Wedding loaf of parents' words. What words should parents find to bless the newlyweds?

On the eve of the wedding, the parents of the young have many questions spinning in their heads. Including how to greet newlyweds with a loaf of bread, what to say in this situation. It is recommended to prepare at least minimally for such a meeting in advance so that the right words can be found at the right time.

Despite the fact that with modern traditions the meeting of the newlyweds with a loaf has little in common; it is important to pay respect to the old traditions and Slavic wedding rituals. The feast begins only after the young people have cut the loaf, they are the first to enter festive hall and sit down at their table, and after that the active seating of the guests begins.

History of tradition

Once upon a time in Rus', the loaf was the main bread product, which symbolized the satiety and well-being of the family. Therefore, the festive feast on the wedding day symbolically began with a loaf of bread. As a rule, they baked it themselves a few days before the wedding. Was taken as a basis Wheat flour, cones and spikelets of dough were made as decorations - this symbolized wealth and fertility. The top of the loaf was decorated with doves, which personified love.

How to greet newlyweds with a loaf of bread, what to say to parents on this day modern times? To be honest, the traditions here have changed little. Already before the arrival of the wedding procession from the registry office, parents should stand at the entrance to the restaurant with a tray on which there will be a loaf. As a rule, the groom’s mother should present the newlyweds with a towel with a loaf and salt - this is a symbol of prosperity and harmony in the future life together.

Some special rules There is no such thing as what to say when young people meet a loaf of bread. It’s just that every parent should express their wishes, parting words and blessing.

The first word, as a rule, goes to the groom's mother, and the father stands modestly with glasses of champagne for the newlyweds nearby and quietly agrees with the mother's words. Of course, if dad - a real man, then he should say parting words and blessings, and mother adds congratulations in verse and says her blessing. Usually there are difficulties - What can I say? We will give several examples of the speech of the father (mother) of the groom for this occasion. The moment is exciting, so you need to speak from the bottom of your heart, you must have a cheat sheet for poetry, and it is better to say words of blessing from yourself, in your own words. But you still need to rehearse your speech before the newlyweds arrive.

After all the parting words for a happy and long life together have been said, the newlyweds should break off a piece on each side of the loaf, dip the bread in salt and treat each other. This sweet tradition is a symbol and personification of how young people should take care of each other in marriage.

It is believed that whoever breaks off or bites off a larger piece of the loaf will be the head of the family. Salt in this case means that the last time the young people annoyed each other and in the future they promise to live only in peace, harmony, and not quarrel. As for the father of the groom, during the ceremony he holds in his hands either an icon of St. Nicholas the Pleasant, or an icon Mother of God. This is a symbol of spirituality, what the family will adhere to family traditions and Christian values.

It is clear that the mother and father of the bride are not standing empty-handed. They present the newlyweds with honey and champagne after the ritual with a loaf of bread. This is a symbol sweet life and the beginning of a wonderful period - the honeymoon. Having drunk the champagne to the bottom, the newlyweds must break the glasses.

People used the fragments of glasses to figure out who would be the first-born in the family. If the fragments are large, then the young couple will have a boy first; small fragments are a symbol of the birth of a girl.

At the end of the loaf ceremony, the newlyweds must bow to the ground with their parents three times and kiss each parent three times on the cheeks. After the ritual is over, the loaf is placed on the table with the newlyweds, where it remains until the end of the wedding day. It was popularly accepted top part leave the loaf for the young people, and give the rest to the guests in return for gifts and good wishes.

Sample words from the groom’s mother on the loaf (it is she who holds the towel with the loaf and salt and is the first to greet the newlyweds):

