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Moscow is the capital of our vast country. Every day more and more new faces come here in search of happiness. Among them there are a lot of beautiful students and just girls who decided to take a step forward in their lives.
Someone does not like Moscow for the huge number of people and the atmosphere of constant haste. But, my opinion is that the pluses of Moscow outweigh its minuses. There is a very beautiful architecture and a huge number of places where you can just walk and enjoy beautiful views to the city. Everyone will find in Moscow what he likes.
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And, definitely, do not forget about beautiful girls, there are more of them here than anywhere else! In this article, we will look at the main places for dating in Moscow, and you will learn how to do this from our other materials that can be found on the site.
Probably the first sight where a backpacker goes in the capital is Red Square. But for dating, this is not the best location. There are a lot of foreign tourists here who are not very interested in this.
Make fun, take pictures - yes, but no more. Very close is Manezhnaya Square. Every self-respecting man should meet a girl in Moscow at Manezhka. But, despite the high competition among other guys, the arena remains a very good place with a lot of traffic, and I consider it an excellent training ground for dating. Next, you can take a walk in Alexander Garden, here people walk at a leisurely pace and are not in a hurry. Also in the summer there are a lot of girls who just relax on the grass and are ready to get acquainted.
The center of the capital (within the Garden Ring) has now been made very comfortable, and most importantly, pedestrian. Behind Lately Numerous pedestrian zones have appeared, along which it is pleasant to stroll at any time of the day. Among them, the most crowded and conducive to acquaintance are:
Each of these streets is very well equipped, and most importantly, on them you can meet many beautiful girls walking slowly there.
Also, for lovers of nightlife, throughout all these streets there are bars and various nightclubs where meet girls in Moscow at night so it's there. Among them are such as:
- Gipsy
- Jagger
- The Rolling Stones
- Chesterfield
- Propaganda
- and many others. others
Looking for a place to meet in Moscow in spring or summer? Go to the park!
Probably my favorite part of the city is the parks. There are a lot of them and each has its own unique atmosphere and advantages.
The most popular park in the capital is Gorky Park. It is especially good in this park in warm time of the year. Where there are many girls in Moscow, it is there. A huge number of pretty girls in dresses and shorts who come here purely to walk, and some - especially for new acquaintances. The park has a large number of leisure activities, from relaxing reading a book on a bench to energetic dancing on the embankment.
IN winter time year is also very good here, one of the largest skating rinks in Europe is being constructed in the park, where anyone, for a relatively a small amount, can test himself on the ice. Skating rink in PG, one of the most romantic locations where you can meet a girl in Moscow.
Muzeon Park goes right after Gorky Park. For me personally, it's like one place, and I don't separate them. Just like Neskuchny Garden, perfect place for a relaxing walk and a breath of fresh air.
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- material from Alexander Panfer
* All written at Mens University, just years old personal experience. Application threatens development - be careful!
Good places for dating are also Sokolniki Park and VDNKh. They have a rather impressive territory, but if you don’t go too far, then there will be enough people, and at the same time girls.
The place where in Moscow you can meet a girl and immediately arrange a cool walk is Sparrow Hills. Weddings and graduations are often held here. And all why? Yes, because the observation deck offers a beautiful view of the city, which absolutely everyone should see at least once in their life.
In addition to the central ones, there are more distant from the center, but no less beautiful parks.
- Fili Park
- Kuzminki park
- Izmailovsky park
- Troparevo
- Bitsevsky forest
- Vorontsovsky park.
For those who prefer winter hunting, there is always a problem - how to meet a girl in Moscow when it gets cold? Street zones, with the onset of cold weather, unfortunately, are empty and everyone is smoothly moving to shopping and entertainment centers and malls. But this is good that places for dating in Moscow are not limited to streets and parks.
The best places for dating are like 3 whales that keep the whole cold season going. This:
- Shopping center Okhotny Ryad
- TC European
- Shopping center Atrium
There are no major differences between them. Hundreds of girls flock to each of them, in search of new clothes and other purchases. Although, recently, Afimall has also been added to this trio.
The two most expensive shopping centers This is TSUM and GUM. Sometimes you can find there famous people who came to pamper themselves too.
Where do they meet girls in Moscow besides the central shopping centers?
There are more distant shopping centers, but quite suitable for dating, such as:
- metropolis
- Capitol
- Mega Belaya Dacha
- Golden Babylon
- Avia-park
Do not forget about dating in public transport. The metro transports millions of people every day, and among them there are a huge number of beautiful girls who are traveling from school, work and do not know how to spend the rest of the evening. The same can be said about buses, trolleybuses, trams, electric trains and minibuses. In this transport, oddly enough, I met most of my girls. Therefore, the answer to frequently asked question How to find a girl in Moscow will be - absolutely everywhere.
By the way, I hope you watch your body and go to the gym? If yes, then you are killing two birds with one stone. Do you have good shape, as well as the opportunity to get acquainted with slender and watching their figure girls.
