compliment her behavior, but what about her appearance? For training, photos of girls are perfect. You have time to look and think. Let's study!

What compliments can girls write to photo? Of course, a lot will depend on what you see in the photo. A universal recommendation is to try to look for those small parts in her appearance, which you really like and which you can praise. Especially try to notice the changes that occur in her appearance. Maybe it's a nice dress or a new hairstyle.

Then you can write: “Marina, you have taste! ;)" or " This hairstyle really suits you!».

If you can't praise something in particular, you can compliment her in general. True, so that your compliment does not turn out to be banal, it is important to use the so-called “strong” words:

« You are irresistible as always!" or " You are very sexy in this photo!;)».

With the help of "strong" words, you can give your words an emotional coloring. Again, you can use various derivatives on a sexual theme (sexy, passionate, depraved) in compliments. These epithets work well if you already have a sufficient level of trust with a girl.

Direct and indirect compliments to girls: what's the difference?

And now we'll talk a little about various types compliments and the structures of their compilation. We will divide all compliments into direct and indirect.

• Direct - we directly and openly praise the girl or some quality of her

Straight lines are well suited to the initial stages of communication with a girl, when you are just getting to know her, talking on the phone or having a first date.

As in the previous example of a compliment in SMS, you can praise her attempts to tease you: “ Natasha, I like your sincerity and audacity!».

At the first meeting (at the moment when you saw her) you can say with admiration in your voice: “ You are simply irresistible today!».

• Indirect - we praise some quality inherent in a girl, in isolation from her personality

Indirect ones are more suitable for more "advanced" stages of communication. More often these are compliments about sex or about "deep and important."

Examples :

« Are you a teacher? I think it's one of the most important jobs!».

« Next to you I feel like a man with capital letter M».

« If you do not develop your creative skills, then it will be a crime against all mankind.».

Indirect compliments (especially on initial stage training) is recommended to be done during live communication (not by SMS, phone, but at a meeting). In order for such a compliment to work better, we advise you to adhere to the following structure:

1. Eye contact for 2-3 seconds.
2. Look at the subject of the compliment for 1-2 seconds.
3. A pause of 1-2 seconds.
4. Giving your compliment.
5. Touch.

This is the sequence of actions that works "perfectly".

What can be complimented

• Appearance. Only it should not be banal compliments. Try to find those things that are rarely praised or not praised at all (for example: “ You have such an attractive ankle! :)»).
• Efforts. Artfully selected colors in clothes, small items wardrobe, hairstyle, unusual (!) Manicure - all this makes her invest a huge amount of effort. So, it requires praise and approval! ;)
• Environment and lifestyle. Praise work, friends, and leisure.
• behavior. The way she manifests herself in life, what actions she performs (she did in the past or the behavior she aspires to).
• Skills. Often people devalue their own skills, not considering them to be something significant. However, when you compliment something she can do well, she will be pleased to hear it.
• Beliefs. By approving her beliefs, you are already paying her a compliment. The main thing is not to praise something with which you do not agree, otherwise she will feel false.
• Energy and attractive force . It is quite difficult to prove that it has an attractive power. This kind of compliment is based, rather, on the suggestion of this fact. :)

For example, you can ask her why she looks at you like that, and after 5 minutes in communication, make such a compliment: “Well, here it is again. :) Again, I looked so that I even forgot why I took the cup in my hands;)».

Rules of a working compliment

What needs to be done to make it work?

To do this, it is important to remember that:

• The compliment must be sincere. It will definitely feel fake.
• You must touch her at least in the format of "SDP" (socially acceptable touch). A compliment with touch works 3-5 times better!
• The right motivation is when you praise her not because you liked something, but in order to emphasize your vision of beauty.
• Say only non-standard things!
• Do this in an evaluation frame so that the girl understands that your value is high enough, and the compliment is not an attempt to pick her up.
• There should be a slight smile on your face.

If each of these rules is followed, then your compliment will work 100%. Use these diagrams and examples, and with experience you will be able to come up with really cool compliments on the fly.

The ability to correctly make and select compliments, beautiful and well-aimed words that emphasize the merits and, if necessary, hide the flaws - will open the door to the heart of any woman.

A woman is an individual, requiring a unique approach to her. More importantly, be able to emotionally and sincerely say these very compliments. Dry words, however beautiful they may be, will not produce any effect. Sometimes, simplicity and honesty do more than the pretense and falsity of your words.

A living example is how girls react to nice words:

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What is important to remember when giving compliments?

Every girl has weakness, about which she is most pleased to hear pleasantries, and it usually sounds different than - "You are very beautiful."

You will have to pick up the same, suitable key with your own hands. But how to do it most correctly, for the girl you like, with a hint of what you want to get, namely her, there are already a few basic rules here:

• The emotional basis of a compliment

As mentioned above, and will be supplemented below, emotions express feelings, and feelings are the most important attribute for a girl.

There is a feature of how easy it is to distinguish a successful courtesy from failed attempt- you yourself will be pleased with what has been said. Purity and sincerity beautiful words- pierce any armor.