Kids! Happy wedding day and happy birthday new family. I want to bless you for a long and happy life by presenting this loaf as a symbol of prosperity. Advice and love to you!
Our dear children! Accept my sincere congratulations on your wedding day. Let this salt be the last in your life, and from this moment it begins Honeymoon for the rest of your married life.
Children, we are incredibly glad that in this huge world you found each other and were able to create new family. Take care of your feelings and your love, appreciate everything that exists between you and trust each other. We hope that your home will be a full cup, and that grievances and adversity will always bypass it.
Our beloved children! We are very glad that you found each other and connected your sincere feelings, forming a new family. Love, appreciate and trust each other! May your home always be a full cup, and may grievances and adversity pass you by!
Dear children! We are glad for your conscious choice! We bless you on happy marriage with sincere mutual feelings love! Show respect and care for each other. Share all the ups and downs, joys and sorrows together! Advice and love to you!
“Our dear (Names of the newlyweds), I also want to congratulate you on your marriage. Be happy in your union that you have created today. Cherish the warmth of this day for the rest of your life. Save your happiness and increase it many, many times. Oh, my lovelies. What happiness. They arrived beautiful, elegant, happy. Let me kiss you on both cheeks.”
“Dear children! Congratulations on joining legal marriage. We wish you happiness, health, for long years married life. You are welcome to our home - your home. Try our bread and salt, and we’ll see who’s boss in the house.”

Sample words from the father:

Our children, congratulations to you - now you are legal husband and wife. We bless you and your mother for a long and happy life, live together and happily. Live in such a way as to thank God for every day you live together, love each other, give birth to our grandchildren as soon as possible, do not forget us - come visit more often, Advice and Love to you! In the name of the father, son and holy spirit,” with these words he baptizes the newlyweds.
“Our beloved doves, you have finally become husband and wife. A long and happy journey, along which you will walk together until the very end. Congratulations on completing the first important step in your life. And then we expect many more such steps from you! The birth of your first child, his first step, building your own home - all this you have to experience. In the meantime, you are the most happy couple on this earth. I only want to wish you happy days so that you, like two swans, float through life side by side, warming each other with your warmth. Be happy"!

In the matter of how to greet the newlyweds with a loaf of bread, what to say, nothing depends on whether these are the parents of the bride or groom. At this moment, parents give their children parting words and good words for future family life, but everything is done quite briefly and quickly. Long congratulations and gifts should be saved directly until the festive feast.

A wedding is a magnificent celebration, rich in a variety of customs and beliefs. One of the favorite ancient wedding rituals that has survived to this day is the meeting of the newlyweds with a loaf of bread. What words need to be spoken at this moment? How to organize it? And what is the essence of the ritual? Let's look at it below.

Origins of the ritual

This tradition dates back to ancient times. According to legend, after the painting ceremony, the newlyweds were greeted by their parents. On their hands was an embroidered towel with a loaf. The latter, according to custom, was always placed at the head of the banquet table.

Then they cut it into pieces and at the end of the celebration all the guests had to try it. Moreover, the group eating of this bread took place in strict order. A piece of itself big size was intended for the newlyweds, then parents and close relatives took it, the bottom of the bread was given to a group of musicians, since it contained coins, and the remaining parts of the pie were given to the children and remaining guests.

This is what traditional Slavic wedding. Modern script greeting young people with a loaf of bread became easier and was reduced to a minimum.

What do you need to know when greeting newlyweds with a loaf of bread?

So, the modern greeting is carried out upon completion of the painting. If previously a loaf of salt was only in the hands of the bride’s mother, today both mother-in-law and mother-in-law can perform this ritual.

The second important component is drawing up a plan for welcoming the young couple after the painting ceremony. Those wishing to participate in the event should be organized into a kind of living wall in two rows. This will create a kind of corridor for a young family.

Then they should be given rice or wheat, metal coins, sweets and rose petals. All this will be useful for showering the young couple. According to tradition, it is generally accepted that those invited in this way help make the future family life of the young sweet, well-fed and rich.

The main roles in this action, of course, are assigned to parents. There are three variations of this scenario:

Only the mother of the bride holds the pie.
The pie is held by the mother of the bride, and the mother-in-law only needs to support.
The groom's mother is entrusted with holding the loaf, and his mother-in-law is entrusted with supporting him.

Fathers should hold a tray with glasses for the newlyweds and a bottle of champagne. Among other things, parents are supposed to say parting words when welcoming the newlyweds with a loaf.

The greeting of the young couple is usually held on the threshold of the banquet room where the celebration itself will take place. This is where parents will hold a towel and a loaf of bread in their hands. When the young couple gets out of the car, two people from among those invited should come closer to the parents and spread another towel on the ground. The rest of the invitees should form a living corridor and begin presenting the young spouses with the sprinkles described above. At the end of this corridor, mothers with a loaf of bread and fathers with champagne and a towel lying on the ground should be located.