Don't forget about yours too. spiritual development. Attend various exhibitions, master classes, seminars, etc. In addition to your own development, you can meet girls who, just like you, have a craving for knowledge. A smart girls unfortunately a rarity these days! Where in Moscow to meet exactly such girls is at such events.
If you are too lazy to get out of the house somewhere. You can try dating sites like mamba.ru And loveplanet.com. But personally I do not advise you to do this. Better get your ass off the chair and take decisive action that will give you the maximum result!
Where to find a girl in Moscow when you are on the road? Places where the girls are with you in a closed room and they have nowhere to run. It's about about buses, minibuses, electric trains and, of course, about the “dungeon”.
The best metro stations for dating in Moscow, where there are a lot of girls, are those that are within the ring. Also, it is better that the station has several transitions to other branches and benches are installed on the platform.
For example, the Arbatskaya metro station is suitable for all points.
In the Metro, you will see a girl who just rushed headlong down the escalator at the speed of a mustang in order to have time to jump into the car and now she is going to shake in the train for half an hour on her way to work or school.
In case of success, you will have time to talk and exchange contacts, in case of failure, you will change the car at the first station, so as not to embarrass either her or yourself. Also, if you live in the suburbs and get to the center by train, you have the opportunity to pass from the beginning of the train to the end in combined cars.
In one trip you will surely find attractive girl, if instead of putting the headset in your ears and burying yourself in the phone, you will conduct local reconnaissance.
Thematic places and events
Where do adults meet in Moscow? old way find a girl with similar interests - go to a place where people are fond of one thing.
This is a fitness club did you want a fiton?), concert of a rock band, fashion show, exhibition, master class for origami lovers, hobby groups board games and anything else, depends on personal preference.
In such places it is easy to start a conversation, because there is something to ask or discuss. This method is especially good if you use status in this get-together. You can make an acquaintance by offering help to an inexperienced girl.
Anytime and anywhere
You don't have time to drive downtown and look for girls? A comfortable option for a place to meet a girl will be your usual route in Moscow.
On the way to work, study, in the subway, in traffic, underpasses, next to your house, neighboring offices, cafes next to work, you have probably come across sultry beauties more than once, to whom you were drawn.
Do not miss the opportunity and spend time from work to home with benefit, make acquaintances wherever you are. Experienced guys who have been seriously interested in seduction for a long time rarely get out into the “field”. They have enough of the usual route, by the evening of an ordinary gray Tuesday they do not have a single phone number in their address book.
Now friend, you know where in Moscow you can seduce a girl! Any excuses about the fact that there are no girls anywhere are no longer accepted.
It's time to comb your hair, put on your best T-shirt and go hunting, since you now have plenty of places to approach.
List of shopping centers, clubs, bars, parks
Center: Red Square, Manezhnaya Square, Alexander Garden, all nearby streets and alleys, Kitay-gorod.
Streets with bars and cafes: Kuznetsky bridge, Arbat Old and New, Nikolskaya.
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Parks: Gorky Park, VDNKh, Sokolniki, Muzeon, Sparrow Hills + Izmailovsky, Fili, Kuzminki (there are fewer people here)
SEC and malls: European, GUM, TSUM, Okhotny Ryad, Atrium, + Mega (Belaya Dacha, Khimki), Capitol, Golden Babylon, Afimol City, Metropolis.
Acquaintance on Okhotny Ryad
Nightclubs for dating and bars: Gipsy, Jagger, The Rolling Stones, Chesterfield, ICON, Prapaganda, Mix and more. others
Transport: Metro, minibuses, buses, trains.
Thematic events: Fitness rooms, exhibitions, galleries, concerts, master classes, seminars, etc.
Top Sites: Mamba.ru, Loveplanet.ru.
Now we can talk about in which clubs in Moscow it is better to get acquainted. In addition to clubs, we will also touch on the topic of bars. To begin with, the club is an institution that pulls more like a restaurant, and there is good music, tables where you can sit. And in bars there are mostly no tables, there are bar counters and people drink alcohol more.
For me personally, dating in a bar is the easiest thing there is. There the atmosphere itself is conducive to acquaintance.
By and large, they go to clubs and bars for the sake of dating and just to break away. So let's say let go of everything, move away from working week and just spend time in the company of positive people.
someone saw sad person in such a place?
Clubs in Moscow for dating girls are waiting for you every now and then, when you come and pick up your booty (booty means dating, I exaggerate of course). Students who come from other cities immediately ask in which club in Moscow the girls are filming, no, the word “shoot” is not the most suitable and you have to correct them where you can meet a girl. Now I will give you specifically the names of the clubs in which I myself practiced and practice with students in the night training on club dating:
- Gipsy
- Jagger
With the guys in Jager
- The Rolling Stones
- Chesterfield
Now that you know the names of the clubs, it's time to get ready...
Club dating is a little different from street dating, as there is alcohol there and, as I said earlier, it has its own atmosphere.
