Karmic relationships. How to recognize the love of a past life?! What is karmic love, why does it happen and how to recognize it
Karmic love is not at all synonymous with idyll to the grave. As a rule, this complicated relationship, in which one or even both parties must work out some things from their past.
Karmic love - what is it and why does it appear?
When from a whole crowd of people our eyes and heart snatch someone who seems close to us at a glance, when we immediately know that we will follow this person to the ends of the earth, this may mean that we saw someone with whom V past life we were united by love feelings.
When we talk about our relationship (even if it lasted a maximum of a week), we say something like “There is some kind of magic between us, we get the impression that we have always known each other, we hear each other’s thoughts, we feel the same , we believe that we have been waiting for this meeting all our lives, "perhaps we were overtaken karmic love from a past life.
Love feelings are one of the strongest connections that we can carry over from past incarnations. Unfortunately, karmic connection Love is usually very complex and brings a lot of experiences and suffering. This is what a specialist dealing with karmic relationships and love in particular told about.
One of her male clients said that he fell in love with a woman when he saw her ... from behind. When she turned around, he was convinced that he had always known her. The man was very involved in this relationship, he tried, and everything seemed to be going great, but ... after a few months, his passion unexpectedly sent the gentleman "retired." An astrologer or numerologist who deals with relationships at the karmic level would probably explain that the woman left because her partner in the previous incarnation himself broke off relations with her, because of which he now has to pay a karmic debt in love. And perhaps things were even worse...
Why does unhappy karmic love still appear? The force of attraction, which there is no strength to cope with and which cannot be controlled, is often a punishment for the fact that many lifetimes ago we used love magic to attract someone. Formerly magical love rituals(prisushki, etc.) enjoyed great success. They deprived everyone who was their victim of a fundamental right granted by God - free will, choice. The transformation of a person into a zombie who follows someone everywhere as if tied, unfortunately, cannot do without punishment. One of the consequences of using love magic and there is a situation when at the same time we are drawn to some person and at the same time everything repels us from him. Fleeting novels and one-off, one-night stands, adventures, karmic unrequited love, hopeless craving for married men may be the “gateway” through which the victim returns from past lives love potions and magic spells.
Karmic connection: pain and happiness in one bottle
Karmic love is not at all synonymous with happiness. One or both parties within the framework of this union must work out something from the past, pay off a karmic debt. Therefore, if you happened to meet a person with whom "right off the bat" we were united strong feeling and spiritual unity, and for the sake of which we are ready to give up everything in the world, we need to maintain sanity, because it is too early to rejoice. Because if it turns out to be a connection with a karmic partner and if some obligations and tragedies from past lives arise between people, then it may turn out that in the long run they will not be able to get along with each other. Often this "magnificent", "ideal", "only" appears only for the sole purpose - in order to punish us for the evil that we once caused him. Such couples with karmic relationships, with love from a past life, as a rule, hurt each other, break up, change, in order to return later and ... hurt again. Women and men feel a special attraction to each other, they return in dreams, even if it comes to the final parting. Even after breaking the karmic connection, love can remain.
But life, fortunately, does not always write only pessimistic scenarios. Karmic love can also be happy. Here is the story of one woman. Many years ago, she was with a specialist in numerology. She said that they would have a karmic union with her future husband, that they had loved each other for several lives. And she explained that now the partner will pay her karmic debt. Once he was a noble man, and the heroine of this story is a simple girl. They loved each other, but he left her and married a woman from his circle. And the girl did not connect her life with anyone. The specialist assured that in this incarnation the karmic partner will love more strongly, more honestly, more truly.
The client did not believe in such things, but everything was confirmed. This love was special from the very first moment. When she first accidentally saw this man in her friend's apartment, she thought only one thing - that she wanted to hug him. And immediately a second thought appeared: "This will be my husband." A week later they were already living together, a little more than a year later they got married. The woman also added that she is connected with her soulmate by some special, telepathic communication. She woke up one morning in a panic because she dreamed that he had been fired from his job. There was absolutely no indication of problems that could lead to this development, but he did lose his job two days later...
Karmic connection: signs
How to understand that this is karmic love? It feels like you've always known the person you just met. What signs will help to understand that the connection between a man and a woman is of a karmic nature, how to check this?
- Hypnosis: this is one of better ways the study of past lives, including love affairs.