One of the mothers should make a hearty speech, greeting the young couple with a loaf of bread, and at the end of it, invite the young couple to stand on the towel. This ritual symbolizes the joint path of the young couple, which they still have to go through in the future. It is believed that whoever touches the canvas first will become the head of the family.

Then the newlyweds step over the towel and go to the mother holding the pie. They listen to the beautiful ones congratulatory words and break off pieces of the pie. Then they feed it to each other or present it to guests. Upon completion of this action, the young spouses enter the banquet room, followed by their parents and remaining guests.

Words for meeting newlyweds with a loaf of bread at a wedding

The words of greeting to a young couple can be in different variations, but their essence remains the same. For example, the mother of the bride may say: “We welcome you, our beloved newlyweds! It's nice to see you healthy and happy! On this delightful and special day for you, we would like to present you with a fragrant and crispy loaf of bread!”

Then it’s the turn of the groom’s mother. Her words: “We give you this wonderful pie with great joy! Break it and let everyone take a piece!”

Upon completion of these speeches, a spectacular tasting of the pie begins. A young couple breaks pieces, salts them and eats them. And at the same time, the mother of the bride enters with the words: “How wonderful you are with us! Let this loaf will be the first meal you had together after painting! She will give you health and give you all the charm of family life!”

The groom’s mother joins in the words: “So I have a daughter-in-law! I'll love her like my own daughter! And my son has a wife, whom he is now obliged to protect until the end of his days!”

Mother of the bride: “Love and honor each other! Let there always be a warm and cozy atmosphere in your home, and let the ringing laughter of children be heard!”

The groom's mother supports these words. Next, the loaf is presented to one of the bridesmaids or a witness: “And this delightful loaf will bless you and give you family happiness!”, then he is placed at the head of the table opposite the place of the young people.

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Options for the scenario of meeting the newlyweds with and without a loaf.

An ancient tradition meet the newlyweds after the wedding and (or) ceremonial registration marriage has survived to this day. Of course, the meeting ceremony itself has been significantly transformed and has become somewhat simplified, but has not lost its mysterious charm and beauty, and most importantly, its symbolic significance: parents meet the newlyweds for the first time in a new status, as husband and wife.

Toastmaster's advice: Dear newlyweds, a wedding is your holiday - it’s up to you to decide how to celebrate it. Traditions are traditions, but variant scenarios beautiful meeting great multitude. Traditionally, parents meet the newlyweds with a loaf of bread, but if for some reason you are not satisfied with the “meeting with a loaf of bread” or you are holding a European-style wedding, don’t be puzzled, a bright and memorable meeting can be arranged without it.

Nowadays, most often, the style and scenario of the wedding are determined by the newlyweds themselves, and no one would think of condemning them for “not following tradition.” Next we will talk about various options holding a meeting, both with and without a loaf of bread.

A bit of history.
The tradition of welcoming newlyweds with bread is more likely thousand-year history, this is evidenced by the commonality of this tradition among Slavic peoples:

Among the Slavic peoples, wedding bread was always shared at the end of the wedding dinner. The senior friend or “elder” performed this honorable duty. The “elder” part was given to the newlyweds. The following pieces were received by parents and relatives, the bottom of the loaf, in which coins were often baked, was given to the musicians, and the remainder was distributed to the “Cossacks” - children and teenagers who remained “beyond the threshold” during the wedding. Most often, sharing a loaf was combined with gifting gifts to the young. Having received a piece of loaf, the guest put money, linen on the plate, or promised a heifer, sheep, or pig. The Slavic principle of “reflection” has always worked - “Give and you will be given”, that’s why the newlyweds tried to distribute the loaf maximum number guests.

But the meeting of newlyweds with a loaf of bread became widespread in Russia only in the 19th century; before that, each locality used its own versions of wedding bread, which, however, are still alive.