What I'm talking about, you can meet on the street, chat for a couple of minutes and disperse, taking her number, in the club the same scheme will not work for the reason that the girl in the club is hot, she is ready for new sensations and, in a word, she is looking for adventure on her head ... and then you came up, took her number and just disappeared.
IMPORTANT! In the club, you need to be more directive and declare your intentions more directly.
Well you spotted a club full of girls and decided to go hunting common mistake guys is that they don't get on the same wavelength as the girl. Like this? She comes off, she is well relaxed, in a word she is on a positive wave. The guy, perhaps, is on his own wave, there are a lot of things spinning in his head, he thinks (who to approach, how to approach, what to say), for a girl, such people are like strangers, because this guy is on his wave, and the girl is on hers.
That is, you need to join the same wave, so to speak, calibrate it, and then build communication correctly, namely, as you said earlier, conduct a conversation and declare your intentions as a man.
Of course, there are clubs in Moscow where women rent men, but this is already a striptease club, and I am familiar with this type of entertainment firsthand, since our friend Panfer worked there for 5 years and told how women themselves rent men there, but this is not Just.
This is Panfer
Now you know the clubs in Moscow, where there are always a lot of girls, you know how to get acquainted correctly.
Conquering MSC bars
This section will be devoted to bars where you can meet a girl. Above, I wrote that there are no seats in bars as such, there are chairs at the bar counter, where acquaintance takes place - communication.
The advantages of dating in a bar are that, where alcohol flows like a sea, the girls are liberated and very open to communication. Again, street dating format will not work in a bar.
A common problem among guys is noisy music and you have to yell in the literal sense ... A small life hack to avoid this, when communicating with a girl, try to speak more slowly and confidently!
After you see that she is making contact, try to change the location inside the club, well, move to the corner where the music plays less loudly and continue your communication there. At this time, the task is to interest the girl so that she understands why she communicates with you.
In fact, there are a lot of dating bars, wherever you go, there are girls everywhere, and normal ones. There are several best bars for acquaintance, namely: on the chamberlain lane Let’s go bar, in the same place nearby Ugly Cayote. On weekends, we pass by these bars, pull out the girls and get to know each other. This suggests that everything is simple there and you need to go and try.
Tim decided to get acquainted and show a master class)
Also suitable for Moscow bars for meeting girls MUMIY TROL on Tverskaya. We often go there, got along well with the administrator, and the students hung out there more than once and took the girls away. Everyone there already knows us by sight.
I will not stop repeating, there are a lot of places for dating, the main thing is the skill to get to know each other correctly, or, so to speak, a theory that gives you the opportunity to get to know each other correctly and seduce girls.
Where do you most often meet?
Attention! This material is not for cougars who rush at rich and promising men like beef tenderloin. This article is for women who know their worth, understand what they want from life and what a man should be next to.
There is a beautiful phrase: “Sheep get rams, and lionesses get lions.” Unfortunately, there are plenty of sheep, but you still need to look for a lion. They do not hang out in social networks and do not hang out in nightclubs. Where, then, to find this very lion, if fate does not bring you with such? And what to do to provoke him to an acquaintance?
We are girls. Cunning and charming. God Himself ordered to use it, because simplicity and naivety are not our strategy. The biggest trick of this life is to find a worthy companion, friend, loved one. And where to look for it? Nightclubs are only suitable for dating at night. In restaurants and bars you can hardly meet “the one”, in such places everyone is busy eating and drinking. We interviewed a number of young people of the level we are interested in and found out where they spend their free time and meet girls.
When they pay attention
In any circumstances, in any institution and at all times, a man has a desire to meet a beautiful girl, only when he himself is relaxed and calm. When a man is not worried about anything and is not in a hurry. Therefore, places such as: a football match, a bar for fans and a restaurant during a business lunch are not suitable. Just because when football is on or there are a bunch of unsigned pieces of paper left on the desktop, he will not pay attention to anything. Not on you, not on the neckline of the waitress. Because "the first thing is the planes, but the girls - then."Where to look
Fitness club
They look after themselves. Take care of your body and health. Their day starts with sports. For "our men" the goal is a charge of vivacity for the day, and not to pump up or throw off overweight. Although it happens both, but rarely and without fanaticism, because their own appearance is of last interest. Yes, he must be well-groomed and healthy, but he simply does not have enough time to pump up the perfect frame. The working day for people who have already achieved something does not start early in the morning, except, of course, for exceptions, at 11-12. Therefore, most people do sports in the morning. At this time and in this place, they are relaxed and calm, tune in to a new day. It is highly likely that they will pay attention to you and offer you a glass of freshly squeezed juice.Tyr
It may seem ridiculous, but for some men, shooting is a real relaxation of the soul.To begin with, there are professions in which shooting skills are a matter of course. I mean a professional shooting range. To get there and not look awkward, you need to learn how to shoot. It's not difficult and a girl with a weapon looks very impressive.