- Astrology: experts look at the position of the so-called lunar nodes in the horoscopes of both partners. If they form an aspect with each other, especially a conjunction or opposition, it is a karmic connection.
- Tarot cards: the so-called heavy cards, for example, the Hermit, Death, the Devil, the Moon, speak of the affairs that are dragging on for partners from a very distant past.
- Numerology: these specialists calculate karmic love by date of birth. After receiving the necessary information, the numerologist calculates the life path number, draws up a pyramid of fate, on the basis of which he can determine where there are similar numbers. He can also check to whom we have similar debts and who has them to us.
Karmic love is love that gives men and women the feeling that they have known their passion all their lives, stormy and not always prosperous, with a happy ending relationship. If you understand its nature, it will be easier to accept the events that happen and not put an end to the possibility of a happy personal life.
November 29th, 2007
TO arma represents the influence of past lives on the present. related term Western tradition used to describe similar influences - destiny. Now not everyone takes karma so seriously, but very many are interested.
To believe or not to believe in all these "astrological things" related to karma, past and future lives is up to each of you. But what if knowledge turns out to be useful?
“Six months ago I got divorced... I had quite deep feelings for my husband, but after a while we broke up on his initiative. When the emotional wound healed, I tried to objectively look at our relationship and I myself realized that he was not suitable for me as a spouse - different tempers, views on life ... But all this time I periodically have a strong feeling that we should not have parted as quickly as we did. That we didn't give a lot to each other. And sometimes I am visited by a strong feeling that if we interrupt our connection for good, then something irreparable will happen ... ”.
This is an excerpt from a letter from a woman who came to me for counseling that inspired this article.
Every astrologer familiar with the Eastern direction of astrology knows that many meetings with people in Everyday life far from random and are karmic in nature. Some data suggests that there can be many such karmic encounters in a lifetime.
Coming into this world, we find ourselves surrounded by people who help us to realize our karmic tasks. These are our children, friends, relatives, bosses, work colleagues and just passers-by.
But now I would like to talk not about all karmic encounters, namely about the karmic relationship of a man and a woman. They are understood as relationships between partners who knew each other in past lives and experienced deep emotions in relation to each other.
A sign of a karmic relationship is that he or she, or maybe both, carry unresolved emotions within themselves, such as jealousy, anger, guilt, fear, addiction. Having failed to find an outlet for their emotions, they are attracted to each other in the next incarnation.
Target new meeting to give each other the opportunity to resolve an urgent issue. This is done by recreating the same situation on certain period time.
Having met again, karmic partners feel an urgent need to become closer friend friend and, after a while, begin to repeat their old emotional roles.
They must re-encounter the "old" situation and perhaps deal with it in a wiser way. The spiritual purpose of this meeting for both lovers is to make a different choice.
I'll give you an example. Imagine a woman who had a very jealous husband in her last incarnation. A usurper who madly loved her, but at the same time tormented her with his jealousy. At some point, she decided that it was unbearable to live like that and left him. Not having survived a divorce from his beloved wife, the husband, after some time, falls ill and dies.
The woman feels remorse. She considers herself guilty. She regrets not giving him a chance to improve. She lives with this guilt for the rest of her life. They meet again in another life. There is an inexplicable attraction between them. At first, the man is unusually charming, she falls into the center of his attention. He idolizes her. They develop a close relationship...
From this moment on, the man becomes an incredibly jealous owner. He constantly suspects her of treason. She is angry and upset, because the accusations are groundless. But she also feels an unusual obligation to forgive him and give him another chance, believes that he has psychological complexes(fear of being abandoned) and hopes to help him deal with it.
Thus, she justifies her behavior, but in fact allows her personal territory to be violated. Relationships negatively affect her self-esteem. by the most the right choice for a woman to break off the relationship and go her own way without guilt. The "complexes" of her husband (fiancé, lover) are not her responsibility.
The meaning of a new karmic meeting is that a woman learns to let go without feeling guilty, and a man must learn to endure emotional experiences steadfastly. The only right decision here is to end the relationship. The “mistake” made by a woman in a past life is not that she left her husband, but that she felt responsible for his illness and death.
The departure of the wife in this life will once again leave the husband alone with worries and fear, and will give him new opportunity face those emotions, not run away from them. The karmic relationship between these two will repeat until they do the right thing.