But let's return to our time.
Now, according to tradition, parents greet the newlyweds with parting words and wishes. The groom's mother (mother-in-law) is holding a loaf of bread on a tray covered with an elegant painted towel. The bride's mother (mother-in-law) blesses the newlyweds with a family icon. This could be the image of the Mother of God, St. Nicholas the Wonderworker. or a saint - the patron saint of the family. The bride's father (father-in-law) holds a tray with two glasses, and the groom's father (father-in-law) can solemnly present the bride with a certificate stating that she has been happily accepted into the family. But first, the guests stand on both sides of the path leading to the threshold of the house (restaurant), where the parents are waiting for the newlyweds. The newlyweds, getting out of the car, pass through a row of guests who, with words of congratulations and wishes, make a “rain” of extraordinary beauty from rose petals. By the way, rain on a wedding day is considered a lucky omen - to an easy life together and family well-being.

Here, approximate version script, ( We discuss and agree on specific scenario options with the newlyweds individually):

Toastmaster or presenter wedding celebration meets the newlyweds and addresses them:

"Dear newlyweds! By tradition, the people dearest to you - your parents - meet you here. In your mother's arms wedding loaf as a symbol of prosperity and prosperity.
Newlyweds! Break off a piece of bread and salt it properly! You have the opportunity to annoy each other for the last time. Yes, add more salt... Now exchange pieces of bread. Look at each other with tenderness and feed each other."

To the cheers of the guests, the newlyweds “feed” each other.

Presenter:

“Well, we’ve found out who will be the breadwinner in the family. Well done, groom! And now, parting words for parents before family life."

The groom's parents say parting words to the newlyweds.

Toastmaster's advice ("What to say when the newlyweds meet?"): Dear parents, to meet the newlyweds with a loaf of bread, there is no need to prepare long parting speeches - save them for the banquet, because the newlyweds and guests are returning from their wedding walk and, most likely, are already tired from the road and are probably hungry. It is not worth keeping them on the threshold for a long time.
I can tell you from experience that you shouldn’t memorize your speech in advance either; it’s best to say a few words from the soul and from the heart. If you are afraid that the prepared nice words They may forget themselves from excitement, write them down on a piece of paper and keep it with you - it will be calmer.
And last, possible question: "What to talk about?" Once again, I want to make a reservation, not a single statement sounds as sincere and touching as words spoken impromptu and from the heart, but I think it’s still worth giving examples here:

"I want that warmth to remain in your hearts,
which contains this loaf.
May your home be full of this warmth,
welcome guests and children.
Advice and love!"

You can also say that in the person of your daughter-in-law you acquired a daughter, respectively, in the person of your son-in-law - a son.

(example for mother-in-law)
We had one son (only sons), and now we are doubly happy,
having also received such a beautiful daughter.
Your union is simply a great happiness for us.

And let you have the following words in stock just in case:

"Dear children!
Congratulations, bless your marriage, wish you happiness.
Advice and love!"

After all the parting words have been said, the host, on behalf of the newlyweds, invites everyone to the table:

We invite everyone to the feast,
For wedding hospitality.

Newlyweds go to banqueting hall and take a place behind wedding table.

Meeting newlyweds without a loaf.

If the newlyweds decided that they would be welcomed without a loaf of bread, then there is huge scope for developing scenarios - everything is determined by their own wishes.
You can hold a meeting according to the scenario outlined earlier, excluding the loaf - an experienced presenter will be able to fill the resulting “scenario gap”, in addition, to decorate the ceremony, you can present multi-colored ribbons to the guests creating the corridor (you can see what happens in this case).
When holding a celebration in the European style, the meeting of the newlyweds most often takes place directly in the banquet hall under solemn music, thunderous applause from all those gathered and greetings leading. The newlyweds go to the banquet hall, accept congratulations from the guests, take pictures with them and take a place at the wedding table (by the way, don’t forget - the bride sits to the right of the groom).

When the newlyweds meet with a loaf, the words of the groom’s mother, according to the sign, directly influence later life newlyweds Meeting in this way - ancient tradition Russians, which many try to observe due to respect for the customs of our country.

Is it necessary to do this?

The meeting of the newlyweds with a loaf of bread, the words of the groom’s mother, father, and parents of the bride are nothing more than a tradition. If you do not agree with her for any reason, discuss this issue with your relatives in advance so that awkward moments do not arise. After all, this is your holiday, so you decide which elements will be at the event and which will not.