• Action

Good words should, if possible, be reinforced by a good deed. How close your interlocutor is to you, the threshold of what is permitted depends on it. There is nothing new in this, but often, a guy, feeling confident after a compliment, allows himself too much, thereby breaking sympathy for himself.

If the time has not yet come for touching, then your unconditionally persistent and male gaze, most importantly - do not make a too serious face!

• Restraint

Rarely, but aptly! Oversaturation of pleasantries does not lead to good!

• Interest and attention

Observe the behavior of the girl, characterize her and her hobbies. Find out what is important to her and what interests her. Compliments in these areas are not only pleasant, but also interesting. That way she will know what you think about it.

• Worthy to accept rejection

Not always a woman can accept your gallantry. And unfamiliar individuals, all the more, are able to ignore and even respond with rudeness. Don't force yourself, and if your compliment fails, say that you only emphasized its peculiarity, without any hidden intentions.

How to get a compliment?

To say that it is easy - no, rather the opposite! It is not enough to emphasize her beautiful figure, eyes and smile, something more is needed! Of course, it will be nice to hear it, but no more, and this is clearly not enough for us.

Such a compliment should leave behind some kind of understatement, lead to a continuation. It should be the impetus from which everything will begin. A nice riddle to which I want to find an answer. But enough theory, let's move on to practical advice:

Be original and inventive. Say something she hasn't heard yet, but would like to.

Example:

Your chosen one has big and beautiful green eyes, and probably every second one tells her about it, but you don’t need it. Ignore and focus on her sense of taste for design (if she understands it, of course). You don't have to line up with her fans of looks or some other obvious virtue. Focus on what is hidden from view. This way, she may decide that her skills and interests are closer to you than those green eyes!

Let her know that her interests are close to you and are close to your hobbies.

Example:

Here follows the continuation of the first example. You may even have to learn what she does, at the same time emphasizing her experience and knowledge of the matter, and most importantly, supplementing and bringing her ideas. Just handsome teacher we don't need anything.

A compliment with a hint of improvement. You are good - but I have seen better! Of course, it is by no means possible to say this in such a straightforward way, but the essence is clear.

Example:

About Us young years is engaged in dancing and, of course, has already reached certain heights. It should be said: “I like a well-staged and graceful dance. Not just movements, but a hidden meaning in every change in body position. Not just watch and forget, but keep the dance in your head for some time!”

It turns out that you emphasized admiration for her work, which is the best compliment and pointed out what exactly attracts you, giving a vector of development and at the same time, at least, left an imprint for a while.

What compliments can you say to your girlfriend?

There are practically no restrictions, it all depends on you and the chosen one. It can be both straightforward courtesies hitting the forehead with facts, and ambiguous hints from a loved one. Light compliments on the hair and smile, or neat ones leading to sex.

Carefully consider what you want to say, because, ineptly emphasizing sexuality, you can easily offend.

Compliment to the eyes

Yes, this eternal theme of such bewitching eyes, which only here has not been invented and written. Hypnotic, mystical, mysterious, fabulous, intoxicating and even killing!

Examples:

• I'm impressed with your look, seriously, beautiful female eyes my weakness!
• More beautiful than yours green eyes, only your nose!
• When you are serious, your look is even more expressive, it suits you!

Compliment to the figure

The figure is perhaps the most important part female body. Literally everything depends on her, no matter who says anything! Emphasizing this aspect is most pleasant for both sides.

Examples:

• At your place model appearance, directly to the envy of others!
• You can be admired forever, you are an ideal!
• You have a very sexy walk, are you a fashion model by any chance?
• your slender long legs don't get out of my head!
• You have an impeccable figure, literally everything suits you!

Compliment her sophistication

One of the most interesting topics because it usually gets the least attention. Noticing the merits of her taste, you present yourself as an experienced, attentive and, like her, exquisite gourmet. That is, you need to discover her zest in the manner of dressing, picking up accessories and perfume.

Examples:

• I like your perfume very much good smell, This is my weakness!
• I couldn't help but notice that you always look amazing!
• You have a wonderful necklace, it matches the color of your eyes!

Compliment lips and smile

Lips are one of the most desirable parts of the body. How many times how many guys have they turned their heads around stronger eyes? And what is the smile of your girlfriend worth? Of course, such moments are remembered for a very long time. And to have as many of them as possible, use my advice.

Examples:

• I miss the taste of your lips!
• Every time you laugh, I fall in love with you all over again!
• I am very attracted by your lips, I want to try them!
• In difficult times, I remember your cheerful smile!
• Your smile warms me!

Compliment to hair and hairstyle

Hair emphasizes femininity and uniqueness of character. They create the image that we end up loving. original and stylish hairstyle allows not only to stand out from the crowd, but also to point out to a woman what she so wants to show.

Examples:

• The smell of your hair drives me crazy!
• At your place pretty haircut, I really like her!
• Your hair looks great with this dress!
• You have very beautiful thick, dark hair!