I am often asked if it is possible to identify karmic relationship and how to do it? A professional astrologer can determine them by analyzing the synastry of partners (compatibility horoscope). In the compatibility horoscope, sometimes there is such a position of the planets that accurately explains the reason for the meeting of two people.
I mean, when most of the planets intersect under karmic aspects (i.e. the distance on the zodiac circle between the planets is 20, 40, 80 or 100 degrees) - this is an indisputable indicator of a karmic connection. Aspects of the Ascending and Descending nodes, Proserpine, Selena and Lilith to the higher planets, as well as the ties between Saturn and Neptune, can also tell whether the relationship between a man and a woman is karmic in nature, and what are the goals and objectives of this karmic meeting.
A certain age difference between partners can also serve as an indicator of karmic relationships. Age difference 5 or 10 years between a man and a woman is non-random meeting. It is likely that there is a karmic connection between these partners that requires working off mutual debts.
Karma keeps them close to each other. They will go through life in one direction, but at the same time one of them must take on the role of a guide, and the other become a follower.
The age difference of 15 years is an indicator of a very strong karmic attraction. It is difficult for such people to disperse, even if they want to do so. But their relationship is complex - they either help each other make the right life choice, or, conversely, lead their partner astray, thus increasing his karmic debts in the life ahead.
An indicator of karmic relationships are some
unusual situations.
They are not a mandatory feature, but they must also be taken into account.
Surprise
Relationships are tied up unexpectedly for both partners or one of them, as well as their friends and relatives. The surprise is that these partners can be completely different in character, temperament, differ in social and financial status, have big difference aged.
Otherwise, partners may know each other for years, but the very decision to get married turns out to be an unexpected continuation of the relationship. For example, for many years they communicated only as friends, but suddenly one evening the situation turns into a very intimate channel and after that the couple in love decides to get married.
Rapidity
Relationships are formed over time short term dating lovers (day, week, month). This is a situation where partners seem to be enlightened. Such relationships are often marked by the effect of hypnosis.
They begin so rapidly that a person is not fully aware of the changes taking place, and only after a year or more begins to perceive the situation consciously. Before that, he is driven by forces and reactions that he cannot fully explain. But the question of whether partners will want to look at each other "after waking up" often remains open.
After marriage, spouses can move to another city or even abroad. Far moving somewhere after meeting and marriage, break family ties, the beginning of a new life somewhere far from the place of birth - another important feature karmic connection.
A difficult situation
As the most common option - a partner - a drunkard or a partner - a drug addict. Maybe some health problems of a marriage partner (living with a person in wheelchair, mentally ill) or early (up to 40 years) death of a partner. Such relationships, of course, can be called "punishment."
Apparently, this “punishment” suits the person himself, unconsciously choosing a problematic partner. Most likely due to hidden feeling the guilt of someone who came from the past, but the question "for what reason" remains open.
Or a problem partner attaches itself to him, according to the genetic memory of a past life. Probably, in the past incarnation of the role of the problematic and good partner were opposite, and in the current incarnation they change places and "justice is restored."
No children in marriage
This is an indicator of a closed future for the generation through these people. Such karmic relationships of spouses are focused on themselves and serve to comprehend their own character traits. To some extent, this relationship can be called a short circuit. As a rule, in the end, after years or almost immediately, they turn out to be empty and lead to separation.
In this karmic connection, everything depends on how each partner was “correct” in their actions. If the partners “correctly” (from the point of view of Fate and Cosmos) showed themselves in these relationships, for example, they did not swear and accuse each other of infertility, but adopted a child from orphanage, then this couple may later have a joint child.
If only one of the partners tried to behave “correctly”, but did not receive support, life will give him another partner as a reward, from whom he will have children.
Fatality
Relations in a couple are marked by a certain inevitability, predestination, and often in a negative sense, in the style of "Tristan and Isolde".
These include: love triangles; situations of "impossible" love, for some objective and subjective reasons; situations of love-hate, when it seems that partners have been fighting among themselves all their lives, and yet they are unhappy without each other. They seem to love each other madly and hate each other madly.
Or fate simply constantly brings partners together, whether they want it or not. A striking example is the characters of Alec Baldwin and Kim Bassinger in the famous film The Marriage Habit. In the karmic relationships of such a couple, little changes or can be changed - these relationships seem to develop on their own according to a predetermined plan.