What should I say?

When the newlyweds are greeted with a loaf of bread, the mother of the groom should express her sincere joy for her son, for his bride, and say kindly, touching speech, not forgetting about:

. They should be about health, love and fidelity, success, wealth, children and all the best.
order to the bride. What does she expect from her, what duties will the future wife and mother perform?

Where can I get a loaf?

Perhaps the first question that arises before the newlyweds meet with a loaf of bread and the words of the groom’s mother is where to get the pie.

IN modern world There are many organizations that produce loaves to order: with roses, as a gift, for a wedding, with swans, for March 8th.

Nevertheless, it is much more interesting and soulful to bake a loaf yourself, then during the meeting of the newlyweds with the loaf, the words of the groom’s mother will really have some meaning. magical power, because the one who baked the loaf was a close person and put a piece of his soul into the pie.

Loaf recipe

You will need: about 1.1 kg of flour, 2 tbsp. l. yeast, 0.1 kg butter, 0.5 tbsp. milk, 10 eggs, 8 tbsp. l. sugar, 2 tsp salt.

Step-by-step preparation:

Stir 1 tsp. sugar, milk and yeast.
Thoroughly mix the remaining sugar with 9 yolks.
Mix milk and yolks.
Distribute 0.5 tbsp. flour on the board where you will knead the dough. Pour the rest of the flour into a bowl or pan with high edges, make a small hole in the middle.
Pour milk and yolks, whipped whites and salt into the hole and stir until a more or less homogeneous consistency.
Leave the dough for a while to rise, then knead again.
0.6 kg from the test will work to decorate the loaf: braid it, form a lattice or flowers.
Make a base from the remaining dough, gently brush the top surface with water and attach the decorations.
Heat the oven to 210°, brush the product with the tenth yolk mixed with a little water and place in the oven until golden brown.
Next, carefully open the oven, cover the product with foil and reduce the temperature to 180°. Bake for 60-80 minutes.
After this time, cool the cake a little, then remove it and leave it overnight.

Origin of the word loaf

The word loaf was originally written “korovai”, and “cow” translated from many ancient Slavic languages means “bride”.

An interesting fact is that in Bulgarian “bride” is “bun”. Thus, the loaf was originally intended as a wedding treat.

How to present and eat a loaf?

Traditionally, the loaf is presented on a towel. Among the ancient Slavs, a girl sewed several wedding towels for a celebration: 2 for yourself and your husband for a wedding, 3 for a loaf.

A wedding towel is a symbol of the inviolability of union and unity, which is why it was worn by both the bride and groom.

In the modern world, this tradition is often missed, so when the newlyweds meet with a loaf of bread, the mother of the groom pronounces the words while holding the pie on a plate, and not on a towel. According to tradition, the loaf was cut into pieces and divided among the guests, but now this wedding element has become an attribute of many competitions, for example, whoever bites off the most (bride or groom) is the head of the house.

In the form of combining competitions with traditions, a compromise option was invented: first, the newlyweds break off a piece of the pie, dip it in salt and treat each other, then all the guests follow their example. According to the sign, the loaf should be divided and distributed God-parents newlyweds, but now this custom is rarely observed.

An analogue of biting is breaking the pie in half: the newlyweds pull it towards themselves from both sides; whoever gets the most is in charge. At the same time, you cannot drop the loaf - Bad sign. The salt is set aside so that it does not spill.

Who presents the loaf?

According to custom, this is done by the groom's mother. She holds a pie along with salt on a towel and pronounces greetings along with wishes. The newlyweds should come, bow and listen to the instructions and wishes of their parents.

Simplification of traditions

Since the responsibility of preparing the loaf lies with relatives, conservative parents often prefer to prepare the pie themselves. The newlyweds may hint that there is no need to go through the trouble of preparing the cake. IN modern realities You can replace the loaf with homemade bread. It is likely that it will be both tastier and easier.

Where to meet with a loaf of bread?

Many parents prefer to greet the newlyweds with a pie on the way out, especially if it is fresh and not yet cooled. When the newlyweds meet with a loaf of bread, the words of the toastmaster should attract the attention of the newlyweds and tell them where to go and what to do.