ski resort
"Our men" love leisure. Most love winter views sports (skiing, snowboarding). If you have time and money to go somewhere in Zakapany - a good option and have a good time and get to know nice people. At lunchtime, everyone gets tired of the snowy slopes and comes to the cafeterias to have a delicious meal and warm up with fragrant mulled wine. And on vacation, everyone is open, positive and looking for new acquaintances.Trainings, courses
Live and learn. It is not shameful for a progressive young man not to know something. It is shameful not to strive to find out, so they spend their free time on self-development. Lately very trendy all kinds of trainings on motivation, coaching, meetings with people who have achieved success in life have become. Strange as it may seem, such events attract people who do not think in patterns, who know what they want. Majority strong relationship begin in such courses, because the people who meet there have common interests and a correct idea of self-development.Exhibitions
No, I'm not talking about paintings or sculptures. It is unlikely that "our men" understand contemporary art and can distinguish classic from empire (although there are different ones). Often men do not have enough time for art galleries Or they just don't care. Exhibitions of equipment, raw materials and neo-technologies are not a bad place to get acquainted. Although they came there for the specific purpose of acquiring something, beautiful girl hard not to notice. Quite a good acquisition for them may be your phone number.However, you can meet your love anywhere: in an elevator, in a traffic jam, in a supermarket or on an airplane. This will be the perfect man for you, the one you hiccuped
all life. Fate will put everything in its place, it remains just to wait for this moment. After all, now he is already somewhere, your “lion” is reading a book, he is sitting at work, having breakfast or going to bed. There is no point in worrying, he is already yours, he just does not know about it yet.
Secret knowledge shared by relationship consultant, writer and school founder female wisdom « Good wife» Olga Krainova.
Surprisingly, but now you can still hear how the public tries to blame women who want to marry a successful man. However, if the girl herself is smart, beautiful, with an excellent education and a good career, then who else can she want for her husband? Is it really a modest worker who wanders home with a bottle of beer to pass the next level there? computer game? Obviously not. Any successful girl and a man is needed at least to match her - smart, successful and interesting. But here another question arises. Where to meet him?
First of all, you need to think carefully and act on the contrary. Think: what kind of man do you want to meet? To be serious and family minded? Then please do not go to restaurants and dubious bars. Do you want him to be stable on his feet? Then forget about dating at poker tournaments. Do you want him to share similar values with you? Then forget about holiday romances with yoga travelers. Focus your attention on the segment of men that you need, and bypass those places where it is impossible to meet a good man with serious intentions.
So, the top 5 places where you can definitely find yourself enviable groom. Passwords, appearances, tricks.
1. Helicopter schools
Dear girls, owning a helicopter, maintaining it and being able to fly it is an expensive pleasure. And if a man is passionate about this process, then at least he has the means for this. And obviously not the last. So subscribe and keep track of all the possible events that such flight schools arrange. Oddly enough, but with the general high cost, even they arrange something like a day open doors, trial classes, very affordable in price, or reporting performances, where, having taken care in advance, you can organize an invitation for yourself.
Important! Be sure to learn at least basic basic knowledge that will help you keep the conversation going. Go to the site and learn the models of helicopters that are being trained, the duration of the training, and anything on the topic that will help you at least start a conversation. There is nothing worse than seeming to be an accidentally flown pacifier for the purpose of acquaintance.
Cunning. If it was not possible to infiltrate the orderly ranks of the celestials, act more cunningly. Find a restaurant that is located on their territory and come to dine there.
2. Golf courses
This place has both its advantages and disadvantages. Among the shortcomings: first of all, you need to tune in that nothing will happen at once. This is due to the specifics of this sport. The people who go there spread out across the field, and each goes his own way from hole to hole. At the same time, pushing a player or, conversely, delaying his passage is considered indecent. Therefore, in one place at the same time to meet several interesting people you can either go to the driving range, or, again, in a restaurant after the game.
Important! If you are not a member of the club, meeting your judge there will be very problematic. Girls who have nothing to do with golf and come for the sake of dating, they instantly figure out and slightly laugh at them. That's why the only way is to become a member of the club, to get carried away with the game, to become your own for other members, and then, gradually getting to know and getting to know other people, there is a chance to get to know each other.
Cunning. Golf courses, especially in Russia, are a unique phenomenon. Because of weather reduce the playing time to five months a year, and it is necessary to maintain the field and adjacent complexes all year round, the administration has to get out and arrange a variety of trial days and other inviting events in order to attract new members. If you get into the habit of tracking such activities, you can attend the most interesting meetings without being a member of the club.
3. Schools of extreme driving
This is a cool place! There are many tracks in Moscow where you can get to, hone your driving skills and cornering, and at the same time make a fateful acquaintance. Getting there is much easier than helicopter schools, and the effect can be very interesting. By the way, you do not have to torture your car. Many schools offer training on their own machines.
Important! Again, the most important thing is not to look like a white crow there, who came to hunt for men. Remember, such girls are always and everywhere calculated instantly. Therefore, your main task is to merge with lovers of high speeds and sincerely admire the number of engine revolutions.