List of compliments for girls

Examples of beautiful, ambiguous and non-standard compliments that your girlfriend will remember and give her a smile:

• I'm glad we're together. I feel that you are exactly the one - which I have been looking for for so long!
• I am grateful to fate for bringing us together. It's not just an accident, I'm sure.
• You're awful...beautiful.
• You are so...appetizing!
• Smile suits you, smile more often!
• You bring color and peace to my life.
• My friends envy me, because only I got you.
• I'm drunk... on you.
• You don't need makeup and cosmetics, you're too good for that.
• Your voice is my favorite sound.
• I didn't hang, you just stunned me!
• Your presence next to me is the best for me.
• I learned the feeling of love thanks to you.
• I see real beauty– only in you!
• The only thing I can be sure of is the correct choice of my woman!
• I'm disarmed by your silence...
• To say that you are the main thing in my life is to say nothing, you are my life!

What compliments should not be given?

Compliments designed for mass, but not for individuality, are strictly prohibited. What, according to dry statistics, is perceived as normal, is very likely to pass by or even offend your unique chosen one.

With humor about how to make compliments, a famous comedian will tell:

What may please one may offend another. There is no definite list of taboos for any compliments, but there are examples that are best avoided.

• You look very young!

Not every girl dreams of being a young girl. The image of an adult, independent and responsible woman looks much more attractive than an infantile young teenager.

• You have a very easygoing and pleasant personality!

Girls, unlike men, are even more dynamic and changeable. She can change from day to day and that sweet girl that you noticed is capable of becoming a selfish rude tomorrow! Of course, this is an exaggeration, but the idea is clear.

• You are different from my ex!

The very fact that you are comparing your current one with the former does not bode well for yourself. Each girl, of course, wants to be better than others in everything, but such comparisons are not appropriate here.

• As for a girl, you are very smart!

With one such "compliment" you put all girls below men. After this, you will only have to apologize.

• This is the best thing I've heard from you!

Here the very basis of the compliment speaks for itself. Of everything she said, only this you really liked, and everything else was an empty phrase.

In addition to the article - a great man tells the secrets of tackles:

Complimenting girls is a very subtle and effective tool with which you can make them very pleased. The ability to use this is not given to everyone, and it is very easy to cross the line between slight admiration and rude flattery. Besides, he is important tool in relations between men and women.

We present 40 original compliments to girls.

But first, let us recall what the original meaning of this French word is.

“Compliment” is a slight exaggeration of the dignity that I would like to see in myself.

Comparing the phrases “this dress goes very well with the color of your eyes” and “you are the most beautiful”, the second statement clearly does not refer to compliments, but will pass for ordinary flattery. Because it is easy to challenge, and most likely, your praise will not be taken seriously.

Of course, there is no panacea compliment in the form of any universal statement that any will do girl, anytime, anywhere. You will have to break your head or open your heart so that your words evoke really pleasant emotions. Compliment - exclusive gift girl.

But, nevertheless, we can highlight the basic requirements for a beautiful compliment:

• focus on the internal, not external, virtues of the girl,
• be sincere, or at least try to give the impression
• speaking about the external beauty or qualities of a girl, focus on the comparison,
• pay attention to the nuances that indicate impeccable girl's taste,
• praise what she is proud of,
• avoid ambiguity,
• personalize and concretize your words,
• build a speech on facts known to both of you,
• do not exaggerate your choice positive quality, otherwise it will be perceived as a mockery,
• let the thought be simple, do not pile up the construction of your statement,
• don't include any teachings, just characterize.

40 compliments for a girl

So, we offer you 40 beautiful and original compliments for your (or not your) girlfriend:

“You are so beautiful and attractive that I forgot why and where I was going as soon as I saw you…”

“You are like a sonorous spring stream on a quiet steppe night, when everything around shimmers from the radiance of the stars. And I freeze from you ... "

"The subtle smell of your hair will drive me crazy, I'm not kidding."

“But do you know what a captivating, charming smile you have? Well, no, really, you have such a beautiful, most radiant smile. Only very good and happy people smile like that.”

“Girl, I admired you all the way. I saw and forgot about all my problems, I want to thank you for this.

“Compared to you, the current Miss World is ugly!”

“How do you manage to stay so young among these pensioners!”

“Who said that Mashka (any other long-legged Tanki, Anka, Olka) has long legs? Have they seen yours?

“Even the petals of a May rose cannot be compared with the tenderness of your skin!”

“Have you already decided that you are the best? .. in fact, it’s just that everything is really worse than you ...”

“It is such a time that no matter how a girl is, so is a star. You, by the way, too, only you are for me - a guiding, polar star ... "

“It’s just impossible, but You cook even better than my mom!”

“These new earrings go very well with your ring!”

“Excuse me, but what modeling agency do you represent?”

“Oh, with this magazine in your hands you look like a real business lady!”

“Mademoiselle, there is something so mysteriously beautiful in you that I cannot take my eyes off you…”

“Looking at you, I began to understand why your spouse is always in a hurry to go home (a pretty girl will think about beauty, an economic one about comfort).”

“I like your suit, very good cut!”

"You have an aristocratic profile, you need to pose for sculptors."

"If nature ever created ideal forms so it was yours!”

“You are a very self-confident girl - it’s understandable, you are beautiful, energetic, sensitive, cheerful, smart, kind ...”

“You really are special - you have your own opinion on everything, and I like it!”