There is a custom to cover the road along which the bride and groom are walking with flowers, wishing them all the best, while guests throw petals. The toastmaster can suggest the right moment for this, thereby helping to navigate in time.

You can also meet the newlyweds with a loaf of bread at a cafe, in front of the entrance or on the threshold of an apartment/house. After this, the groom takes the bride in his arms and carries her over the threshold into a new family life, common to them.

Parent speech

When the young people meet with a loaf of bread, the words of the parents may be something like this: “Beloved children! As a sign of love, health, strong family, joy, happiness, future children, prosperity, accept this loaf from us. Congratulations on your wedding, we wish you all the best and the best!”

Where is the salt shaker installed?

The loaf itself can have any decorative elements In particular, in the old days a small hole was made on top and a salt shaker was inserted there. If you know exactly which salt shaker you will take with you to the wedding, you can press the hole with it. If there is no hole for a salt shaker, you can put the loaf on a tray and put the salt next to it. The towel is not removed. It is placed on a tray under the loaf.

Signs

Baking a wedding loaf is an old tradition; over the years there have been many traditions associated with this pie:

Before serving it to the newlyweds, the loaf was assessed by whether there were burnt spots or burst bubbles on it. The first testified to the harmfulness of the husband, the second - to troubles. This is partly why the pie was overbaked, so that the loaf would be perfect for a wedding;
at a wedding, bread must be eaten immediately; under no circumstances should it be dried, otherwise the wife will dry out like a loaf;
must participate in making the pie odd number of people. And he kneads the dough married woman, and puts a loaf in the oven married man. That is, it could be the bride’s parents and, for example, the groom’s mother;

the loaf must be round, as a last resort– oval, as this shape symbolizes the sun, sunlight, joy family life;
while making a loaf, prayers, including the Our Father, should be read one by one to everyone involved in creating the product;
women preparing a pie must be clean both physically (you need to take a shower, wash your face, wash your hands) and spiritually (your head is covered with a scarf, you need to wear a cross);
since prayers were read during the making of the loaf, and specially selected people prepared it, it was believed that the pie had supernatural powers, so it was impossible to attend a celebration without tasting this bread. If not the whole family was at the wedding, then the resulting slice should be divided among all its members upon arrival home;
in some cases, the loaf is taken to a fortune teller for a special spell so that everything goes well for the newlyweds, and the pie must be protected from an unkind eye, not allowing any of the guests to see it until it is presented to the bride and groom.

Other wedding customs

In some countries, the custom has been preserved that the future wife should have with her “blue, new, old and borrowed.” Blue is usually a bracelet, ribbon, pendant or hairpin, new is a bride’s dress, old is a family treasure, and borrowed is a scarf or other item borrowed from one of the friends;

After eating a loaf of bread, one of the parents usually presents the newlyweds with a couple of glasses of champagne. They need to be drunk in one gulp, and then broken for good luck;
Everyone knows the tradition when the bride throws a bouquet into a crowd of friends: the one who catches it will get married. And there is another custom: the husband removes the garter from the bride’s leg and throws it into the crowd of men - who will marry next;
the day before the celebration, the future wife should spend in her parents' house, this is a good sign;
before the event, the future wife should cry (preferably before applying makeup), this custom promises happiness in marriage;
In the registry office, one of the parents must lead the spouses around the table. Interestingly, the priest does the same during the wedding. Thus, the older generation passes on their experience to the younger;
When leaving the registry office, you should look in the mirror - remember yourself young and happy.

Our dear children! We give you bread and salt,
So that you divide everything in this world in half.
There will be joy or sorrow - avoid unnecessary dramas,
You need to learn to give in to each other in a dispute.
Live by faith and law, don’t look for an easy life,
Greet relatives and friends, respect father and mother.
There will be children, there will be grandchildren - everything will go as usual.
Husband, take your wife by the hand! And advice and love to you!