These are some of the most basic options that describe exactly karmic relationships.
You can recognize a karmic meeting if the other person seems familiar to you. Quite often there is a mutual attraction, something attractive "hanging in the air", forcing you to be together and get to know each other. And most often, a strong attraction develops into a love relationship.
How long do karmic relationships last?
It depends on what type of connection your karmic relationship belongs to - healing or destructive. hallmark healing relationships is that the met man and woman feel like kindred spirits, love and respect each other as they are, without trying to change anything.
It gives them great pleasure to be with each other, but they do not feel anxiety, jealousy or loneliness when a partner is not around. In such a relationship, you offer your loved one understanding, support, and approval, without trying to solve his or her problems brought from past lives.
Relationships are filled with freedom and peace. Of course, at times there are misunderstandings, but the emotions caused are short-lived. Both partners are ready to forgive. There is a heart connection between them. Emotionally, both partners are independent. He or she does not fill a gap in their life, but on the contrary, they add something new, important, vital.
In a healing relationship, partners may know each other in one or even several past incarnations. This creates an inextricable bond over the next few lives. Such a couple will never part, never divorce. They will always be together and happy. A marriage with such a karmic partner can be a wonderful and amazing journey!
But it also happens: the emotions you experience about a new love are so overwhelmed, and you think that you have met your soul mate, soul mate. Carefully! Everything may not be as it seems.
If you've been tied up by unauthorized emotional problems past, sooner or later they will come to the surface. The spiritual lesson for all souls bound in this way is to let go of each other and become free and independent beings. Mentioned in the example about jealous husband and a guilty wife, karmic relationships are never long, stable, loving. Often the main purpose of the meeting is to free each other from this love.
If your relationship causes a lot of suffering and tears, but you cannot break them, try to understand that nothing obliges you to stay with that person. Understand that strong emotions are more often related to deep suffering, rather than mutual love.
The energy of love is not so emotional - it is extremely calm and serene, joyful and inspiring! It is not oppressive, exhausting and tragic. If you have these traits in your relationship, it's time to let go of your partner.
Some women who suffer in marriage from drunkenness or the bad temper of their husbands convince themselves that they still need to stay together, because "this is fate" and you need to "go through it together." They appeal to karma as an argument for extending the relationship, but distort its concept.
Karma is individual for each person, it is impossible to go through your own karma together with someone! In the relationships mentioned above, karma often requires that you be able to let go of your partner, abandoning the tormenting relationship.
Sometimes you are so connected to your partner's complexes, the emotionally offended part inside him or her, that you feel that you are the only one who can "resolve" the situation and save him or her from problems. But nothing good will come of it. You will only increase the emotions of powerlessness and sacrifice in the other person, when it would be more useful to draw the line and stand up for yourself.
Your destiny is to be a free person. This type of painful relationship can set you back spiritually, and because of it, it may happen that you create heavy karma for future incarnations. Do you want that?
You may only have a few months to resolve a past situation between you and a problem partner. You can serve him or her on the path of life good service but you don't have to involve yourself in relationships that are detrimental to your spiritual growth. Love relationship are not meant to drag us down. When we love, we wholeheartedly want to support each other in both happiness and sorrow, but we should not bear the entire burden of each other's problems. All the best to you!
Karmic relationships. How to recognize the love of a past life?! Love at first sight... As soon as they did not try to explain this phenomenon! Seeing for the first time, a person falls in love without memory. How can this happen?
Karmic relationships. How to recognize the love of a past life?!
Often quite sane people just lose their heads from love at first sight. And this happens in youth, and in mature years writes Galina Vetrova. What happens at the moment when the eyes of two meet and a certain spark flares up between them? In fact, in most cases this has the following explanation: there are former “halves”, those who in past lives were spouses, lovers, or had platonic relationship. When the eyes of two people meet, the energy of past lives that is recorded in their energy fields is activated.There is a "recognition". Relationships begin. Two people may have a real coincidence of tastes, consonance of thoughts, etc. A whirlwind of emotions picks them up and makes them dizzy.
These two did not know each other in this life before, but they may not know anything about past lives. And it seems to them that this meeting, when they felt such a craving for each other, such an inexplicable attraction, is the finger of fate.