4. Economic forums
If you are smart, beautiful, with a good career, then by any means try to get through to the Sochi Economic Forum, which takes place in October, respectively, in Sochi, to the St. Petersburg Economic Forum, which takes place in June, respectively, in St. Petersburg, and to the Krasnoyarsk Economic Forum, which takes place in February. The number of interesting and successful men there exceeds everything allowable norms. If you are not at a loss, you will leave home with several wonderful acquaintances that you can develop upon your return. The main thing is not to run into married people, there are also a lot of them there.
Cunning. It is extremely difficult to get to the St. Petersburg forum, the Sochi forum is expensive, and the Krasnoyarsk forum is a bit cold. Joke. Be that as it may, if it is difficult to get to the forum itself, then keep in mind that in all these cities on the dates of these forums, all these men do not go anywhere in the evenings. Therefore, for example, in Sochi these three days the city is full of successful managers and administrators. And they all need somewhere to eat and meet with partners, to discuss the pressing. Therefore, even if you do not get to the forum itself, these days it is in these cities that you can get to know each other very successfully.
5. Exhibitions of auction houses
Now this has become somewhat more difficult, since all auctions are moving online. However, there are still live exhibitions, when art objects worth the GDP of a small state are put up for review by connoisseurs of beauty. You need to keep track of such events, immerse yourself, get the minimum knowledge necessary to start a conversation - and go!
Cunning. Even if you are not very well versed in art, you can talk about how you admire these works of art and how you would like to see more of this or that work. A girl admiring such beautiful things arouses interest and even delight.
What else is worth saying to the one who decided to actively take up her personal life? I would like to warn you about two things. First. Don't forget to work on yourself. If a girl is not interesting, then even if she is placed on an island inhabited by millionaires, she will not be able to captivate any of them. Because it is important not only to meet him, but also to interest him. And the second moment. Success and money are things that can change quickly and do not guarantee happiness. You probably know many examples when a man is rich, but his moral qualities so primitive that no one needs such a groom. And there are also many stories when yesterday's millionaire, having fallen, can no longer rise and return to the past. Therefore, it is better to bet on moral qualities, on values, on upbringing, on education and on good family your chosen one.
Watch the online broadcast with Olga Krainova on the topic: "WHY YOU ARE ALONE, OR THE SECRETS OF A HAPPY FAMILY LIFE."
It doesn't matter why you want to meet a girl. Knowing the fishing spots and showing an elementary male initiative, you can set any goals. To help you - the experience of experienced men and my constructive advice. Take some time to find out the answer to the question that every second man asks - where to meet a girl. Enjoy reading!
dating statistics
Three life hacks for dating
All women do it
Where to meet for sex
Habitat: good and not so good places to meet a girl
The question “where to meet” sounds almost more often than the topical “how”. Actually, it doesn't happen right places And fail-safe phrases for acquaintance. But there is a theory of probability and practice common sense, according to which the club, cafe and street are not best places for dating.
Where not to meet girls
Most of the guys are sure that the club, cafe and street are fishing places. I will say this - banal, boring and inefficient.
- To meet a girl on the street, you need eggs, and meanwhile, the street has low efficiency. People are in a hurry, in a hurry, thinking about their own things - it is difficult to take a person out of context and focus on himself.
- In cafes, people eat or meet on business. Believe me, a rare girl will like it when a boyfriend from nowhere looks into her plate or mouth. And... Such an awkward moment, who to pay the bill to.
- Night club- the place is good. Its owners did their best for you - they caught up with the girls and put them into a drunken condition. However, competition will be fierce, investments will be above average, and the chances of a long-term relationship will be almost zero.
Now let's talk about the geography of a successful hunt - where it is easier to meet a girl.
TOP 5 places for effective dating
Psychologists call the most profitable places for dating: transport, a library, a fitness room, a supermarket and the sea.
- Transport. It is convenient from the point of view of the closed space - at least until the next stop, the girl will be forced to listen to your tirades. The main thing is to quickly and accurately take the number. Her stop might be next. Yours, by the way, too, even if it's not.
- Library (exhibition, museum, concert hall, etc.). Psychologically mature girls come here who are ready for both serious relationships and flirting without obligations. The main thing is that these girls (praise to the intellect) quickly indicate where and where the wind is blowing. If only your IQ did not let us down.
- Fitness room (yoga courses, swimming pool, dancing, etc.). You already have something in common. This common, multiplied by the pheromones of a half-naked sweaty body, is an excellent springboard for unrestrained communication. In the end, it's just nice to know that your chosen one is watching her figure. By the way, if you like a girl, but there are questions about the figure, remember, she is on the way to perfection.
- Supermarket. Women love to cook and talk about food, and you take advantage of this little female weakness. Specify the calorie content of the product, take an interest in the nuances of cooking. Don't forget to pick up the phone for some more nutritional advice.