Dear........ and......! Your wedding day is a sunny moment of your destiny! Be happy in your union that you have created today. And as a sign of parental blessing, accept a loaf! This loaf is a symbol of prosperity, salt is a warning that life is not always smooth and “sweet,” but in order for you to overcome the obstacles that life will present to you, treat yourself to a loaf.
(after breaking off)
My dear children, you have tasted a piece of the loaf. I want your hearts to retain the warmth that this loaf has preserved for you. May your home always be full of guests. Cherish the warmth of this day for the rest of your life. Save your happiness and increase it many, many times.

You according to ancient traditions,
We greet you with a wondrous loaf,
It is warm in the hands of parents,
And the salt of our tears and all our hopes,
May you be lucky in your new life,
No less than in my previous life.
Take this loaf
Last time salt each other,
So that in life you will never be annoying again,
Well, now whoever bites off (break off) your edge more
So that we can find out who should be the head of the house.
These words are spoken by the mother of the groom when they meet the newlyweds with bread and salt.

Today the sun smiled
And the birds suddenly began to sing in the heights,
And bells for good luck
Suddenly there was a ringing sound on the wall.
And what, what suddenly happened,
That everyone is rejoicing and singing.
My son and his young wife
Hurry up and come to my house!
I will meet them wheat bread,
So that their life is bright,
And to never go to them
Trouble did not come into the house.
Let their house be a full cup,
Filled with joy and warmth.
And so that the kids grow up,
Delighting everyone with your intelligence.
And let them taste a little salt,
Just a little bit for
So that always as before God
They were honest with each other.
May you never have
There is discord and trouble in the family,
So that you can be happy with each other all your life,
May you love each other to the end!

Father– “Our children, we congratulate you - now you are legal husband and wife. We bless you and your mother for a long and happy life, live together and happily. Live in such a way as to thank God for every day you live together, love each other, give birth to our grandchildren as soon as possible, do not forget us - come visit more often, Advice and Love to you!
“In the name of the father, son and holy spirit,” with these words he baptizes the newlyweds.

Father- “Our beloved doves, you have finally become husband and wife. A long and happy road has now opened before you, along which you can walk together until the very end. Congratulations on completing the first important step in your life. And then we expect many more such steps from you! The birth of your first child, his first step, building your own home - all this you have to experience. In the meantime, you are the happiest couple on this earth. I want to wish you only happy days, so that you, like two swans, float through life side by side, warming each other with your warmth. Be happy"!

Mother– “Our dear (Names of the newlyweds), I also want to congratulate you on your marriage. Be happy in your union that you have created today. Cherish the warmth of this day for the rest of your life. Save your happiness and increase it many, many times. Oh, my lovelies. What happiness. They arrived beautiful, elegant, happy. Let me kiss you on both cheeks.”

Mother- “Dear children! Congratulations on your legal marriage. We wish you happiness, health, and long years of married life. You are welcome to our home - your home. Try our bread and salt, and we’ll see who’s boss in the house.”

Mother

“I’m taking my daughter into the house,
Paired with my dear son.
Peace be with you and love is your advice,
May God protect you from troubles,
Children will be your reward,
I’m happy to babysit my grandchildren.
Happiness for the son is happiness for the mother,
I will be happy with you."

Father

“I want to congratulate you on your marriage.
Keep the warmth you have acquired.

So that trouble can’t sneak up on you,

Never part, children."

When fanfare and poetry sound,
Let us congratulate you
Happy birth of a young family!
What can I wish you at this hour?
Of course, joy and happiness,
May luck not leave you

So that you never know
About grief and sadness,
So that they don’t forget about love,
Let there be holidays!
I would like to briefly congratulate you,

And direct you to the true path,
And fasten your hands between you.

I wish you without any doubts,

Preserved until the last days.

Customs in Russian villages,
Cheerful children's round dance.
At the wedding performance
There is a crowd of people at the door.
An unusual variety of flowers,
The bride is as beautiful as the light,
And let it be added to this rhyme
Her mischievous soul.

Try it, take a bite
You are a baked bread
Yes, listen to mommy
With memorized speeches.
As it is prophesied in a fairy tale,
Advice and love to you.
Yes, I would like to wish you
Merry festivities.

Are you ready for congratulations?
Well, then listen.
In the meantime, we pronounce them,
Eat some bread.
We are immensely happy for you,
Our newlyweds.
Be an example to everyone
Both in fun and in luck.