Yes, of course, such a meeting is not accidental. But the reasons for it can be very different. Perhaps they have to complete something that they did not complete in a past life. Perhaps they need to understand something. Karmic energy can attract two, and they don’t even know about it. And it is not at all necessary in this incarnation that they will happy love or even marriage. Very often such meetings occur precisely for karmic reasons.
When two people meet and “recognition” arises, and it seems to them that there is so much in common between them that fate “brought them together”, one must remember that, having the memory of past lives, which everyone has in the subconscious, a person begins to impose on a partner, certain expectations, their projections, etc., in connection with those qualities and circumstances that existed then, in that life. But now the partner is a completely different person, somewhat similar to that one, but in many ways new, because, being in this moment the quintessence of our past incarnations, we still carry the features of many, and not just one particular one.
And this other person (or rather, both new personalities who have entered into a relationship) think, feel, act in a completely different way. And it is not at all necessary that relationships from the past can continue now. Even if it was love to the grave.
When confronted with reality, such relationships often go out. A powerful attraction dissipates, everyday life invades, past and present realities collide and conflict.
If people are wise enough, if the feeling they have is really strong and bright, they can find mutual language, build relationships and, perhaps, somewhere at a deep level, realize or feel the reason that brought them together, and work it out. And continue a relationship free from karmic addiction.
More often it happens the other way around - people break up. Karma remains unworked and moves on to the next incarnation.
Cases where men adulthood"lose their heads" from love and leave the family for young mistresses - from the same series. Most often, this is also a meeting of former "halves".
Even in families where there is love between spouses, but relationship problems constantly arise, when one or both do not want to understand, accept themselves loved one, the theme of parting constantly arises.
It is very easy, of course, to simply get away from a problematic relationship, leave and forget. This is the easiest way out, and, unfortunately, in some New Age sources it is advised to do just that: if you are not comfortable with any relationship, just break it off. Yes, it's the easiest, and many do. But without understanding why they are not comfortable, without realizing WHAT exactly we are working with this person, without neutralizing karma and learning the lesson, such a separation will not remove the problem. Karma with this person will remain unsettled and will be transferred to the next incarnation, the message that he carries will not be deciphered, and the lesson will not be passed.
And in the near future, another person from a past life with the same message and the same lesson will be attracted, and everything will start all over again. Many people all their lives do nothing but run away from their lessons and step on the same rake.
Have you had it so that you just have time to think about something, and your loved one is already picking up your unvoiced thought or idea? You can even mirror habits and habits. This is not just “understanding without words”, there is something more here - it seems that there is some invisible thread between you that has been connecting you for a very long time.
There is a feeling that you shared this deep love in a past life. The meeting of a kindred soul, sent for happiness, looks like an insight.
The heart chakra opens and you begin to remember your past life love. At the first meeting, you both understand that you were already in love, it seems strange to you. How? Why did the hand of the universe decide it was time to reveal your souls to each other again? Scroll through the questions in your head, but in the end you just feel déjà vu and enjoy a huge energy in the deepest part of your soul.
How to understand who kindred spirits are? How to recognize love from a past life? What are the signs that you met love from a past life? Here are 11 main signs:
1. You feel comfortable being around him
You are finally understood.
You can be yourself and he will never judge you. He unquestioningly takes you for granted. Looking into each other's eyes, the two of you feel a sense of comfort. You seem to be on the same wavelength with him and in your feelings you feel as if your life were inseparable from a person who knows you as himself.
2. At the time of the meeting, the emotional background rolls over
The person with whom you have a relationship is able to fill your inner state with something new. The sea of feelings and emotions seems to inspire you. You can't explain in words this feeling, but there was something in this meeting that could completely change your life. It seems to you that by chance your paths intertwined with him. At the next meeting, you do not want to let him go for a long time from you.
3. You and him share memories from the past
4. You don't hide anything from him.
You feel that you can open up to him, tell all the most secret, all that lies in the very heart. You are completely sure that he will never reproach you. Nothing like this has ever happened to you, when every your word was heard, and the thought expressed was accepted with understanding. You also feel that your thoughts are somehow especially important because they are heard and listened to. Thanks to your soul mate, you finally feel comfortable and natural. The fear of opening up has left you forever and now you feel really alive.
5. You get lost in time by being around him.
You tend to forget about the surrounding reality in the moments of his presence. At the moments of the meeting, time flies quickly and hardly perceptibly. It may seem like a few minutes have passed, but in reality it has been much longer. You feel harmony and calmness with the ability to maintain a conversation on any topic.