- Sea. The environment itself is conducive to behave a little immorally. Morality is where home and work are. Here - the sun, sand and flirting. And you get what you see, not a pig in a poke. The flaws are obvious. No makeup and oversized clothes.
I remind you where I met the girl - there and get acquainted. Do not wait until the beauty enters the transport, shop or buys a ticket to the sea.
For the future: where to meet a girl for a serious relationship
Places for dating should be calibrated with an eye to the goal. Clearly, for the young ladies family type you shouldn't hunt in a club, and you don't need to look for a girl to break away in a museum. Although everything happens in life, and there are devils in the still waters. But today we are talking about places with high efficiency and first-order probabilities. So, where to meet a girl for a serious relationship?
dating statistics
Let us turn to the statistics on acquaintances with the final in the registry office (“Without statistics, there is no life at all, but some kind of hard labor”, film “Office Romance”).
- 27% married people met in in public places like parks, cafes and cinemas (a small percentage is owned by clubs);
- 21% joined the bonds of marriage through work - being colleagues or having met on the basis of professional activities;
- 17% of the spouses knew each other from school or student years, and some even, as they say, from the sandbox;
- 16% learned about the existence of each other thanks to friends or relatives, that is, in narrow circle loved ones.
The rest met in other circumstances. We draw the following conclusion - in principle, you can meet your "half" everywhere except the sofa (if you have a laptop in your hands, it's another matter).
Three life hacks for dating
By the way, do you know what qualities girls value most in a man? Get started with this.
- Girls love to be taken care of. If you help to bring packages from the supermarket, pour oil into the car, or simply open the door and let you go ahead, consider that the acquaintance has taken place.
- Girls love confident. Confidence equals sexy. But being confident doesn't mean jumping right into your underpants. This means to enter into a state of drive before dating and get maximum pleasure in the process.
- Girls love compliments. True, giving compliments is an art. And don’t turn it into an arthouse like this: “You are so beautiful that I am ready to crawl 15 kilometers along broken glass to jerk off in your shadow."
For the night: where to meet a girl for sex
All ages are submissive to love, and a stable and strong erection is temporary. Before love suddenly strikes, have sex.
All women do it
Everyone appreciates good sex. Many people prefer to meet in the “no obligation” format, and girls are no exception. Each has its own reasons. Someone wants to try themselves in the role of a sophisticated vamp, changing men like gloves. Another simply yearned without tenderness, and is ready to sacrifice principles. Third... Listen, what's the difference to you? Just write down in your subcortex: women want, and more than you think. And one-time sex is preferred by many of them. The question is where to find one?
Where to meet for sex
It is easy for a professional pick-up artist to take a girl to bed even from the library. The rest go to the club or dating sites for comfort. The efficiency is high both there and there. Check out the link for a list of the best dating sites. And don't be shy. You have the right to any whim. In addition to the usual dating portals, there are thematic ones: do not waste time on Mamba when there is “black”, if you like it harder, and so on. Let's talk about web dating in more detail, since this particular way of gender communication is becoming a leader today.
Online girls: where to meet online
It doesn't matter what your grandmother thinks about the Internet. Remind her that pen pals existed during her youth. Well, today everyone hangs out in the Internet space - they work, communicate and, of course, get to know each other.
The benefits of online dating
- You can get acquainted and communicate without interruption from current affairs. Very convenient in conditions of total lack of time.
- The choice is not limited by anything - this is a place where there are no language or territorial barriers.
- A godsend for introverts - people "in themselves", which you can’t pull out with a stick or a carrot into public places.
- It's easy to take the first step. If on the street there are sometimes not enough eggs to approach a girl, make contact on the Internet - put two fingers on the keyboard.
- virtual communication gives you the opportunity to think about your own words. IN real life we are subject to emotions that force us to act reactively.
If for you the Internet until now was a place where you can download music or watch pornography, it's time to expand your horizons.
Social networks as a dating resource
Social networks are a godsend for a guy who wants to meet a girl. Account in social network- this is a sea of \u200b\u200bhooks that easily turn into openers. Any photo, video or even a like can be used to your advantage. And don't forget to clean up your page. Remove posts about women being stupid and other compromising evidence. Your account must be exemplary.
Pitfalls of dating sites
The main advantage of dating sites is their specialized profile. On a dating site, girls want, oddly enough, to get acquainted. Grab some popcorn, choose a dating site, and see for yourself. But don't count on easy prey and 100% return, because...
- Lots of competitors. The Internet underestimates the value of the guy and overestimates the importance of the girl. Even the "ugly ones" get a bunch of offers a day. In order not to get lost in the masses, present yourself to the public from the very better side. How to fill out a questionnaire for a guy in order to impress a girl, we said - click and read.
- Lots of virtuals. A large number of women different ages will never meet you. They seduce, seduce and assert themselves without personal contact. Someone is married, someone is afraid, and someone has nothing to do. A lot of time can be wasted. Therefore, don't get carried away. Slowly but inevitably move the conversation into a real meeting.