“Lidiya Ivanovna, you are an excellent doctor, because you pay so much attention to each patient. How do you manage it?

"I'll draw an analogy with cars ... so here you are - this is the latest model of the Ford Mondeo!"

“Yesterday I bought your favorite perfume and sprinkled it all over my apartment so that I smell like you ... (in separation)”

"This romance you do much better than this singer."

"You look as charming as on our wedding day."

“I am so hungry that I would now give my life for your pickled squash! (specialty of the house)"

“I have seen you before… and it seems to me that it was in a dream…”

"Happiness?.. it's you!"

"I love you the way you are..."

“Now, if I was born a girl, I would like to be like you!”

"What kind of dragon do I need to fish to become worthy of such a princess?"

"I fell in love with your sunshine: your smile and freckles."

“Today you somehow look good in a special way, something has changed in you ... so you haven’t put on makeup!”

“This is unbearable, I can’t be near you! I'm just blind from your beauty!

“If you are always so charming and beautiful, I will start to be jealous of you. You yourself say that jealousy is a bad feeling!”

"I hate you, because I love you so much!"

"I'm sure you'll be a good wife! (about housekeeping)."

The girl, when listening to compliments, except pleasant emotions there will be a psychological phenomenon of self-hypnosis, self-esteem rises. And even if the merits are a little exaggerated, after such words, she will want to at least correspond to them. So, in addition to feeling grateful for the attention given to her, you will push the girl to improve.

That's why, respected men, do not skimp on beautiful compliments! Praise and appreciate women, because, as you know, "women love with their ears."

Complimenting a girl about her beauty

And God created a woman ... And since then there is no rest for either a man or God.

When you first meet a girl, you are men, first of all you pay attention to her appearance: face, clothes, silhouette, gait, posture. If you like a girl and you have an irresistible desire to get to know her better, you should use your brains to impress the girl, for example, with a compliment about her beauty, since you are not yet familiar with the character of the girl. Don't know how to do it right? Then this article is for you! I will open the veil of secrecy to the questions of what compliments girls like and when their appropriate to speak!

An important rule for expressing compliments: compliments must be appropriate and honest. All girls are different, so the approach to each should be special. nice compliment girl about her beauty will require from you a little knowledge of psychology, attentiveness and, of course, your imagination. In this case, clear restrictions and recipes should be followed. It is important not to overdo it and not overdo it with compliments. Below I offer you a list of top compliments, but remember that in a certain situation a certain compliment is appropriate. Therefore, read the article to the end, because. after a short list of compliments, I will talk about basic rules for their expression!

Top 10 compliments to a girl about her beauty

• It's hard for me to control myself when I look into your eyes.
• It's impossible not to fall in love with you.
• Your beauty drives me crazy.
• What a pity I didn't meet you earlier. I don't even know how I lived without you.
• I fell in love with you at first sight.
• The smell of your hair makes me crazy!
• I have never seen such dazzling beauty.
• Your eyes shine like never before!
• This pendant (scarf) emphasizes the color of your eyes.
• I love being with you so much.

“To a smart woman, compliments serve to evaluate men, to a stupid woman, for self-esteem.”

Do not worry, even if you are rejected after your confession. There will definitely be a girl who will appreciate your efforts !!! Although after reading this article, You'll be savvy enough to impress just about any girl !

So, let's take a look at a few situations you might find yourself in, as well as basic rules for complimenting a girl about her beauty

The study of these rules, plus a little practice, and you will get limitless control(sounds fascinating, doesn't it?) over the psychological state of the girl! Unless, of course, she wants to! So let's get started!

1. You need to carefully study the girl

Before going out, almost every woman carefully gathers: she chooses clothes, accessories, puts on makeup, does her hair. It does, however, focus on one some detail that would emphasize its originality and individuality. It will be great if you notice this detail. What attracts your attention the most? What do you think she would like others to notice?

Of course, in every girl has her own charm , that feature that decorates it and distinguishes it from the rest. Eyes, hair, lips, legs, chest, clothing style can cause admiration in a man. If you are not meeting for the first time, perhaps this is a style of behavior, a manner of communication, a character trait. You must sincerely express to the girl all the compliments, of course, which she deserves.

Well if you can't take your eyes off her beautiful eyes then those eyes just crave a compliment. Do not pity the most tender and nice words to these feminine charms. By the way, you can use my list of epithets.

Eyes - bottomless, mysterious, radiant, azure, aquamarine, blue haze, radiant, black-burning, color eyes tea tree ; sight - hypnotic, mystical, pure, sincere, bewitching, intriguing, gentle, sincere, open, trusting, bright, drowning, intoxicating, intoxicating, daring, witchcraft, mysterious, happy.

It was not in vain that I singled out epithets that describe the look of a girl. The eyes are the mirror of the human soul. Even without words, you can determine the mood of a girl by her look. Many women, thanks to their bewitching, magical look, slay men to the ground.

A smile is a decoration female face. Don't forget to remind the girls what a charming smile they have and how it suits them! It's actually very nice, I know for myself!