6. There is a deep spiritual connection between you, despite the distance.
Even in the case when you spend your leisure time apart, you are still united and tightly bound by an invisible thread. Perhaps a little earlier this person visited you in your thoughts or dreams. At the same time, you constantly imagined what he looked like. Subconsciously, you always knew that your paths would converge. By chance, you are bound to be together. For this purpose, a sign was given with the idea that you would soon meet him.
7. There is an instant connection between you
Think about it, maybe you felt uncomfortable in an incomprehensible situation or lonely. Having met him, you forever erased these unpleasant reminders from your memory.
That unbreakable bond is much stronger than anything you've experienced before. Only with him you can talk on all topics. Psychic Michael Niall claims former relationship the following: “Everyone has been in a situation where meeting a new person brought with it that very deep connection that can predict how this person at any given moment.
At such moments in our lives, it seems to us as if these people never left our lives. In the spiritual understanding of the issue under consideration, this is thought of as “momentary karma”, which is felt exclusively by the chosen people. This ultra-deep connection, complemented by comfort and warmth, is nothing more than a piece from a long past. This segment seemed to have returned to us, but with a new continuation.
8. You have the ability to maintain a telepathic connection with him
The messages he sent before you were reunited with him come to mind. This fully explains the reason for such an unbreakable bond. Two hearts were destined to unite through an extraterrestrial relationship. You were united by long joint trips. No matter where your path lies, you hear and mentally think about each other at the same time.
It happens that this person translates your thoughts into words or completes what you have already said. In this you are similar.
9. You have a deep spiritual connection
Your relationships are not superficial, they are based on a deep connection. In your moments strong relationship you are united by the similarity of views on certain spiritual values. You feel and complement each other at the level of emotions and thought processes while feeling the comfort that is expressed in many aspects of your life. This deep connection allows you to talk for hours on end, understanding everything without further ado. You are next to him and you feel this strong and deep connection.
10. You have never had such a strong and strong relationship.
You obviously can't remember anything like that in your life. You seem to tremble in his presence, feeling a slight tremor. Definitely go back to your ordinary life you can’t because meeting a loved one has changed you in a better direction and there is no turning back. Not everyone can get such a result.
11. His behavior made you feel natural.
Your congenial person should raise you to more high level, feeling at the same time a surge of energy, new forces. As emptiness is filled with light, so your stay in this world will be filled with spiritual meaning. After meeting with kindred spirit you will feel harmony with yourself, as if you woke up from a deep sleep. Once you meet him, you won't let him go!
Perhaps this is just a manifestation of passionate feelings, personal sympathy, or perhaps you are fabulously lucky to meet the very true love from your past life. All of the above signs of this are obvious confirmation.
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It all depends on whether your relationship is healing or destructive. A striking feature of a healing relationship is that a man and a woman who meet feel like soul mates, love and respect each other for who they are.
They do not torment each other with jealousy, they know how to forgive and easily endure the loneliness of a partner. These relationships are filled with peace and freedom, and they mutually add something new and important to their connection. These two understanding souls could have known each other in a past life, where they were also friends.
There is only one result - such a couple will never part and a marriage concluded with such a karmic partner will be happy!
If suddenly in a relationship with a partner you have continuous experiences, but you don’t have the strength to break them, then you should still decide to part, for the sake of your own peace of mind. It is worth understanding that strong passions will reward you only with suffering, and not with mutual inspiring love.
So, if in a karmic relationship with a partner you noticed the “mood” described above, then the moment has come to let them go, and not to “work out” again.
Many women who live with a drunken husband reassure themselves that "this is their destiny" and that they must "go through it together." They simply simply do not correctly interpret the concept of "karma". Know that each person has his own karma, and you cannot go through it together with someone!
Therefore, in this case, it is necessary to let go of your partner and rid yourself of debilitating relationships in order to restore wholeness and freedom to your nature.
If you hope to somehow save your partner and fix difficult situation then nothing good will come of it. You will only increase his powerlessness, and you will not save yourself. These karmic relationships will set you back far and you will generate complex karma for yourself in your next life.
Of course, you can help and suggest something to a person who has become addicted or has a problem. But love was created not to humiliate, but to win and be happy. And not only in this, but also in the next life!