I want to congratulate you on your combination.
Now you have become husband and wife.
Considerable efforts have been made.
But the feast, as they say, is a mountain.
Live peacefully and always in harmony.
Don't be offended at each other often.
Don't waste your happiness in vain,
After all, your life is only in your power.

Congratulations to the father in prose

Our dear birds, you have become a young husband and wife. Now a long and happy road of family life lies before you. I want to congratulate you on completing the first step in your new life. How many more such first steps will you take! The birth of your first child, his first word, his first step - you have to experience all this. In the meantime, you are the happiest couple on this planet. I want to wish you only happy days, so that you, like two swans, float through life side by side, warming each other with your warmth. Be happy!

Congratulations to the father in prose

To be honest, I lived a long and happy life with my wife. I want to wish you the same happy life. But first of all, please accept my sincere congratulations on your wedding, which took place only a few hours ago. This is very short term, but I see that during this period you were proud to support very high level happiness in your young family. Keep it up!

Congratulations to father in verse

I want to congratulate you on your marriage.
Keep the warmth that you have acquired,
And do your best,
So as not to waste everything you found.
Live peacefully, amicably, fairly,
So that trouble cannot sneak up on you.
May life be fun and beautiful.
Never part, children.
I want to wish you happiness
And congratulations on your responsible step.
So that you don’t see bad weather in your life,
So that you are close to each other.

My heartfelt congratulations
I can’t put it into words.
I will hug you, my hearts,
I will wrap my arms around you.
There is simply no strength to speak,
Yes, and what to express in words.
You are so beautiful today.
You are warmed by the rays of love.
I would like to briefly congratulate you,
Wish you many years without separation.
And direct you to the true path,
And fasten your hands between you.
Let happiness be endless,
I wish you without any doubts,
So that your love and cordiality
Preserved until the last days.

You are our golden children!
Please accept congratulations from us,
We don't need gratitude
Just always live in peace.
Combining in a worldly union,
You took the oath of allegiance.
And don't be a burden to each other,
As you promised today.

In a solemn and bright hour,
When fanfare and poetry sound,
Let us congratulate you
Happy birth of a young family!
What can I wish you at this hour?
Of course, joy and happiness,
May luck not leave you
Let all bad weather pass by!
So that you never know
About grief and sadness,
So that they don’t forget about love,
Let there be holidays!
I want to throw flowers at your feet,
So that the road is paved with them.
So that your secret dreams come true,
You ask God for blessings.
I will shower the family with congratulations,
Which is a little over an hour old.
I'll sprinkle you with holy water,
I will bless you, so that with a reserve.
I hasten to congratulate you with all my heart,
After all, the marriage took place.
All congratulations in the world are good,
I give them to you with all my efforts.

Congratulations to the mother in prose

My dear children, you have tasted a piece of the loaf. I want your hearts to retain the warmth that this loaf has preserved for you. Let your house always be full of guests and let everyone get at least a small piece of food. Let the distribution of your first loaf be the copyright-by-holiday beginning of your hospitality.

Our dear ____________________________________ (the mother calls the children by name), I also want to congratulate you on your marriage. Be happy in your union that you have created today. Cherish the warmth of this day for the rest of your life. Save your happiness and increase it many, many times.

Oh, my lovelies. What happiness. They arrived beautiful, elegant, happy. Let me kiss you on both cheeks. Eat some bread and salt and refresh yourself. Oh, joy, well, now I'm happier than ever. Now my lovebirds will always be together.

Congratulations, congratulations. Yes, how beautiful, and how elegant. You can immediately see the bride and groom. Don’t be shy, break some bread and put it in your mouth. Let not only your ears enjoy it. After all, you won’t be satisfied with congratulations alone. Help yourself and treat others.

Congratulations to the mother in verse

My son’s wedding is coming soon, and his ticket to the world has been given.
What kind of life will fate present to the child?
The soul is in confusion and fear for the young,
I pray to you, Almighty, give them happiness in their lives!
I will kneel down to atone for my sins.
Just give them happiness, harmony and love.
Let life flow calmly, like a measured river,
And let children be born, bringing peace into their lives.