You can safely say to the girl: “ You smiled so beautifully that I forgot where I was going". This compliment will inspire the girl that she has a magical attraction that will captivate men's eyes, break their hearts and deprive them of their minds. A woman should feel that she is a goddess, unless the girl has too high self-esteem (she already feels like a goddess). IN this case other methods of expressing compliments will be required.

Smile - dazzling, radiant, Hollywood, radiant, charming;laughter - contagious, incendiary.

You can just say: Your eyes (smile) drive me crazy«.

Hair depending on the color, density, structure, they can also cause admiration and compliments.

Redhead - fiery, brunette - burning, natural blonde, hair wheat color, chestnut; soft, silky, light, natural, natural, curly, smooth, lush, long, well-groomed.

Figure - flexible, slender, refined, plastic, stately, fragile, ideal, sexy, appetizing; gait - feminine, sexy, smooth, exciting, soft, light; leather - swarthy, tanned, snow-white, tender, soft, perfect, velvety, pure, flawless I.

General phrases about the beauty of a girl that will fit in any situation- whether this is an acquaintance, a first date, or a long married life: charming, stylish, fashionable, luxurious, extravagant, delightful, wonderful, chic, charming, beautiful, perfect, stunning, stunning, pretty, angelic, flawless, expressive, inimitable, luxurious, charming, irresistible, amazing, unsurpassed, flawless, perfect, beautiful, ideal, magnificent, exquisite, amazing, graceful, indescribably beautiful, perfection itself.

With more close acquaintance when your relationship has moved to an intimate level, when the girl completely trusts you and understands you, you can use compliments are more frank, which will speak about her sexuality.

Sexy, breathtaking, erotic, feminine, sultry, ardent, passionate, very dangerous, captivating, uninhibited, intoxicating, fiery, intoxicating, burning, alluring, hot, sexy, exciting, seductive.

2. Complete surprise

This method of giving compliments is to focus on that feature of the girl's appearance, which would come as a complete surprise to her. The girl simply does not expect you to admire this particular detail and, perhaps, she even has some complexes about the trait that you noticed. Here you have to be very careful not to offend the girl. Your words should not contain falsehood and flattery. For example, if a girl has a natural a long nose and she has a complex about this, but still he didn’t embarrass you, but on the contrary, you noticed that he emphasizes her originality, you can say: “ Girl you have such a sexy nose!»

I think this compliment will be absolutely unexpected for a girl. Although the outcome may not be in your favor, depending on how complex the girl is about this, she may think that you are mocking her. But on the other hand, if she is not indifferent to you, on the contrary, she will want to start a conversation with you. After all, in fact, girls are very interested in what others think of them. Thus, a girl can learn something new about herself, it is possible to get rid of her complexes.

Everyone is used to complimenting the eyes, hair, smile, but few people talk about the nose, wrists, feet, ears. These are quite uncommon compliments. Feel free to use them skillfully. The girl will be discouraged by your originality. But do not forget - the compliment must be sincere, or at least it must look like that!

Recently, a guy I know said to me: “You have a beautiful nose.” I never considered my nose to be the main advantage, but I was very pleased - I was never told that I had a beautiful nose. Nose is like a nose.

Be careful, beware of ambiguous compliments: « you so slims this dress!" (hint to overweight), « You Today came to beautiful dress ”(meaning before that she went in ugly),“ You look so good with straight hair. Do more hair like this y ”(a compliment should not sound like an instruction, the girl herself will figure out how she is better off).

3. Negative compliment

If you are dealing with a very beautiful, self-confident girl, you will need completely different methods of getting her attention. Beautiful women know their worth. It is unlikely that you will surprise her by telling her how beautiful she looks and how divinely beautiful. She heard these words from every man she met, and believe me, she rebuffed everyone who gave her compliments. She is very good at it. Therefore, you will have to act ruthlessly towards her, I do not mean insultingly - by no means.

First of all, you need to break through the "shield of the bitch", i.e. discourage her completely. I don't want to say that beautiful girls bitches. But they have no other choice but to do so. Rough otshivanie men acts as defensive reaction from heightened attention. And at the same time, she likes to feel power over men.

But in fact, this girl wants to be weak and defenseless only with that man who can resist her beauty, or at least manages not to betray his true feelings. A compliment comes to the aid of a man - negative impact. Tell her what she has long nails, which are most likely overhead.

Let's imagine a situation. The guy comes up to the girl and says: Beautiful long nails. Most likely overhead?- he will plunge her into wild confusion. He may further add: Yes? But they look amazing". Then he turns away. She could not even imagine such an appeal to herself in her most terrible dream. Though he didn't insult her. But he hit her to the quick and pierced the queen's armor. These words will discourage and intrigue her. Not a single man approached her like that. So this one is special, it has a delicate taste.

I can continue the list of negative compliments:

- Girl, your perfume has a very pleasant aroma, but a bit harsh.

-Girl, you look very luxurious. It's hard not to pay attention to you. You are sitting in short dress spreading legs. Don't you think it's too blatant?...

- Girl, you have a very interesting pattern on a T-shirt. I have exactly the same house on the tablecloth.

- You are very beautiful by nature. Why are you your natural beauty hide under a layer of cosmetics?