- Lots of illusions. Communication on the Internet is communication mainly with a virtual image. This is how the brain works: having a minimum of information, it thinks out the rest. Therefore, see paragraph above. Take communication to the next level as quickly as possible.
I'm not talking about scammers, fools, prostitutes and other categories of ladies who are sure to meet on your way. But the one who walks will master the road. Go!
About light bulbs: Thomas Edison's secret to success
I repeat, like a mantra: where a girl likes it, there is a place for dating. Street, concert hall, dating site - not the place determines the outcome, but your ability to act. And misfires happen to everyone, even the pickup guru. Accept it as a fact - they will send it off. And this is not a reason to return to the comfort zone. It's an incentive to bookmark our site and read expert advice on how to improve your personal communication skills.
What's with the light bulbs? Thomas Edison is said to have performed 10,000 failed experiments to create the electric light bulb. The great scientist perceived every failure as an experience that moves him closer to success. Take note. Any obstacle lends itself to stubborn and persistent assault. Good luck!
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How to meet a guy? For many girls, finding a soul mate becomes a big problem. Not everyone can be the first to like young man and talk to him. It is important not only to be able to choose Right words but also know where to meet a good man. He needs to see what's in front of him. interesting girl with whom you can chat and get serious in the future.
Appearance
How to get to know a normal man? What can attract him? First of all, the appearance of the girl. If she looks attractive, then he may even approach her himself. How to achieve this?
It is necessary to pay attention to clothing and hairstyle. men like well-groomed women, so you should take care of the condition of hair, nails, teeth and skin. You can take care of your figure and sign up for fitness. It's worth clearing out your wardrobe. Not every girl is able to constantly walk in a dress and high heels, but you can look feminine in trousers. It is necessary to choose clothes that emphasize the dignity of the figure. We'll have to abandon baggy sweaters in favor of neat blouses. IN hot weather you can wear light white sundress, which will make the image gentle. It's actually not that difficult. It's enough to be nice.
Worth thinking about walking. A man should see that the girl is ready for new acquaintances. You have to walk slowly and keep your back straight. A smile is also very important. A gloomy stranger who runs to work is unlikely to interest a guy. He simply does not have time to consider her and think about what it is worth approaching and talking to her.
To get to know worthy man, you need to interest him, so it is so important to always be well-groomed and feminine. natural makeup, neat hair, neat clothes and healthy skin make the girl attractive. She will easily interest the guy she likes.
How to deal with fears
How to meet a guy if you are shy? You need to believe in yourself. Appearance is necessary not only to attract men. A girl who knows she's beautiful. If she likes herself, she won't worry about what may seem ugly guy with whom she decides to speak.
The girl must understand what exactly she is afraid of. To be rejected? This is quite possible. A man can, for example, say that he already has a lover. This does not mean that a stranger does not look attractive. In such a situation, on the contrary, it is worth rejoicing: the guy answered honestly, did not deceive his bride and new girlfriend trying to maintain romantic relationship with both of them at the same time.
A girl who thinks about how to get to know a guy first may be shy about taking the initiative. Men love women to woo. And why seek the one who herself came up and spoke? In fact, if the girls are the first to meet, this does not mean at all that they do not need to be sought. It is important to behave correctly. For example, after exchanging contacts, you should not immediately call the phone number or write a message to email. Let the man take the next step.
Girls may also be afraid that the guy will laugh or be rude. To prevent this from happening, you need to choose the right men. Trying to catch a breathless guy is a bad idea. If his thoughts are busy being late for work or an important meeting, then he simply will not have the time and desire to get acquainted on the street. He can even be rude to a girl. It doesn't mean the guy is bad. It was just the wrong moment.
You should not choose men or guys who are in a big company, talking and laughing loudly, holding a bottle of beer in their hands. It is far from a fact that such a person is interested in new acquaintances. He may even try to specifically hurt the girl in order to assert himself in front of his friends. Guys like this should be avoided. A serious decent man will never be rude to a girl who approached him.
Acquaintance at university and at work
Where can you meet a man? First of all, it is worth taking a closer look at classmates and colleagues. Many people meet the love of their life at university or at work. If a girl sees a guy every day, accidentally runs into him in the corridor or sits at the same desk at lectures, then she gradually gets used to him, ceases to be shy. Talking to such a young man is much easier than talking to a stranger on the street.
If a girl has fallen in love with a guy she studies with, she can, for example, ask him to explain an incomprehensible topic. This will be an excellent opportunity for communication. You can gradually move the conversation to more personal topics. In addition, the guy will feel that the girl needs his help. He will be pleased that she turned to him. You can also invite him to make a report for the university together or complete homework. If the guy recently missed a lecture, then you should let him rewrite the notes. He will be grateful.
How to get to know a guy if he is new at work? In this case, he may need help already. You have to offer it. It is important to be friendly and smile. A man should see an attractive girl in front of him, who is not only well versed in her work, but is always ready to help. Later, you can invite a new colleague to have lunch together.