- Judging by you, you love bright clothes. I used to think that red does not go well with blue, but looking at you, I realized that I was wrong!

The second way to win a beauty is to express compliments that are not related to her appearance. Perhaps, a very sincere, dreamy, smart, creative, active, simple girl is hiding behind a beautiful shell. Your task is to consider what is hidden behind the image of the unapproachable cold queen.

I wish you good luck in conquering women's hearts!

HOW TO SAY BEAUTIFUL COMPLIMENTS TO A GIRL, READY PHRASES

Everyone knows that it is customary to compliment girls always and everywhere, in fact, this is an immutable rule. However, not everyone knows that if you overfeed her with praises, the effect runs the risk of being completely opposite, the mark of a licker and a flatterer will forever stick to you, and your further courtesies will begin to arouse suspicion or ridicule. On the topic, read the article on how to learn to flirt with girls, this will help you better feel the situation.

HOW TO SAY COMPLIMENTS CORRECTLY?

The main thing is to find a middle ground, because there are many best and beautiful compliments for a girl - this is clearly overkill, but their almost complete absence is also not the best approach.

Is there an ideal compliment for a girl, suitable for everyone, appropriate in all cases and always causing only positive emotions? Of course no. But why not try to develop it, or at least eliminate the possibility of a negative reaction? First of all, he must be open and sincere, without any signs of fawning. The girl will get a lot of pleasure from the praise of a self-confident person, it sounds more natural. If, with the help of compliments, you try to achieve something from her, she will probably figure out your game very quickly, and nothing will come of it.

MAY THE COMPLIMENT BENEFIT YOU AS WELL.

The girl will be impressed by the words of approval, spoken correctly and at the right time. Pay attention to those features and features of her (make-up, hairstyle, clothes) that she worked on, carefully thinking through and making a lot of effort, as well as those that other guys do not notice.

She has unusual hairstyle? Or perhaps she acquired an elegant brooch? Be observant, start an appropriate topic and compliment the girl on this occasion. And don't forget to smile! If you are unable to come up with something, admire her energy, willpower. It is important to remember that it is better to keep a calm tone, sometimes a little playful, as for the intention to please - exclude this.

Is it worth praising the beauty of girls, their external data? Many people do this, but this is the wrong tactic. For example, real beauties do not need such words at all. They already know about their attractiveness, and they hear such compliments every day. You will be remembered as another dull fan. So why try in vain?

SPONTANCY OF A GOOD COMPLIMENT TO A GIRL IS THE KEY TO SUCCESS.

Expressing approval and trying to praise, your chances to please the girl will increase significantly if everything is said unobtrusively, as if by chance.

The best and most beautiful compliments the girl still needs to be able to say so that it does not look feigned and not natural.

What should be done? Give a girl just one compliment (do not try to continue) about her charming outfit or hairstyle, and immediately move on to another topic, in every possible way distract the girl. There is no need to show that you are wildly delighted.

HOW TO MAKE A COMPLIMENT TO A GIRL CORRECTLY.

The most effective compliment for a girl will be the one that you immediately rebut slightly, making it clear that in general everything is fine, but still not perfect. Let's say, “I can't stop admiring your amazing smile! True, I just noticed that a mote stuck to your lip, it is here (remove the non-existent mote). It turns out that you simultaneously praise one or another of her traits and say that there is still something to work on, pointing out a minor flaw. However, remember not to overdo it. For example, your phrase: “Your hairstyle is extraordinary, but I am sure that it has long gone out of fashion” is unlikely to be successful.

An interesting fact: it is best to speak into the right ear. But do not think that you need to whisper something directly into your ear, just be aware that when you are going to say a compliment to a girl, or talk to her about something, try to sit down so that the main part of the information is perceived not by the left, but right ear.

In spite of everything, it is important to remember the main rule - a girl needs to make beautiful compliments unobtrusively and naturally. And if the girl does not agree with your words, do not try to dissuade her otherwise, know how to retreat beautifully. Feeling that a prepared compliment is likely to sound pitiful and embarrassing, or make you seem ingratiating and needy - keep it to yourself.

THE BEST BEAUTIFUL COMPLIMENTS FOR A GIRL, A READY LIST OF COMPLIMENTS FOR A GIRL.

And finally, we bring to your attention some of the most interesting examples compliments for a girl. After reading them, you will enrich your knowledge and not be left “without weapons”, and you may also have your own ideas. Read on the topic of the article how to please a girl and how to meet a girl on the street for general development, maybe you will learn something new, because you can’t cope with compliments alone, but here is a list of compliments for a girl:

• “I didn’t mean to say that you are the best. In fact, others are worse than you.”
• "Happiness? It is before my eyes!”
• “It's just incredible, your judgments and views are even better than my mother's!”
• “If you compare the current Miss World with you, she definitely loses!”
• “I am overcome with a fierce hatred for the fact that I adore you so much.”
• “I saw you before… I may have dreamed about you.”
• “Today you look different and I love this change… Wait a minute, you’re not wearing makeup, that’s the thing!”
• “I couldn’t help but fall in love with your sunshine: those perky freckles and carefree smile.”
• “Which dragon do I need to fight to win such a fairy princess?”
• “Be me born of a girl, I would like to look like you.”
• “Looking at you, I realized why your spouse is always in a hurry to get home…”
• “With an aristocratic profile and languid cheekbones like yours, one should pose for an artist.”
• “Even a May rose petal is not as soft and velvety as your skin.”
• “How is it that I completely forgot where I was going to go? Exactly, I saw you and could not resist such marvelous beauty.”
• “I am delighted with your suit, very good cut!”
• “I know why you are completely confident in yourself - it cannot be otherwise, you are amazingly beautiful, smart, energetic, sensual and kind ...”
• “I can't believe your culinary skills are vastly superior to your mother's!”
• “Girl, I admired you all the way. As soon as I saw you, I immediately forgot about all the problems, and I want to thank you for that.”
• “Excuse me, but which modeling agency are you from?”
• “This is unbearable, I can’t be near you! I am blind and dumb from your beauty.”

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I've never met someone like you before!

For me, you are the most special girl!

I admire your femininity!

I love the smell of your hair so much!

You are beautiful like a beautiful flower!

You are just adorable!

You are the only one in the world that I think about every minute!

Your beauty has blown me away!

You are irresistible as always!

Next to you, I feel like a real man!

The smell of your perfume is unforgettable!

You are the girl from my dreams!

You are like a girl from a fairy tale!

I still can't believe that I met such a wonderful girl!

I admire your divine beauty!

I love your mysterious smile!

There is no girl in the world more beautiful than you!

You are the only one who won my heart!

You are like a fragrant spring flower!

A compliment to a woman may be simple, but effective way make her feel special, show her how wonderful she is to you. Unfortunately, too many guys don't know how to properly compliment. They either say complete platitudes or overuse the compliment so that it becomes empty and meaningless. If you learn how to properly compliment women, you can come across as a nice and romantic guy.

Steps

Part 1

Determine what a woman appreciates in herself. First, try to think about what a woman loves about herself. Try to go beyond complimenting her clothes and makeup, because she probably does it more for other people than for herself. Try to think about what she really cares about. For example, perhaps she is really proud of her ability to play the musical instrument. Or maybe you know that she wants to be a good mother in the future and you see that she really knows how to handle children. This is something to be commended.

• For example, say something like, “You are so loving and gentle with everyone, even if it's not easy. This is amazing. I wish there were more people like you in the world."

1. Look for things she appreciates in others. Think about what she says about others. You may have seen her compliment before or talk about someone or something she admires. Look for key phrases such as "I wish I..." as this directly tells you what she wants for herself. Now consider how she displays this quality in Everyday life. Many women at least occasionally show those qualities that they so admire, but do not realize that they possess them. By showing her that she can be the person she wants to be, you can earn a lot of points in her eyes.

   • For example, say something like, "I think it's funny that you think you're no smarter than that guy. I mean, without your help, there's no way I could have done last year's report."
   • You can also say something like, “Don't think that you are not as patient as Ira. You are not only patient, but also very understanding. Just look how you resolved this whole situation with Igor.”

2. Think about what she wants to fix in herself. Look for flaws in her character and bad habits which you know she's working hard to fix, and then compliment her once she's had some success. You may not want to directly tell her that she really needs to work on something, but if you compliment her when she really succeeds, it can not only cheer her up, but also add a couple of points in her eyes. You know very well how difficult it is to try to make yourself better!

   • For example, say something like, “You really kept your presence of mind in this meeting. I admire that... I don't think I could...", in a situation where she remained calm while your boss scolded everyone.

3. Don't limit yourself to beauty. It's hard to compliment beauty. Many women really love to hear such compliments! However, such a compliment can have many negative consequences for both of you. She's probably used to people telling her she's pretty and understands what people want from her. Also, such a compliment can make her think that you are only interested in her appearance (and appearance is not eternal, she gets old, and this gives one more reason to doubt herself). Use compliments about her beauty sparingly and in situations where it really makes sense, like when you're together for a special occasion.

   • For example, say something like: "Maybe the bride and Ira, but for me, in this room, there is no one more beautiful than you."

4. Compliment something new about her. Complimenting something new will show that you are attentive enough to pay attention to minimal changes in her appearance. Generally, no one expects a man to be able to notice things like a hair change or new earrings, so when you do, you'll just hit her in the heart. Alas, this means that you really have to keep an eye on such changes.

   • For example, say something like: "I really don't understand too much about women's shoes, but in these shoes, there is something that makes you a queen today.

5. Let the compliment sound natural. Compliments are much more meaningful when they are natural, when you really say exactly what you think, react to a specific situation that is happening. This will show her that you didn't have time to plan ahead for the compliment, or that you didn't order the compliment kit from the pick-up website. This shows her that you are honest. When you see her doing or saying something you admire, just let her know.

   • Of course, it can even be dangerous. You will have to think about how this compliment will sound. Just stop for half a second and try to see how the compliment would sound from her point of view. Will he emphasize that she has done something wrong before? Will the compliment highlight her weaknesses? Understanding how to truly show respect to a woman can help you not mess things up in situations like this.