A person who has just changed jobs will feel confused. You need to support him, explain all the rules and procedures. It is worth talking about what interesting places eat in the area, and suggest going there together after work.
How can you meet a guy by coming to new job? In such a situation, the girl will communicate with all colleagues. It's a normal thing to do to talk to the people you'll be working with. Dating a guy that a girl likes won't look suspicious. This is very important for those who are afraid to take the initiative.
If a woman is embarrassed to just approach a colleague, introduce herself and start a conversation, then she can resort to a little trick. For example, ask for help or ask where the nearest store is. Thus, the girl will not only meet the guy she likes, but will also be able to navigate in a new place. It is important to look attractive. Before work, you need to sleep well, wash your hair and style your hair, put on Nice dress. Then the man himself will be ready to help a new colleague and advise her on any issue.
Every girl should know how to meet a man she likes, because she can meet him at any moment. It is important to look neat, smile more often and set yourself up for pleasant communication.
Dating in a public place
Where to meet normal guy? You can meet your soul mate not only at work or at the institute, but also just on the street, in the subway or in a store. You just have to look around carefully. If a girl sees a handsome man who is walking slowly, she may well approach him and start a conversation. How to meet guys on the street? You can say the following: “Would you like to chat? This day seems to be created for new acquaintances. The simplicity of this greeting will set the man up for a pleasant conversation.
Where to meet good guy? For these purposes, even public transport. Just enough to sit on free place next to a man. You can talk to him about the weather, but this topic seems too banal to many. How to meet a guy in an original way? Do not deliberately step on his shoes or hit him with a bag to apologize and thus start a conversation. If a girl knows how to improvise, she can even play a small scene. For example, take out a phone from a bag, pretend that he wants to deal with a new application, and ask for help from a man sitting next to him.
You can meet a guy gym. This method is great suitable for girls who have only recently decided to take care of their figure and have never been to the gym before. They with a clear conscience can turn to a man for help. Let him sort out the barbell for them or show them how to do the exercise correctly. As a result, a girl in the gym will not only make her body slim and fit, but will also meet a soul mate.
It is important to know how to meet a guy on the street. The man of your dreams can be met on the way home from work or while walking. A good place to meet is the park. In warm weather, you can safely sit on a bench and chat. For a conversation, you should choose guys who walk alone.
A romantic person will certainly be interested in a man who will read a book. You can discuss literature with him, remember your favorite authors and their best works. After such interesting conversation the guy will probably want a new acquaintance to go on a date with him. It is important not to forget to exchange contacts.
Dating at an interesting event
It is very important to have common hobbies. Where to meet a normal man, if not at an interesting event? Such a first meeting will be remembered for a long time and will initiate happy relationship. Where to go? The girl should choose a place where she will feel comfortable. For example, an exhibition, theater or concert. It is important to attend those events where men go with whom a woman would like to have a relationship.
Common interest is the main advantage of such an acquaintance. A girl with a guy already has at least one topic for conversation, so she should cast aside all fears, smile and start a conversation.
Where to meet a man for a serious relationship? Such a person can be found at a business training, at a lecture on self-development, at a major exhibition of paintings and sculptures. Guys who want to find a wife often go to such events. Catching a glance handsome man, the girl should smile at him. to come and get to know each other.
If a woman cannot afford to visit such places, she should choose a free event. There are many of them. For example, these are fireworks festivals. It is not only beautiful, but also very romantic.
A girl should know where to meet a guy who will become for her interesting interlocutor, because the relationship without common interests are rarely long. Lovers should enjoy each other's company and enjoy communication.
Online dating
Now a soul mate can be found on a social network, on a forum or a dating site. Sometimes it’s enough just to write in the status: “I will meet a young guy.” Anyone who is interested in a relationship will look at the photos of the girl, scroll through her page and write to her. This method is great for those who are embarrassed to approach strangers on the street.
Exist different ways online dating. You can wait for the guy to text first, or take the initiative. By correspondence it is easy to find out the interests of a person. It is worth asking about his lifestyle. If a girl and a guy liked each other, they need to meet in reality and continue communication. You can talk on the phone first. Some women need to get used to the voice of the interlocutor in order to feel comfortable when meeting.
You should first study the page of the man. According to the records on the wall, you can imagine the scope of his interests. This will greatly facilitate the task for the girl, because she will know in advance what she can talk about with the guy.
You can say this: "If you are shy, then". This method is not the most romantic, but very effective. When communicating with a pen pal, the girl will be able to carefully consider her answers, and talking on the phone will prepare her for a real meeting.
Forbidden tricks
It is worth discussing things that a girl should not do if she wants to have a guy serious relationship. The following tricks should be considered prohibited:
How to learn to meet and communicate with men? To do this, you need to love yourself. If a guy feels that a girl has low self-esteem, he will not want a relationship with her. It is important for any man to see a woman next to him who is self-confident.