   Part 2

   Say the right things

   1. Be specific. Don't just compliment something very common about her, such as "your hair looks beautiful", "you have beautiful eyes". Specificity is your friend, because she tells her that you are not just saying the compliment on duty, but saying a compliment to her personally. Instead of such compliments, say something like: "Your eyes make your face bright and happy" or "I love it when you put your hair up so I can get a better look at your beautiful face."

      Make your compliment unique to her. Try to be creative when you compliment her. Believe me, you can compliment your hair and eyes, and if you do it right, then even such a hackneyed topic for compliments will sparkle with new colors. You really don't think you're the first person to tell her that she has beautiful hair? Be creative with the compliment to really show her that you're interested in her and that you're not just trying to get any girl.

      • Try complimenting her like this: “I love the way you talk because your voice is warm and familiar to me” or “You are so elegant that you remind me of Audrey Hepburn.”

   2. Compliment the things she controls. Oh, by the way, complimenting things she has no control over can lead to stress and self-doubt. Imagine a woman who has just been told she is beautiful. She will be proud and happy at this moment, but she may decide that you can't see anything behind her appearance anymore. With age, her beauty will fade, and perhaps her self-esteem will drop dramatically. You don't want this!

      • Examples of things she can control are her education, her commitment, her knowledge, her achievements, her personality characteristics, and her ability to interact with other people.
      • Examples of things she can't control: her eyes, the color of her skin... everything related to age and everything related to beauty.
      • Also, complimenting a woman about something she can't control is like complimenting you about your neighbor's new job. You really have nothing to do with it, so it's harder to be happy or flattered with such a compliment.

   3. Don't give sexual compliments to a woman you're not in a relationship with. Do not do that. Never. There is zero chance that words like, “Hi, sexy babe. Do you want to get to know me better” will help you. Even a classic sexual compliment doesn't fit. Just avoid any compliment that hints or states that you want to have sex with her if she's not your girlfriend. Women constantly have to think about who and why is giving her compliments of this type - either a random guy trying his best to please, or a potential rapist. Don't give her a reason to worry about this issue.

   4. Avoid banal compliments. A banal compliment sounds stereotyped and overly pompous. This is because real banal compliments, which, for example, compare a woman to a rose or the moon, are insincere. They are spectacular, but empty and have nothing to do with your particular lady.

      • Perhaps you can make commonplace compliments like "your eyes sparkle like stars" bearable if they fit the situation and you honestly think so. In general, avoid any compliments that sound like they've been read from love story or like, spoken by a guy from a cheap bar. Such compliments rarely reach the goal.

   5. Watch out for offensive language. You should be careful with compliments that put others down. Although such compliments can be very flattering for a woman, they can say too much about you. When a woman hears compliments that put others down, especially people she cares about, she starts to think that you usually compliment yourself by putting others down, which might lead you to wonder if she might be next...

      • Never say something like: "Don't worry that all the guys revolve around Tanya, you're still prettier than her."
      • Instead, say something like, “I know you think all the guys revolve around Tanya, but I wouldn't worry too much about that. You have everything you're looking for good guy. Just believe in yourself and everyone will see it."

   6. Make her feel important. No one likes to feel like a “drop in the ocean”, and on a planet where a couple of billion people live, it is not difficult to feel this. Saying a compliment that makes her feel really unique or important to someone will really melt her heart. This may actually be one of the most effective compliments. Of course, the compliment must be true, so you'll have to rack your brains over it.

      • For example, if she volunteers a lot, say something like, “Have you heard of the pay-for-next rule? You probably never use it to your advantage. And every positive difference you get, you simply distribute to people and create many beautiful things in the world. I think what you are doing is great."

   7. Be careful when talking about weight. You may feel the urge to compliment a woman if she has lost weight, but this can be very difficult. Many women are overly sensitive about their weight (and so are men), and some women may lose weight for not-so-fun reasons. Is it possible that she lost weight due to cancer? You should compliment her about losing weight if you know she really put in the effort. And now, how to choose the right words:

      • Don't compliment her by comparing her current appearance to how she looked before (compliments such as "You look so much better today!").
      • Try to praise the effect that weight loss has caused. It could be something like "You look so healthy and energetic today" or something like "You seem to be a lot happier and more confident lately."
      • It's best to praise her for putting in the effort to become healthier. This is what she did and it is truly admirable. Say something like, “You have inspired me to make positive changes in my life. I hope I can be as driven and determined as you are!"
      • Try to compliment the effect that the weight loss has had. It can be expressed in this way: "You look so healthy and energetic today" or something like: "You are much happier and more confident in yourself lately."

   8. Don't feel like you have to compliment her to get things done. Yes, you probably hope that your compliment will have some positive results for you. Date, sex... even just a deeper relationship. But it will be useful for you to understand that sometimes, a compliment is not The best way achieve what you want. In fact, the poll showed that only about half of the women would be even remotely happy with a compliment.

      • If you're going to do something nice, like cook a great dinner, then do it and only give one unique compliment because she'll already know what you're thinking based on the action you've taken.
      • Build good attitude before you start bombarding her with compliments.

      Warnings

      • Find right moment to compliment a woman, such as a time when she feels insecure
      • Again, don't overuse compliments.